Kaitlin Marie Cruz Darnell

1998 - 2017

Kaitlin Marie Cruz Darnell obituary, 1998-2017, Rochester, WA

Kaitlin Marie Cruz Darnell

1998 - 2017

BORN

1998

DIED

2017

Kaitlin Marie Darnell Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Aug. 18, 2017.
Arrangements under the direction of Mills & Mills Funeral Home and Memorial Park, Tumwater, WA.

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October 30, 2018

Yvonne McLernan posted to the memorial.

August 17, 2018

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April 16, 2018

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Yvonne McLernan

October 30, 2018

My dear Kaitlin. Today should be your 20th Birthday. Instead it is the 2nd birthday without you already. I am missing you so very much it keeps taking my breath away. I wish you were here and everybody could be happy again. I love you!

Yvonne

August 17, 2018

Kaitlin, I miss you so very much. 1 year has gone by and I wish for nothing more than to go back in time and change everything. I hope you are watching over everybody. Love you!!!

Yvonne McLernan

April 16, 2018

Kaitlin I miss you so much!! I am still not ready to accept that you are not coming back. Your little Teo reminds me of you every single day.
Just last week I had to buy some Cinnamon Toast Crunch at Costco again. It's been forever because my "Cereal eating monster" is gone.
You would have cereal at least 1-2 times a day.
Love you!

Yvonne McLernan

February 17, 2018

6 long months without you
26 long weeks without you
184 long days without you

We miss you so very much Kaitlin!!
Wish you could be here!

Marissa Darnell

January 23, 2018

Kaitlin, I will miss you for the rest of my life!!!
Love you so much,
Mom

Marissa Darnell

January 23, 2018

I miss you so very much! I wish you could come back to us!!!

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January 23, 2018

Its been 5 months since you left us Kaitlin, during those times, holidays without you was very difficult for all of us. We decided not to stay home during Christmas. It will never be the same. Our little family are broken forever, it hurts so much thinking that you are no longer with us. If I could get one wish in life, I would wish that you come back to us and be complete and happy Family once again! I miss you and love you so very much! It hurts so bad! I miss your voice, your laugh, and your beautiful smile. Rest easy in heaven sweetie and keep looking down on us! Love you so much!!!
Love, Mom

Dad

January 6, 2018

Kaitlin, Christmas and New Years have come to past. The holidays were emotionally empty without you. Christmas through your eyes was always so exciting and uplifting and memorable, the holiday season will never be the same without you. I miss you so very much, every moment of everyday. Your always in my thoughts and in my heart. I love you Katie-Kate.

Christmas and New Years were emotionally empty without you. I love and miss you dearly my sweet Katie-Kate

Dad

January 6, 2018

Lupe Echeverria

December 31, 2017

I miss you so much kaitlin. I hate going into the new year without you. I wish you could somehow come back to us and take away this horrible heartache. I love you and miss you so much

Yvonne McLernan

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Christmas Eve 2016

Yvonne McLernan

December 25, 2017

Merry Christmas Kaitlin!
We love and miss you dearly!

Yvonne McLernan

December 17, 2017

4 months you have been gone now!
The pain is still so very fresh. It hurts daily to think of you. What would you and Kevin be up to, what would you get each other for Christmas, would we be planning trips together for next year, would you switch College after finishing your 2 year degree, would you sneak in another animal into the house, would you guys plan to move out.....
You had so much future left in your life it's hard to understand why it was denied to you.
Forever part of our family, forever missed!!!

Dad

November 25, 2017

Thanks Giving has come to past and without you, I have little to be thankful for. Christmas is almost upon us, the thought of celebrating Christmas without you is unthinkable. We can't do Christmas at home without you so this year our little family will send a little the away. We'll be thinking of you with tears in our eyes and a broken heart during this holiday

lupe Echeverria

November 25, 2017

I miss you so much kaitlin. Nothing feels right without you. Everyday I find myself thinking of all our memories and adventures and everything I do and see always reminds me of you. I don't know how anyone can live without their best friend, I miss you so incredibly much. I'm lost without you my friend

Katie-kate, your beautiful smile will always be in my heart,love you Dad

Dad

November 24, 2017

My beautiful daughter, l love you so much, I think of you every day and then I start to cry because I miss you so much. I love you,Dad

Dad

November 24, 2017

Our little family at the beach in Westport

Kevin Mclernan

November 15, 2017

The last few months have been so rough without you. I can't ever get myself to post anything because I just don't want to accept that you're gone. I just can't. It's to hard to believe it. I still remember Teo and I saying goodbye to you to leave for work that day. We celebrated your birthday and it felt so off without you. With Christmas slowly approaching it's going to just not feel right, I know we only spent one Christmas together, but I was certain we were going to spend more together. I'm never going to stop missing you honestly. It will get easier I guess but it won't go away. I miss everything about you. Your personality made you so unique and beautiful. I keep trying to picture what I would be doing right now if you were still here. Would we be lazy and just watch Netflix or would we be shopping and be young together. I think about you everyday and at night I just miss you more and more. I love you Kaitlin, words still can't express how much I miss you. All this still has me in disbelief. I love and miss you. Thank you so much for the stories you and I shared and the ones that we created. You will forever be in my heart and I'm just so thankful for the memories that I have of us, no one can take those from me. I love you

Yvonne McLernan

October 31, 2017

My dearest Kaitlin, I wish you could have celebrated your birthday with us yesterday. Remembered how excited you were last year when we gave you your gift. I dont think you expected anything and were really surprised.
So wish we would have met your whole family before your accident.
We miss you, your laugh and always pretty smile.

Lupe Echeverria

October 30, 2017

Happy birthday sweet kaitlin. I wish you were here to celebrate best friend. I love you

Ed & Judy Wooldridge

October 19, 2017

We were away in August and only learned of the tragic loss of your loved one last week from family in Edmonton. We are so very sorry for your loss. Our hearts and prayers are with you in this difficult time.

Marissa Darnell

October 14, 2017

Kaitlin, my sweet and beautiful daughter, its been eight weeks but feels like forever that I have not seeing you. When you left us, part of my heart is empty and it will never be filled. I cry and I miss you everyday! Broken-hearted! I never thought that we will be spending the rest of our lives without you. It hurts! I miss your beautiful smile! I keep praying that I will see you every night in my dream to tell me you are happy and you keep watching us from above. You are now one of Gods beautiful ANGEL! We love you and miss you forever! LOVE MOM.

lupe Echeverria

October 11, 2017

Wishing you were still here. Some nights I stay awake thinking about you and don't understand how you can be gone. I miss you so very much. It's been hard waking up and going to school knowing you won't be there to meet up or hangout in between breaks. I remember we used to try to park next to each other or in the same lot, we would meet before class and after and meet on our breaks to go eat tacos or something. I remember the time on one of our breaks we went to Safeway to get chicken wings and we went to borst park and fed the squirrels the wings. So many memories, I wish I could go back one more time. I love you kaitlin.

Yvonne McLernan

October 10, 2017

My dear Kaitlin,
I still think of the morning of August 16th every day.
As usual I opened your guys door and let Teo out.
You were sleeping so peacefully next to Kevin. I still can't believe that this was supposed to be the last time I would see you, I still can not believe we will never see your beautiful smile again.
I am devasted! You were way too young to leave this earth. I wish I could change it all and bring you back. I am so thankful we got to spend a wonderful vacation in Germany with you. Kaitlin, thank you from the bottom of my heart for making my son so very happy. You will always be a part of our family.
I love you!
And Teo says "woof woof" meaning "mom I love and miss you so very much!"

Kyra Darnell

September 27, 2017

Sissy I miss you so much. School is getting stressful and I want to talk to you again. I wanted you to see my homecoming dress. I wanted you to be there for many things. I keep thinking about you. I wish I could see you again one more time. I love you sissy.

Lupe Echeverri

September 21, 2017

I miss you so very much bestfriend. Everyday I keep remembering all of our memories and I am so heartbroken we can't make anymore. Rest easy, love you kaitlin

Clifford Darnell

September 20, 2017

Kaitlin,I love and miss you so, its been over a month sense you have gone, my heart is hurting so mnch. I'm crying everyday missing you so much, we placed flowers an a cross at the location you left us. I find myself driving by every chance I'm in the area. I love you my sweet girl. Be at peace,look over us, when its our time,we'll all be together again.love DAD

Clifford Darnell

September 19, 2017

Katie-kate, oh how I miss you. I cry every day thinking of you. It's been over a month now that you've been gone. The thought of you not being with us is still unbelievable. We visited the sight where you left us 1 month after, and placed a nice memorial to show our love for you. Kaitlin, I love you so much, please look over us, and when it's time,we will be together again. Love Dad

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With grandma in the Philippines

Marissa Darnell

September 14, 2017

With cousins in the Philippines

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With grandpa and grandma diamond anniversary

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Family Disney world vacation

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Family Disney cruise vacation

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Family vacation eastern carribean

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You will always be in my heart. I Love You and Miss You so much!!!

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Abigail Torres

September 12, 2017

Kaitlin, you maybe gone but you will never be forgotten. You will stay in our hearts forever. You are beautiful inside and out. We will be missed you. Your beautiful smile, your kindness and your sweetness. Til we meet again my beloved cousin in Paradise wherein Our God Almighty had promised for us.. Love you so much!!!

Ethan Mark

September 8, 2017

Even though your time with us was cut short, I will forever be grateful that I was given the opportunity to meet you. Just being in your presence made my day better. Losing you has been an incredibly hard experience for all of us, but I am comforted by the fact that you are at peace now. You are loved by so many people.

Anne Walker

September 8, 2017

Kaitlin,
Deep in our hearts you will always stay, loved and remembered everyday.

Makennia Strauss

September 7, 2017

Kaitlin..
I miss you from the bottom of my heart. You were my childhood best friend. We went everywhere and did everything together. Your smile lit up a room. Your laugh was contagious.
I remember as kids we would always go to the beach and go camping together. You, Elijah , and me would always play in the woods and get lost in our imaginations. I miss the nights we would stay up all night and play video games. Or the nights where we camped out on your trampoline and watch the stars. You were always good at finding the shooting stars. I pray that when I look at the skies tonight that your soul shines through as the brightest star in the sky. Rest In paradise you sweet angel.

Marissa Cruz Darnell

September 7, 2017

Kaitlin you will be very2 missed and you will never be forgatten and now you are inthe hands of God and be a very beautifull angel from the deepest of our hearts we love you very2 much and we will miss you always and your memory will remain till we meet the other side..Love Auntie Uncle Didi cousins Derry Dimy Dwynna

Marissa Darnell

September 7, 2017

Kaitlin my niece you will be very2 missed you will not be forgatten now you are in the hands of God and be the very beautifull angel and from the deepest of our hearts we love you so much and we will miss you always and your memory will remain..Love from your Auntie Amy Uncle Didi cousins Derry Dimy and Dwynna

Evelyn Kaaukai

September 7, 2017

My beautiful niece who's gone too soon never will be forgotten you are always in our hearts now you are flying with angel up above we love you so much and miss you dearly your memory always lives on forever. Love auntie evelyn, uncle Louie n cousins

Cinnamon Black

September 7, 2017

Kaitlin..your smile would light up a room, your laughter would make others laugh too.I watched you grow from a little girl into a beautiful young lady. I am so blessed to be a part of your life. I have so many happy memories of you, Kyra, Makennia and Nick . we love you!! Our hearts are heavy. The tears still flow. May u fly in heaven.. Like the angel you were on earth. You will never be forgotten. I know you are watching over us. Help god give us ...strength, faith to keep believing, and the love that you gave to everyone to keep on flowing. Until we meet again!!...

Cinnamon Black

September 7, 2017

Kaitlin..your smile would light up a room, your laughter would make others laugh too.I watched you grow from a little girl into a beautiful young lady. I am so blessed to be a part of your life. I have so many happy memories of you, Kyra, Makennia and Nick . we love you!! Our hearts are heavy. The tears still flow. May u fly in heaven.. Like the angel you were on earth. You will never be forgotten. I know you are watching over us. Help god give us ...strength, faith to keep believing, and the love that you gave to everyone to keep on flowing. Until we meet again!!...

Kynsi, Brian and Gage Culp

September 7, 2017

You are missed so much already!! Our family won't be the same but we will keep your memory alive. Your positivity and infectious smile will forever be with us. We were so lucky to have you in our lives and everyone who met you became a better person. We love you so much and pray that you continue to watch over your mom, dad and sister. Rest In Peace my beautiful couisin.

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