Jonathan M. Houy

to all of jon's family,

Some of you may know me, some may not(For those of you who aren't sure of who i am, i danced with jon at foxtrot)... but what matters is that i knew jon. None of us at foxtrot will ever be able to forget the impact Jon had on all of our lives, and the wonderful memories we were able to share with him during his extraordinary life. Since I understand how upsetting reading these can get to be (I've read them myself...) I'll share only one memory. The year Jon first became sick, we were doing a production number to "everybody dance now", and some of the girls were paired up with a boy... Jon was my partner. Needless to say, Jon was not able to be in the recital that year... and while I'll always regret not being able to perform hand in hand with such an amazing person, I am thankful for the time our lives did touch! May God be with you in this time of greiving, I know my prayers (and those of all the dancers at foxtrot)sure are.



Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted.

The Houy Family,

Your son Jonathan taught me a great deal about life and how it should be lived. He touched the hearts of those whom he encountered and did so with an amazing spirit. May you find comfort in the Lord during this difficult time.



My thoughts and prayers are with you,

Dear Mike, Lynn and Matt,our deepest sympathies go out to you.I,ll think of your family and keep you in our prayers.

Dear Lynn, Mike and Matt,

We were not fortunate to ever have known Jon but each year we watched the boys grow into young men through the Christmas cards we would receive. God has plans for all of us and Jon's plan now is to share his joy with the Lord. He was a remarkable young man that touched many lives. We are sure you are all very proud of him. He will live on in the hearts of many.

Our thoughts and prayers are with you,

The Houy Family have my deepest

sympathy. May the God of all

comfort continue with you.

Sincerey,

Mike & Lynn



I feel honered to have known such a special person like Jon and yourselves, he and you will always be in my heart and mind. I have been envolved with wheelchair sports for a long time and have yet to meet a person like Jon who had so much desire and dedication and want for something, also someone who has left such an impact.

I can't express how much I will miss Jon and you. God Bless



Coach

Rob

Dear Houy Family,

You probably do not know me, but I am friends with Dino and met Jon when I was in 8th grade and he was in 7th. It was right before his diagnosis of cancer. It broke my heart because even after that first time meeting Jon, I thought of him as one of the nicest guys I had ever met. When Jon lost his leg I couldn't believe it. Then when I saw him hop into school for the first time I was blown away. He was just such an inspiration to me and I wish I had let him know it. I was in the musical with him last year and am so glad I got to spend that time with him. Even thought Jon and I were not the best of friends, he really impacted my life. Hearing of his death was the most shocking news I ever received. His funeral was so beautiful and showed how many people he affected. Your family has also been so inspirational to me. To be so strong at such a difficult time is so amazing to me. My thoughts and prayers are with you and Jon will forever be missed!

Jon, was always a strong and kind hearted kid, Jon was someone that when i had so many worries and was stressed out and i would look at him and say if he can do it i bet i can. Jon was such a great role model and hero to anyone that knew or didnt know him. He'll be greatly missed and never forgotten.

You never knew how much I looked up to you, how often I thought of your strength & courage, and how seeing you smile made my day brighter. Forever loved, Forever missed.

Dear Dr. Houy, Lynn, and Matt,



Jon was a young man of varied interests and talents. It is a great memory, my enjoyment of working with him vocally during "Mame", feeling proud of his young voice, and knowing that Jon had the talent and importantly, the work ethic, to develop his vocal ability. I was glad I had an extra chance to coach Jon for the family wedding he sang for. -Jim



Jim and I add our prayers to the many, many petitions our Lord is receiving for you, asking His grace and strength that you may endure this deeply sad time. We have much faith that Jesus is holding your dearest Jon close to him in eternity. May God bless and reward you for the loving mother, father, and brother you are. -Diane



It is a true pleasure to know you and be among your acquaintances.

With deepest sympathy,

Diane, Jim, Derek, and Mallory Mousseau

Dear Dr. Houy and Family,



We very saddened to hear of John's passing. Our deepest sympathies to all of you. You are in our thoughts.



The Lucas Family

Mr. & Mrs. Houy and Matt,

I am so sorry for the loss of Jon! I was in his dance class at Foxtrot and every week he always made us laugh! I remeber that in one of the dance competitions he was in front of me and started off facing the back and he would always make really funny faces to make me laugh! I remeber whenever he used to come down to the studio when he was sick, we were so happy to see him because we knew that night we would be laughing the entire time! I am so priveledged to have danced with him for his entire time at Foxtrot and those memories I will never forget because those for some of the best dance years I have ever had! He will be missed but never forgotten! He's in a better place now and later on we will all see him and be with him!

Dear Houy Family,



My Family's thoughts & Prayers are with you in this most difficult time.



Francis Boyle & Family

Dear Mike:



I don't know if you remember me. I grew up in Monroeville and I also attended nurse anesthesia school at Pitt while you were in dental school. I now live outside of Philadelphia and my Dad passed away February 16th. I was going on the Post Gazeete website to see my Dad's obituary and happened to see the name Jonathan Houy. When I read that it was your son, I was so saddened. After reading the many beautiful tributes that people wrote about your son, it is obvious that he was truly an inspiration to so many. The following was on the back of my Dad's funeral mass card and I find great comfort in it and I thought perhaps you and your family would do so as well.



Togetherness



Death is nothing at all.

I have only slipped away into the next room.

Whatever we were to each other,

That we still are.



Call me by my old familiar name.

Speak to me in the easy way you always used to.

Laugh as we always laughed at the little jokes

We enjoyed

together.



Play smile, think of me, pray for me

Let my name be the household word it always was.

Let it be spoken without effort.



Life means all that it ever meant.

It is the same as it ever was;

There is absolutley unbroken continuity.



Why should I be out of your mind because I am out of sight?

I am waitiing for you, for an interval,

Somewhere very near, just around the corner.



All is well.

Nothing is past; nothing is lost.

One brief moment and all will be as it was before....

only better,

infinitely happier and forever--

we will all be one together in Christ. Carmelite Monastery



I will keep you, your family and your son in my prayers when I am praying for my Dad. Once again, please accept my sympathies.



Nancy Gebhardt Blair

dear houys,

Jon was one of the most inspirational people i have ever had the privlege to have met. He was so full of life and energy that no person on this earth could posses. I am very sorry for the loss of your son and your brother matt. He will be missed greatly for he was loved by so many. Your family was the first i met when i first moved here and I love and care about you so much.

All my love and prayers,

Danny Loheyde

Dear Dr., Mrs., and Matt Houy,

When I was young I can remember swinging on my swings with the Vargos, John, and Matt. Ever since that young age I've been blessed with the privillege of knowing Jon. From seeing him at the pool in the summer to seeing him at church every sunday, I've grown up with Jon. It was so sad to hear of the loss, but i know he is in a better place now. There is no more suffering for the strongest guy I've ever known, and he deserves it. Remember to always stay as strong as your son did in this time of grief, and it will help me to stay strong too. He will be remembered forever. Like Matt said, Jon was Superman.

Michelle and Ross family

dear Houy family,

you may not know me but, i had the priveledge of knowing Jon for a few months during his time in the East End Kids...i regret not telling you this at the viewing i went to or the funeral, you probably just thought i was someone who knew him through school. im sorry i didnt formally introduce myself...and i am more terribly sorry for the loss of the nicest most polite boy ive ever had the pleasure of meeting. he was an amazing kid and tought me to b a little more courteous to people. he also inspired me to never give up and fight hard...this has caused me to suceed in many things. i thank him very much for everything hes done, and you have my prayers

Our thoughts, prayers and deepest sympathy our with you and your family.



Your Neighbors

Jayanth Gowda

Usha Gowda

Dr. Mike and family - I remember meeting Jonathan as a baby as you carried him on your shoulders at the Gateway track. He is in a safe place now and we will all meet again one day.

Dear Houy Family,



I am very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

Dr. Mike, Mrs. Houy, and Matt,



There is no other way to say it, Jon was the most amazing friend I have ever known. He had a certain glow about him, that attracted people wherever he went. His passion for life and determination will inspire me and stay with me for the rest of my life. I honestly believe, Jon was an angel on earth. I feel truly blessed to have been close with him. I know he is smiling down on you, giving us all strength.



To the strongest family I have ever known, you all will be in my prayers always..

Nicole

hey,

its adam sorry for what happened to Jon. He was a good friend to me, showed me the ropes of basketball.

WE WILL NEVER FORGET HIM.

May God cradle you in the palm of His hand as you go on each day. I never had the pleasure of knowing Jon, but my dearest friends, Robin and Jesse, were close to your family and I felt his goodness through them. May God bless your family in the days ahead.

Mike & Lynn



Our heartfelt sympathy to you and your family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.



Cecilia & Ralph Powell

Our deepest sympathy. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and all of your family. God Bless.

We think of angels as beautiful women in glowing white robes with wings. They went around quietly helping those in need and

giving us hope and cheer. When we think of angels we think of years

long ago, not now, not in the year 2005. Well, I am here to say that’s all wrong. Angels are still among us and I know, I walked with one. Walking among us was Jon. He was amazing, given the strength and courage I’ve only know in fairy tales. He battled pain &

physical handicaps that no one should ever have to face. Yet with all this it never slowed him down. He was always there ready to help,

even while you felt you should be helping him. He didn’t spend his

time complaining about his problems, but instead was a strong friend ready to help you with yours. He was all over school, in so many of our activities when able. He was a beacon of courage, strength and hope. To see him at school and activities uplifted your spirits and made you feel ashamed to be complaining about your own small problems. He wasn’t large & strong like a football player, yet he made a bigger impact on his fellow students than any of us ever will. He did it with grace, kindness in a very quiet unselfish way. In a very short 15 years he touched the lives of so many, making more good friends than many people will make in a life time of 80 years.

All angels aren’t beautiful women in glowing white robes with wings. You have to open your eyes and see them for what they really are. They are just like us, except they battle unfair odds and yet are still able to help out others. I am truly blessed to have walked with him, talked with him & laughed with him. The crowded halls will have a large empty space

left by him. Jon may not be in our halls anymore, but he will be in our hearts and memories forever.

Yes, there still are angels, I know, I know one.

Deepest sympathy to the Houy family... Jon will be forever missed.

The Houy Family,



I want to extend my deepest sympathies to you all during this time. I only had the privledge of meeting Jon once,but once was all that it took. He was such an inspiration to alot of people even if he never really knew it himself.I was able to see Jon play basketball with the Steelwheelers and you could tell how much he loved the sport and how much his teammates loved him. Norah had been keeping me posted on his health. You all had an exceptional son and brother. He will be sadly missed by everyone he came in contact with. You all are in my thoughts and prayers.

Dear Dr. and Mrs. Houy,



I had the honor of being Jon’s nanny in Gateway’s production of ‘Mame’ in 2000. Although five years have passed, vivid pictures of a little boy in knickers with an infallible spirit still remain. I’ll never forget how he showed a high school cast and crew what it was like to be a kid again.



I am deeply sorry for your great loss, and my thoughts and prayers are with you. I know Jon was your best beau, and he will be missed dearly.



God Bless,

Melanie Jo Wrobleski

Mr. Houy, Mrs. Houy, and Matt,

I am so sorry for the loss of Jon. He was one of my good friends that always made me laugh. Always had a big smile on his face, and that's what everyone will remember. He will be missed, but never forgotten. He was a very inspirational person, who had a major impact on my life. I'll be praying for your family, and Jon is watching down on you.

Love,

Jaime

Dear Mr. Houy, Mrs. Houy, and Matt,

It seems like just yesterday when I was sitting in my chair at the pool watching in amazement as Jon did numerous tricks off of the diving board. He always put a smile on my face. Jon made me realize that anything is possible if you put your mind to it and to live life with a positive attitude. Thanks for all of the memories Jon!



My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

To the Houy Family:

It cannot be put into words how inspiring a life Jon led. I am in awe of the profound impact Jon's life made on so many lives, even on the lives of those who never had the privilege of personally knowing him. His courage in life has inspired me to consider a future in which I can work towards helping those fighting the same courageous fight that he did. Many of the times I hung out with Jon were spent playing basketball against each other...he would always win. Now he's running the courts in everyone's hearts and minds. Mine and my family's prayers are with you, and I know God will comfort and strengthen you in this tough time.

Dear Mr.Houy Mrs.Houy and Matt,

My family and I send our deepest sympathies to you and yours during this difficult time. Jon was such a phenominal person and he taught me quite a lot in only a few years. I feel incredibly honored to have been friends with Jon, and I will forever keep priceless memories of times well spent with him. Your family is in my prayers and my love for Jon is sustained in my heart forever.

Love Mia

Dear Mike, Lynn, and Matt,



You have always been like a second family to me and Jamie. The loss of Jon is hard but I know he is in a better place now. I hope my portrait will always remind you of Jon as he truly was, a young man who always had a smile on his face. He was stronger than I could ever hope to be. I love you guys.

Dear Dr. Houy and family,

My deepest sympathy to your family. I was stunned when Bill told me the news that Jon was sick and even more saddend when I heard he had passed. I cannot even imagine the loss you must be feeling. Our many prayers are with you . God Bless You all and hold on to one another.

While we are mourning the loss of our friend, others are rejoicing to meet him behind the veil.



My deepest sympathy goes out to the Houy Family and Jon's close friends. Anyone who has ever met Jon, even just maybe once, I am sure is deeply saddened and will never forget him. Jon is someone to be proud of, an amazing person who left a positive impact on a whole community. His kind heart and courageous spirit will keep him with us forever.



Good men must die, but death cannot kill their names.

Happy Birthday Jonathan M. Houy 3/14/89 - 3/11/05

I am jon's cousin.Jon always made me laugh and smile. he was always there for me and others. I will miss him very much but everyone has to know he is always there for you when you need him. I love you JON!

Mr. and Mrs.Houy Im very sorry about you sons passing. He was the sweetest kid and in my prayers

To the Houy Family,

Being in the school musical was always a fun experience, but having shared that experience with Jon was such a privilege. He was such a funny, energetic kid and I always knew I'd have fun at rehearsal if Jon would be there. He was a great friend to my cousins, and for that my family will always be grateful. You should be proud to have raised such an amazing young man who was an inspiration to so many, he will be missed. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.

Sincerely,

Allison Gerthoffer

Dr. Houy and Family: Words cannot describe the pain I am feeling for all of your family. I only remember Jon as a little boy playing baseball, but I have been kept informed about him from Michele and Jordan. Someone gave me this letter when my sister passed away, and I read it often. A LETTER FROM HEAVEN To my Dearest Family, some things I want to say, but first of all, to let you know that I arrived okay. I am writing this from heaven, here I dwell with God above. Here there are no more tears or sadness, here is just eternal love. Please do not be unhappy, just because I am out of sight. Remember that I am with you, every morning, noon and night. The day I had to leave you, when my life on earth was through, God picked me up and hugged me and He said "I Welcome You". It is good to have you back again, you were missed while you were gone. As for your dearest family, they will be here later on. I need you here badly,your part of my plan, there is so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man. God gave me a list of things that He wished for me to do, and foremost on the list was to watch and care for you. And when you are in bed at night, the days chores put to light, God and I are closest to you...in the middle of the night. When you think of my life on earth and all our loving years, because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears. So do not be afraid to cry, it will relieve the pain. Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was rain. I wish that I could tell you all just what God has planned, but if I was to tell you, you would not understand. There are many rocky roads ahead and many hills to climb, but together we can do it, if we take one day at a time. It was always my philosophy, and I would like it for you too, that if you give unto the world, the world will give to you. When your walking down the street and you have me on your mind; I am walking in your footsteps, only half a step behind. With deepest sympathy, Jackie Otto

Although I only had the opportunity to meet Jon a few times, I could see how truly amazing he was and how he kept his spirits up in the face of adversity. Many fond memories of him were told to me by Stephen, and I know that Jon is one of his favorite cousins for good reason. I will always remember his smile and his sense of humor. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.

Alison Bruns

To The Houy family,



We were so sorry to hear of Jon's passing, our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Dear Dr. and Mrs. Houy and Matt,



I am sure that little can be said to ease your sorrow, but please know that I, like so many others, feel privileged to have seen Jon's greatness as a person first-hand. Spending time with him during Gateway's production of 'Mame' was one of the most memorable times of my life. Whether we were on stage, playing pick-up basketball between rehearsals, or even going to a cast party together, I always considered myself fortunate to be around him. The age difference was of no consequence; I admired Jon immensely, and I know that many of my classmates felt and still feel the very same way.



Best wishes for the weeks, months, and years ahead. You are all very much in my prayers.

You who dwell in the shelter of the Lord,

Who abide in His shadow for life,

Say to the Lord, "My Refuge,

My Rock in Whom I trust."



And He will raise you up on eagle's wings,

Bear you on the breath of dawn,

Make you to shine like the sun,

And hold you in the palm of His Hand.



The snare of the fowler will never capture you,

And famine will bring you no fear;

Under His Wings your refuge,

His faithfulness your shield.



And He will raise you up on eagle's wings,

Bear you on the breath of dawn,

Make you to shine like the sun,

And hold you in the palm of His Hand.



You need not fear the terror of the night,

Nor the arrow that flies by day,

Though thousands fall about you,

Near you it shall not come.



And He will raise you up on eagle's wings,

Bear you on the breath of dawn,

Make you to shine like the sun,

And hold you in the palm of His Hand.



For to His angels He's given a command,

To guard you in all of your ways,

Upon their hands they will bear you up,

Lest you dash your foot against a stone.



And He will raise you up on eagle's wings,

Bear you on the breath of dawn,

Make you to shine like the sun,

And hold you in the palm of His Hand.

And hold you in the palm of His Hand.

Mr. Houy, Mrs. Houy, and Matt,

Thank you for being so strong during these past few days. You have inspired me to see all of the good in this, and I have been doing my best to pass it along to other kids. I hope to come and see you often because i know Jon is still there living with you (probably watchin the simpsons or newlyweds haha) He is such an angel and i feel so blessed to play the role i did in his life.

Stay strong, and your family will always be in my prayers.

Love,

Rachael

I never had the chance to get to know Jon very well, but when I was having a bad day and I'd walk through the hall and see him with a huge smile on his face he made all of my problems seem to dissapear. God bless your family and all those who knew and loved Jon. We are all better for it.

I didn't know Jonathan M. Houy but it is always sad to hear of someone this young dying. From the picture you could tell that he was a smart and loving kid that anyone could get along with. I just wanted to send his family and friends my sympathy through this hard and rough time. But always remember he is not suffering anymore and he is in a peaceful better place.

Mr and Mrs Houy and Matt, I am truly sorry for your loss. John was a great kid and loved by everyone. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.





The Lupi Family

We are so sorry to hear about your son John, he was in sixth grade at NAM when my son Dominic was in kindergarten and was so kind and helpful, Dominic would talk about John everyday of his year that he met him. Then we would go to the pool and see him and were so inspired by his determination and courage. He was always in our prayers and I know that you are so proud that he was your son. God Bless you and you will be in our prayers.

Sincerely,

Debbie, Joe, Joey and Dominic Papalia

Out deepest sympathy at your great loss. Please know that you are in our thoughts.

Lynda & Paul

Mr. and Mrs. Houy, and Matt-

I am deeply saddened by Jon's passing, but I feel truly blessed to have had the opportunity to spend so much time with him. Jon has taught me how to live life to the fullest, and the moments I spent with him were so full filling. Jon's passion, fearlesness, and determination will live within me forever. Though I will miss Jon every day of my life, I know he is in a better place, but still with me. Thank you for loving him so dearly and shaping him into such an incredible person.

My thoughts and prayers are with the strongest, most loving family I will ever know...

even though i wasnt jons best friend, all the moments i spent with him were filled with laughs and smiles. I just want to extend my sympathys to all the family members who cared so deeply for him.

I feel as though I am a better person today because of my time spent with Jon. You will be truly missed, on and off the court. Thanks Jon.

To Mike, Lynn, and Matt:

To find a friend so kind and generous usually takes a lifetime. However, we were blessed with the chance to befriend Jon. Watching him grow up with Mary, from talent shows to basketball games there was always a spark inside of him. His constant fight for health was stronger than any person could ever endure. And although there is that continuous question of "Why?", he is with God now looking over us to guide us towards the path he would have taken. He has made each member of our family a better person and not only do I honor his bravery, but I applaud your strength and love. I can truthfully say that I have been touched by an angel, Jon.

To the Houy Family:



You probably don't remember me, but I graduated from Gateway with Mike in 1973. If memory serves, Mike and I attended school together from elementary grades on. I remember Mike as a real "class act", who was respected by all. Though, I have never met Mike's family or your son, I am deeply sorry about your loss. I have heard wonderful things about him, as has my 15 year old daughter (who attends Franklin Regional). I cannot imagine what you must be experiencing, but I felt compelled to send this in hopes that knowing even persons in your distant past - care, are praying for you, and hurt right along with you. I will continue to pray for you, especially that time will bring you strength and hope.



Jan Pringle

Dear Mike and Family:

We are very sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts & prayers.



Jeff,Debbie,Erin & Ryan Flaherty

Dear Houy Family:

We are so sorry to hear of Jon's passing. He was a great person who always had a smile on his face. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers through this hard time in your life.

To the Houy Family:



Our deepest sympathy to your family in your recent loss. We hope you find comfort in the memories of your son and with pride of his accomplishments and strengths shown over such a short time.



Sincerely, Gail Leroch and Sons

Dear Matt and Family



I WOULD LIKE TO SEND MY DEEPEST CONDOLENCES TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY, WITH THE LOSS OF JON



i've used hammers made out of wood

i have played games with pieces and rules

i undeciphered tricks at the bar

but now you're gone, i haven't figured out why

i've come up with riddles and jokes about war

i've figured out numbers and what they're for

i've understood feelings and i've understood words

but how could you be taken away?

and wherever you've gone

and wherever we might go

it don't seem fair...today just disappeared

your light's reflected now, reflected from afar

we were but stones, your light made us stars



Tony Fischetti and Family

Matt was right. Jon truly was Superman! I think he taught me more about life than I ever taught him in school. He will forever be in my heart.

Dear Mike,Lynn and Matt

Joan and I were deeply saddened to hear the news about Jon. Please keep his memory alive by telling stories of his many accomplishments

in such a short time on earth. He is and will be an inspiration to all of us.

Dear Houy family,

Please accept my deepest sympathies. From everything I understand, Jon was a wonderful young man, an exceptional son and brother who illuminated everyone and everything around him. God bless him and all of you.

Jon's family and friends:

All of us in the Steelwheeler's organization who had any contact with Jon, and even those who didn't, were inspired by his good nature, attitude and courage. Jon's memory will always be with us as a source of inspiration. Our thoughts and prayers are with the Houy family during this trying time.

The Pittsburgh Steelwheelers

Dear Mr & Mrs Houy & family,

Our Deepest sympathy goes out to you in this very trying time. Our family was deeply saddened when we heard of your loss. Your son Jon, was a great influence on my daughter Lauren when she was a kindergardener and 1st grader a N.A.M. The older kids looked out for the younger kids and she will remember him forever.

Our Love and Prayers go out to you.

To the Houy family,

From the day I played baseball with Jon on Dr. Mikes Cavity Busters until his day of passing on to eternal happiness in Heaven, he has been a hard-working strong friend. I have learned the meaning of fight from Jon and pray that someday myself and all of those who shared a love for Jon will meet him again. My sympathy extends to the friends and family of the strongest kid I have ever known and will ever know, Jonathan Michael Houy.

Our deepest sympathy

First off I would like to send out my deepest sympathy for The Houy Family and to thank them for raising a soldier like Jon. I had gone to school with Jon for 7th & 8th grade. I wasn't close with Jon, but I had the privilege of meeting and talking to such a strong and brave person such as himself. When I would see him and talk to him he never seemed down about anything. If you were even sad about anything it seemed as if how happy he was, that when you would be around him it would rub off onto you and you would feel alot better. Not knowing Jon closely makes it weird for me to say this, but I think from what I had known of his personality he would want all his friends, family and everyone who loved him to be strong and take everyday to the max as he did.

To the Houy family,

We all just wanted to express our true sorrow for the loss of a truly

beautiful young man. We never had the pleasure of meeting Jon, but just seeing the way both your eyes light up when you would talk about your sons showed the deepest love there is. Your family is an inspiration to everyone each of you meet. The blessings God has given you each are so great and so different. Always stay the truly beautiful people you are. I just have to take a minute to tell how truly touched we were when we got to the funeral home Monday evening. When we got there and saw all the many,many people standing in the cold waiting to see this beautiful person for one last time it touched our hearts so deeply, we only regret so much that we never even got to get inside after two hours of waiting outside. The time we spent outside and listened to all those who had known Jon, what a gift we were given. We just wanted to let you know that we were there and wished we could have expressed our sorrow in person. May God bless you all. We will always keep you in our prayers.

Dear Houy Family,

I have been so greatful to have know Jon. When I met Jon in kindergarten at NAM, I didnt have too much of a memory about him, but I am happy to say that I have such great memories from the past few years with him that will last a life time. He has made such an impact on my life even though he may not have known it. He has taught me to not care what others think about me and be happy with who I am. I have never known such an amazing person. He had such a light about him that always put a smile on my face where ever I saw him. He always made time to say hello to me, or give me a call just to see what I was doing. The way he took on life with out a care in the world has inspired me in so many ways, and I am very thankful for that.



*The strong shall live forever*



May God bless you all.

My Family's deepest sympathy, thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.



Cassy, Cory, Challon,

Chayla, Paula & Bill Fisher

Dear Houy Family,

I truly admire Jonathan for all of his courage and strength. He has touched so many lives in countless ways, and he will be a hero forever. Your family has such an incredible bond that serves as an inspiration to everyone. My prayers are with you...

Dear Mike and family,

I'm so sorry to learn of your loss. Jonathan was such an inspiration and will continue to be so. You are in my prayers and thoughts.

With deepest sympathy,

Michele Poydence

To the Houy Family:



You have our deepest sympathy at this time of your loss of your son and brother.



Do not stand at my grave and weep,

I am not there, I do not sleep.

I am a thousand winds that blow,

I am the diamond that gllints in the snow.

I am the sunlight on ripened grain,

I am the gentle autumn rain.

When you awaken in the morning's hush,

I am the the swift uplifting rush

Of quiet birds in circled flight.

I am the soft star that shines at night.

Do not stand at my grave and cry,

I am not there, I did not die.

(author unknown)



We are praying your family at this time.

I am so sorry to hear about Jon's passing. He was always full of smiles and jokes. I knew Jon from Foxtrot and am saddened by his passing. My thoughts and prayers are with his family.



Lauren Austin

I will always consider myself very, very fortunate to have known Jon.

I cried so hard when I heard the terrible news. I remembered the first time I saw Jon was in October at a wheelchair basketball tournament. I only got a chance to say a few words to him, but even then I knew he was special. I had really hoped to see him at some other tournaments. I can't beleive God could take such a great person away from everyone. I can only hope God has a basketball and a hoop up there so then when we meet again we can play some more basketball! I hope that he has no more pain and is playing bball with the angels. May God bless you.

Mike, Linda, and Matt: We were deeply saddened to learn of Jonathan's passing. Please know that you are in our hearts and prayers. Jonathan was a gift from God and his brief life a shining example for us all. May God keep you in His perfect peace.



Ethel & Stanley Edwards

Lynn, Mike, and Matt,



Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Jon will forever live in our hearts.



love,

Dave, Margie, Doug, Sam, Dave and Kristen Aiken

To the Houy Family,

Although I only took care of Jon for a brief time I was honored to know him and your family. He was such a great patient. I know he is with the angels and is no longer in pain.

Deepest sympathy

Toni Malley

UPMC homecare RN

Dear Houy Family,

Words cannot express our sorrow for the passing of Jon. Your family is in the arms of the Lord and He will carry you through. Our Thoughts and Prayers are with you.

Always, Jim,Jackie,Austin and Evan Henderson

Dear Mike, Lynn and Matt,



We were so saddened to hear of Jonathan's passing. Our deepest and most sincere sympathy to you and your entire family.

To the Houy Family:

Please accept our condolences. We are very sorry for your lost. We pray that God will continue to give you strength throughout this very trying time. May God bless and keep you and may he hold Jonathan in his loving arms, You will remain in our prayers.

Ray, Debbie (Hoolahan), Katie and Glen Pegher

Mr. and Mrs. Houy & Matt

I was never formally introduced to Jonathan, but somehow he knew me and always had a big smile and a warm greeting when our paths crossed. I could tell Jon was special by the way he treated others. You raised a son any parent would be proud of and I am sure he is enjoying his rewards right now. I am deeply saddened and very sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you.

Mike, Lynn, Matt and the rest of the Houys - You have my most sincere sympathy. I'm glad I had a chance to meet Jon through your cousins - the Meyer girls. He was an inspiration for all of us.

Dr. Mike and family,

Our thoughts and prayers are with you. I cant find the words to express our sorrow for you all at this difficult time. We hope you find peace that Jon is much better now, that his healing is finally complete, although yours will just now begin. God Bless you all.

Dear Dr. Houy



Our deepest sympathy to you and your family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Lord I will lift mine eyes to the hills

Knowing my help is coming from you

Your peace you give me

In time of the storm

You are the source of my strength

You are the strength of my life

I lift my hands in total praise to you

to you

The Houy family,



WE are both very saddeded to here of your loss of Jon. Our prayers are with all of you during this difficult time.

Jon is one of God's angels.

Lynn and family I'm so sorry to hear about Jonathan Your mom has been keeping me updated . I am deeply sorry for your loss. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Kathy Sunderland

Dr. Houy and Family:



We were very saddened to hear that Jonathan's journey here on earth has ended. But God has bigger plans for him now. May you all find comfort in knowing that he is forever with God now in eternity where he will have a new purpose. May his soul rest in peace. Our deepest sympathy to everyone.

Dr. Mike and family,



We were so sorry to hear of your loss. May God's love bless you and bring you peace. You are in all of our prayers.



The Loperfito Family

Dear Houy Family,



Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Even though I only knew you for a short time, you were an amazing young man. You are in no more pain.



May God watch over your family.



With Love in Spirit of Christ

Tanesha

Radiation Oncology Dept. at Preby.

Dear Dr.and Mrs Houy, you don't know me but I too, have lost a child. My son Justin died in Childrens Hosp PGH on Jan.28th. 2005 He was 12. The loss of a child is the ultimate tragedy a parent can face. It is the ultimate loss. I know this first hand because I am going through it now. I just wanted to let you know that I will pray for you. It somehow helps me get through my grief by reaching out to others that have also lost a child. We have joined a support group called the Compassionate Friends where all members have lost a child/children. I think they will help us--maybe they can help you. They have an excellent web site. I am a Christian and I believe our children have met each other in Heaven. In loving memory of our children-- Barb

Houy Family,

Our deepest sympathy goes out to you in this time of deep sorrow. May God's words comfort you.

DEAR MATT,

I WOULD LIKE TO SEND MY DEEPEST CONDOLENCES TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY, WITH THE LOSS OF JON. JUST REMEMBER THAT HE WILL ALWAYS BE BY YOUR SIDE. GOD NEEDED AN EXTRA ANGEL, AND JON WAS CHOSEN-BELIEVE THAT! HE HAS LEFT SUCH AN IMPPRINT OF INSPIRATION AND TRUE CHARACTER FOR ALL OF US TO FOLLOW-EVEN AT HIS YOUNG AGE. HE WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. MY PRAYERS WILL ALWAYS BE WITH YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. MAY HE REST IN PEACE!

WITH DEEPEST SYMATHY AND LOVE,

MISS FUSCA

Dear Houy family,

Im still kinda in disbelief... I mean I talked to Jon once, but once was enough to know he was a great person. I only wish that I'd got to know him a little better before God called him home. I have no doubt that hes looking down at you now as you read this... I will continue to keep your family in prayers.-Cannon

Dear Mike,

I know that it has been many years but Sharon told me about your son and his brave battle with cancer. I also have a 15 year old son, Ben, who loves basketball. I can't imagine your feelings of loss right now but I wanted to express my sympathy to you and your family. Jonathan sounds like an amazing kid; I am sure you are so proud of him.

Pam (McKee) Dumpe and family

Forever in our hearts. What an amazing person. He will be truly missed

Dear Dr.and Mrs. Houy and Matt,

We are so sorry for your loss. Jon was a wonderful boy and a great friend to our daughter Erica. He will be greatly missed.

Mike, Lynn, and the entire Houy family:

I am so sorry for your loss. I didn't know Jon well but he must have been a great kid, coming from such a wonderful family. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this very difficult time.

Betsy, Chris, and boys

Our deepest condolences to the entire Houy family. Just as this loss will be felt by too many to count, so will the memories that Jon has left behind. He will always be in our prayers.



The Kennedy Family

John, Johnna, John Paul, Josh