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Judith Balansky Obituary
After graduating with her Associates Degree, Judy dedicated 49 years of her life as a phlebotomist at Wentworth-Douglass Hospital. Her commitment to healthcare and her compassion touched countless lives. She brightened the halls of the hospital with her handmade seasonal and holiday pins bringing smiles to patients and staff. Although she retired and moved south, she found a new passion working with children in the local schools.
She embraced life's joys, from cherished traditions like the annual Boston 4th of July celebration, to the deep bonds she shared with her beloved family and friends. Judy's warmth and kindness touched everyone she met.
Judy adored her grandchildren, attending their activities and baking cookies together, creating cherished memories. Her unwavering love and support left a lasting impact on each of them.
Judy is reunited in peace with her parents, Abraham and Shirley Kramer. She is survived by her devoted husband, Don Balansky, her loving children Haley Blanchard and her husband, Harry, Evan Balansky and his wife Denise, her adoring grandchildren Matthew, Morgan, Madison, Lily and Sydney and her dear brother Jeffry Kramer and his wife Ethel. She will be deeply missed and fondly remembered by all who knew her.
The family will be doing a private funeral service, however they invite you to join them in honoring her on May 17, 2024, between 4:00PM-8:00PM, in Edgewater Community, at 11234 Island View Lane, Lancaster, SC 29720. The family will also be planning a celebration of her life this summer, in the Boston area, details forthcoming. In lieu of flowers, we invite you to honor Judy's memory by contributing to the GoFundMe campaign established to support Don. Your donations will provide invaluable support during this difficult time for Don as he adjusts to life without Judy. Thank you for your compassion and generosity.
https://gofund.me/08b528d7
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vanessa elliott
May 7, 2025
Miss you my friend,
Vanessa
Ann Lak
May 7, 2025
RIP Judith!
Ann Lak
December 19, 2024
Remembering Judith´s smile and compassion for others.
Ethel Kramer
September 30, 2024
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Ann Lak
August 14, 2024
Judy was such a positive, caring person who was a skilled phlebotomist at WDH in Dover, NH. My sympathy to her family and friends. Judy will be greatly missed.
Connie Holden
May 17, 2024
Judy and I became part of a shared family when Evan and Denise married. She was a remarkable person, always vibrant and active. She lived her life with family and friends as a priority that brought her joy. I will always appreciate how she welcomed me into her home and family. She was a true friend that could never be replaced. I will cherish memories of time spent together including the many softball games that she loved to attend.
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May 16, 2024
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Carole Rasberry
May 16, 2024
Judy was my yoga buddy. Her and Don enjoyed coming to the Bunco event in Edgewater. We often shared the fun in participating the events at Edgewater. Will miss you my friend.
vanessa elliott
May 16, 2024
Vanessa and Bucky Elliott,
Don and family: We are so sad about Judy. She was a one of the kindest and big hearted person we knew. She trained me at WDH many, many years ago and gave me a career which I loved. I will never forget her and will always remember her as one of the greatest influencers in my life. We will see you all this summer. With much love and sadness,
Vanessa and Bucky
Mary OConnor
May 16, 2024
I will miss Judy. She was such a sweet and giving friend. Always willing to give a helping hand. We appreciated her baking brownies for our bake sale and The Witches dance will not be the same without her. We are Very sad that she is gone. Rest in Peace. Love, Mary O
Arnold Wensky
May 15, 2024
Don and family: I am so sorry to learn of Judy's passing. May the many happy memories help you cope with such a significant loss. My thoughts and prayers are with the Balansky Family.
Marla Hart
May 14, 2024
Yoga. Judy was so active in our community. She greeted everyone at meetings and gatherings. She was a genuine and kind person. She always made me smile.
Alice Brown
May 14, 2024
Judy was the sweetest person ,she will be missed so much .
RIP cousin. Love you .
Janet Gilbert
May 14, 2024
I have worked at the hospital since 1979 and I remember Judy so well. She always had a smile on her face and enjoyed her job and co-workers she will be so so missed RIP Judy
Stephanie Frank
May 14, 2024
I remember Judy safety-pinning someone's colorguard costume that had just ripped in the band room at DHS--I am thinking it must have been before the Band Show in 1994? She got things done, and she had a joyous big laugh. I am so sorry for your loss, Haley, Don, and Evan.
Denise Harrington
May 14, 2024
This is so sad. What a lovely person. I worked with her for many of those years at WDH. Always so pleasant and a great phlebotomist. She will be missed by many.
Suzy Schockett
May 14, 2024
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Suzy Schockett
May 14, 2024
Judy was one of the kindest most sincere people I have met. Her loss was such a shock, as her positive spirit was a presence at every community event. We met when she and Don moved to Edgewater in the spring of 2021. We shared common love of our New England sports teams. We shared holiday recipes, and always enjoyed a conversation. She passionately loved her family and friends, certainly she will be their guardian angel. Much love and support to Don and the family.
Darlene Desmarais
May 13, 2024
After retiring I came to Lancaster SC and reconnecting with Judy and meeting Don. I´m thankful for our times at the Y and sitting and having fun talks. We worked together at the hospital in NH also. It was a joy to see her. God bless the family at this time.
Darlene
May 13, 2024
Judy and I reconnected after we moved to S.C. five minutes from each other. I am thankful for the times we spent together and meeting Don. God bless the family at this time.
Mike Allen
May 13, 2024
My heart just aches hearing about Judy. She was like another Mom to me and she touched the lives of so many others. My heart goes out to the entire Balansky family. I love you all.
Linda Volz
May 13, 2024
Words cannot express what it feels like to lose someone you love. I am so sorry Don. You are being held in so many hearts. Judy was an exceptional and extraordinary woman who brought so much joy to so many. May her memory be a blessing.
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