John Victor Meyer

John Victor Meyer obituary, Pacifica, CA

John Victor Meyer

John Meyer Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jun. 11, 2024.
John Victor Meyer (May 25, 1944 - May 25, 2024), a true family man, genuine and kind, left this world on the 80th anniversary of his birth. "Johnny" was born to Fred W. Meyer and Elva J. Victorino of San Francisco, California. His three siblings, May, June, and Keith preceded him in death. As a child, he enjoyed helping his mother in the garden and playing with his dog, George. He also enjoyed fishing with his father. John graduated from Abraham Lincoln High School in San Francisco, in 1962. He put himself through college at the University of California, Berkeley, graduating in 1966, with a bachelor's degree in engineering. He immediately began his life-long career with the Department of Defense, working as a civilian for the U.S. Navy. He was a hard worker and rarely missed a day on the job. He retired at the age of 55 in 1999.

John was a faithful husband to his high school sweetheart, Judith (Judy) Moss, whom he wed on August 16, 1969, and remained happily married to for 54 years, until his death. Together, they had two daughters, Bonnie (1971), and Cheryl (1974). As a family, they created many fond memories, especially through family vacations and special Holiday traditions. One of our family's favorite destinations has been the Hawaiian Islands, but he and Judy have traveled (and made friends) all over the world. In more recent years, they have especially enjoyed multiple art cruises.

In 2003, John became a grandfather, eventually having five grandchildren: Tyler (2003), Eli (2003), Joe (2005), Carissa (2009), and Audrey (2012). John adored his grandchildren, nurturing each of their individual interests and personalities. Just as he did with his two daughters, he always made time for his grandchildren and showed them his unconditional love.

John spent his last days surrounded by all of his grandchildren, his daughters and his wife, when he was able to express his final goodbye's. He passed away peacefully on his 80th birthday.

Anyone who had the pleasure of meeting John knows what a special man he was. He had a way of connecting with people, welcoming others with his warm smile, calm, demeanor, and understated sense of humor. He never spoke poorly of anyone and went out of his way to make you feel comfortable and appreciated. He was cherished by many and his presence in our lives will be greatly missed.

He chose to be cremated, and for his family to release his ashes in a place that is meaningful. A celebration of life will be held for close family and friends.

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