Jerold Dale Westfall

Jerold Dale Westfall obituary, New Kent, VA

Jerold Dale Westfall

Jerold Westfall Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Oct. 7, 2024.
Jerold "Jerry" Dale Westfall, 81, of New Kent, Virginia, closed his eyes on this earth and woke up in the presence of his Savior on October 5, 2024.

Jerry was the youngest of three sons born to Raymond and Esther Westfall in Akron, Ohio. From an early age, Jerry had a love of aviation and was often found sitting in his makeshift cockpit at the dining room table of his childhood home in Kenmore wearing aviator goggles and "flying his plane" to parts unknown. After earning his private pilot's license, he enjoyed many years pursuing this hobby, both as a private pilot and certified flight instructor. Once his health no longer allowed him to fly, he could often be found in his study taking to the skies on his flight simulator.

An avid reader and life-long learner, Jerry was the go-to answer man in his family long before anyone had heard of Google. The depth of his knowledge on some of the most obscure topics often left his kids scratching their heads and wondering, "Did he really know that or did he just make something up?" Sure enough, further research usually proved that "Dad was right!" And as his wife, Nancy, can attest, once he discovered YouTube, nothing could stop him from taking apart various household items to "fix" them.

While Jerry enjoyed flying and reading, his greatest passion was his faith in Jesus Christ. Every morning he could be found drinking his coffee with his Bible in his lap, studying God's Word and praying for his loved ones. Among his children's favorite memories are special one-on-one breakfast dates with their Dad, and the many nights he spent beside their beds asking about their day, praying with them, and tucking them in. While he will be missed keenly, we rejoice that at last his faith is made sight. (2 Corinthians 5:1-9)

The family wishes to express their deep gratitude to Ola and her team at Loving Care Home, Dowda Senior Consultants, and Suncrest Hospice for their compassionate care of Jerry in his final days.

Jerry is survived by his wife of 60 years, Nancy; daughters Rebecca Turner (Stephen) and Elizabeth Varaso (Frank); son Daniel Westfall; grandchildren Jonathan (Rachel), Delaney (Austin), Selah, Callum, Clementine and Junia; great-grandsons Samuel and Truett. "Dear hearts, we travel this pilgrim journey together, so let us find courage to comfort and serve one another now. Together let us be the caretakers of the story of the one we lost, recognizing that his, and all our stories, are woven into that greater story still being unfolded by God across history and time. He knows our heartbreak. He sees our tears. Let us learn to love one another well in our common grief. Let us learn to speak freely together of our great loss, and our still greater hope!" Douglas McKelvey, Every Moment Holy.

A private celebration of life will be held at a later date.

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October 9, 2024

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Tom and Shelly Mountjoy

October 9, 2024

Our memories of Jerry include both of you opening your home to young Adults for a Bible study and then Jerry getting Tom his entry level job into his actual field! We loved coming to your home on Ecton and then our kids even got to come over a few time when they were young before you moved South. Grateful that our Father gathered Jerry up and took him home as he slept!

Loren and Sherri Petry

October 8, 2024

Nancy, so sorry for you, so excited for him. Enjoyed our times together.
Loren and Sherri

Carol and Art

October 8, 2024

So many great memories with all of you thru the years as we attended Goss together. Jerry always had a smile on his face. Thankful for all the fun times, his faith, his love for his family and friends. Keeping all of you in prayers and praying you have comfort knowing Jerry is pain free and with his Lord. Love you, Art and Carol Hurd

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Jessica Huey Nelson

October 7, 2024

There are so many memories to share, but Uncle please know you always offered such a loving and welcoming household to come to! From Your gentle presence to your wild family banjo/clarinet/drums/singing/violin playing ohhh & let´s not forget "singing" ~ were amongst some of fondest memories. Growing up I cherished the example of family you provided for my sisters & I.

I can clearly hear you calling "hey Nan" several times knowing that Aunt Nancy was ignoring your call. It never ruffled your feathers, (well maybe sometimes).

I am especially grateful for your faith and trust in our Lord & Savior Jesus Christ. It was a foundation that through my teenage years allowed me to stay grounded & in my adulthood helped me understand & navigate as I challenged my beliefs through difficult times. This has also helped me while raising my children in faith & that trusting that the ultimate answer to their beliefs or understandings of course is unconditional love. You were always the example of this.

To my Aunt Nancy ~God bless you! You are one of the strongest women I know. All of the above goes for you too, but you´re louder & funnier than Uncle. Thank you for loving your husband so much and for also being an example of Agape love. May you rest in the knowledge Uncle Jerry is at peace. Holding your heart . I love you!

To my cousins Elizabeth, Danielle & my very 1st best friend Becky, may you laugh in the memories and cry in your sorrow for I know you will miss your daddy. Please don´t be sad, because you know with all of your hearts he will be protecting & loving you in ways you might not understand yet. We are all celebrating his life with you & all of the wonderful memories we shared together.

To the grandkids & great grandkids what a privilege to carry on the legacy of family love. Each of you are so special in his eyes and may you remember that always.

Sending love, prayers, & peace as you celebrate the life of this precious soul and Family in Faith.

We love you so much & can´t wait to gather together again with all of you. Xo, ~Jessica, Greg, Rece, Reagan, Reid & Josie Nelson

Kristie Patrick-Austin

October 7, 2024

Jerry was a great listener and always asked me about my work, courses I was taking, and how my family was doing. No matter the topic, he was an active listener. He loved flying and after he sold his plane, he continued with a computer simulation where he could get lost for hours. We had some great talks over the years. Rest in peace.
Kristie Patrick-Austin

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