Judith S. PHENEGER

Wishing you much strength at this time.

Rodrick

For some reason, one of the most distinct memories I have with Aunt Judy will be sitting with her on my brother Joel's bed many years ago. I don't really remember what we were doing, what we had just finished doing, or even what we were talking about. But I know that I was with Aunt Judy. And I hold those kinds of memories of us together, closest to my heart. I will always cherish the last time I was able to visit with Aunt Judy, and Uncle Mike. It was such a blessing that I was able to sit and visit with them in such a special way, and also to share that with Rachael. We both left their home with a certain smile that can't quite be replicated any other way. Watching them wave us goodbye as we drove onward in our drive through Florida. I remember both of us looking at each other and saying "what a cool lady". It might seem like a funny thing to think, but it's absolutely the truth. Aunt Judy will always hold a very special place in my heart, and even though the memories I have with her are few in number, they are treasured beyond measure.

Dear Mike and Family,
Even though miles separate us, my thoughts and prayers continue to be with you for the days ahead, as they have in these past months and days. However, the wonderful memories during our school years and reunions will linger for ever.
Sincerely
Diane (Roth) Perry

Things I learned from my aunt Judy:

1) Bacon & peanut butter taste GREAT on an English muffin 2) It takes purposeful attention and grace to remember and actually send a card on time for EVERY birthday 3) Even good handwriting can always be improved with a straightedge guide 4) Haribo gummy bears, Toblerone chocolate and oranges taste even better when sent from Florida with love. 5) Christmas wrapping is as much a part of the gift as the item itself 6) Gin Rummy is a really fun game. But Bridge is better if you take the time to learn it (I sadly, never did) 7) "MOTHER" can be a term of endearment and exasperation all at the same time 7) Florida vacations are even more special when you get to see your favorite aunt.
It saddens my heart that you are gone, but I am so glad I got to tell you that I loved you one last time, and I look forward to that glorious day in Heaven when I can see you again. With all my love,