John “Jay” Alexander Voetsch IV

1953 - 2026

John “Jay” Alexander Voetsch IV obituary, 1953-2026

John “Jay” Alexander Voetsch IV

1953 - 2026

John “Jay” Alexander Voetsch IV Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Mar. 22, 2026.
John "Jay" Alexander Voetsch IV was born in Somers Point, New Jersey and was the son of John A. Voetsch III and Elizabeth E. Voetsch. He lived a life defined by service, dedication, and deep love for his family.

Jay graduated from Norwich University in 1975 with a bachelor's degree and was commissioned in the Medical Service Corps the same year. He later earned his master's degree in healthcare administration from Baylor University. He served in the United States Army with distinction in hospital administration for 27 years, retiring as a Lieutenant Colonel (LTC). Following his military service, Jay continued in the civil service for 12 years at Fort Drum, New York. With many moves, including Korea and Belgium, he and his wife, Jill V. Voetsch, moved a total of 21 times before retiring in Jacksonville, Florida.

He leaves behind his wife of 49 years, Jill, and was a proud father to his two children and their spouses, Elizabeth 'Beth' & Ann Tafolla-Voetsch and Robert "RJ" & Sibby Voetsch.

Nothing brought him greater joy than being "Poppy" to his three grandchildren - Tennyson, Emerson, and Kipling.

Jay had a passion for all sports, most recently pickleball, and he treasured time with his family. His sense of humor and unwavering love for those closest to him will always be remembered, and he will be greatly missed.

In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests donations to Mayo Clinic for the care and support provided https://www.mayoclinic.org/patient-visitor-guide/florida as well as Community Hospice and Palliative Care https://www.communityhospice.com.

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John Henninger, NU '75, USAF, Retired posted to the memorial.

March 24, 2026

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Chuck (George) Holland, NU75

Yesterday

So sad for you Jill and family. I will always remember Jay as a full of joy & life guy who was always a friend to all of his classmates. God bless you all.

John Henninger, NU '75, USAF, Retired

Yesterday

May the many years of love he showed to all, always bring a smile to your face and warmth in your heart. Thanks for his and the familie's service to our country. It was a pleasure to have known John as a fellow Norwich Class of 1975 member.

Claire Loud

March 24, 2026

Dear Jill, Beth, Ann, RJ and Sibby,

Thinking of you with love during this painful time.

Claire and Sharon.

Abbey K

March 24, 2026

Jay was quite a man in so many ways. He's left so many wonderful memories.

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