John MERLINA

Words cannot express the complete heartbreak with the loss of such a special man. So blessed to know John.

Prayers of peace and comfort for you and family and friends.

When I first went away to college, I was so grateful that Great Aunt Betty and Uncle Jack were nearby but the ultimate blessing came with John giving me his number and telling me I could call anytime. Being a freshman, I didn't really take advantage of it at first but you better believe sweet John reached out to me to make sure I had plans with family for each holiday and before exams each semester he would send me a text to make sure I was doing okay. He never complained over a long phone call or said it was silly, and I couldn't tell you how many times he carried my mini fridge in and out of different dorm rooms each year. I could tell he never thought of any of it as a big deal, just another day being the incredible man that he always was, but for an 18 year old living away from home for the first time it truly meant the world knowing my cousin was just a phone call away. I wish I had the right words to say to you Aunt B, Jack and Em for this unimaginable loss but all I can say is that in his time with us he left a positive impact on every soul he came into contact with, even when he viewed it as no big deal. That was just who he was, a truly incredible man, son, brother, friend, and cousin. Sending so much love to you all.

Grief can be so hard, but your special memories can help you & your family cope. Remembering your loved one today and always. Please except my deepest sympathies.

I knew John as a kind, smart and fun loving guy. John had a passion for working hard and doing everything not only correctly and well done, but done so well that it set the bar high for the next person to try and achieve. I always wondered if he had a very IQ or just born with the deepest desire and passion to over achieve. I came to believe it was both. I was fortunate to see and hear about John from the time he was young by working many years with his mom Betty. I then was blessed to get to work with John as well and become friends and maybe in a minimal way a work place mentor to him. We had many lunches and discussions trying to figure out life. I can easily say that I thought the world of John and knew he would be successful. Both in the work place and in life in general. My heart aches knowing that I won’t get another lunch to grab a burger and drink with John. John left an deep imprint on me that I’ll never forget.

My deepest sympathy Betty and your lovely family. I will be thinking of you and sending you strength.

My deepest sympathy to the Merlina Family for the loss of your loved one, John, II, and pray God gives you comfort, peace and strength.