Joseph Paterak

Joseph Paterak obituary, Worcester, MA

Joseph Paterak

Joseph Paterak Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Mar. 5, 2025.
Joseph P. Paterak, 63 of Sturbridge MA passed away, succumbing to cancer and its complications on February 9, 2025 at Rose Monahan Hospice House in Worcester MA.

Joe was the fifth of six children. He was predeceased by his parents Stanley Paterak and Bernice "Bunny" [Turcotte] Paterak. Growing up in Shrewsbury, Joe began attracting people into to his magnetic orbit, most becoming lifelong friends. He began his career early at Worcester Gear Works, learning on-the-job to be a machinist, following in the footsteps of his older brothers and father. Joe's career was built over a span of years from 1986 to his retirement in 2023 with Aaron Environmental in Plantsville, CT. During his time there, he established long-term relationships, numerous friendships with co-workers, the original owners of the business and his clients throughout New England.

Joe was best known for being a warm, conversational, energetic and charismatic person to all that encountered him, he was always the life of the party. He loved to laugh. For over 55 years The camp has been the hub of the family. In 1969- 70 Joe's dad along with relatives and friends literally raised the roof of a small log cabin on the shores of a lake in Maine. It was there that Joe's curiosity and predilection for being in nature was most at home. This home away from home is where the strong family ties and time spent with his sisters, brothers, nieces, nephews and a cousin who had a place across the lake, were all nurtured with adventures, fishing trips, swimming, sailing, card games and more.

His inquisitiveness and talkativeness was infectious. Outside of work Joe had a multitude of interests, most notably he was an avid mechanic and loved to grow things. In his youth his interests were photography, motorcycles, cars, hiking/biking and being with friends and family. He had a bit of wanderlust as long as wheels or a motorboat were part of the equation. He regularly fixed, built or renovated most everything in his world. Later in life he turned to mountain biking, kayaking, walking and turning wooden bowls. He had retired the last summer, bought a new kayak and started to make some furniture, such as his river table.

Joe was beloved by countless friends and will be immensely missed by many. Among his best friends are his sisters and brothers. He leaves behind five siblings Elaine Sellig and husband John of West Springfield, Richard Paterak of Caledon East, Ontario, Canada, John Paterak of Spencer MA, Judy Maloney and husband Michael of Hillsborough NC, Jeanne Paterak and husband Keith Fitzgerald of Portland Maine. Joe's closest cousin, his six nieces and three nephews all loved the fun and laughs he brought to every occasion and adventure, all spending meaningful time with him over decades. He will be missed by all.

The family is especially grateful to his sister Judy and her husband Mike for their companionship and care of Joe over this past 14 months when he lost his independence to a major stroke following a surgery related to his cancer. This past year the adage "It is not how you count the days, but how you make the days count" came to life with some laughter, and joy along the way.

Joe's family is grateful to his long time friend and companion, Noreen Mahan for spending time with Joe last summer in Maine. A familiar comfort that was most welcome and appreciated. The family would also like to thank the staff at Rose Monahan in Worcester, MA for keeping him comfortable in his last weeks.

There will be a celebration of life in Worcester this Spring. In lieu of flowers please send donations in his memory to Hidden Valley Nature Center at Midcoast Conservancy PO Box 439 Edgecomb, ME 04556

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John Kessler

May 4, 2025

I will treasure my time working with Joe over the last 5 years of his working career. I will always be jealous of his many talents and I will miss his unique and infectious personality. My sympathies go out to his family and friends, of which there was many.

Shawn Seymour

March 20, 2025

I enjoyed the times in Maine seeing Joe whenever I would go over and visit Aunt Bunny at the camp and Joe would happen to be up there. Joe and I would talk cars and compare times from Gardner to camp on the backroads...and of course, how fast we could get from home to camp! RIP Joe and sorry for everyone´s loss in the family.

Sherry May-Gaspar

March 7, 2025

I am SO very sorry for everyone 's loss. I enjoyed hanging out with Joe, and other neighbor's, as teenagers. Hoping he can now rest in peace.

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