Dr. John A. Lupas

1932 - 2015

Dr.  John A. Lupas obituary, 1932-2015, Pottstown, PA

Dr. John A. Lupas

1932 - 2015

John Lupas Obituary

Published by The Mercury from Dec. 28 to Dec. 29, 2015.
DR. JOHN A. LUPAS, 83 Dr. John Albert “Jack” Lupas passed from this earth on December 26, 2015 after struggling from the effects of Alzheimer’s at the age of 83. Dr. Lupas was born on May 13, 1932 in Washington D.C., son of the late Anthony J. and Anice (Whitely) Lupas. Dr. Lupas graduated from Wilkes College in 1954, and then attended graduate school at the University of Pittsburgh. Working in the Bacteriology Department, he assisted in the work supporting the development of Dr. Jonas Salk’s Polio Vaccine, one of the greatest medical advancements of the 20th century. This work inspired Dr. Lupas to attend medical school at Hahnemann in Philadelphia where he graduated in 1959. He then interned at D. C. General Hospital in Washington. In lieu of military service during the Korean War, Dr. Lupas worked at Ft. Sill in Lawton, Oklahoma in the Public Health Service. He was the Chief of Pediatric and General Medicine at the Oklahoma Indian Hospital until 1962. He returned to the Philadelphia area to complete his Residency at Saint Christopher’s Hospital for Children before moving to Pottstown in 1964. Dr. Lupas was a loving Husband, Father, and Grandfather, and a fixture in the Pottstown area medical community for many years. He came to Pottstown in 1964 to start his Pediatric practice which then grew into Coventry Family Practice. He treated many multi-generational families for over 40 years. He was also known to make house calls into his 70’s. Dr. Lupas’ family practice grew to one of the largest in the area, and eventually was sold to Pottstown Memorial Medical Center. He served at PMMC and other area hospitals in addition to his 25 years of service as Medical Director at Manatawny Manor Nursing Home. He also served at the Frederick Mennonite Home and as the school Physician at The Hill School for many years. Throughout all of these years of service, he was known for his kind heart and brilliant ability to diagnose rare illnesses. In his retirement, he enjoyed playing golf, travelling with his wife, Judy whom he loved dearly, writing poetry, and playing his harmonica in a band. He also commiserated for years cheering for the Eagles and the Phillies, the only disease he could never diagnose. He was preceded in death by his brother, Anthony J. Lupas Jr. He is survived by his wife, Judy A. Hanson; his children, Anice Keenan Jones of Marietta, Ga.; Jack Lupas of Kennesaw, Ga.; Sam Lupas of Cashiers, N.C.; Laura Henkel of Berlin , N.J., and Adam Glasgow of Douglasville, Ga., and 11 adoring grandchildren. He is also survived by his sister, Diane Bartoli of Sarasota, Florida. Visitation will be from 9 a.m. to 12 noon Saturday, January 2, 2016 with Memorial Services to follow, at First United Methodist Church, at 414 E. High St. in Pottstown. In addition to flowers, contributions can be made to the National Alzheimer’s Association in the name of John A. Lupas or at www.Alzheimers.org Services being provided by Catagnus Funeral Home and Condolences can also be sent to Catagnus Funeral Home web site at www.catagnusfuneralhomes.com

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Elizabeth Koch

December 22, 2024

DR LUPAS was the very best Pediatrician I ever met!! Not only as their DR but as a friend sharing tips to new Mothers and Fathers on how to care for their children not only as newborns but also through their growing up years!! He had a way of making each parent understand that they could be the very best parents and still support what and how they grew up!! Jack REST IN PEACE!! Betty K.!!

Elizabeth Anne Koch

December 22, 2023

Forever in our hearts and minds as a mentor and great friend I will forever remember all you taught me and made me a better person and nurse!!! Rest in peace!!

December 23, 2019

if I had but one word to describe Dr. Lupas it would be kindness-He will always be a wonderful memory for my entire family and I. We were blessed and better people because of him.

Cindy Gawrys

December 23, 2019

I just can't say enough good things about this man. He was so much more than just a doctor . He helped me through some of my darkest days and trying times. I think of him often and his wise and kind words. God broke the mold after he created Dr. Lupas❤ RIP great man

Susan Eklund

December 22, 2019

Im almost 60 now. Dr. Lupas was and always be the best doctor I have ever met. He treated me and my children. Ill never forget waking up after my first child and him sitting in the chair reading the newspaper waiting for me to wake up. You are sorely missed in a world where doctors are different now. You made a difference and that is what truly mattered.

Betty Koch

December 22, 2019

He will always have a place in my heart as a great DR and friend!!! I learned so much working with him. To all of you who were part of his life always remember him as a great Doctor, teacher and friend. Betty K.

mj kline

January 28, 2016

This man was more than a Dr.to every one of his patients. He was our friend, someone that we could trust to only do what was best for us. He will never be forgotten. God bless you Dr. Lupas

Sandi

January 21, 2016

Dr. Lupas was a brilliant doctor, a kind and generous man, a teacher and a friend. I was privileged to have worked with him at Manatawny Manor. As a new nurse he taught me SO much. He was the VERY BEST! May God bless his wonderful wife, Judy and his family during this time of sorrow.

Shelia

January 7, 2016

He was a very nice man and a great doctor with a bedside manner that is hard to replace

January 5, 2016

Judy:

So sorry to learn of Jack's passing on 12/26/2015. He was a lovely person. Our condolences to you and your family.

Phil Walz

Lisa Meeker Hathaway

January 4, 2016

The greatest doctor I ever knew. When he left his practice I was so sad. He was a great friend and neighbor as well. When we were little we called him Lupey de Lupe, after a cartoon character we watched. He always cared about his patients and went the extra mile. The world has lost a great man who will be sorely missed. My heart goes out to his family. Sending prayers and love to help ease their pain. Lisa Meeker Hathaway

January 2, 2016

Im so sad to hear of Dr. Lupas's passing. Pottstown has lost a wonderful person. He took care of my 3 children while they were growing up and was a brilliant doctor. My sympathy to all his family.

Deborah

January 2, 2016

I don't even know what to say about this man except he was the best. My heart goes out to his family.

Frances Repko-McCormack

January 1, 2016

My heart goes out to the family of Dr. Lupas and his many patients and friends. He was such a kind and caring person. Anyone who knew him loved him for the selfless person he was.He helped everyone and anyone. He will be missed but never forgotten. The heavens must have needed someone very special! He is at peace now and when I am up there in the heavens someday, I hope to see him again. He was so very special! You will be missed Dr.Lupas Yes you will!

Laura Brumbaugh

January 1, 2016

Dr. Lupus was not only a great doctor but a wonderful human being with a heart gold who was so loving and caring. Dr. Lupus was always great help and was always there when need him. We Thank God that he put him into our lives and us in his as his patients. He will be greatly missed by our family. Heaven has truly gained an angel. May his soul through the mercy of God rest in Peace.

the Kashmor and Brumbaugh

December 31, 2015

Dr. Lupas took care of our babies and later he took care of our medical needs and how wonderfully well he did that. He was always kind and respectful of all he came into contact with. The world is a better place because Dr. Lupas was in it. Our condolences to his family. We are so very sad that he is gone but he will always be in our hearts.

Toni and Percy Derr

Barbara Sherman

December 31, 2015

You were my Dr when I was a little girlB Reinertt I'm 54 RIP

Debbie Phillips

December 31, 2015

I was very sorry to hear of your passing. You have been the most dedicated,compassionate doctor for my family. Thru the years when I saw you, there was always a smile on your face and much kindness in your voice. My thoughts to your family and friends. I enjoyed our talks when I would see you about your retirement and love for antiques. God bless you and your family.R.I.P.

December 31, 2015

The world is a better place because Dr. Lupas was in it. He was a wonderful doctor and a wonderful human being. Our thoughts and prayers are with his entire family.

Margaret Strong

December 30, 2015

What an amazing life of service! Peace be with you, Judy and all his loving family!

Hilary Fraley

December 30, 2015

Dear Judy and Family~
I am sorry for your loss. We are thinking of you.

Fred and Linda Brown

December 30, 2015

I was saddened to read of Jack's death. We first knew him as a great and supportive pediatrician when our daughter Rebecca was born in 1972, and we later interacted with him as Judy's husband. Condolences to all of you. Fred and Linda Brown (formerly of First United Methodist Church).

Beth Oliver

December 30, 2015

He was a wonderful doctor and a wonderful man. May he Rest peacefully.

Jeremy Sherman

December 30, 2015

R.I.P. Dr. Lupas! You will be missed by many, an one of them is ME!.... I will always remember you coming into the room, when I was having a regular Dr's visit at Coventry Family Care. How you would always stop into see how I was doing/ how My SHUNT was doing!... I'm grateful for You & Dr. Lignelli!..... MAY GOD COMFORT Your FAMILY/FRIEND's/ an ALL WHO LOVED YOU!!..

REST EASY DOC. until we meet again!....

LOVE,
Jeremy

MARILYN CLIFFORD

December 30, 2015

TO THE FAMILY OF DR JOHN LUPAS, MY LOVE AND CONDOLENCE, RIP DR LUPAS

MARILYN CLIFFORD

December 30, 2015

GOD BLESS YOUR FAMILY RIP

MARILYN CLIFFORD

December 30, 2015

TO THE FAMILY OF DR JOHN LUPAS, MY LOVE AND CONDOLENCE RIP DR LUPAS

Laura Lupas-Henkel

December 30, 2015

In loving memory of my father. God Bless you.

Mikel Smithson

December 30, 2015

My condolences to the family. I must admit I really didn't know this man's contributions to mankind until now having only met him a few years ago through my daughter in law and Judy. I could see through my recent introduction though that this man was a gentleman.

December 30, 2015

M

December 29, 2015

My deepest sympathy to the family of this fine man; one of the last of the "old fashioned doctors" that we "old fashioned nurses" truly miss. May God reward you and bless you for your love and care to our community.

Elaine Neidert, RN, MSN, PMHNP-BC
Alamogordo, NM (formerly of Pottstown, PA)

Debbie Eshbach

December 29, 2015

R.I.P Dr. Lupas a kind hearted soul. He was our Dr. for 41 years from the birth and death of our newborn son in 1974 until his retirement. We started out at his small office on the corner of S. Hanover St. & Rt.724 which later grew into a huge practice up on S. Hanover St. A brand new building. From which came many up coming new Physicians in our area that branched out and started their own practices. Later during his retirement he enjoyed his hobby to refinish old wood furniture and bring it back to life. He would always show up at our family yard sales looking for a wood piece he could work on. He had a very interesting life from what I read but, his biggest attribute had to be not only being a great Physician but, his down to earth and big kind heart. He was a gentle soul and will be sadly missed here on earth.
Thank You for being such a good and kind person!
Lovingly,
The Eshbach family

Lisa Shillinger (Goodwin)

December 29, 2015

My condolences to Dr. Lupas's wife Judy and family.

Paula, ron.troy Bartosevich

December 29, 2015

Judy an family.Jack will be sadly missed.our prayers are with you.Jack would come to our house on Fri night's when football game traffic an zerns traffic to make house call .he was the greatest Dr.he loved a wine cabnet we had so when we moved we gave it to Jack. A great Dr. God bless

Uncle Jack loved his teaberry ice cream!

Judy Vobroucek

December 29, 2015

Sam Anice Dad

Anice Jones

December 29, 2015

Anice and Dad

Anice Jones

December 29, 2015

grandson Sam with fiance Addy

Anice Jones

December 29, 2015

Carolyn Thoms

December 29, 2015

Dear Judy,
Jack will be greatly missed at BRC. My prayers are with you now and always. Love Carolyn Thoms, 40 EC.

Elizabeth Koch

December 29, 2015

My condolences to the family of Dr. Lupas. Jack was an amazingly talented man. An extraordinary Doctor and a great person to work with and for in his early years in Pottstown. He was a fantastic teacher--teaching me so very much about all the aspects of child care. He made me a better nurse and Mother. You will be so very missed as a Doctor, Husband, Father, Teacher and the great friend you were to all who knew you. My thoughts and prayers are with your family and all who knew you as the wonderful person you were to them. May you rest in peace.

Judy Vobroucek

December 29, 2015

I was so sad to hear of Uncle Jack's passing. He was the bestest uncle and was full of love for everyone. He was so proud of his family and was the family historian. I'll always remember the stories about the "cottage". I am so thankful that We spent many hours together last year, while he was in Florida. We sat and looked through hundred's of pictures dating back to his grand parents- and oh the stories. It was so much fun. I cannot eat teaberry ice cream without thinking of Uncle Jack- his favorite.

Lou M.

December 29, 2015

My condolences go out to Jack's family. Jack was a rare and amazing doctor who possessed the uncommon combination of a great brain and an even greater heart. He was beloved by an entire community and will be sorely missed.

Amy Forrester Parker

December 29, 2015

So many memories of Dr. Lupas. He was such a great man. So sorry for your loss.

Jeremy Sherman

December 29, 2015

I was so DEVASTATED to read of Dr. Lupas's death! He was a GREAT MAN, who had a BIG IMPACT on My Life! Him along with Dr. Lignelli, were My Guardian Angel's. They both treated me more than a patient, they treated me like I was one of their own!... I had recently learned of different things going on with Dr. Lupus, through a church I had been attending off & on....
This is a Poem I wrote awhile back, that kind of fit My Feelings about His Passing!!...

"UNSEEN, UNSPOKEN, UNKNOWN!!... "

The scars no one can see,
but the pain you can't HIDE!
From things that couldn't be,
to the secrets that you CONFIDE!
No one will ever truly know,
of the pain and hurt you KEEP!
The pain may seem to never show,
except the wounds that run DEEP!

#ME

December 29, 2015

Dr Lupas was a kind compassionate man and a great doctor.He was well loved by his Frederick patients . Pat Smith

Sharon Woodley

December 29, 2015

My Love Thoughts and Prayers are with you Judy and the rest of your Family.....Your Husband was a Wonderful person and a Great Doctor such a kind and very caring Man.....I'm so glad he was my Doctor from the time I was real little...Then he was my 2 babies Doctor....He Will be sadly missed....He truly was a Great Soul....R.I.P. Dr. Lupas Love Always, Sharon Woodley.....

Lynn Schiel

December 29, 2015

Dr Lupas was my and my families Doctor till we moved to Michigan in 1990. He was my favorite doctor and was so caring. I then met Dr Lupas later in life while playing harmonica with my grandfather, George Clauser. You will be missed... Our family is praying for your family.

Marlene Gnoza

December 29, 2015

Judy and Family,

My thoughts and prayers are with you all. He was a great and wonderful person and doctor. Our family as well as many others thought the world of him--he was a special person.

Marlene Gnoza and Family

Carol Rinewalt

December 29, 2015

Dr.Lupas, Judy, Bobbi,and Gwen I loved the whole group. Dr. Lupas was especially patient and kind to a young mother with an asthmatic child. Even talked to me in the middle of the night when she was having attaches. The greatest pediatrician and man ever. The picture posted tells it all. My heart and prayers go out to you Judy and the whole family. We lost a great one.

Jack Manley

December 29, 2015

Dr. Lupas took care of my family for many years. We will never forget his kindness and his superior care of our family. He was one of a kind and one who was highly respected by all who knew him and his practice of medicine.

Darla

December 29, 2015

The " Best " of the Best

Pam Garlick

December 29, 2015

My sons both were patients of Dr. Lupas. Later when he expanded to a full family practice, I went to him also. He was the best. He'd even barter for services when times were rough. Loved him!

Tammy Egrie Martin

December 29, 2015

Dr. Lupas the best doctor ever... I remember being 4 years old with croup and him coming to my grandmothers house and sitting in the steamy bathroom with me so I could breathe.. After being admitted to the hospital for some reason I refused to drink from a cup... I wanted my bottle ...everyone said I was too old for a bottle and that I had been off of it for quite some time and he insisted I have it... I got the fluids I needed without an IV... He was the best best doctor ever..

Lisa kovach

December 29, 2015

Dr. Lupas took care of my brother and I when we were babies up through young adulthood. He was a wonderful doctor and we loved going to see him (he started out coming to see us at home when we were little and house calls were still a thing!) When we were younger we called him "Dr. Lupy" and he just laughed! Love and sympathy to his family.

Linda Bean

December 29, 2015

I'm so sorry for your loss Judy........

Cindy Homiak Gawrys

December 28, 2015

My condolences to the family of this wonderful doctor and man. Doctor Lupas was one of a kind. I have never met another doctor that was so genuine and caring as he was. He never rushed you out of his office and he actually listened to what you had to say. I remember when I was moving to Georgia and told him I would not be coming to him anymore and dreaded the thoughts of finding a new physician. He called me the next day with a list of doctors that he felt I would find trustworthy and comforting. I think of him often and the advise he gave me through the years. He truly was a blessing to me. RIP Dr. Lupas. You were an angel on earth and now one in Heaven!

Janet DePaoli (Smoll)

December 28, 2015

Dr. Lupus was truly an amazing man. He was our family doctor back in the late '70s when we moved to Pottstown until 1990 when we moved away to Maryland. He had a kind and gentle presence and was always available. I am sorry for your family's loss. I think of him often.

Donna Tisdale

December 28, 2015

Sorry for your loss. Dr Lupas was an extremely thorough and caring physician to our community for many years. I worked with him and his great office staff when i was in high school in the late 70's/ early 80's for several years. Jack then became the pediatrician for my only child, Missy in 1984. Thank you for all your service Dr. Lupas.
Sincerely, Donna Tisdale & Missy Grimm

Kate Hunter

December 28, 2015

I only met "Jack" recently, but his reputation certainly preceded him. He was such a warm and caring person. I wish I had known him sooner. My heart goes out to his family at this time.

Kate Hunter

Wanda Sell

December 28, 2015

Dr. Lupus was my families physician for many years. He always treated us with kindness. It was a running joke with him that when ever I got hurt, I had to get a tetnaus shot. He knew I hated needles. He will be sorely missed.

Laurie Valentine

December 28, 2015

I worked with this amazing doctor for several years. He was always young at heart! It was a pleasure to know him! RIP

Annette Fedor Lemma

December 28, 2015

He was my first doctor. A wonderful man and physician. Sending thoughts and prayers to his family during this difficult time.

Tom Ujszaszy

December 28, 2015

I remember hanging out at the Lupas' with Anice and other friends. He was always very kind and friendly.

Nicole Freed

December 28, 2015

Rest in peace Dr. Lupas you touched the lives of many including myself

Linda Carey

December 28, 2015

what a great doctor,you saved my life and for that i thank you.

Sasha Nicole Wiggins

December 28, 2015

I have such fond memories of Dr.Lupas. He brought me into this world and was a great, great physician to me into my adulthood! I will keep his family in my prayers. - The Wiggins Family

Ruth Rose

December 28, 2015

Dr Lupas was my pediatrician for my 3 children along with Dr Kromash and they were just so wonderful and got us through a few emergencies!! He will be missed and I was honored to know him.

Cheri Testa ( Bergman)

December 28, 2015

I am 52 years old and he was my doctor when I was little girl...I loved him!!!! RIP Dr. Lupas

Dottie Lake

December 28, 2015

God be with your family always through this very difficult time. You helped so many people.

Dottie Lake

December 28, 2015

I remember him well from working at PMMC. He will be sorely missed. My prayers are with his family through this difficult time. He helped a lot of us. Dottie Lake

Cindy Wilton

December 28, 2015

My prayers to the family, he was an awesome doctor. My family started going to him when we moved to Pa when I was in 5th grade.....I am so sorry for your loss....

Jessica Knauer

December 28, 2015

So sorry to hear the loss of a great doctor. As one of his patients at one time he was amazing. My thoughts and prayers go to out to the family.

Heidi Weand

December 28, 2015

Dr.lupas was a wonderful and their will never be a dr. To take his place .may he rest in peace and fly with the angels !

Tracey Carr

December 28, 2015

I am truly saddened that Jack has passedwhat an amazing, intelligent, calming, humble, caring & compassionate man - with a great sense of humor! Just 2 years ago, I was reading his Ferris Wheel and had to stop reading, as it put me in tears - the meaning in his poems was so deepJack clearly adored Judy and they had a very special relationship. Jack was always the gentleman - just a couple months ago, I took Jack and another senior to lunch & theres Jack holding the door for me! When we returned to MM, he was coaching a lady who wanted to leave that she could get a cab pretty cheap. After I pulled him away, we had a laugh as I told him not to encourage her! I feel very blessed to have known Jack over the past 5 years and I am honored that he chose to be part of the Senior Helpers team. I will miss you, Jack. Pottstown will miss you. Many, many will miss you. Rest in peace Jack - in eternal warmth! Love, Tracey & the Senior Helpers Team.

December 28, 2015

A wonderful doctor, teacher, respectful of his patients, families, and health team. May God welcome him with open arms.

Christy Recke

December 28, 2015

I am so very sorry for your loss. It is a great loss as well for the medical community. I knew Dr.Lupas through my work as a second shift supervisor nurse at Manatawny Manor and as a wound care nurse at Frederick Mennonite Community. He was such a wonderful old-timey doctor that listened to his patients and listened to his nurses. He was always willing to teach and was kind. His recommendation helped me get into my wound care nurse certification school and I keep in mind all he did for me each day I care for my patients. I will miss him dearly. Christy Recke RN BSN CWCN EWS LLE

Susan Eklund

December 28, 2015

What an amazing man and Doctor. He was the pediatrician for my children and myself. It is a sad day. I babysat his children and he gave me a job when he first moved to his office right on 724 before Coventry Family existed. A Kind and caring man with a heart of gold. You will be missed.

Marsha Slody

December 28, 2015

All our thoughts & prayers to comfort the family. What an amazing person & Doctor.

Michelle Plunkett

December 28, 2015

Dr. Lupus was an amazing person and dr! I worked with him at his practice for some years! Truly cared for his patients! I learned so much from him. Rest in peace. You will be missed. Michelle Lasheski-Plunkett

December 28, 2015

My thoughts & prayers to comfort the family. He was truly missed when he retired. A wonderful person. Marsha Slody

December 28, 2015

My condolences to the family, may he rest in peace. Dr. Lupas was my pediatrician/family doctor for over 20 years before I moved from the area. He was a kind and gentle man who always had a smile and great sense of humor.

Sherry Mourar

December 28, 2015

Ohhhh so sad!! Dr Lupas was my family doctor growing up as a child also my husband's and also my children! THE BEST caring doctor you could ever have. One of a kind and kind hearted too!! You will be missed! Condolences to his family!!

Eileen Brown

December 28, 2015

Dr. Lupas was a very special and caring person and Doctor. Will be greatly missed in Pottstown...

KATHLEEN DAYA

December 28, 2015

Dr Lupas took care of my children for many years. What a wonderful man he was. The world is surely a better place since he was in it. He will ne missed!

Linda Dotterer

December 28, 2015

He was a Great Man/Doc. I remember sitting in the waiting room with my daughter on Hanover St. A woman came in with a sick child and the receptionist gave her the money to go out to pay the cab that brought them there. He truly cared about his patients. May he rest in peace.

Debbie

December 28, 2015

I am very saddened to hear of your passing. You were the best in your field, and never turned a patient away because of their lack of money. R.I.P.

Sylva Smith

December 28, 2015

Dr. Lupas and family moved into our neighborhood across from Pottsgrove H.S. next to Dr. Bellus and Dr. Chapis. I babysat all their kids at the time. He was one of the nicest men I can ever remember. So sorry to see he suffered from Alzheimers. Not fair for someone so brilliant. My sincere sympathies to everyone in the family.

Patti Ruberto / Herbst

December 28, 2015

Thank you for being the wonderful man that you were! May your soul rest in peace! My love + prayers for comfort to your family! God bless!

karen seeders

December 28, 2015

so so sorry for your loss he was an excellant doctor and person he saved my life at birth and loved him so. he will be truly missed

Lucinda Iezzi

December 28, 2015

My heart goes out to family and friends during this sorrowful time.

Bill Collins

December 28, 2015

I'll miss my old friend.

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