Jeremy Raymond Wheeler

Jeremy Raymond Wheeler obituary

Jeremy Raymond Wheeler

Jeremy Wheeler Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on May 27, 2018.
December 18, 1991 – April 12, 2018
Jeremy Raymond Wheeler, age 26, left us on April 12, 2018, while traveling in Thailand. He was born in Bozeman, Montana and lived his adventurous life in and around the Big Sky and Bozeman areas, attending Ophir School, Bozeman High and Montana State University.

Jeremy loved skiing in his hometown of Big Sky, mastering the nooks, outposts and jumps of the mountain, exploring the various treed and pinnacled cliffs and working endlessly in the terrain parks.

He looked forward to trips to his family's lake home in Michigan each summer, spending long days gracefully waterskiing, wakeboarding and fishing, and sitting around a night fire amid great conversation. He loved climbing, camping, golfing with that beautiful swing, yoga and spending outdoor time with his many friends and family. He never met a dog that wasn't a friend and he had a real talent for interacting with children. He treasured the recent arrival of his infant nephew Abram and had looked forward to teaching him so many things. He loved to go hunting with his dad and brother, but all suspect it was mostly for the camaraderie, laughs and annual bonding it provided.

He enjoyed a great variety of music concerts, a favorite over the years, a trip to Seattle with his dad to see the Rolling Stones. He had recently taught himself to play the keyboard, guitar and mandolin and spent many late nights learning new songs and exploring different music genres.

He loved the peacefulness and satisfaction of fly fishing Montana's streams and found great beauty in the rushing water, canyon vistas and the language of the fish themselves.

He was an understanding and loyal friend and made friends easily, wherever he went.

He was a bright light to his beloved family, the closest of them calling him, "Ray" and his striking blue eyes and infectious, engaging smile, had the ability to light up a room or an entire event. His attentive personality let you know that he was interested in you and in what you had to say. He had a tender heart and over time wrote many thoughtful, treasured notes to the loved ones in his life. He is gone from this life too early and forever there will be a hole of loss in the hearts of those who loved him. He is reunited now with the beloved dogs he lost and grieved for over the years: Pete, Grace, Sage and Lance. It must be, that after they rushed to greet him, they are now curled up together again, on the furniture and under the covers.

Jeremy is survived by: his father and mother, Brian and Mary Wheeler of Big Sky, Montana; his older brother Daniel Wheeler (Miranda), their infant son, Abram, of Bozeman, Montana; paternal grandfather John Wheeler of Marblehead, Massachusetts; and many aunts, uncles, cousins, other relatives and beloved friends across the country. His current family dogs, Margo and Jack, will miss the unique rough housing and companionship that Jeremy was so good at providing them. His family asks to keep Jeremy's memory alive and honored by speaking of him fondly and often, especially when in the beauty of the outdoors, hiking, fishing, skiing, camping and sitting around a campfire. We are grateful that we had him for a time and that there are many treasured memories of him to relive again and again.

A Catholic Mass for Jeremy will be held at 1 p.m. at the Big Sky Chapel, on Saturday, June 9, 2018. A celebration of his life will follow from 2:30-4:30 p.m. at Montana Jack at the Big Sky Resort.

Donations may be made in Jeremy's name to these non-profit organizations that were close to his heart and that he supported with his time: Heart of the Valley Animal Shelter: 1549 E. Cameron Bridge Rd, Bozeman, Montana 59718 (EIN: 23-7375919); OR Special Olympics Montana: 710 1 Avenue North, Great Falls, Montana 59401 (EIN: 52-0889518).

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July 28, 2018

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June 12, 2018

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June 11, 2018

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Stacey Moran/ Whitmire

July 28, 2018

Oh Mary and Brian, I am so sorry! Praying for you and family! My heart grieves for you in this tragic loss of your sweet boy Jeremy!

Laurie Ansorge

June 12, 2018

I wish I could've been there for his celebration of life ceremony Mary & Brian. I hope we have another one out @ Arbutus the end of July? I love you guys so much, you are still in my thoughts and prayers. What a fine young man Ray was, he will be with us forever. No doubt about it.

Camden Ostermiller

June 11, 2018

He was good guy I want to heigh school with him bozeman high

Alice Robsion

June 10, 2018

so so sorry for your loss of a beautiful spirit.
may you take as much time as needed to mourn, grieve, and heal.

June 6, 2018

Dear Mary and Brian, I have not really known what to write as this loss is way too much. I am so sorry my children loved Jeremy and as Greg said he always has a nice word to say, a very special guy. We love you all and our prayers are with you all. So truly sorry for all of this. I wish I could hug you all just a minute. Betsy Danza

Sarah Kacer

May 30, 2018

In my mind Jeremy has been and will always be, a part of the mountains. We are so sorry for your loss and sending you love.

Ronda Jolly (Sangray)

May 29, 2018

I was shocked and saddened to hear this tragic news of Jeremy. My heart truly breaks for Brian, Mary and Dan, and his beloved family and friends. I was blessed to be Dan and Jeremy's babysitter when I worked in Big Sky about 25 years ago. I loved those little boys and still admire what handsome young men they have become. May God grant you peace, love and comfort during this extremely difficult time. May you cherish the wonderful memories you shared with Jeremy.

M Parker

May 29, 2018

I am truly sorry for your loss. May you take comfort in knowing that Jeremy will continue to live in the hearts of all who had the privilege of knowing him. May you also receive comfort from our heavenly father, the God of all comfort. 2 Cor. 1:3&4

William Neece

May 28, 2018

There are no words that come to me that can express that sorrow I feel for you and your family, I can only say I love you all and will keep you in my prayers, All my love and prayers
Bill

Aunt Cindy Retherford

May 27, 2018

Jeremy had a big heart and a gentle soul. He was loved by humans and non-humans alike. As a small child he caught and later released crayfish, meanwhile naming them, giving them a temporary home, and taking care of them. He loved nature and the quiet times around the lake, as well as family gatherings. He was greatly loved and will be greatly missed.

Vicki Little (Renae Mattimoe's mom)

May 27, 2018

I heard many stories,about Jeremy and Dan many years ago. They were a very special part of my daughter's time in Big Sky. As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

May 25, 2018

May the love of friends and family comfort you during this difficult time Matthew 5:4.

May 24, 2018

I think of Jeremy ALL the time.. I always enjoyed talking with him. What a great listener with solid feedback. And you couldn't beat the eye contact, with the most beautiful blue eyes you ever did see. Rest easily friend. We all speak of you fondly. You will be forever in our thoughts. Much love friend, Erin

Wilson Roberts

May 24, 2018

My constant thoughts and prayers are with you, and I can't imagine your pain. I'm hoping you'll find some solace in the many happy memories of family love and fun, and I can only hope that you believe as I do...that there is a plan, and that we'll all be together soon. Take care.

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