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Joe Baumer Obituary
A freshman at Pattonville High School, Joe embraced both academics and athletics with enthusiasm. Whether he was playing basketball or baseball or showcasing his musical talents, he did so with passion and determination. His vibrant personality truly set him apart.
Joe's infectious smile and incredible sense of humor made him a cherished friend to many. He had an extraordinary ability to make everyone feel seen and valued, effortlessly forming connections wherever he went. His love for his family was unwavering; his mother affectionately called him "Baby Joe," while his father could always be heard cheering "Big Boy!" from the stands during his games.
Beyond sports and music, Joe had a keen sense of style and a remarkable sneaker collection. Always on the lookout for the next great pair, he took pride in curating his collection-but above all else, his love for people outshined any material possession. His kindness, humor, and zest for life will forever be remembered by those fortunate enough to have known him.
Joe is deeply missed by his parents, Joanne and Sean Baumer; his siblings, Julianna, Alex, and Auggie; his maternal grandmother Anesia Ann White "Gaga"; his paternal grandmother Sara Ellen Baumer; and his beloved dog Cookie. He was preceded in death by his maternal grandfather, Joe White.
A celebration of Joe's life will be held on March 6, 2025, from 4:00 to 8:00 p.m. at the Jewish Community Center - Arts and Education Building in Creve Coeur. A service will begin at 6:00 p.m., where family and friends will gather to honor this remarkable young man. Joe would want you to come casual wearing your favorite kicks, sneakers or tennis shoes.
In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to STL Youth Sports Outreach at https://sites.google.com/view/stlyso/donations
Though our hearts are broken by this loss, Joe's light will continue to shine through the laughter of his siblings, the warmth of his family, and the cherished memories held by all who knew him. His family will continue to live in his honor.
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Joe´s Mama
June 9, 2025
Luc Wiggins
May 11, 2025
Joe j miss you and I still can´t believe that you´re dead I don´t want to believe it I want to talk to you again one more time. I want you to comfort me whenever I needed help. I remember having so much fun at camp. I love you, no one will ever replace you as my best friend.
Luc Wiggins
April 13, 2025
Joe seeing you and playing with you at my birthday parties was the best. Every time I came over and saw you we´d give each other a hug when I came to your house to hang out. You were my best friend and you encouraged me to do things that I would´ve never done on my own. You´re my best friend and I hope that you think the same about me. I love you and I´ll never forget you.
Tyler Hilliard (T-Bone)
March 28, 2025
R.I.P. Joe Baumer, I wish you were still alive and You clearly did not deserve to pass. My cousin will never forget his fun memories with you.
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Lori Anderson-Musgrave
March 6, 2025
Joanne,
I was so sorry to hear about the loss of your son. Please accept my condolences. You and your family are in my prayers.
Lori Anderson-Musgrave
Nialye´ Dunn
March 6, 2025
Joe was a very sweet and nice person. He never failed to put a smile on people faces. Growing up with him was such a special experience and I will always cherish that. I loved when I would walk into class and Joe was always laughing and cracking up about the most silliest thing. Even thought nobody understood, Joe was always in his own world. Having him there was just a gift itself. Joe will always be missed. I send my deepest condolences to the family.
Gavin Fogarty
March 6, 2025
Joe, I can't believe this day would come so soon. You have been my best friend ever since 6th grade. Even though that might not be that long l've enjoyed all of it, every second with you.
Im so thankful that I got to hang out with you as much as I did - all the sleepovers, hitting up our favorite places to eat, running the neighborhoods, every gaming session, just laughing and having fun. I wish I could have said goodbye to you and see you one last time. I love you and miss you so much. goodbye my friend, fly high
Eaun Moore Tyler
March 6, 2025
Joe was really amazing. We may had a convo her n there but every time we did it was always funny when we talked, we love you Joe!
Amy B Whitener
February 27, 2025
The world truly lost something precious when it lost you, Joe!
Your family misses and loves you beyond measure. They are being so brave and strong, with a resilience that would make you incredibly proud! I know you would want them to live each day with courage, just as they will, honoring you with every step they take.
Your Mom, Dad, Juli, Alex, Auggie, and Gaga-will carry your joy, your strength, and your love in all they do.
My heart is full of thoughts of you-your beautiful smile, your love for your family, your silliness, laughter, style and zest for life. I can´t help but imagine a heaven filled with elephants, drums, and the coolest shoes imaginable, all waiting for you to run free, spreading your light.
Until we meet again, precious boy.
You will never be forgotten, and we will love you always and forever.
Auntie Amy
Abigail Masokano
February 27, 2025
we will surely miss you Joe. One of the funniest memories I know of Joe is in art class. The paint was always in the cabinets far back at the top, and any time he would see me struggle to get the paint he would always give me the annoyed look. he would say "Bro your so short" in a funny way and then give me the paint. another memory is of us in Mrs Williams 8th grade social studies class. any time she would ask a question and he answered it would always be something goofy. Everyone in the class would laugh and she would just look at us as if he was an alien. All though this is a time of morning let this be a celebration of his life. although it is hard it is ok we will get though it together. My condolences to my freinds at Remington and my biggest condolences to the family. We will surly miss you Joe.
Janice Wilson
February 25, 2025
To Joanne and family, sending love and hugs to help you endure this great loss.
conner shipman
February 25, 2025
Marcia and Kenneth Kram
February 25, 2025
I never had the pleasure of meeting Joe personally. I have though, heard everything about Joe from his loving grandmother, Ann. Ann has come to our house regularly for many years, and we spend time upon arrival discussing our respective grandchildren. I always heard the most wonderful stories about her grandchildren, family vacations, and holiday celebrations. After listening to Ann and reading all the tributes, I fully recognize what a special young man Joe was to his family and friends. May his memory be a blessing, our prayers are with Joe´s family.
T-Bone
February 25, 2025
R.I.P. Joe, You will always be in my cousins memory. I wish you were still alive to still hangout with my cousin. You were such a kind man. My cousin will always think about you in his memory.
Haley Poore
February 25, 2025
Joe was always such a good friend to everyone. He was such a bright soul and knew how to make me laugh when he could tell I was down. Growing up with him for the past 10 years had the best memories I will forever cherish. Anytime I needed to talk to someone, he was there. You could always count on him. Rest easy.
Eric Thiele
February 25, 2025
Joe, You were one of, if not my best friend who was always there for me and someone i could count on to make me smile. The ten years i got to spend with you were the greatest and I will dearly miss hanging out and staying up till midnight talking and playing games. Always could count on you make me laugh and we always had the best moments together. Even though we haven´t gone to the same school we still found a way to be friends. It will still be painful knowing we will never talk again but I know you would want me to move on. I will miss you always.
Love you Joe, Rest easy
Aubrey Wiggins
February 25, 2025
Joe was always laughing and smiling. Even though I only knew him for a couple years, I have come to find him one of the best people I´ve ever met. I could always joke or talk with him about anything and he always made me laugh. I miss him more everyday when I can´t ever text him about a teacher or a class. Going from talking to him all day everyday to not has been the biggest change of my life and I´ll forever miss him.
Reagen Lancaster
February 25, 2025
Forever in our hearts, joe was such a sweet kid and I cant begin to explain how much I cherished our friendship. From standing up for me in class to the little faced we'd make at eachother across the room, he always made my day. His sweet smile and gorgeous eyes will forever be carried in my mind. I truly couldn't have asked for a better friend.
Keith Mikitin
February 25, 2025
Our family is sending our thoughts and prayers to the Baumer family. May you find comfort in celebrating his beautiful life, forever cherished in your hearts.
Niya Loyd
February 25, 2025
I had class with Joe he always knew how to make things fun and make people laugh. I will forever miss that smile of his, I remember every-time something funny would happen we´d look at each other and burst out laughing. You could never be sad around Joe because his happiness and excitement for life was contagious.
Erin Greenblatt
February 25, 2025
When I needed it most, Joe and Julianna walked into my life bringing me joy every single day. Joe´s smile was so contagious and could light up any room. He was always doing something to make me laugh and always wanted to hangout with me and Julianna. Joe showed me the meaning of life, how to be more carefree and have more fun, even when times were hard. He brought me water and snacks when I needed them at work, spent so many quarters winning me ducks at the duck machine, and tagged along every time we mentioned the word food. I will forever cherish every memory I was lucky enough to have with him. Thank you for being a light buddy, you have left a lasting impact on me and I am so grateful to have spent so much time with you. Your smile and laugh will live on. I love you buddy
Ethan Giltner
February 25, 2025
I wasn´t close with Joe but he we always trying to make everyone smile and didn´t fail. He lit up the room wherever he was.
Ella Tinnon
February 24, 2025
Joe was the most outgoing person I knew, always ready to take on what's next. His sweet laugh would fill my heart and his smile brought me comfort. His humor will be in my mind forever, a constant reminder of the joy he brought in every moment. He was so kindhearted and caring. I will never forget all that he did for me to make me the person I am today.
It's heartbreaking knowing your time has come, but I believe you will now live for eternity. Not a single day will pass when I will not be thinking about you. I will forever miss you. I hold on to the hope that one day we will reunite and i'll finally get to tell you everything you've missed. Until then I will keep my head high with a smile on my face, because that's what you would have wanted. In the end, your greatest wish was always for me and everyone else to be happy.
Luc wiggins
February 24, 2025
Joe I never thought that this day would come so soon, and I remember all the days we spent together and how we'd play Fortnite together and I will never forget you and now you won't see me get my permit. I just had my 15th birthday 2 weeks before you died, I remember my 10th birthday with you and all the fun things we did at Skyzone. Joe I will never forget how amazing of a friend you were to me. I love you, Luc
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February 24, 2025
I wasn´t close with Joe but I´ve felt the impact through my friends. I hope his family finds peace soon. RIP
Noelle Wilson
February 24, 2025
Joe was seriously the kindest most funny guy. I´ll miss him calling me across the street to talk and playing fortnite outside of school. I´ll miss the memories we made for nine whole years at remington, and while thinking about these things are sad, I´m glad he left such a legacy, and everyone that knew him will know him as a kindhearted and laidback guy who cared so much for others and was very welcoming to everyone.
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February 24, 2025
Rip that man he was always cheerful
Juliana Huling
February 24, 2025
Joe was truly a lighthearted soul. Every single funny photo, really just shows he was `that´ kind of person. Always brought laughter to a room. A smile to everyones face. And while he was just a genuine silly guy, he was a great guy. Not a day goes by where I don´t think about you. It was so hard for everyone to come to school that next day. I miss you Joe, we all miss you, very, very much. You will always be like a second sibling to me. Just like everyone else from remington.
Dodie Logue
February 24, 2025
What a warm and wonderful young man! Joe will be missed by all her knew him.-Dodie Logue
Krystal
February 24, 2025
I'm so sorry to hear about this tragedy. I'll always cherish my time with Joe at Strictly. Sending so many prayers to the family!
Luc Wiggins
February 24, 2025
Joe it´s Luc we were best friends since prek and now that you´re gone I don´t know what to do anymore because I can´t talk to you anymore about what I should do. I wish you were still here because I need someone to talk to. Joe I really miss playing basketball with you and talking to you.
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