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Mark Benetatos
December 9, 2024
You are missed Josh. Thinking of you today. RIP my friend. God Bless.
Mark Benetatos
Hank Pellerin/ Carole Woodard
December 11, 2023
In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.
Mark Benetatos
December 9, 2023
Thinking of you today Josh. Miss you. Prays sent your way. RIP my friend.
Mark Benetatos
Hank and family
December 10, 2022
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
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J Lee
December 10, 2022
I pray for you and your family, especially during this time of year. May you find comfort and strength.
A Holy Cross Mom
Hank Pellerin&Family
December 9, 2020
In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.
December 9, 2019
Thinking of you and your family this day and praying that your hearts are filled with hope, peace and love. I pray that Josh is at eternal rest within the beatific vision. A Holy Cross mom
September 20, 2016
Joshua will be rembered this Saturday at the 8:30 AM Mass at St. John Church, Darien, CT. God is faithful and joy does come again in the morning. Blessings to you from the Wilks family.
January 8, 2016
We have a freshman son at Holy Cross and our whole family was deeply saddened to hear of Joshua's passing. Please know that Joshua and your family are in our prayers.
We also have enrolled Joshua in the Mass Association of the Capuchin Franciscan Friars of the Providence of the Sacred Stigmata. Joshua will be remembered in each of the works of mercy and daily prayers by the Friars.
God bless, The Russell Family, Tampa, FL
December 25, 2015
Thinking of you and your family on this day. My prayer for you is that you can find some peace and comfort today, the day that light came into the world. Your suffering must be immense but know that so many others are sharing the load with you and praying for you. May God bless you now and forever.
A Holy Cross Mom
December 22, 2015
As parents of a Holy Cross freshman, our hearts ache for your loss, and we lift you and hold you in prayer. We pray that the love of God will enfold you and sustain you.
December 21, 2015
My son is a sophmore at Holy Cross , I will keep your family in my thoughts and prayers in this most difficult time. With deepest sympathy a holy Cross Mom
Jack Healey
December 21, 2015
My deepest sympathies go out to Josh's family.
Andrea and John Tieso
December 20, 2015
Our deepest sympathy to you and your family. We are a Holy Cross family with a freshman son who knew Josh. We have had your family in our hearts and prayers since hearing of Joshua's tragic passing. He was a special and kind young man who touched many with his gifts. May his wonderful light shine on you forever.
Holy Cross Professor
December 20, 2015
Writing here to let you know that the entire community at Holy Cross is mourning Joshua's passing, including those like me who did not yet get to know him, but are finding out now what an incredibly talented and kind young scholar we have lost. Sending heartfelt condolences from all of us.
December 20, 2015
Kelly, Roger, MaryFrances. Linda and I are so sorry for the loss of your son, grandson. Our hearts go out to you and your family. Our faith guides us in this time. God Bless you. Tom and Linda Sheehan, Scarborough, Maine
Lisa Ferolito
December 19, 2015
We are also a Holy Cross family. Our hearts go out to your family. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. Please take strength in all of the wonderful things Joshua accomplished in his short life and all of those he touched in such a positive way. May he rest in peace.
The Ferolito Family
December 19, 2015
Carole,Hank and family
Joan Genest
December 18, 2015
Our sincere and heartfelt condolences and sympathies to the family and loved ones of your Joshua. What a amazing young man! Rest easy now and God Bless you and yours...
Larry and Joanie O'Brien Genest and family xoxoxoxo
Gail Foust
December 18, 2015
Roger and Kelly, I couldn't make it home for the service tonight, but you were in my thoughts and prayers. I'm so sorry for your loss. Love Gail
Brogan Giffin
December 18, 2015
I actually went to shrewsbury mountain school during his year off. He was a kind hearted person.
Tommy Cannata
December 18, 2015
Mary Fran so sorry for your loss, what a wonderful soul he must have been......Josh, say hi to your Grandfather for me.........God Bless
December 18, 2015
We, and our freshman son at HC, have had your family in our thoughts and prayers constantly since hearing of the loss of your beautiful, talented son. We are heartbroken for you all. Please know that we are continuing to keep you close in our thoughts and prayers.
Holy Cross Parent
December 18, 2015
Kelly and family,
I cannot fathom what your pain must be at this time,but I want you to know that I am sending you love and prayers. My best memory of Josh was how he loved Lucas and would follow him around like a little puppy. He was the sweetest child and he seems to have always been that way. Please know that my heart is full of love for all of you.
Diane Northrop
December 17, 2015
I have been praying for your family ever since I heard the news about Joshua last Friday night from my daughter at Holy Cross. I am reaching out to you to offer my deepest sympathies. I am certain that there are thousands of Holy Cross students and their families, as well as faculty, staff and those in the Jesuit community who are lifting you up in prayer. Your loss has touched so many, and we all grieve with you. I pray that you find strength, peace and hope in the days ahead, and that you will be consoled in the knowledge that Josh will forever be held in God's loving arms. May God bless and keep you.
A Holy Cross mom and alum
Margaret Mascha
December 17, 2015
My daughter is a first year student at Holy Cross. We are all so saddened to hear of your son' s passing and are keeping your family in our deepest thoughts and prayers. You have the prayers of many. Joshua was such an extraordinary person.
A Holy Cross Mom in Cleveland
December 17, 2015
Please know this Holy Cross Mom of a freshman, whose son had not met Josh, has not stopped praying for Josh and your family. He sounded like a wonderful young man.
Michael and Karen-Sue Tarbell
December 17, 2015
Many years ago, Josh was in 3rd grade with our son, Zach. He helped Zach celebrate a Birthday by going to the great escape. He was the sweetest boy and so respectful. I knew way back then, this young boy would turn into an amazing man. Then I saw this man over the last 2 previous school years as he was a part of my childrens education. He volunteered to help with The girls on the run training. I feel blessed that he was a part of my childrens lives. I would on occasion substitute at SMS and he would always help me know what to do. He was a wonderful person. Your family will be in our prayers!!!
Kim de la Torre (Woods)
December 17, 2015
Kelly, I know we haven't seen each other in many years, but from my family to yours, we feel your sorrow and we are so sorry for your devastating loss.
Bruce Schmidt
December 17, 2015
Kelly, Roger,
Words can not express the heartfelt loss I am feeling as well as the entire Okemo family. Both of you as well as your family are in the thoughts and prayers of all of us as you go through this trying time. May Josh Rest in Peace.
The Schmidt Family
Holy Cross Parent
December 17, 2015
My sincere condolences for the loss of your beautiful son to you and your family. My daughter is a HC freshman and although we have never met you should know the loss of your son and bother is felt by so many, a tribute clearly to the great mark he made on those who were fortunate to know him. Please accept our deepest sympathy.
Deborah Kendrick
December 16, 2015
You do not know me, but I am a parent of a Holy Cross student in Joshua's year. Your son sounds like he was a wonderful individual. My thoughts and prayers have been with Joshua and your entire family since I heard the devastating news. I am so sorry for your loss.
Suzie Stanners
December 16, 2015
I didn't know Joshua, but heard of his passing from my son, his classmate at Holy Cross. May Joshua's beautiful soul rest in peace with the God who loved him into being, and may you be comforted by your countless happy memories of your wonderful son/brother.
Tammy Reynolds
December 16, 2015
Kelly,Roger and family I'm am so sorry for your loss , thinking of you all ❤
December 16, 2015
Our most sincere condolences go to you and your family. May fond memories sustain you now and forever.
From the Green Mountain Boys' State Family
Mark Benetatos
December 16, 2015
I will miss you Josh. You had an impact on my life, along with the ten players and coaches of your state championship basketball team, which you had such an influence on. Rest in Peace. Love ya,
December 16, 2015
Kelly and family,
Please accept our deepest sympathy.
Marty and Barb Notte
Sandy Carruth Eddy
December 16, 2015
Roger,Kelly,Mary Frances & Family, I'm sorry for your loss. May your memories of the wonderful times you shared with your loved one comfort you and your family, today and always.
December 16, 2015
My thoughts are with you and your family. I work at Holy Cross. I did not know Josh personally, but I can see how talented and caring a young man he was. I just wanted to express my deepest condolences.
-Holy Cross Staff Member
Calvin Foust
December 16, 2015
So sorry for your loss. Prayers!
Trish Crowley
December 16, 2015
The parents of the Holy Coss community are thinking of and praying for you . RIP Josh
Brian&Jennifer Rogers
December 16, 2015
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Mary Bride
December 16, 2015
Many prayers and Blessings to your family.
Chuck Laramie
December 16, 2015
Dear Kelly, Roger, Brendanm and Kiera,
My heart goes out to all of you. What a wonderful young man Josh was. Always kind and considerate. I don't think I ever heard him utter an angry word. Always a smile on his face and so mature for his years. I am thinking of you all at this time. I hope the memory of the kind, compassionate person Josh was comforts you during this time.
December 16, 2015
You do not know me personally, however, as a parent of a Holy Cross student, I thought it important to express my deepest condolences and relay what my daughter told me after hearing the sad news about your son. She explained how incredibly special it was that the chapel at Holy Cross was standing room only at a prayer service for Joshua. I hope the prayers of over 1000 students and faculty help to comfort you at this devastating time.
God bless,
A Holy Cross Mom
Roy and Amy Loomis
December 16, 2015
Roger, Kelly, Kiera and Brendon: may the love of your friends and family help carry you through your grief.Our thoughts and prayer are with you all.
Cecily and Wendell Powers
December 16, 2015
Dear Kelly and family,We are so sorry for your loss and will keep you in our thoughts and prayers.May happy memories give you comfort and peace in the days ahead.
Our much loved Junior Counselor leading his team of sled dogs.
Linda Hudson
December 15, 2015
The Camp Maple Leaf staff and many, many campers are absolutely heartbroken.
When we were looking for a new staff member 4 years ago, Hudson didn't hesitate to recommend his friend, Josh Pellerin.
Josh was not only smart and talented but he had a very giving spirit. He was a kind, soft-spoken, warm-hearted young man with a contagious smile.
Oh how we will all miss you Josh. Thank you for all that you gave to Camp Maple Leaf. You loved camp...and we all loved you.
Kate Roche
December 15, 2015
My most sincere condolences to the entire family. Words cannot express the sympathy I feel for each one of you. I only met Josh a few times but was so touched by his presence. What an amazing soul to lose. In God's kingdom now, as a blessed angel.
Jim & Nancy Ingalls
December 15, 2015
Kelly, Roger and family,
Our prayers and condolences go out to you during this time of sadness.
Courtney Hier
December 15, 2015
Kelly and family,
Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers. We are very sorry for you loss. Please let us know if we can help you out in anyway.
December 15, 2015
Dear Kelly and family;
Words can not express how very sad I am to hear about Josh. He was a remarkable young man that I had the pleasure of knowing. He received his angel wings way too early.
Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Carole Notte
December 15, 2015
Dear Kelly and Family
We are so sorry please know you all are in our thoughts and prayers.
Hank,Carole and family
Rutland
James & Charlotte Amstein
December 15, 2015
Oh, such sadness for you, your family and Josh's friends. Words can not say to you, our heartfelt sympathies for such a lost.
Julie Fahy
December 15, 2015
You don't know me, but I had to send my condolences for your loss. I am so very, very sorry. I can't even imagine what you are going through and the suffering and heartache that you are experiencing. My prayers are with you and your son.
Chelsy Cowherd
December 15, 2015
I am so sorry for your loss. If you need anything please don't hesitate to ask.
Kaylin Cowherd
December 15, 2015
I am so very sorry for your loss. You are all in my daily thoughts and prayers.
Lynn Pecor
December 15, 2015
My heart is breaking for you. I am so sorry.
Gail Foust
December 15, 2015
I am so sorry. Words cannot express what I know you all are feeling. Love Gail
Steve, Ann, Cian & Tristan
December 15, 2015
Love has no boundaries...you will always be in our thoughts and hearts. Love you, Josh
Aunt Lou (Lucy) Notte
December 15, 2015
Dear Kelly and family:
Please accept my sincere condolences at this difficult time. There are no words that will ease the pain. Josh was a good kid and was taken away way to young.
I will keep you all in my prayers.
Beth Merrill
December 15, 2015
I am so sorry for your loss. Josh was a kind, sensitive, patient and giving soul. He touched many many lives at camp and I will miss his incredible gift. May the family know at this difficult time he made a big difference in many lives.
Jennifer Severance
December 15, 2015
Kelly and Kiera- I am so sorry for your loss. Josh will be missed. I will be sending thoughts and prayers.
Todd & Regina Mason
December 15, 2015
We are so sorry for your loss, prayers and hugs!!
Michelle and Burton Burnett and family
December 15, 2015
Kelly, Roger and Kiera,
We are so very sorry for your loss. our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this time
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