Joseph T. Oxley

Well Coach I can't believe it's been eight years since you left us,say hello to my brother Johnny who started at QB for you in 69. He went unexpected two years ago down here in Delray Beach,FL. Always Prayers to the entire Oxley family.

I am so sad to hear about my Uncle Joe. He holds such a special place in my, and my sisters' hearts. He made this world a better place and he will be missed by so many. I am proud of the legacy he leaves in the name of Oxley. My thoughts and prayers go out to my cousins and their families.

Mr Oxley was incredible human being my deepest sympathy to all his family and friends
gary rosenzweig

Dear Oxley family, I just found out about Uncle Joe's passing yesterday. I am so sorry for your loss. God didn't make a man with more integrity than Uncle Joe. He was awesome in so many ways and loved by so many. He did so much for so many people, especially children, over the years. May he rest in peace and may the memory of his greatness last forever.

Jackie...So sorry to read about your father in law's passing. My sincere sympathy to you and the rest of the Oxley family.

x Diane

John, I am so sorry for your loss. I hope that happy memories replace the sadness that you are feeling.

My condolences to the Oxley family, may all the fond memories make this difficult time easier. I took care of both of your parents..... they were great people. My kids loved attending camp and working at the camp.
Kathy DeFazio RN
Emergency Room

Dear Joe, I am sorry to hear of the passing of your father. I pray you and your family will be comforted by the fond memories you all have about your father.
Ralph D. Tawil

Joe,
My deepest sympathy for the loss of your father. My prayers are with you and your family.
Sue Kane (SANJ)

To Annmarie, Joe, Michael, Barret, John and family we just want to express our deepest sympathy we all loved Uncle Joe and will always remember our fondest memories of our childhood every summer at camp. They were some of the best times being with all our cousins, taking trips, and learning how to swim, we are so thankful for the memories Uncle Joe & Aunt Ruth brought to us.

Love,
Alexa, Joi, Larry Jr., Carlo, and Anthony Olivadoti
RIP UNCLE JOE & AUNT RUTH <3

Here is a man we can inspire our children to be like.. a God-fearing,educated,hard-working family man, businessman, a giant in his community..his legacy is deep and great.. his family shows all the positive results of his example..we cry with you for the way he suffered, but rejoice at your good memories you will have forever..wishing you all peace and rest, as we wish for him, Sincerely, Gerri and Jim.

Joe,
On behalf of the Somerset County Sheriff's Office we are sorry to hear about the passing of your Dad. Please pass along our condolences to your family.

Mr. Oxley was a great man, very caring, motivating and always full of energy. He was a great boss and raised all his children with love and discipline. He will be greatly missed, but always remembered

Matthew Walker


To all RHS alumni, and those of us who played football. Joe Bear Oxley has left us. Mr Oxley was a great many things to many people, but I'll tell you a bit about who he was to me. I played football for four years at RHS, I never missed a practice, worked as hard,and ran as fast as my limited skills would allow. I'll tell you now, I was perhaps the worst starting qb in RHS history, but because of all the work I put in Joe Bear tapped me on the shoulder for my senior year. Even when I was failing, and we had to snap the ball to the fullback because I couldn't throw a pass over twenty yards, he never pulled me. It may have been to the detrimant of a team, but it was a benafit to a boy. Who bacame a man. That learned hard work can pay off, and loyalty is a virtue. Thank you Mr Oxley. I hope they run 45 power in heaven. If not they do now!
Thank You
Matty Beesting Walker #17

Mr. Oxley was a great motivator. I remember him briefly from Football as well as attending his camp briefly. Rest in peace Mr Oxley!

Coach Oxley was a great history teacher & made me enjoy my studies at collage in my schooling in history, also taught me a lot when he was my football coach for the 3 years I played for him my he RIP and thanks for the great memories of RTHS
Alan Miller class of 1967

I remember him as a wonderful high school coach and teacher at Raritan in the 60's, and also years later, as being very kind when I sent my son to your day camp. Condolences to the family.

my deepest condolences goes out to the oxley family ......... may you all find the courage to move on... ( former aid )

What a life. What a legacy. I offer up my love, respect and gratitude to Mr. and Mrs. Oxley. My fondest childhood summertime memories were born at Monmouth Day Camp. To AnneMarie, Joey, Michael, Barrett and Johnny, I send my heartfelt sympathy to you and your families.

With him leading, I learned how to swim, cheerlead, sing spirit songs. He taught us so much that we still use - and have used to teach our own kids. You left a huge legacy, Coach! Our sympathy to your family ~

Mr. Oxley was a great athlete and a wonderful man with a heart of gold. I remember from my days at camp his never ending smile, words of encouragement and contagious enthusiasm. Our Lord and Saviour has called him home.

Anne Marie, Joe, Michael, Barrett, John, and spouses... I am so very sorry for the very difficult times you have had to experience this year. Your parents were a large, special part of my life and I will miss my visits to the camp. I love you all and am proud to be an Oxley...just as you are. Much love, strength, and God's blessings for healing from your losses. xoxo Ginger and family

To all of God's precious Oxley's, May the peace of God...that surpasses all understanding...guard your hearts and minds...through your sadness...until we can be together with him again. Love and sympathy, Tricia Flack and family.

My deepest heartfelt condolences to the entire Oxley family. Again, I have so many very fond memories on Taylor lane and learned so much from a great man!

Our Deepest condolences to Joe Jr. and the entire Oxley family.

Mr. Oxley will be missed by so many. Living right behind and attending Oxley's day camp for many years. I can remember Mr. Oxley alway pushing me to do my best during the swim meets, and giving words of encouragement when I needed them. Rest in peace Sir.

To all of Joe and Ruth's children, I am so very sorry for your loss. I wish I could see you and give you all a hug. Lynda Oxley

Mr. Oxley's smiling face will be missed this summer but, his spirit will live on with the campers.
+ With our sympathy, The Daly Family

REST IN PEACE MR. OXLEY, YOU BROUGHT MANY HAPPY SUMMERS TO OUR CHILDREN AT CAMP. YOU WILL TRULY BE MISSED. THANK YOU FOR THE WONDERFUL TIMES YOU SHARED WITH THEM. OUR CHILDREN ARE GREAT SWIMMERS BECAUSE OF YOU..... YOU WILL ALWAYS BE IN OUR PRAYERS.

Mike, our most heart felt sympathies to you and your family.... The Ruggiero Family

What an amazing life Mr. Oxley led! I spent a lot summers at Monmouth Day camp and have great memories. I loved how Mr. Oxley got in the pool and told us " Swim to me... Swim to me" when we didnt believe we could.. but because he believed in us, we did! He always had a smile on his face. I'm so sorry for your loss.

Im so sorry to hear of your loss. I know how hard things have been for all of you. Your dad will truly be missed. Taylor Lane will never be the same!

My deepest sympathy to the Oxley family. May he rest in peace.

Uncle Joe always made camp such a happy place. As a child, the drive from Oakhurst to Middletown felt like an eternity, but it was worth it! He will be dearly missed. My condolences go out to the entire Oxley family.

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998

My Condolences to the Oxley Family. I loved coming to summer camp and seeing Mr. Oxley's smile greeting us every morning when we reached camp. He was the best Football Coach that Raritan had. He will be missed deeply.

My condolences to Joe's family. I taught with him for many years at Raritan High School and also worked at his camp one summer. Good times all around. He will be truly missed. You are all in my prayers.

I had Coach Oxley for Civics my Freshman year at Raritan High. As he encouraged discussions in class, I learned more about the government and society at the time we were living in. Coach, you will be missed. There are many people who have been taught to think because of you.

My deepest sympathies to all those in the Oxley family and his huge circle of friends. He was one very very special person and touched the lives of all he came in contact with. I will always remember his patience in class and his encouragement on the ball field. Beautiful person indeed.

I had Mr. Oxley my junior and senior year at Raritan....Had a blast both years....My prayers go out to his family and may he rest in peace

JOE OXLEY WAS A AWSOME MAN.WE HAD GREAT TIMES IN FOOTBALL PRACTICE AND IN THE HISTORY CLASS ROOM.GOD BLESS YOU JOE.AND ALWAYS THE "45 POWER" JIM BESLANOVITZ

I am so sorry to the family and friend's of Mr. Joseph Oxley. You will be missed by all who loved and respected you. Thank you for all that you have given to us.
Catherine Luttrell, Hazlet, New Jersey

Mr Oxley was a kind man who taught us all sometihng. I loved camp as a kid and the time we spent with his family all those summers ago. My Condolences to Ann Marie, Joe, Michael, Barrett, and John and the entire Oxley family.

He is responsible for many of my kids best summer memories and lifes lessons - our families deepest condolences for the loss of a great man! You are all in our prayers...The Regine Family

Coach Oxley was a REAL GOOD Man who I had the pleasure of playing football for in 1973-1974 at Raritan HS.You may as well stick to your game plan in Heaven Coach. My thoughts and prayers go out to the entire Oxley Family.

Sincere condolences to the Oxley family. I taught with Joe at Raritan High School. I will always remember his kindness and encouragement...Donna Laslo & Family

This man was the salt of the earth. As good a soul as they come. I will miss you greatly and I will always remember you for the lessons you taught me as well as my children. Rest in peace.

My heartfelt condolences to the Oxley family and all those lives touched by Mr. Oxley...Jim Courtney & Family