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Donna and Jim Ferguson
August 29, 2006
Anne and family,
JP was such a great guy. We so enjoyed him when he came back to Kansas for his Wall of Honor Day. We had fun taking pictures of him in the tractor and combine.
He will be greatly missed by everyone. If you ever get to Kansas hope you will come see us. Our prayers to you all. Donna and Jim Ferguson
Carole Gooding Rost
August 24, 2006
Dear Anne,
It was with sadness we found out that J.P. lost his battle. I only knew him for two years at OHS but I always remembered what a nice person he was. I know he was loved by many and will be missed by all.
Betty Miller
August 23, 2006
From: "Bob and Barb Hay"
[email protected]
Dear Betty,
Thanks for your memories. Many people who knew JP did not know his motive for changing
his major at KU. I Did happen to know because of Vern, who was at KU at the same time. I
don't remember exactly when I first heard it. I thought it was such a beautiful, unselfish
motive for a brother to do. I do recall his love for music, and I did get to hear him perform in the
"Swing Kings" a few times, Somewhere in my memory is another such instance of a man
who became a doctor, to attempt to find a cure for a brother, that was suffering from a slow
wasting disease. I can not for the life of me remember the names involved right now, although
it was someone I met in my many travels. Such wonderful, generous motives! Are you aware
that the Hay boys, at least Vern and I, met and knew JP when he was Vern's classmate at
Wellsville, then as 3rd graders. (It would have been my 6th and 7th grades) Then later through
OHS and then KU in Vern's case.
There was a lot I did not know about him that I now wish I had. As you may not know, I was an
avid hunter, fisherman, sportsman, and also loved to compete and later to watch and help
coach kids sports. I can think of nothing I would have enjoyed more in those long ago, halcyon
days, than to have invited JP to hunt the family farms and our rented pastures, for quail or to have
asked him to share in the famous prairie chicken hunts on the Willhites cousin's land around
Strong City, or pheasant hunts on my cousin's wheat lands in Western Kansas, or have taken
him to some of our favorite Bass waters. That would have been fun.
Unfortunately, as with many things in life we learn these things too late. The very nature of
growing up, maturing and growing old, separates people from childhood and schoolmate
friends. The geography and time constraints of chosen vocations seem to reinforce that
separation almost permanently.
I think that is what makes reunions so very special to many of us. We can, at least for just a
moment, recapture those good times, the laughter and yes, even the tears we once upon a
time shared, and for just a while, be young again!
Fred Kaiser has been so very good about keeping me aware of the progression of maladies
that have finally taken JP's life. His life will have a positive effect on mankind and especially
those afflicted with Bi-polar and depressive diseases, for years to come. His wife Anne, must
truly be a special lady to have been able to write and share with all of the OHS class of '55.
the remaining days of JP's life.
He was a neat kid, a delightful young man, an accomplished researcher, respected doctor and
to those close to him, no doubt a great family man and wonderful friend. Some people
change the world. JP was one of those. He will be missed by so many people.
Old Friend Bob & Barbara Hay
Dear Anne & family,
I sent some of the information which Emily forwarded to everyone to some of the people who were in classes other than '55, this was one of the responses I received.
I will add a couple of my own thoughts. I am so very sorry not to have had the oppotunity to meet you at any of the reunions. I had a fractured toe last Sept. and couldn't make it. Now, think it was a sad excuse. I was vocalist in our dance band in High School for 3 years, in which John played so beautifully. I cannot tell you how proud I am to have known this man, and how very grateful to have been counted "friend". As Bob said, some people change the world. JP was one of those people.
Much Love,
Betty Nichols, Miller
Tammy Saylor Fine
August 22, 2006
Dear Anne, Jenny, JD and Scott,
I'm laughing and crying as I write this. Laughing, because John always found the humor in any situation and could make everyone around him smile. Crying, because a great light has gone out in this world and we are all the poorer for it.
I was privileged to know John as fellow choir member, and to have him as my ideal "boss" when he was President of San Diego Chamber Orchestra and I was General Manager. He was a man of kindness, gentle spirit, great humor, incredible and elegant intellect, vast knowledge, generosity, vision, tact, amazing and varied talents, and possessed of a true zest for life. How he squeezed so many accomplishments into less than 70 years is nothing short of miraculous. In virtually every conversation I had with him over the years, the recurring theme was always "family". Somehow, Anne's great accomplishments of her own and the kids' latest exploits found their way into our talks, and he never failed to ask about my family. His enthusiasm and pride in who you are and what you were doing was infectious. One couldn't help but take delight in HIS delight.
I feel blessed to have known John, and will treasure my still very vivid memories of him. May God bless you all and sustain you in this very difficult time.
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Michelle Ramirez
August 21, 2006
Dear Anne and Family,
My thoughts and prayers and heart felt condolences in the loss of Dr. Feighner. I am very grateful for the opprotunity to have worked with such a wonderful Doctor! They are 14 years of memories I will always cherish.
God Bless,
Michelle Ramirez, CRC
Jim and Hazel (Marks) Gillette
August 20, 2006
We have fond memories of our days with JP at OHS. We are sorry for your loss.
Ernest Shaffer
August 19, 2006
RIP, J.P. God bless your family. We well remember you and the good old days in Ottawa.
Bonita and Jack Welborn
August 19, 2006
We will always remember J.P. as a friendly classmate who loved music. We loved his music and even at his induction to the Wall of Honor in Ottawa, KS he played the piano for us. J.P. admired Jack's 1946 Ford show car and his 1972 Chevy Pickup when he was back for one of the reunions. He had a way of making everyone feel good about themselves. There will surely be an empty spot in our Class Reunions without J.P. You have our deepest sympathy.
Mary Kramer
August 19, 2006
Hoping you will be comforted by your best memories of J.P. and also by knowing he did a great deal of good while he was in this world.
Faye Smith McCoy
August 19, 2006
John will leave his footprints not only from his lifetime, but for many years to come. It was my priviledge to know him as a vivacious teenager in high school. Our prayers are with you and yours during this time of loss.
Francis ( Frank) Mille
August 19, 2006
My deepest sympathy to the family of J.P.
Sally Scott
August 19, 2006
Dear Anne, Jenny, JD, Scott, and family,
My sympathy goes out to all of you in these difficult days. May time heal your sorrow and may peace replace your heartache. JP was a marvelous man and a great friend and classmate. He will be missed by all.
Sally Scott
Emily (Blake) Kirkpatrick
August 19, 2006
Anne and family:
At this time of deep sorrow, there are few words that can bring comfort, but may it help somehow to know that love and caring thoughts are with each of you.
J. P. was a fine friend, classmate, and a wonderful person. Ottawa High School class of 1955 will always hold special and precious memories of J. P. Our prayers are with you. God bless you all.
Harry Butler
August 18, 2006
Dear Ann,
I extend my condolences on the death of your husband. His obituary reveals an impressive career and a fine life. My thoughts are with you during this difficult time.
Irene Shumway
August 18, 2006
John, or J.P. as we knew him, was truly a great friend. It is the friends we meet along life's pathway that help us appreciate the journey. J.P. was that kind of friend. He will be greatly missed.
Barbara Peterson
August 18, 2006
Our family will always remember John as kind, humorous, and intellectually very curious. He was always cheering, for his wife, Anne, as she took on prominent positions of selfless service for Rancho Santa Fe School, Cub/Boy Scouts of Rancho Santa Fe, The Bishop’s School and beyond to wherever she was part of a community, Jenny “the other Feighner Doctor”, JD “the other Feighner musician”, and then along comes Scottie “the scholar, the athlete, and the singer”. John’s family is a reflection of his talents and his work ethic, but most of all of his love and devotion. Our family was truly honored to know and love a real “Renaissance Man”. John was always humble and his generosity will leave lasting footprints. Cheers! to you, John.
With love and respect– Barbara, Brad, Jon, Brent & Bubba Peterson
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