Jerry Warden Friedheim

1934 - 2024

Jerry Warden Friedheim obituary, 1934-2024, Sterling, VA

Jerry Warden Friedheim

1934 - 2024

BORN

1934

DIED

2024

Jerry Friedheim Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Jan. 22 to Jan. 27, 2024.
Jerry Warden Friedheim, 89, a resident of the Washington area since 1962 and a former assistant secretary of defense for public affairs, died on January 20, 2024 at Falcons Landing in Sterling, Virginia.

Mr. Friedheim was born October 7, 1934 in Joplin, Mo. to Volmer Havens and Billie Alice Friedheim and grew up in Joplin. He was a 1952 graduate of Joplin High School and earned a bachelor of journalism degree in 1956 and a master of arts degree in 1962 from the University of Missouri, Columbia, where he taught journalism in 1961 and 1962.

Jerry married Shirley Margarette Beavers in Joplin October 17, 1956; she died September 15, 2003. He married Jacqueline Wade Grant Friedheim April 24, 2004; she survives.

Mr. Friedheim earned an ROTC commission at the university and served two years on active duty in Germany and 11 years in the Army reserve as an artillery captain. In his early career, he was a newspaper reporter, photographer and editor for the Neosho (Mo.) Daily News, The Joplin Globe and Columbia Missourian and also worked for the Associated Press.

Jerry came to Washington as a congressional fellow of the American Political Science Association after receiving an APSA award for distinguished reporting of public affairs for his coverage of the 1962 congressional elections. He then worked as a press secretary, legislative assistant and administrative assistant to former U.S. Rep. Durward G. Hall (R-Mo.) and to former U.S. Senator John G. Tower (R-Texas). He participated in three presidential political campaigns.

In 1969, he was nominated by former president Richard M. Nixon and unanimously confirmed by the U.S. Senate as deputy assistant secretary of defense for public affairs. He was assistant secretary from 1972 to 1974. He served with defense secretaries Melvin Laird, Elliot Richardson and James Schlesinger as Pentagon spokesman, twice receiving the defense distinguished medal. He was honored by the Aviation Space Writers Associating in 1974 for his public affairs direction of Operation Homecoming, the return of U.S. prisoners of war from North Vietnam.

Mr. Friedheim was vice president for government affairs of AMTRAK for a year before becoming general manager and president of the American Newspaper Publishers Association for 16 years. He also was president of the association's foundation and founder of its journal, Presstime. He served as chairman of both the Washington Journalism Center and the National Press Foundation and as a director of the World Press Freedom Committee.

In 1992, Jerry joined the Freedom Forum Foundation and guided the development of The Newseum in Washington, D.C.; becoming its founding executive director. After his retirement in 1999, he served on The Newseum's advisory board. Mr. Friedheim was among the early residents of the Falcons Landing retirement community in Sterling, Va. and he served as president of the community's residents' council in 2001 and 2002. He was a member of the Falcons Landing chapel choir and chorus and performed, sang and danced in several theatrical productions and holiday musical shows. He was a member of the Community Lutheran Church of Sterling, Va.

Mr. Friedheim also is survived by three children, Dr. Daniel Volmer Friedheim of Washington, D.C., Cynthia Diane Wilson of Colorado, and Thomas Eric Friedheim of South Carolina; seven grandchildren, Daniel Friedheim of Chicago, Emma Friedheim of Niamey, Niger (Africa); Dr. Caroline Kellar-Wilson of North Carolina and Natalie Wilson of Colorado; Oliver Friedheim of Texas, Hannah Wood of Tennessee, Sadie Cook of South Carolina; and two great-grandsons Damari Cook and Cyzlan Bonds of South Carolina.

Funeral arrangements by Loudoun Funeral Chapel of Leesburg, Va. with a private family burial at Fairfax Memorial Park Cemetery, Va. and a memorial service at 2:00 PM at Falcons Landing, January 24, 2024.

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January 17, 2026

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February 6, 2024

Hannah Wood posted to the memorial.

February 6, 2024

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valerie dawn mills

January 17, 2026

Thinking of you all, on the anniversary of Jerry's passing. Sending love and fond memories, of him, Shirley, and us all together, on some of our vacations. Atlantic City sticks out in my mind. What a fun trip.

Hannah Wood

February 6, 2024

Hannah Wood

February 6, 2024

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February 6, 2024

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Hannah Wood

January 24, 2024

My grandfather was larger than life to most people who knew him but to us grandkids, he was just Poppa Jerry. I have fond memories of Algonkian Park in the summer, visits for Christmas. And feeding the ducks by the lake at his house, playing that awesome pinball machine he kept in the garage. If I remember correctly, I think he had a mallard duck phone, for some reason that one makes me laugh, I think he was an avid duck fan. I could go on, all American memories, sweet as apple pie. I am grateful that my dad could be with him as he passed and we will miss our Poppa Jerry.

Cheers! as he would always say.

Maurice Fliess

January 23, 2024

Jerry was a kind, caring individual and a model executive who brought out the best of the people working for him. Sincere condolences to the Friedheim family.

Terry Poltrack

January 23, 2024

A gentleman and a friend of newspapers. RIP.

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