Joel Cohen

Joel Cohen obituary, Ukiah, CA

Joel Cohen

Joel Cohen Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jun. 10, 2025.
Joel Cohen (Warren Joel Cohen), longtime cellist, passed away unexpectedly on May 31, 2025, at his home in Ukiah. The cause of death was a heart attack. Joel, second son of Simon and Eleanor, was born October 8, 1953 in Patterson, New Jersey. His family moved to Oakland, California, where Simon served as the cantor at Temple Beth Abraham, and Eleanor later served on the faculty of Cal State East Bay (then Cal State Hayward) for several years. Joel began playing cello at age nine and studied in the 1960s and '70s with Margaret Rowell and Irene Sharp. As a member of the Oakland Youth Orchestra he established lifelong friendships with many musicians still active in the Bay Area. He studied at UC Santa Cruz and earned his Bachelor of Music degree from Western University in London, Ontario, Canada. He was co-principal cellist for the Oakland Symphony from 1979 to 1985 and a member of the Vienna Chamber Orchestra from 1985 to 1990. While living in Europe he also performed with the Austrian Radio Symphony, Wiener Kammeroper, and Johann Strauss Festival Orchestra, the latter with whom he toured Europe and Japan over an eight-year period. After moving back to the U.S. he settled in Framingham, Massachusetts, and performed with several groups in the Boston area, including the Boston Symphony and Boston Pops Orchestra. He was also active with the New Directions Cello Festival.

Joel was the founding cellist of Quartet San Francisco in 2000 and received two Grammy nominations for recordings with them in 2007 and 2008. He moved back to California in 2007 and for the next 18 years he played in many Bay Area ensembles, including Philharmonia, Echo Chamber Orchestra, Rubicon, Cantabile, and Quantam. He was involved in Alasdair Fraser's Sierra Fiddle Camp and played with Symphony Silicon Valley and Santa Rosa Symphony. Joel taught in several educational settings, including Humboldt State University and Santa Rosa Summer Academy. He maintained an active teaching studio and was very dedicated to his cello students of all ages.

Joel made Ukiah his home in 2013, where he was a member of the Kol Ha'Emek community. He served on the board of the Ukiah Community Concert Association, volunteered as a cook for Plowshares in Ukiah, and hosted the KZYX radio program, "Music Without Borders."

Joel and Michele married in 2024 after knowing each other for over 50 years. Joel loved to garden, and as an avid cook he was famous for his chocolate truffles and big dinners. Joel and Michele loved to travel, and they saw many friends together in the U.S. and abroad over the past few years. He cherished his time with friends at poker nights and Boys Night Out. He enjoyed traveling to Oregon and Massachusetts to be with his children and grandchildren, and he was a loving father who encouraged his children to chart their own paths and ardently explore their passions. Joel was a devoted son and made frequent trips to Oakland to visit his mother. He never stopped performing, and he passed away during a weekend of playing concerts he cared about very much.

Joel is predeceased by his father, Simon Cohen, and survived by his wife, Michele Rivard; children, David (Aleyna), Hannah (Brahim), and their mother, Susanne Friedrich; grandchildren, Zoe and Nicolo; mother, Eleanor; brothers Joshua (Genevieve) and Jeremy (Andrea) and half-sister Simone; nephews, Zachary and Gabriel and their families; many cousins, and countless friends and colleagues in Ukiah, the San Francisco Bay Area, Massachusetts, and beyond.

Joel always said that the world needs good players, good students, and good listeners. As you go through life making music, or teaching music, or listening to music, do it for yourselves, your colleagues, your students, your listeners-and you will be doing it for Joel. Musical celebrations in Joel's honor are being planned for Fall 2025. In lieu of flowers, please support music education and attend live music events.

Rest in peace, beloved Music Man.

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September 26, 2025

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September 18, 2025

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September 15, 2025

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Adam Han-Gorski

September 26, 2025

So shocked by the untimely passing...
We had worked together for years in Vienna, where I was concertmaster of the orchestras Joel played. My deep sympathy for the family, Adam

Francis Grimes

September 18, 2025

I knew Joel when he lived in the Boston area. We played together on many occasions. I often wondered how he was doing on his venture back to California. I was pleased to learn that he had a full and satisfying life. RIP my old friend.

Allegra Steele

September 15, 2025

Joel was my cello teacher for many years. He was a lovely man, had so many interesting stories to tell and was a fantastic cellist. I am so very sorry for his loss.

Rex Westen

July 24, 2025

The world seems much reduced without Joel. I miss his vitality, his smile, his warmth, his excellence, the beauty of his sound on a cello, his kindness. I think he loved everything he did, whether music, or food, or friendships, and he gave everything care and attention. He was fully in the moment, and we celebrate him and mourn our loss.

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Priscilla Rich for the Rich family in Ukiah CA

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Stuart Gronningen

June 25, 2025

The photo above of Joel radiates the sweet, kind personality I was fortunate to know during our several years together in the Oakland Symphony. Sharon and I were delighted when we happened to encounter him on a sidewalk in Ukiah on a vacation up north and to experience his undiminished love of life and of people. Condolences to Eleanor, Josh, Jeremy, and the entire family.

Helmut Lipsky

June 20, 2025

Dear Joel, I'm so sad I did not get to meet and know you personally. But knowing your brother Jeremy, and being aware now of how close you must have been, you surely were a wonderful human being and a marvellous musician. I don't know where your spirit and soul are now, but wherever it may be, Rest in Peace.

Crispin Campbell

June 19, 2025

I only met Joel once, at the New Directions Cello Festival in Appleton Wisconsin in the early 2000´s. However I feel that I knew him well through the many mutual friends and colleagues we shared. And I remember vividly his soulful rendition of Bach´s 6th suite Sarabande in a late night "jam session" where everyone played their favorite movements from the suites. A remarkable man.

Ben Simon

June 18, 2025

Joel and I were music nerds together in the Oakland Youth Symphony a million years ago. A wonderful spirit, musician and friend. My love goes out to his family as does Jane's. Ben Simon

Haemel family

June 17, 2025

Joel taught our two boys to love cello, taught them many important things about themselves and others, and was a beloved friend to our entire family. Joel was full of positive energy and had an amazing zest for life - I think this is one of many reasons we find his sudden passing particularly hard to process. We all miss him deeply. Here are what our children wrote about him (comments summarized):

"Joel was really funny, passionate, kind, and caring... I enjoyed every lesson we ever had! I wish we could have more time with him." (Max, age 10Y)

"[Joel] was always willing to risk being late to his next commitment if it helped one of his students to learn a new concept. I loved that even though he was so busy, he always acted relaxed and never rushed anyone... Joel was really easy to talk to, and he got along well with everyone. He loved all musicians and all kinds of music. Joel was a very special person, and I will miss him a lot." (Xander, age 14 YO)

We will never forget Joel or his impact on our boys and our family. We send our deepest condolences to Joel's family, extended family, and closest friends. Keeping you close in heart at this time.

Haemel family (Anna, Nick, Xander (14YO), Max (10YO)

Steven Rugg

June 16, 2025

Joel was my friend because of our men's group "BNO". What a personality Joel carried with him always! We talk about his music and his desserts - achievements that in many ways defined the best of him to the world. I loved those tangibles about him too, but for me, I think it was the DELIGHT that Joel brought to every gathering. Even when he was going through his heart surgery years ago, his shy, beaming smile defined his will to live. All who knew Joel will miss him and his joy for life. In my naitivity I thought we would all grow old together, laughing, eating, drinking and telling stories well into our 90s. Not to be. Rest In Peace my friend.

Miriam Roycroft

June 16, 2025

I´m so incredibly sorry to hear about Joel. I first met him in 2004 at the airport heading for the New Directions Cello Festival. He lent me his beautiful Grubaugh/Seifert cello as mine had been badly damaged en route from the UK. I subsequently commissioned and bought a cello from the same maker and visited Joel with my 11-year old son to pick it up. Joel was so kind to us both and such an interesting person and fabulous chef! We remained good friends over the years and I will really miss him. Sending condolences to all the Cohen family x

Lylia

June 15, 2025

All my deepest condolences to your family. Joel was always so kind and easy to talk to, especially in French! Never missed a chance to converse with me which was truly special to me. I´ll miss him a lot... his succulent chocolates as well. But especially his humanity. Thinking of you all during this difficult transition time. With all my love. Lylia

David Steffen

June 14, 2025

I met Joel while working for KZYX. Enjoyed our many conversations and working with him to help promote community events. So sorry to read of his passing.

Wanda Lanouette

June 13, 2025

We have enjoyed several concerts that Joel generously performed in at PVE. He was a very generous and outgoing man. We, too, will miss him. Ian & Wanda

Janae Stephens

June 12, 2025

Joel will be sorely missed. His presence at our Shul was always a sweet and welcoming presence and his cello playing was literally Divine. Sending his family and loved ones my condolences and much love.
Janae

Bob Athayde

June 12, 2025

Dear Joel,
I only had the opportunity of meeting you once. It was at La Finestra Restaurant where I was playing solo piano. You were so kind to me. Your wife, Michelle sang beautifully. I hadn't accompanied her for many years. Before you left that evening, I had the opportunity of asking you questions. Your responses were so humble. You were so proud of Michelle, your mother, and your brothers. I would have liked to have had more of a connection with you. You left this earth too soon...
Bob Athayde

Lili Byers

June 12, 2025

Joel saved me once, many years ago, when he could tell I was depressed. He gave me a copy of the book, "Messages from Michael," and it changed everything for me, gave me hope. He has had a very special place in my heart ever since. A few years ago I realized he probably had meant to lend me the book, which I never returned! I bought and gave to him the 25th anniversary edition, so that was a reminder to him of how much he had meant to me. In spite of the hopeful "Messages," I'm very sad that the Joel we all knew is no longer with us.

Garcia Family

June 12, 2025

Dear Cohen Family,

Our hearts are with you during this incredibly painful time. There are no words that can truly capture what Joel meant to us, but we want you to know that he left a mark on our family that will never fade.

The first piece Joel and my son Juan played together was Vivaldi´s Double Cello Concerto in D Minor. It was just the two of them and in that moment, something shifted. We saw a spark in Juan that we hadn´t seen before. There was a deep connection in their music, and it was clear that Joel wasn´t just a teacher he was someone truly special.

Joel believed in Juan when he needed it most. He gave him purpose, confidence, and the kind of support that changes lives. He was Juan´s mentor, his role model, and his biggest fan. Every lesson lit something up in Juan. He was always asking, "What can I play next for Mr. Joel?" and was so excited to make him proud.

Joel helped Juan practice The Swan, and through that process, they formed a bond of trust and musical understanding. You could feel how much Juan respected him in every note he played. Watching them rehearse or perform together brought me to tears, it was so clear how much Joel inspired him.

What set Joel apart wasn´t just his musical talent, it was his heart. He was patient, kind, and unwavering in his support not just for the students, but for the families too. When we struggled with time or money, he never made us feel like we were less. He worked with us, cared for our kids, and made sure they had a chance to thrive.

As a mother, knowing my son had someone like Joel in his life meant everything. He was someone I trusted completely, someone Juan could turn to when he needed guidance, and someone we all loved and respected deeply.

We will carry Joel´s memory with us always. He changed our lives with his kindness, his music, and his love.

With all our love and deepest sympathy,

Alejandra & Juan Garcia

Rosella Susan Byers

June 12, 2025

Joel's music, joy in life, and right living were gifts even to those who only knew him peripherally. I love his words about playing, studying, and especially - listening. He was, in a word, a Mensch. My sincere condolences to all those close to him.

Kirk Fuller

June 12, 2025

Blessed to have shared a meal and catch up with Joel a few weeks before his passing. I´ve had the pleasure of capturing his impeccable performances with several artist here in Mendocino County.

Joel Weinberg

June 12, 2025

I was a friend of Joel's in junior high school in Oakland, CA, and afterwards, in high school, when I moved to San Francisco. Joel's musicality was always in evidence, and he was as good a friend as he was a musician, which means he was the best.
I have a special memory of Joel and I attending a concert by Traffic at the Fillmore West, details of which will only be shared in person.
Rest in peace, my friend. May your memory always be a beautiful blessing.

Karen Combs

June 12, 2025

My thoughts are with you....

Liss Lutter

June 12, 2025

Joel Cohen's life stands as a beacon for us all.

Takashi, Akiko and Anju Aoi

June 12, 2025

Our deepest sympathy goes out to Joel’s family at this difficult time.

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Julio Reyes

June 12, 2025

I still can´t believe it. I met Joel when I was 8 years old. he and my brother played in the Oakland Youth Symphony together, and I used to go and sit in on their rehearsals since they rehearsed across the street from where I lived. He is one of the reasons why I started playing cello. When I was in the Oakland Youth Symphony, he came and coached us many times and would not let anybody get away with anything. He pushed us continuously. I remember when I played a guitar Concerto with the Oakland Symphony. It was for two concerts during the day for kids. He and I along with my brother went out to lunch in between concerts. He complimented me on my guitar playing, but immediately started talking to me about my cello playing, and what I needed to do. He was a natural born teacher and his criticism always came from the heart and never from anger. I really enjoyed our chats once we both started teaching at "Simply Strings" for the Santa Rosa Symphony. We talked cooking, music, and life. I looked forward to it every day. He always put a smile on my face, and for that I will always be grateful. I will miss you my friend.

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