Dr. John R. McFarland

Dr. John R. McFarland obituary, Topeka, KS

Dr. John R. McFarland

John McFarland Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Dec. 27, 2009.
Dr. John R. McFarland, 75 died of cancer December 26 at his home in Topeka, KS. John was born February 9, 1934 in Osborne, Ks., the son of Sheldon and Thelma McFarland. He graduated from Osborne High in 1952. He attended the University of Kansas on a football scholarship where he played quarterback from 1952-1956. He was a member of Phi Gamma Delta Fraternity. With one year of eligibility left, he was asked by his former high school coach to play football for him at Central Missouri State University, giving him the opportunity to graduate from KU with a degree in Business and a degree from CMSU in Economics. The friendships formed during these years were enduring. John graduated from the University of Missouri Kansas City School of Dentistry in 1961. He began his practice in Topeka in June 1961 sharing the position of staffing the Shawnee County Dental Health Clinic time and an office at Topeka Dental Center. In 1977, he collaborated with three other dentists to form the Gage Dental Group. Dr. McFarland was dedicated to the quality care of the patients in his practice as well as at his volunteer work with the Kansas Foundation of Dentistry for the Handicapped and the Marian Dental Clinic. Retiring from the full time practice of Dentistry in 1999, he found joy in delivering Meals On Wheels until illness prevented him from continuing. During his years in Topeka, John supported many civic endeavors, including Downtown Optimist Club (past President), Civitan, Mulvane Art Museum board member, Topeka Symphony, Topeka Civic Theatre, Topeka Jazz Workshop, Topeka Jazz Festival, Everypersons Resource Center, and the Senior Chamber of Commerce. He coached youth basketball and football. He was a longtime member of the YMCA, and an original member of Wood Valley Racquet Club. He was once city handball champion, and a racquetball enthusiast. He was an active member of the University of Kansas "K"Club, the Williams Education Fund and the Topeka Jayhawk Club, as well as holding basketball and football season tickets since graduation. John was a member of First United Methodist Church and the Keystone class, the Topeka, Shawnee County, Kansas State, and American Dental Societies, the Society for the Preservation of Oral Health, The Chicago Dental Society, The Fifth District Dental Society, the Kansas Foundation of Dentistry for the Handicapped and The LD Pankey Institute for Advanced Dental Education where he studied beginning in 1972. He was recommended and accepted as a Fellow of the American College of Dentists. In 1996, he was appointed to the faculty of the LD Pankey Institute where he served part -time. Married to Karen Edmonds on Jan 15, 1996 in Maui, Hawaii, they loved travel, especially to Jackson Hole, Wyo. where their families could join them for summer fun. They had a number of very special trips both inside and outside the country. Karen survives at the home. Other survivors include a sister, Phyllis Daniels, Spartanburg, SC: a brother, Jerry McFarland, Wichita, Ks: his children, Laurie N. Ritchie, Cedar Park, TX; Mark T. McFarland, Las Cruces, NM; Scott D. McFarland (Leslie) of Lawrence, Ks; step-children Tod Edmonds (Jan) Topeka; Kelly Smith (Ed) Ottawa Ks.; Matthew Edmonds (Virginia) St. Petersburg, FL; Grandchildren, Joseph John Ritchie, Cedar Park, TX; Kyle Andrew McFarland, Lawrence, Ks; step grandchildren, Lindsay Munzy, Chicago, Ill.; Adam Smith, Kearney, Neb.; Caitlin Smith, NY, NY; Brian Peel, Olathe Kan.; Carrie Schmidt and Whitney Estenson, Topeka, and two great grandchildren; nephews Michael and David Daniels, Todd and Brad McFarland. A celebration of life and memorial service will be held at First United Methodist Church on Wednesday, December 30 at7 p.m., with private inurnment. The family will receive guests in the Celebration Room following the service. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions are suggested to The Marian Dental Clinic, Stormont Vail Cancer Center, Meals on Wheels, First United Methodist Church, Midland Hospice, or the charity of your choice. The family wishes to thank the physicians and staff of Cotton-O'Neil-Stormont Vail for their years of devoted and quality care, as well as Midland Hospice. We are forever grateful. Dr. John R. McFarland

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January 5, 2010

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January 3, 2010

Michael Miller posted to the memorial.

December 31, 2009

John Miller posted to the memorial.

January 5, 2010

Laurie, I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your father. I know how close you were to him. I will keep you in deep prayers and thoughts, along with the rest of your family. Call me anytime. Take care.
Your friend, Dian Moore

Michael Miller

January 3, 2010

Dear Karen and Family,
I was saddened to learn of your loss from Esther Miller. I met John through Esther and Bill (my father) Miller when visiting them in Topeka. John is a funny and engaging person who gave generously of his heart and his time. My heart goes out to you and your family.

John Miller

December 31, 2009

Dear Karen and Family,

I knew John through my father Bill Miller and his wife Esther. When I came to visit at their house I can remember seeing John working in his yard. He was also always there to help out and lend a helping hand when we needed it. I know that my father and esther both cherised their friendship with him. He will truely missed and was a great human being.

John Miller

Kathy Lohse

December 30, 2009

Dear Karen and family,
I can't believe he is gone. The world just lost a wonderful light when John passed. I quit working for John when I was about to deliver my oldest- now 23 yrs old. Those years have passed by so quickly. I loved John. He was a role model of how to live a life well for both Bob and I. I treasure the many years I worked for him. I will always remember his grace, his sense of humor, and his endless patience!! His life truly mattered and he will never be forgotten.
Kathy Lohse

Derek Hinton

December 30, 2009

Dr. McFarland was a humble, funny man who befriended in the late 1970s when I was 18 years old, new to Topeka. He was also my daughter's first dentist and needless to say, she is not afraid of dentists.

Jon & Carolyn Zimmerman

December 30, 2009

What a sweetheart Dr. McFarland was! It was a privilege and a pleasure for us to know him through his volunteer service at Marian Clinic Dental. Encountering him at Topeka Jazz Workshop events and other community happenings always made the occasions brighter. We will miss this true gentleman! Our sympathy to Karen and all of his family.

Linda & Bill Putnam

December 30, 2009

Dear Karen & family,
We just heard about Dr McFarland's passing. He a good man. I enjoyed knowing him through Gage Dental & Bill enjoyed playing racquetball with him. He will be missed.
Sorry for your loss,
Linda & Bill Putnam

Chuck Hoag

December 30, 2009

Dear McFarland Family,
John was a great man and a good friend to many including our family (The Hoag Family). He was our dentist and friend of many years. He will be greatly missed. Please accept our condolonces and our wish that you know how great of a person your father/husband was.

Jim Green

December 30, 2009

I am greatly saddened by John's passing. And that I cannot attend the service today (I am out of state). John was the best dentist I ever had, and my "racquetball hero"(long story). I am not surprised by how many of these condolences use the description: "Gentleman".

Kene Mackenzie, DDS

December 29, 2009

Dear Karen and family,

Please accept my profound condolences for your lose. It was an honor for me to cross paths with Dr. Mcfarland in life. He made wednesdays at Marian Clinic Dental very special. We will forever be grateful for the compassionate care he rendered to our patients.
His was life well lived. May his soul rest in peace.

Leanna Clark RDH

December 29, 2009

In 1993, as I neared the end of hygiene school, Dr. McFarland approached me about a position on his staff. I will never forget the recommendation given to me by a hygienist, who said, "well, even though he may be near retirement, you would still have about 5 years to work for a doctor who would give you a great foundation: you would be a part of a highly-professional team that provides excellent dentisty." Those words came from Nita Percy, and fortunately, I heeded them! Dr. McFarland WAS the example of professionalism and integrity. He took dentistry seriously and was as devoted to it as a person could be. He treated all people with respect and compassion regardless of social standing or position. I was proud to be a part of the staff and admired his work. I never questioned his ethics. Although it's been 10 years since he retired, our patients still ask about him....he has not been forgotten. He was loved by many and will be remembered by all!

John & PJ Stephens

December 29, 2009

Dear Karen, we learned of John's passing this week & wish to extend our heartfelt sympathies to you & the family. John was one of the highlights of our 10 year experience in Topeka. Both as our family dentist & friend. He had that special quality about him whether it be on a professional or personal level.
Our best to you & the family.
PJ & John

Russell and Jane Greene

December 29, 2009

We have lost a true gentleman with a smile that light up the room. He will be missed by the Greene family!

Jose Lopez

December 28, 2009

My deepest condolences to Karen and the rest of the family. I had the honor of working with John as the former director of the Marian Clinic Dental. No matter how bad of a week we may had, Wednesdays were always special because John would be there. Every so often we would find a patient that needed special treatment out of the scope of our care and that no one would take, John was always there to make a phone call and make it happen. He would open doors for the people in need.
The dental community and the Non profit dental network in Kansas have lost a friend. He will always be in our hearts.

December 28, 2009

Dear Karen and family,I was so sorry to hear John had passed away.He was always so strong and fought long and hard thru his illness.He was so kind and humble.He was one of the best clinical dentist you could meet,and also one of the most caring.The dental world has lost one of their finest.My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family,Always Barb Keck

Linda Barnes

December 28, 2009

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

Angie Stephens-Fanning

December 28, 2009

Karen, Mark, Scott, Laurie and Family--I am sending you all hugs and continued prayers that knowing John is finally home and at peace will eventually ease your pain. I am truly saddened at his passing, but feel honored to have known and called him my friend as well as mentor.

Debra Miglionico

December 28, 2009

My parents spoke of John so very highly and praised all of the good work that he did. We were blessed to have had a couple of great men in our lives, even if just for a little while. I can only think of the fun they are having right now....
Thinking of your family and praying that you have peace in your heart and happy memories to keep you smiling. Much love - Debra Miglionico (daughter of Dr Bob and Gayle Burns)

December 28, 2009

Karen,
Even when we are prepared for the inevitable, because of the lengthy illness John had, we are still shocked when we learn about his death. Dating from our racquetball playing days, we five would extend our time togehter by going for donuts and coffee and talk, which later expanded into free-wheeling lunches were one or another of the five of us would hold forth on topics of the day. Today we are saddened by the thought that there will be no more donuts and coffee or long, enjoyable lunches where we "old guys" could talk freely about whatever came to mind. You and the family will be in our thoughts and prayers in the days that come.
Mike and Christina Mc Curtain

Herschel Stroud

December 27, 2009

Everybody will miss John. We shared many happy hours doing all kinds of things since we met in Dental School. He enriched our lives as he did those he touched.
Herschel and Jacque Stroud

Betsy Scott

December 27, 2009

Dear Karen,
We will really miss John at the boys games and hope you will continue to attend. John was always so supportive of all the boys especially Cody. I will so miss seeing him on the sidelines. He will be truely missed.

Rogers Family

December 27, 2009

We all are greatly saddened... Our prayers for your family and friends is that you will be comforted by your memories of him and... the Father of tender mercies and the God of all comfort will bring you a measure of peace in your hearts.

Mike Browne

December 27, 2009

I am sorry to hear about Dr. McFarland. He was a very caring dentist and person. He always had your best interest at heart....He always said we were like his family. I still go to Gage Dental....May He Rest in Peace

December 27, 2009

I was sorry to hear about Dr. McFarland, I remember going to him as a child. Very nice, and gentle.
Sue Myzer

December 27, 2009

Dear Karen
I was very sorry to hear of John's death. A great man and dentist.
My condolences to you and your family. He will forever be missed.

Howard and Pat Eppinger
Loudon. Tenn

David Penn

December 27, 2009

To the Dr John Family,
So sorry to hear of the passing of such a kind and caring man. His work is reflected in the smile of his family and thousands of patients. I will never forget his humor and the time shared with Dr John, Mark, Scott and Joel on ski trips. I learned to enjoy racketball through Dr John and his boys. He always won:) Peace be with you all in this difficult time.

John & LaVivian Drake

December 27, 2009

We are so sorry to hear of John's passing. He was a dear friend and teammate. We didn't get to see him nearly as much as we would have liked. I will forward this to his teammates. Your friends John and LaVivian Drake in Lawrence

Lois Goodman

December 27, 2009

Karen and family of John, He was a great man, and put up a huge fight with his cancer. It was a long hard battle and God has finally taken him up to be with Him up there in that perfect place.
May God help you through your grieving time.

Pam Fowler

December 27, 2009

I was so sorry to hear about Dr. McFarlands passing-He was the nicest kindess sweetest person individual and boss I knew-I thought of him often-and will truely miss him-my deepest sympathy to the family-Pam Fowler

December 27, 2009

We are so sorry to hear about John's passing. Karen our prayers are with you and your family as you get through this time together and reflect on all the wonderful memories that you and John had together.
Love, Tony and Karla Beckler

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