Joyce S. Lenz

1930 - 2012

Joyce S. Lenz obituary, 1930-2012, Stratford, CT

Joyce S. Lenz

1930 - 2012

BORN

1930

DIED

2012

Joyce Lenz Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Apr. 26, 2012.
Joyce Payson Slavin Lenz 81, a former longtime resident of Stamford, born September 2, 1930 in Quincy, MA to John L. Payson, Jr. and Doris Barnes, left this world peacefully on Thursday April 26th, with her loving family, her adoring cats, Sassy and Percy and dog, Lolly, at her side. She spent her early years in Wollaston, MA and during the late thirties moved to Braintree where she graduated from Thayer Academy. Joyce then attended Colby College in New London, New Hampshire, majoring in English and Art. She attended Academy Modern in Boston where she trained professionally as a model.

Joyce moved to Norwalk with her family and later married Francis "Frank" Slavin from Stamford in 1954. Frank died in 1958 leaving Joyce with three young children and his business. Joyce became a licensed real estate and insurance broker and assumed and operated the Frank T. Slavin Agency for 7 years. She remarried several years later to the late Frederick P. Lenz, Jr., who later served on the Board of Representatives in Stamford's 1st District and became Mayor of Stamford from 1973-1975 when Joyce enjoyed her responsibilities as Stamford's First Lady.

Joyce continued her career in real estate and retired in the late nineties whereupon she moved to Stratford to be closer to her children. She took up oil painting and resumed writing poetry and enjoyed the company of her many lifelong friends, traveling and her annual family vacations.

Joyce was predeceased by a stepson, Frederick Lenz, III, and survived by her four children: Peter and his wife Ileana Barns-Slavin of Wilton, Daniel of Virginia Beach, Pamela DiMartino and her husband Joseph of Shelton and Lisa Arsenault of Stratford. In addition, she is survived by her six grandchildren Christopher, Dale, Kelly, Lauren, Zoe and Rachel; a brother John Payson, III of Norwalk and his wife Margrit; her niece Hope Payson and her partner Christeli of Barkhamstead and her nephew Jay C. Payson and his wife Alyssa of Altamonte Springs, FL.

The family will receive friends this Sunday, April 29, 4-7 p.m., followed by a funeral service on Monday at 11 a.m. to be held at the Leo P. Gallagher Funeral Home, 2900 Summer Street, Stamford. Interment will be held at Riverside Cemetery, 81 Riverside Avenue, Norwalk. In lieu of flowers, donations in Joyce's memory, may be made to Vitas Innovative Hospice Care, 99 Hawley Drive, Stratford, CT 06614. To leave a condolence, please visit www.leopgallagherstamford.com.

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May 16, 2012

Carla Payson posted to the memorial.

April 30, 2012

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April 29, 2012

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Carla Payson

May 16, 2012

Peter, Danny, Pam, Lisa, your spouses, and children, I was so sorry to hear of Joyce's passing. I have wonderful memories of our family gatherings over all of those years; she was a fun sister-in-law, wonderful sense of humor, great laugh, I can almost hear her now - she will be missed...I'm glad I had a chance recently to visit with her. My prayers to all of you. Love,

michelle tiganila

April 30, 2012

Dear Peter, Nona and Christopher we are very, very sorry of your painful loss, our thoughts and prayers are with you. Save the beautiful memories of your time together - those will allways be with you.

michelle, victor, alexis

April 29, 2012

Lisa, my heart goes out to you and your family, so does our prayers,i had a great time at the fire pit with you, glad i got to look in on your MOM for a last time,We love you,xoxo, The DeSousa's (me)

Anne Scollard

April 29, 2012

My dear friend Joyce, I will miss you and you will always be in my heart and prayers.Lord, help her family thru this difficult time.
Anne Scollard

Adrienne Rea

April 29, 2012

So saddened by Joyce's passing. She was such a beautiful lady. Growing up in Shippan with my 2 best friends Pam & Margaret, I felt like I had 3 Moms. We were always in one or another's home, and Joyce was always so kind and welcoming. I missed seeing her through the years, but she has always been in my thoughts and prayers. My prayers go now to her loving family in their time of grief. God Bless you, Adrienne (Petrilli) Rea

william lockwood

April 29, 2012

Lisa and family The lockwood Family sends there deepist sympathy to all of you!
Your mom was always so very nice to me I cant remember ever talking to her with out a big smile on her face.

Billy

April 28, 2012

Suzanne and I are so saddened to hear of our dear Aunt Joyce's passing. We so wish we could be there to help comfort the family. Aunt Joyce was a beautiful, intelligent and kind and she will be missed. Our love to cousins Peter, Danny, Pam and their husbands, wives and family. Tom and Suzanne.

April 27, 2012

Peter, Pat and I send our sympathy for your Mother's passing.
Our prayers are with you and your family.
God Bless you.
Tom and Pat McManus

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