John Michael Wayne

John Michael Wayne obituary, Overland Park, KS

John Michael Wayne

John Wayne Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Mar. 14 to Mar. 15, 2023.
Loyal Son, Brother, Leader, and Warrior, Staff Sergeant John Michael Wayne ("JMW," or "Wayne" to his Marine Raider brothers) tragically passed away on March 4, 2023, at the age of 39 years old.

Born on January 11, 1984 in Kansas City, Missouri, JMW accomplished more in his lifetime than any of us "regular folk" could possibly imagine. For nearly nine years, JMW served his country as a Marine Raider Point Man and member of the Marine Raider Regiment (MRR)/Special Operations Command (MARSOC). This unit is the most highly elite, principal combat component of MARSOC, which is the Marine Corps' contribution to the United States Special Operations Command (USSOCOM). He was an Element Member for Marine Special Operations Team 8111, Marine Special Operations Company Alpha (MSOC A), Special Operations Task Force - 73, Combined Joint Special Operations Task Force - Afghanistan in support of Operation ENDURING FREEDOM XIV.

JMW was named Company Honorman upon graduation from MCRD San Diego; a graduate of the fluent Arabic program at the Defense Language Institute; a Force Recon Marine; and the recipient of numerous combat awards and commendations in connection with his dutiful service in two Operation Enduring Freedom combat deployments to Afghanistan.

As codified by Lieutenant Colonel Paul Marcy in 2013:

"As an operator in Special Forces, SSgt Wayne was often entrusted with a great amount of responsibility and has always responded with aplomb. This past deployment, he was responsible for combat advising a platoon of Afghan Commandos in the highly kinetic Helmand River Valley of Afghanistan. In this demanding position, he acted as the de-facto platoon commander in excess of 35 firefights, making decisions and handling responsibilities far above his pay grade.

Sgt Wayne played a critical role in MSOT 8111's operational successes. His diligence while on point kept his teammates safe. His intelligence collections made it possible to target enemy forces and protect the people of Afghanistan. In the face of devastating enemy fire, he maintained his composure and accomplished the mission. His value to MARSOC, and the Special Operations community as a whole is immeasurable and was evident on a daily basis during combat operations. His consummate professionalism, steadfast leadership, selfless attitude, tireless work ethic, and the proactive manner in which he accomplished his mission have made him directly responsible for the high level of mission success Marine Special Operations Team 8111 enjoyed. His loyalty and genuine concern for the welfare of his Marines and Sailors during the conduct of this operation are a tribute to his strong character. His tenacity and devotion to MSOT 8111's mission success is unmatched. His actions are in keeping with the finest traditions of military service and reflect distinct credit upon himself, the Combined Joint Special Operations Task Force, MARSOC and the United States Marine Corps."

Having executed nearly 200 highly kinetic missions on behalf of his country, JMW was an essential contributor to the reclaiming of the Helmand Valley Province in 2011. Moreover, JMW played a critical role in the development and oversight of the Afghan Commandos, who served alongside the First Marine Special Operations Battalion (1st MSOB). His skills, insights, and empathy toward the Commandos were essential to the success of US efforts in that campaign. JMW's military prowess is undoubtedly legendary, as his name and accomplishments live on throughout the Marine Raider community.

Above and beyond his military service, JMW was a wildly talented, prolific artist. Constantly drawing and sketching from the time he could carry a crayon, JMW's innate creativity was immediately recognized by his teachers, such that he consistently received individualized attention dedicated to developing his artistic craft. Throughout elementary, middle, high school, and college, JMW received countless awards and recognition for his art creation through a variety of mediums. At the time of his passing, JMW was a student at Rhode Island School of Design, and he created an epic portfolio of, among other things, printmaking, painting, and ceramics. JMW's original, artistic style was intentionally provocative and expressive in nature - largely focused on his combat experience, and enormously cathartic and therapeutic in processing, to the extent one can, the trauma of war.

More than any of his earthly accomplishments, JMW is fondly remembered for his wild, fearless, magnetic energy. His cleverness, brilliance, and refusal to accept things at face value made him a formidable opponent in debates large and small. The loyalty he expressed toward the people and things he loved was unconditional, and his tenderness and wicked sense of humor made him a favorite among all walks of life.

JMW's eternal spirit lives on among his family and many friends, including his parents, Kitty and Tony Wayne; sister, Molly Wayne; brother-in-law, Ben Holley; grandfather, George Todd; and many aunts, uncles, and cousins. His spirit also carries with certain individuals he held dear, including Megan Allen, Danielle Hartke, Adam Francis, and his ever faithful, ever loyal Marine Raider brothers. JMW joins departed loved ones, including grandfathers, John E. Wayne and John "Jack" Mercer; grandmothers, Fran Todd and Dorothy Mercer; cousin, Patrick Mercer; and brothers killed in action, Staff Sergeant Charlie Cartwright and Gunnery Sergeant Daniel Price.

We invite you to celebrate JMW's extraordinary service, art, and life at an open house on Friday, March 31, 2023 at Union KC from 5 p.m. to 8 p.m., located at 1721 Baltimore Avenue in the Crossroads District. Additional memorials in San Diego and New York City will be forthcoming. In lieu of flowers, the Wayne family suggests donation to the Pat Tillman Foundation - an individual who inspired JMW's service and patriotism. Always Faithful, Always Loyal. Semper Fidelis.

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Brenda Harrison

May 27, 2025

Michael,
I thought of you all day on Memorial Day, remembering the play days with Leisha, Kayla and Molly. I wish life would have went differently for you. But I know you will watch and protect your mom, dad and Molly, as I know they miss you everyday.

Daniel Stratton

March 1, 2025

Just learning of this today. I served with Wayne in the USMC and was at the language school with him, also studying Arabic. I won´t lie. We were not the best of friends-he actually punched me in the face once-but I respected him. He had been studying MMA legitimately and could have likely done much worse, but chose not to. We were brothers. I also recall plenty of other good times with him and some other Marine buddies in our platoon at DLI. Heck, he was there with me on my 21st birthday drinking down in Monterey with another friend. Always had an infectious smile and what was once referred to as an `animal magnetism.´ I got out after 5 years, but am in awe of what he accomplished in his career. The loss for the world saddens me greatly. You´re worth 50 punches in the face, John, and I mean that. Rest in peace. Semper Fi - Daniel S

Mario

March 15, 2024

A warrior to the core, whom I was honored to serve with.
Always beside you, brother.

Nat

December 20, 2023

I saw John a handful of times around RISD, but I didn´t formally meet him until we both ended up at the same bus stop to New York. Although our conversation was brief, John was so easy to talk to; a super interesting and well rounded person. When I asked him what he was going to do in New York, he said he was visiting his sister for her birthday. John possessed a sort of magnetism that you don´t come across often. He surely will be missed.

Bruce & Michelle Riesman

September 1, 2023

Our oldest child grew up with Michael thru high school. He was always a quiet, well mannered kid who everyone liked. His death is a shock to all who knew him.

Marlowe Moreland and Richard Perito

August 28, 2023

As the daughter of a Marine and an American we thank you for your service, and we extend our deepest condolences to all who loved you. While you still had a whole life to live on Earth, God needed you more, but the time you spent here was profound and brave. Salute Semper Fi.

Tracy

July 9, 2023

Prayers for his family, friends and fellow soldiers. Thank you for your service, sir.

Heather

May 29, 2023

John, today is Memorial Day and though you came back from that war you gave so much! You are no longer here in part because of your sacrifice to this country. Thank you, I wish you were here still, you were an asset! So many people still needed you. Till I see you on the other side friend!

Michael

April 17, 2023

Happy birthday, Mom

Love from Heaven

Michael Bear

Bruce Powell

April 16, 2023

You have my deepest condolences

Tony Wayne

April 16, 2023

Tony Wayne

April 16, 2023

Tony Wayne

April 16, 2023

SK O'Brien

April 15, 2023

SK O'Brien

April 15, 2023

SK O'Brien

April 15, 2023

A great stare and an amazing smile. Miss you.

Tony Wayne

April 3, 2023

Michael's furry family.

D.R.S.

April 1, 2023

Special breed of individual to resonate with, inspire and motivate those who never even met them. Rest in power peacefully John Wayne. Thank you for everything. Deepest of sincere condolences to your family and friends.

D

March 26, 2023

What an absolute legend you were. They don´t build them like you anymore and the world is worse off without you. I hope you know you´re missed. Rest easy man.

Les Cook

March 25, 2023

You can not read through these remembrances and not realize what a loss this is. A loss for his family, and for his many friends old and new. My heart goes out to you. I never met John, but I sure wish I had.

Mike Beiriger

March 24, 2023

The few. The brave. Godspeed.

Brian Truxaw

March 23, 2023

He will be missed, My heart goes out to all those who were fortunate enough to have known and loved him.

Bernadette Wheeler

March 22, 2023

Very special young man who lived an amazing life. May his memories be cherished and a comfort to his family and especially his mom and my friend Kitty.
Berni Wheeler

Leslie Lepeltak

March 22, 2023

This is a beautifully written tribute to a remarkable, one-of-a-kind person who I felt honored to call my friend. My friendship with Michael (as we called him in high school, and as I continued to call him into adulthood) was one that I will hold dear for the rest of my days. I am truly devastated, and I hold you in my heart, Molly, Kitty, and Tony.

Anna Patterson

March 22, 2023

Our condolences for Cousin Michael. We are praying for peace of mind for all of the family and friends that Michael touched while his time on this earth. God Bless

Funk & Patterson Families from southern California

Mike Megaris

March 21, 2023

Tony,
I am so sad to hear of the loss of your son - words cannot express, but you and your family are in my prayers.
I never knew him but your son epitomizes what it means to be a U.S. Marine.
From one to another - Semper Fi, Marine!

Mike Leavey

March 21, 2023

Kitty, Tony and Molly,

I'm sad to have not met JMW but his character and accomplishments don't surprise me knowing both his parents as I do. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time and hope for nothing but good memories for you all. Love you both.

Mike Leavey

March 21, 2023

Kitty, Tony and Molly,

I'm sad to have never met JMW but knowing his parents the way I do, nothing about JMW's character surprises me. You all have my thoughts and prayers and hope for nothing but good memories. Love you both.

Carol Lewis

March 21, 2023

Our deep sympathies to Michael´s family and friends.

Carol and Rick Lewis

Jennifer Lynn Taylor

March 21, 2023

Thank you for your service John Michael Wayne! Thank you for service to our country and the world. You fought a hard fight on this Earth. Now you are resting in the arms of our Father God Almighty and His one and only Son Jesus Christ our Lord and Savior. Heaven is our destination. I pray for your friends and your loved ones to find strength, comfort and peace through their most difficult time.

David Stowe

March 20, 2023

Never Above You
Never Below You
Always Beside You

Rest easy JWayne

joe webster

March 20, 2023

Thank you for your service Staff Sergeant Wayne.
RIP. You wont be forgotten.
MS/3Webster 73/77

Fred

March 20, 2023

Always beside you brother!

Sam Ironpony

March 20, 2023

RIPGOD BLESS

Teri Keegan-Castrop

March 19, 2023

Micheal was a student of mine at Valley Park Elementary. I remember it as if it was yesterday. He was always quietly focused on his art work. Working away, coming to ask me questions. Such a shining star and beautiful boy. The memories of Micheal in the art room has stayed with me for these several years. Thank you Micheal. You were among those who made those years in my life magical. Teri Keegan-Castrop

john eric pauley

March 19, 2023

Wow. I didn´t even know him but clearly an amazing human. So sorry for his loss but so happy he walked this earth.

James

March 19, 2023

I don't know this person at all. I came across his obituary quite by accident.

My DEEPEST condolences to his family. He sounded like an awesome human being.

Prayers and blessings to all that loved him.

Mike and Nina Thomas

March 18, 2023

Tony, Kitty and family,

Mike and I were saddened to hear about your son's passing. We pray that many precious memories will bring comfort at this tender time. Praying for you all.
Mike and Nina Thomas

Tom Houlehan

March 18, 2023

Tony & Family - I am so sorry to hear of John's passing. I did not know John but this beautifully written obituary describes a man that led from the front, loved his country and loved his family. Tony - my prayers for you and your family during this time.

Tim Dawson

March 18, 2023

Kitty, Molly & Tony, I'm so sorry for your loss. My daily prayers are meant to life you up, provide you strength to get through this difficult time. One of my favorite bible verses is Psalm 116:15. I hope it brings you comfort. Love to all. Tim

Teresa Winslow

March 18, 2023

Peace to the Wayne family
Terrie and Jeff Winslow

Marie

March 18, 2023

From one USMC family to yours- No one stronger, no one more dedicated, no one more respected.
Rest in peace brother. Semper fi and may God bless your loved ones. What an honorable man! God's speed. Marie (named because Marine would have sounded to weird for a girl!) THANK YOU JWM.

Jason Ouellette

March 18, 2023

He was a class act from the day I met him. Extremely humble and selfless. RIP HERO

Jason Caldwell

March 17, 2023

RIP Marine. See ya when I get there.

Rusty

March 17, 2023

John Wayne was a great guy. One of the those dudes you only hear about. I´m glad to have known him and hope he continues on where ever he is now. Much love and respect JDub... Rusty

Jack

March 17, 2023

God Bless brave marine

Carol R Ours

March 17, 2023

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. Semper Fi

Kathy Husted

March 17, 2023

As my son-in-law SSgt Joe Galvan was about to leave on deployment several years ago, he told me not to worry because "John Wayne and Jesus" were going with him. Thanks for bringing him back safely!

My condolences to his family.

Ernest Lauderback

March 17, 2023

RIP JMW you have served your country with honor.
Semper Fi
Msgt Ernest Lauderback Retired

Danny Cartwright

March 16, 2023

Very sorry for your loss. Rest In Peace brother.

Douglas Haney

March 16, 2023

Semper Fi Brother. Rest easy.

Bob Brockish

March 16, 2023

I didn't know John Michael Wayne except through his aunt MJ. She always speaks so highly of him. Now seeing his obituary, I understand why. May he rest in peace. Semper fidelis brother Marine!

Chris V

March 16, 2023

John, will treasure the short amount of time we knew each other. You were one of a kind, world lost a very solid soul, one of the brightest smiles in the room.

-CV

Steven Gage

March 16, 2023

Semper Fi brother. We have the watch. Rest easy Marine

Angelbert Munoz 1stSgt 3/7

March 16, 2023

John "The Truth" Wayne RIP, thanks for always demonstrating physical, mental, and moral courage. Although your physical vessel is no longer here, your legacy lives on through all who knew you or of you. God bless you and your kin. We will keep fighting, Semper Fi. Angelbert Munoz

Mike and Carol Ann Cartwright

March 16, 2023

Condolences are sent with a healthy dose of love to the Family and friends of John. Rest easy and in peace. God Bless you all. The parents (Pop and Mom Cartwright) of SSgt Charles Cartwright. They are telling stories together.

Helen Elaine & Bud Feuerborn

March 15, 2023

Tony, Kitty, Molly, So sorry for your loss. Our hearts go out to you at this time of sorrow. May God be with you all. With Love, Couisin Helen Elaine and Bud

Kelsey Anselmi

March 15, 2023

Michael-
It seems insignificant in the grand scheme of things, but Stephen and I are so thankful for the memories we made on 121st with you and your family. We always kept up with you and your heroic service as the years went on. Thank you for serving this country so bravely. You´re a hero and will be missed.

Kati (Beller) McKinney

March 15, 2023

Michael was a bright light - wildly creative, incredibly funny and always uniquely him. Rest in peace, my friend.

Melissa Wayne

March 15, 2023

To My Beach Boy...

You will always be the creative, daring, and passionate soul I've loved for 39 years... and will miss forever.

Peace and love to you sweet Michael.

Katie F

March 15, 2023

Thank you for your service
May you Rest In Peace

Katie Hills

March 15, 2023

Kitty and Tony, What a life he had. I wish I could have known him. Thank you for his remarkable service to our country.

Bee Ream

March 15, 2023

Bee Ream

March 15, 2023

Bee Ream

March 15, 2023

John Wayne you will be so missed and already are. Nick loved you so much and was so proud to be your friend and share your insanely amazing stories. So many good times we all had together. As selfish as we all are for wanting you both here with us it brings me comfort to know you have each other again. I will always look at my headless horseman tattoo and think of you for our unintentionally planned matching tattoos. Until we meet again my friend Rest In Peace.

Tony Wayne

March 15, 2023

Tonya Verkade

March 15, 2023

You had such a sweet and unforgettable soul. I will miss talking with you as well as seeing your pieces that you were working on..Ride in Paradise and continue to watch over those that you held close to you. Until we meet again my dear friend.
LiveN Light to your family and all who knew you.

Jean Strippoli

March 15, 2023

My deepest sympathy to you and the family. What an exceptional life he lead. May he rest in God´s loving embrace.

Mama Danger

March 15, 2023

John Wayne will be greatly missed amongst us here in Providence. What a honor to have known him. Sincere condolences to every heart he´s ever touched

Robert and Carol Griess

March 15, 2023

Our thoughts and prayers for the Wayne family.

Alyssa

March 15, 2023

Your love was genuine. You were too real and too unique for this world. I´m so thankful for your existence. I´m so thankful to have known you. Love you always Mr. Wayne

Rick

March 15, 2023

RIP Recon! We have the watch.
A brother from 1st Recon 1969.

Ryan Pass

March 15, 2023

I hope you've found your peace. Fair winds and following seas brother.

Billy Gregory

March 14, 2023

John was among the most intelligent and courageous Warriors I have ever had the privilege to walk alongside. He will be greatly missed.

Leslie Nemour

March 14, 2023

Leslie Nemour

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Leslie Nemour

March 14, 2023

John was my student in Painting and Drawing classes at MiraCosta College in 2014. He was a force to behold with a paint brush as well as any form of expression. Not only did he capture my attention as a student, but also as a friend in the years that followed. He was simultaneously dazzling, rebellious, challenging , outrageous and charming .

I wrote his recommendation letter for RISDI, and as John asked, it was honest and real. I am open to share it with his family if interested.

I miss my one of a kind, unique and beautiful friend. My heart is with his family and loved ones for this immeasurable loss. His memory is cast in gold forever.

I look forward to the San Diego memorial where I and hope to meet you all.

Photos from May 2014

GySgt Sean Varriale

March 14, 2023

I´ll always miss our long in depth talks brother about life and the Marine Corps. I remember me and you training BJJ in 29 Palms and the hell we raised. I love you bro. Semper Fidelis

Heather Chaplin

March 14, 2023

John your legacy will live on forever and earthly body will be miss but just know you will always be in our hearts till I see you on the other side

With love, Doc & Phoebe Grindal, Topeka

March 14, 2023

What a fantastic life summary. Patriotic, brave, fearless and yet a sensitive artist as well. So very sorry for your loss. Please accept our condolences.

JK

March 14, 2023

A Man
A Marine
A Gun Fighter
A Brother
A Warrior
A Recon Man
A Raider
A Man Amongst Men
A Dreamer
A Doer
A Team Mate
A Rider
A Free Spirit
His Spirit Will Live On!!!
Ride Fast Take Chances Brother!
Until we meet again!
To The Men!

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