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Marina & Joseph Virgadula
December 9, 2024
Dear Marie and family members, Our deepest condolences. Joe was an incredible man with such a love for Middletown and all its citizens. May he rest in peace. With sympathies,
Doug Bransfield
December 8, 2024
My condolences to the Serra family on the loss of Mr. Serra. He was the heartbeat of Middletown. May he rest in peace
Claire Janowski
December 6, 2024
Dearest Marie & Family,
My heartfelt sympathy goes out to you and your family on your tremendous loss.
I will always remember Joe and feel fortunate to have known him as a mentor colleague and trusted friend. Sitting at the back row next to Joe in the Chamber for many years, I learned a great deal about diplomacy and patience with the legislative process from Joe. He had great humor and a unique gift for gab, often shariing fond stories about your wonderful family especialy the grandchildren.
His enthusiasm and welcoming nature for all things Middletown is contagious and i will always remember the two as inseparable.
Joe made a difference. He will be missed and will always be remembered in the hearts of all those who knew him.
Claire Janowski
Vernon, CT
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Bob and Barbara Sweeney
December 6, 2024
Dear Marie and family,
We send our sincere condolences on the loss of your beloved Joe. Through all we have learned from those in our family who were close to him, his dedication to his family and public service to the community are truly inspiring. May you be comforted by your memories as you join with so many others whose lives he touched to celebrate his wonderful life.
Bob and Barbara
Cindy Topazio
December 5, 2024
Marie I am so very sorry for the loss of your loving husband Joe. I really can´t express my feelings for you and your family.Joe will always be remembered as a kind and loving man.
May wonderful memories console you Marie. I always remember you as kind hearted and very loving. I truly believe you two were soul mates. Know that you are in my prayers and your children also. Rest in Peace Joe amongst all the Angels.
Much Love, Cindy Topazio Jagoda.
Alfredo & Paulette
December 5, 2024
Marie & Family
We are deeply sorry to hear about the passing of Joe. May happy memories bring you and your family comfort during this difficult time.
Alfredo & Paulette
Jack Botti & Family
December 4, 2024
To the Serra Family,
So sorry to hear about the passing of Joe, he was a good man who did so much for his family, friends and the Middletown Community. Please accept our deepest condolences.
Richard Uliano
December 4, 2024
Marie and family - So sorry to hear of Joe´s passing. Growing up together in the north end and going to Macdonough thru Middletown High School and then working for the City of Middletown for our careers was great. It was an honor and a pleasure to have known Joe my entire life. May he now rest in peace.
Carol LaRosa Cambareri
December 4, 2024
So sorry to hear about Joes passing. We missed him this year at our MHS reunion. He was one of the "good guys". God bless you and your family and RIP Joe.
John lemire
December 4, 2024
He was a great man///We had some ties though uncle Don and other family's /God Bless the Family/jjohn lemire
Johanna Kerr
December 4, 2024
Dear Marie and family: I'm saddened and heart-broken to hear of Joe's passing. He was my neighbor and friend for many years on High St. and even after he left the neighborhood, he always "watched over it". I had the pleasure of knowing Joe and will always remember his dedication to the community, as well as a loving husband, father and grandfather. He will be sorely missed by all who knew and loved him. May you find comfort in beautiful memories of Joe and keep them in your hearts and thoughts aways. RIP dear friend Joe and may you be at peace with your loved ones and the Angels in Heaven.
My deepest sympathy, caring and prayers,
Johanna (Turro) Kerr
Mercy High School: Middletown, CT
December 4, 2024
On behalf of the Mercy High School community, we offer our deepest sympathy to the family and friends of Mr. Joe Serra, beloved father of Lauriann '89 and Lisa '95. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. We are very sorry for your loss.
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Gerry Daley
December 4, 2024
To many who knew him, Joe Serra was Middletown. Without a doubt, there has never been anyone who loved Middletown more than he did. I am fortunate to have known Joe for more than 55 years and to have been his good friend. I will always admire his public service, his public acumen, his pride in his heritage, his generosity to his large circle of friends, and most of all his dedication and love for his family. Marie and his family have suffered a huge loss and hopefully will be comforted by the wonderful memories they have. Diane and I will cherish our memories of Joe and we know he must be organizing a great get together and sharing some good stories with his many family and good buddies who passed away before him.
Len Messina
December 3, 2024
Joe was quite a man. He never stopped learning and serving his community. A proud Italian-American and the embodiment of service over self. The Serra mold, shared by his brother Tom, is one to be emulated. Both were the best of leaders and role models. My sympathies to all who knew them.
Dick Zions an family
December 3, 2024
He was a great friend an neighbor.He was always there when needed.may he rest in peace.
Jay B. Levin
December 3, 2024
One of the finest men I will ever know. He introduced me to Cantina & was a consistent supporter of mine throughout my political career. He was a wise counselor & an amazing human being. You could not help but love him.
Sal and Leslie Spatola
December 3, 2024
Our deepest condolences to Marie and the Serra family. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers at this time and we are sincerely sorry for your loss.
John Robinson
December 3, 2024
Rest in Peace Brother Joe..I have so many fond memories of you growing up in Middletown and my journey with Public service..thanks for being there for me in so many ways..I miss you and will forever remember our friendship..
May the good Lord be with Marie and the family at such a time as this..
Lou Torelli
December 3, 2024
Very sincere condolences to Marie, Lauriann, and the entire Serra clan. I will always remember his smile, quick wit, and his sincere kindness to others. Joe will be missed by the City of Middletown, the construction industry, the Italian community and all who came into contact with him. Rest in Peace my friend.
Lou Torelli
Durham
Francine Hegel
December 3, 2024
My sincere condolences to the Serra family! Growing up on High Street across the street from Joe snd and a good friend of Joe's sister, Joy, I spent a lot of time at the Serra house. I would often be invited to dinner or picnics. He used to tease me alot as did Tommy! We had alot of laughs!
Rest in Peace Joe!
Ruth Scotti Greene
December 3, 2024
Marie and family. I was so sorry to hear of Joe's passing. You are in my thoughts and prayers
Debra Serra-Dinneen
December 3, 2024
Im heart broken about The passing of my cousin Joe Serra . Joe has left an unfillable void. His remarkable legacy of kindness, compassion, and generosity will be deeply missed by Me And future generations, who will unfortunately not have the benefit of his guidance and wisdom. Joe's selflessness and willingness to help those in need, regardless of their background or circumstances, were truly inspiring, and his ability to bring people together and find solutions to problems was unparalleled. My heart goes out to his wonderful wife, Marie, who was not only his partner in life but also his rock and confidante, and who has always been there for me, facilitating communication with Joe whenever I needed his advice or guidance.
Joe and Marie exemplify the ultimate power-loving couple, and I feel grateful to have them in my life as family. While Joe wasn't my go-to person for every situation, I could always count on him when I needed help. During a power outage at my dad's house, caused by a transformer pole blocking the street, my elderly father found himself unable to access alternative accommodations. Despite my efforts to find assistance, I was informed that he had been placed on a waiting list. After reaching out to Joe, I had a brief conversation with Marie before she handed the phone over to Joe. He expressed his disappointment in not being contacted sooner but quickly took charge and resolved the situation, ensuring my dad received the necessary support.
He will be deeply missed and forever loved. For years to come, he will be fondly remembered. I couldn't go anywhere in town without people asking if I was related to Joe and Tommy, and I proudly acknowledged them as my cousins. They embodied unconditional love and acceptance, never judging others. It was impossible to mention one brother without referencing the other, as they were inseparable. Now, I take comfort in knowing they are reunited in heaven, where Tommy has undoubtedly enlisted his help. I'm confident they continue to spread love and kindness as angels. As I write this, I am overcome with emotion. Marie, my heart goes out to you and your children. Words cannot express my condolences. I am deeply sorry he had to leave you, but I am reassured that his presence is needed in heaven. God bless you, Marie, for sharing the love of your life with the world. You both have made a profound impact through your selfless works.
Mark Davis
December 3, 2024
Joe and Tom were my "go to" guys for all things Middletown. They both helped me many, many times over the years. Thank you Joe and sincerest condolences to your entire family.
Tony Milardo
December 2, 2024
I´m saddened on the passing of my friend Joe. My deepest condolences to Marie and the whole Serra family ! May he RIP!
Ben Forson
December 2, 2024
I called him the BOSS.
Mr Joe Serra had an incredible ability to inspire and empower those around him. A very generous man with a good heart.
I learned a lot from him. My thoughts are with his family
Anthony R. Lancia Jr.
December 2, 2024
My Deepest Condolences to the Serra family.
Joe was a gracious and respectful gentlemen that I'm proud to have know and call friend and family for many years.
He shared his wealth of knowledge and compassion for community and for all those he served.
Always one to share a history lesson, story of family and friends and a sincere desire to go out of his way to say hello to all.
You will be greatly missed sir.
Your legacy will live on for many years to come.
Anthony R. Lancia, Jr.
Terry ORourke
December 2, 2024
Joe you are a good man. Old school always to ot back to you straight shooter something lacking today rip To his wife and family sorry for your loss say hi to my dad old school
Maria Erdman
December 2, 2024
I'm so sad to learn of my Godfather and Cousin Joey's passing. I've missed seeing him around town and always telling me family stories and our history. Sending our condolences and hugs to all. Maria & Cheech.
Dorothy Marino
December 2, 2024
Marie and family.. Rich and I were saddened to hear of Joe's passing. May he rest in peace.
Deepest sympathies
Rich and Dorrie
John Vigneri
December 2, 2024
I am so very sorry about the loss of Mr. Serra. My deepest prayers, sympathies and condolences to his entire family. Anytime I was blessed to run into Mr. Serra anywhere in the greater Middletown area, he always made me feel like I was part of his family and he would share great stories of my grandfather and my uncle down in the north end and even some from Westfield.
Once again, I am so sorry. He will be very deeply missed.
Maryann Serra
December 2, 2024
Joe was the Patriarch of our family after his dad Connie P. Serra passed away. When his brother Thomas J.Serra passed away, we often turned to him for guidance and advice.
Our sadness cannot be expressed in words. He was a special, hard working man that had a great passion for family first and then community and church (St. Sebastian).
The community and world is a lesser place without him.
We love you, Joe! We will forever miss you. You have left a great void in our lives as a "brother" to me and an Uncle/ Godfather to my sons, Jason Thomas Serra and Christopher Paul Serra and our grandchildren: Luca, Marco, Matteo, Brayden and Caylee.
You are with your brother and parents now until we meet again.
Maryann (Thomas J.) Serra
Richard O'Rourke
December 2, 2024
RIP Joe
John & Deb Milardo
December 2, 2024
Marie. Deb and I send our condolences to you and your family. Joe was a friend and good man. He will be missed by many. Rest in peace.
Family friend
December 2, 2024
Mr. Serra (Joe) was someone you could trust and count on, and who always made you feel welcome. A wonderful person who made things better for others.
Jeffrey Berger
December 2, 2024
Joe will always be revered as a true champion of
The people and a passionate believer in his Italian American culture and heritage . From celebrations of St Josephs Day at the Capitol to all of the many functions related to the Italian American Caucas and to his legislative priorities ,Joe was a proven,effective leader. God bless your family,God bless you Joe. The state of
Connecticut will not be the same without your guiding light.
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