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Justin Seto Obituary
Justin's fascination for technology began early. By the mid-1990s, he was among the pioneering developers of a social networking site, laying the foundation for today's online platforms. His career flourished as he became the Director of Technology at Intellis, where he led transformative software projects. His work significantly impacted the New York City Department of Education, Housing Authority, Public Library, and various healthcare and childcare technology infrastructures. Known for his patience and determination, Justin was a mentor and inspiration to his colleagues.
Beyond his professional achievements, Justin was a devoted family man. He shared his love for sports and the outdoors with his sons, often cycling, crabbing, or enjoying a game. An extraordinary chef, Justin's culinary skills were celebrated by friends and family, making his kitchen a place of joy and togetherness.
Justin is survived by his loving wife of 26 years, Stephanie (Blum) Seto, and his sons, Alexander D. Seto and Zachary H. Seto. He leaves behind his seven sisters: Karen Leung, Pauline Ho, Theresa Lee, Annie Teo, Betty Lau, Teren Seto, and Marilyn Seto. He also leaves his mother-in-law, Ronnie Blum and sister-in-law, Jennifer Blum. He was predeceased by his parents, Kent and Kam-Soo Seto.
A Chinese wake will be held at Wah Wing Sang Funeral Home, 26 Mulberry Street, New York, NY, on Sunday, December 8, 2024, between the hours of 9 a.m. to 12 p.m., with a memorial reception immediately following at 1:00 p.m. at the Seto home. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the American Heart Association (heart.org), UNICEF (unicefusa.org), or the World Central Kitchen (wck.org).
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Clifford Slater
December 13, 2024
Wendy Margulies
December 9, 2024
Justin was never halfway on anything. He gave his time to friends with a generosity that was rare. Listened with his whole heart open, and was fully present. I can´t think of a time when he was not a good friend. One of a kind. I´ll miss him always.
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Patrick Regan
December 9, 2024
I will always remember Justin as the kid I cut school with and did nothing but ride the subway.
Jennifer and Keith Hentel
December 8, 2024
We are so sorry for your loss. We admired how involved, playful and loving Justin was with the boys on the beach over the years. May his memories serve as blessings during this very difficult time.
Hilary Meyers & Harry Weinerman
December 8, 2024
Our hearts are heavy with sadness for the Seto/Blum family as you navigate without your beloved Justin. We did not know Justin well, but even in casual interactions at Beach Park he exuded kindness and warmth...and his way with Alex and Zac was heartwarming, as they tossed around a ball or a Frisbee down on the sand. We extend our deepest condolences at this challenging time when you feel acute sorrow and stunning grief. We all mourn Justin's untimely passing.
In sympathy,
Hilary Meyers, Harry Weinerman and family
Judy Grosz
December 8, 2024
A beautiful person has left this world. One of my summer pleasures was sharing my herb garden with Justin. As soon as the basil was ready to pick, I told my sweet neighbor that it was there for him knowing he would be putting it to good use as a talented chef. I am devastated by his loss. Sending love and prayers for strength to Stephanie, Alex and Zach and Ronnie.
Malcolm & Florence Graff, Dori Graff & Seth Leibowitz
December 8, 2024
The Beach Park Graff family are very saddened by the loss of Justin at such an early age. We wish you well and as you recover from his untimely death.
Sonya and Jim Masur
December 8, 2024
Sending Deepest sympathies and condolences to you Stephanie, the boys and the whole Seto/Blum family. We have beautiful memories of all of you at Beach Park, playing together at the beach, pool and tennis courts. It was so evident how close your family is. We can feel the shock wave and are sending lots of love and prayers to all.
xoxo Sonya and Jim Masur
Jessica Zachs
December 7, 2024
Always loved seeing Justin, Stephanie, and "the boys" on the beach. The close family relationships were always evident. The Zachs family sends our love and support.
Claire Grayston
December 7, 2024
Justin was such a positive and easy-going person, he was an all round great guy and it was fun to be around him!! We were lucky to get to know Justin after we moved to New York 2 1/2 years ago when we joined in the fun of the Games Group. It is hard to fathom that he is gone, we are devastated and we will miss him. Deepest sympathy to Stephanie, the boys and the whole family. Claire Grayston and Cameron Edwards
Shereen Edelson
December 6, 2024
Stephanie and Family, We are so very sorry for your loss. We hope happy memories of Justin help to sustain you at this most difficult time. Shereen Edelson and Arnold Menchel
Monica Ramos
December 6, 2024
I first met Justin in MA the summer of '86 while he was at Tufts. I was in Boston for a dance program that summer and my classmates and I went into a Haagen Dazs in Cambridge where Justin was working. While my friends were chatting away with his co-worker, Justin just kept on working away. Dedicated and responsible. We starting talking a bit and became friends hanging out that summer and a bit less once the fall session resumed. I too remember the yellow coat!
After I moved back to California, Justin called one day to say hello and said he wanted to visit LA as he had never been here. My family, friends and I welcomed him for a week, and to no surprise, he was beloved by all.
The last time I saw him in person, was in NY and my sister and I met up with him and Stephanie. They had just gotten engaged! It was great to meet her and to see them so happy. I regret not ever seeing him again in person, but we remained friends on facebook and I knew "he was there". It was always a joy to see a "like" from him or a posted comment with him mentioned.
I'm heartbroken about his passing, but I have nothing but the fondest and happiest of memories of him. May his infectious smile remain forever in the hearts and minds of all who knew him.
Sending heartfelt condolences to his entire family and friends.
Senem Zeytinoglu Saydam
December 6, 2024
My sincerest condolences for you at this time.
Alisa Vlahakis Povenmire
December 5, 2024
I'm so sad to hear of Justin's passing. I knew him Sophmore year at Tufts- and just remember him as such a joyful person who loved to dance! My heart goes out to his family and friends- I'm so sorry for your loss. - Alisa
Adam Felber
December 5, 2024
I´m so sorry to hear this. Justin was one of the first people I met at Tufts, when I briefly joined the Ultimate Frisbee team.
Fun fact: Before we settled on the name "The E-men," the team was briefly known as "Justin´s Jokers!"
After our first day of practice, I was super tired. Spent, panting as I lay on the grass. Clearly not in Ultimate shape! But I´d made a few nice passes, and Justin, ever encouraging, quickly gave me a nickname: "Slingshot." Although I soon left the team as other commitments piled up, I kind of wish that nickname had followed me!
I remember Justin mostly because of his kindness and his enthusiasm, both of which flowed from him so obviously and easily. My deepest condolences to all who knew him.
Barbara Segaloff
December 5, 2024
Barbara and Jim Segaloff and Beth Segaloff extend their condolences to the Seto and Blum families. May Justin's memory be for a blessing.
Patrisha Zabrycki
December 5, 2024
I am deeply saddened by Justin's passing. While I didn't work closely with him, I have fond memories of the time we spent in our shared office space before the pandemic.
Justin's warm energy and quiet humor could light up the entire room. I remember fondly a Fall afternoon in 2019 when a group of us huddled around his desk, laughing as we explored the quirky details of a new ramen restaurant nearby. Justin's curiosity and enthusiasm turned something as simple as a lunch idea into a moment of genuine joy and connection. His ability to bring people together with his stories-especially about his cooking adventures-was a gift to everyone around him.
Justin had a way of making even the most introverted among us feel at ease (speaking from experience). He was patient, kind, and always ready, with a calm, thoughtful response to even the most random office questions.
To his family and loved ones, please accept my heartfelt condolences. I hope you find some comfort in knowing how deeply Justin's warmth and kindness touched everyone around him. He will be greatly missed.
With sympathy,
Patrisha Z
Anna Warburton
December 5, 2024
Such fond memories of long ago in NYC. Justin was always smiling, friendly and good fun. I am so sorry for this heavy loss. Anna
Sally Skidmore
December 5, 2024
Justin was among the sweetest, kindest, coolest people we've ever had the privilege of knowing. The Skidmores and South Elliott Place miss his special energy.
Cory Zapatka
December 5, 2024
We had the great pleasure of living next to the Justin and the Seto family for a number of years. Even though we were transient, Justin welcomed us to the block and made us feel at home. Nearly every time I would go back to our old building, I would run into Justin walking Francis, and we'd catch up on life. He was so approachable and so so kind. I'll miss his presence on the block.
Jeff Feldman
December 5, 2024
Justin´s ability to play a demanding sport wearing a bright yellow raincoat. It was not so bright by the end of four years.
Jeffrey Watts
December 5, 2024
We met through a friend, but he was always an open person. I didn´t spend enough time with them, but was always made to feel welcome. Love and respect to Steph and the Family...watts family
Ricky Gordon
December 5, 2024
....What a Beautiful Human Being. It's difficult to for my conscience mind to process this new learn. I mean nothing, but pure joy from The Seto Family, I'm gonna miss seeing Justin and Stephanie laugh as they watch me park my 1970 Cadillac in front of their home, which takes up 3 spaces. I will forever hold Justin in my memory.
Herb Chin
December 4, 2024
Sophomore year social studies class at Bronx science. Sat next to me and immediately made me feel like a friend with his warm smile and caring voice.
Heidi
December 4, 2024
Thinking of Justin I remember a feeling of openness and peace and acceptance. Such a great generous spirit ..... still making me a better person by his example.
Suzanne Pinkes
December 4, 2024
Justin was kind and gentle, funny and insightful. Remember when he taught the Beach Park summer campers how to make dumplings? All the kids loved him. He was bright and humble. I am really going to miss him. Sending so much love to you Steph and the boys.
Shunya Togashi
December 4, 2024
When he walked into our family store (Saffron BK) and I thought ´hmmn who is this strange Asian surfer type dude from Cali?´ Turns out he´s not from Cali and doesn´t surf Hahaha! -Shunya
Harriet Drucker
December 4, 2024
Just learned that Justin passed away on Thanksgiving. I am deeply saddened by your lost.
My memory was at your beautiful wedding. That was a fantastic time. He was the friendliest man I knew.
Shayna T. Blum
December 4, 2024
The first time I met Justin, he was dating Steph. He biked from Brooklyn to the beach house in Clinton, CT. The family chatted about what a keeper he is to have biked so far to see Steph.:) He was part of the Blum family instantly. Xoxo
Fumiko Akiyama
December 4, 2024
You are the sweetest man and a great chef. I wanted to cook together. I will miss you Justin.
Fumiko Akiyama
December 4, 2024
You are the sweetest man and a great chef. I wanted to cook together with you. I miss you, Justin.
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