Gayle Steffensen

1940 - 2020

Gayle Steffensen obituary, 1940-2020, Gilroy, CA

Gayle Steffensen

1940 - 2020

BORN

1940

DIED

2020

Gayle Steffensen Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Oct. 12, 2020.

With profound sadness we announce the passing of Gayle Steffensen our beloved Wife, Mom, Grandma, Gigi, Step-mother, Aunt and Sister.


After suffering a massive stroke and spending weeks in the hospital, she was finally brought home a week before her death. Gayle was lovingly surrounded by the love of her life, husband Clayton. Her son’s, Jeff, Robert, daughter Lisa and step daughter and son Judy and James.


Born in Detroit Michigan, she and her family moved to Gilroy where she was a resident for over 60 years and raised her children. She lived a full and wonderful life spending time with her family and friends. Gayle worked for the local newspapers over 26+ years where she made many friends and wonderful connections to the people of Gilroy. Gayle retired working at the Gilroy Chamber of Commerce, when she married her husband Clayton and moved down south to the Van Nuys area to be with him and Clayton’s son James while still staying connected to the Gilroy community.


Gayle’s volunteering/committee work included  Bonanza Day Parades, Chamber of Commerce


(also Voted Volunteer of the Year), Garlic Festival (as Co- Chair and Chair), Leadership Gilroy (2nd class of Leadership back in 1989), and many more. She treated everyone she met with respect and often included people whose family lived far away in her family dinners and holidays.


Gayle had a strong faith in God and belonged to both Gilroy Presbyterian and Encino Presbyterian churches where she held many positions and helped on many committees. She loved crafting and many of her family and friends spent time around her table enjoying creating new things, chatting and laughing. She also loved decorating and re-imagining her space, always with an eye to making her home more beautiful, comfortable and functional for her family. During her years with Clayton both the Gilroy house and the Van Nuys house benefited from her vision and her deep love of family and home. She enjoyed traveling and adventures big and small. Her family will continue on with her bucket list of places she wanted to visit.


She leaves behind her Husband of 20 years Clayton Steffensen and her Children, Jeff (Sue) Jeske, Robert Jeske, and Lisa Cantu. She was known as Grandma to Alec Jeske, Dustin (Bri) Jeske, Jordan Jeske, Kaylee (Nick) Arnold, Jacob (Alysha) Cantu and Kali (Christian) Lundeen. Along with 3 little ones who called her Gigi, Noah and Olivia Jeske and Brixton Cantu. She was a Bonus mom to James Steffensen and Judy Hutchinson. Sister to Edward (Nancy) Sanders ll of Georgia and Aunt to many nieces and nephews. Lastly her beloved rescue dog Toby who was her cuddle buddy.


A celebration will be planned at a date in the future in both Gilroy and Van Nuys.

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October 19, 2020

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October 16, 2020

Michelle Costa posted to the memorial.

October 13, 2020

Christine Smith posted to the memorial.

6 Entries

Tracy Saliefendic

October 19, 2020

Sympathy Gift courtesy of Tracy Saliefendic. Group of 10 Memorial Trees Planted In Loving Memory of Gayle Steffensen.

Michelle Costa

October 16, 2020

I met Gayle in the 80’s while I was working for the City of Gilroy; we worked together on the Super Heroes Parade and other community events over several years. Her photo perfectly represents how she was every time we crossed paths-smiling and always so upbeat. My sincerest sympathy to all of her family and friends. She was a great lady.

Christine Smith

October 13, 2020

From: Christine Smith
with sympathy
and Condolences

To Gayle’s Family,
I have known Gayle since 2007.
We had just joined FPCE, Encino.
We started working together at
that Time on a three-year Initiative.
We planned workshops, meetings, and
guided the development of the church’s
mission, vision, and visions for a full
future for Encino. She will be sorely
missed, her Smile, and Joy of Living.
I wrote a poem for her and sent
it to her Van Nuys and Gilroy Families.
My Memory of Gayle
" A Tribute to Gayle’s Life
September 29, 2020 "
Included was a copy of the Hymn
the poem is based upon,
Take my Life and Let it Be
Consecrated Lord, to Thee.

Tom La Fountain

October 13, 2020

Jeff, Robbie, and Lisa, and family,
We were so sad to hear of aunt Gayles passing. We will always cherish the memories of our times together! Her laugh, her smile, and her love for all will always hold a special place in our hearts.
Thinking about all of you during these difficult times.
Love and prayers.
Tom and Nancy

Cindy Courter

October 13, 2020

My deepest sympathies to all of you. I know you'll miss her so much...so will I. Prayers for your hurting hearts.

Edward Sanders II

October 12, 2020

Because of the many many miles my Beloved Sister and I could not have the close loving relationship that both of us would have preferred. Nonetheless my Heart aches with her loss to us here on earth. But, I am so glad that as well as being my flesh and blood sister, at the same time Gayle was my Sister In Christ, therefore I am looking forward to our reunion in Heaven one day. My heart goes out to all of my sister’s California friends and family.

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