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Katherine Cortez Nicosia
Katherine Cortez Nicosia
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Katherine Nicosia Obituary
Katherine Nicosia died after a courageous battle with cancer on June 26, 2007. She was 33 years old, born on November 14, 1973 in Mount Kisco, New York to Vilma and Edwin Cortez.
Katherine attended Lakeland High School from 1987 - 1991. She graduated from the University of New Hampshire with a Bachelor of Arts in Sociology in 1995.
Katherine had a passion for life. She was a standout athlete in soccer and field hockey at the high school level. She earned All-America field hockey honors at Lakeland while helping her team to an undefeated record in their journey toward winning the New York State Class A Championship in the Fall of 1990. She continued her achievements in field hockey at the college level, going on to earn College Regional All-America honors in her time at UNH. After college, she met her husband of seven years, Michael James Nicosia.
After staring her family with Michael in June 2002, her passion for life and excellence was focused on raising a loving family. She was a role model of a mother, wife and friend who was relentless in her efforts to transfer her love of life to her children and to those around her. Her home was welcome to all who visited. Katherine is survived by her husband, Michael James Nicosia, 37, and their three children, Kacey Alessandra, 5, Matthew James, 3, and Sean Michael, 8 months. She is also survived by her mother and father, and her two older siblings, Deanna Marie Zaicek of Fishkill, NY and Edward Quinton Cortez of Round Rock, Texas.
She was originally a member of Saint Elizabeth Ann Seton Church in Shrub Oak, NY and lastly a member of St. Mark's Catholic Church in Huntersville, NC.
She will be greatly missed by all who knew her.
Funeral services will be conducted 10:30 AM Thursday, June 28, at St. Mark Catholic Church with Father James Stuhrenberg officiating. Burial will follow at Mt. Zion Community Cemetery. The family will receive friends Wednesday evening from 6:00 to 8:00 at the funeral home.
In lieu of flowers, a donation to the American Cancer Society, 6000 Fairview Road Suite 200, Charlotte, NC 28210 is appreciated.
Arrangements by Raymer Funeral Home, Huntersville, NC.
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Carlos Rodriguez
June 21, 2025
My dear Kathy so many years have passed and I will never forget your beautiful smile and personality. May your beautiful soul rest peacefully in eternal peace in heaven
VILMA CORTEZ
June 26, 2024
Kathy, today 17 years ago you went to Heaven to be with our Heavenly Father! I miss you every day and think of you every minute and hour! How I wish you were here to be with your family! Your children needed a mom to be with them everyday of their lives! I know you´re looking down on them from Heaven , watching them grow into the wonderful adults they are becoming! I miss you for them! You are always in my heart and I will love you forever! One day we will all be together again! Until then, rest in eternal peace, my beautiful daughter
Kacey Nicosia
October 15, 2021
Hey Momma, thinking about you daily. I love you. Can´t wait to see you.
Sean Nicosia
October 14, 2021
I love you mom.
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Aimee Adams
June 26, 2021
Thinking about so so much lately. I always think about you but missing you extra today. You´d be so proud of all the amazing things Kacey, Matthew and Sean are doing. I love you Kath!
Mom
June 25, 2021
My dearest Kathy, It´s been 14 years that you left us. I miss you everyday and hold your memories so dear to my heart. How I wish you were here with your children to nourish and love them with all your heart! I know they miss their mommy, and I miss you for them. So many accomplishments through the years lastly Sean making his confirmation today. You would be so proud of your children. I will never let them forget you! You were such a wonderful mother to them in the short time you were with them! Dad and I miss you more than you know. We love you and hold you deep in our
hearts. I know we will see each other again some day! Be at peace my beautiful daughter.
Kacey Nicosia
May 10, 2021
Mom,
I find myself here — on mother’s day in 2021. It has been well over a decade since I have felt your curls twist gently around my finger. I miss bringing my blanket and pillow into you and dads room to curl up on the floor. I remember those feelings. I was warm and at peace. I am 18 now, about to be 19. Soon to be 20. Then 21. Your death hit me in high school. I began to feel your absence more each day. I began to remember your face and your voice again. It has not gotten easier. Today I had a flashback of me at your funeral. It was so clear.
Dad and your parents have given me and the boys a good life here in Huntersville. I have great friends. I wish you could have been around to meet my best friend Peyton’s parents. They listen to Big Head Todd and the Monsters and Dave Matthews. I went to a Dave concert with them in the summer of 2019. I thought about you the whole time and even got a tattoo of the fire dancer on my ankle. I am so happy you played his music when I was a kid, you raised me right. I got around to telling Peyton’s parents about you, just a little. I hope to tell her mom more, you and her would’ve became good friends.
People who never met you know who you are and how beautiful you are. My old teachers always say how much I look like you — they have seen many pictures. I feel like everyone around me knows you without ever hearing your voice or shaking your hand. With one look at your face in a photo they can tell you were so bright.
I will write to you again soon, it is getting late and I am watching Manchester by the Sea. You would’ve loved this movie, it’s sad, but Casey Affleck is very attractive.
Love you momma forever and always,
P.S. you won’t believe the pandemic we are living through right now. ITS WILD. Oh and your sister moved to Florida and they are getting a horse!
Kacey
Kacey Nicosia (your daughter)
May 10, 2021
Mom,
I find myself here — on mother’s day in 2021. It has been well over a decade since I have felt your curls twist gently around my finger. I miss bringing my blanket and pillow into you and dads room to curl up on the floor. I remember those feelings. I was warm and at peace. I am 18 now, about to be 19. Soon to be 20. Then 21. Your death hit me in high school. I began to feel your absence more each day. I began to remember your face and your voice again. It has not gotten easier. Today I had a flashback of me at your funeral. It was so clear.
Dad and your parents have given me and the boys a good life here in Huntersville. I have great friends. I wish you could have been around to meet my best friend Peyton’s parents. They listen to Big Head Todd and the Monsters and Dave Matthews. I went to a Dave concert with them in the summer of 2019. I thought about you the whole time and even got a tattoo of the fire dancer on my ankle. I am so happy you played his music when I was a kid, you raised me right. I got around to telling Peyton’s parents about you, just a little. I hope to tell her mom more, you and her would’ve became good friends.
People who never met you know who you are and how beautiful you are. My old teachers always say how much I look like you — they have seen many pictures. I feel like everyone around me knows you without ever hearing your voice or shaking your hand. With one look at your face in a photo they can tell you were so bright.
I will write to you again soon, it is getting late and I am watching Manchester by the Sea. You would’ve loved this movie, it’s sad, but Casey Affleck is very attractive.
Love you momma forever and always,
P.S. you won’t believe the pandemic we are living through right now. ITS WILD.
Kacey
Kacey Nicosia (your daughter)
May 10, 2021
Mom,
I find myself here — on mother’s day in 2021. It has been well over a decade since I have felt your curls twist gently around my finger. I miss bringing my blanket and pillow into you and dads room to curl up on the floor. I remember those feelings. I was warm and at peace. I am 18 now, about to be 19. Soon to be 20. Then 21. Your death hit me in high school. I began to feel your absence more each day. I began to remember your face and your voice again. It has not gotten easier. Today I had a flashback of me at your funeral. It was so clear.
Dad and your parents have given me and the boys a good life here in Huntersville. I have great friends. I wish you could have been around to meet my best friend Peyton’s parents. They listen to Big Head Todd and the Monsters and Dave Matthews. I went to a Dave concert with them in the summer of 2019. I thought about you the whole time and even got a tattoo of the fire dancer on my ankle. I am so happy you played his music when I was a kid, you raised me right. I got around to telling Peyton’s parents about you, just a little. I hope to tell her mom more, you and her would’ve became good friends.
People who never met you know who you are and how beautiful you are. My old teachers always say how much I look like you — they have seen many pictures. I feel like everyone around me knows you without ever hearing your voice or shaking your hand. With one look at your face in a photo they can tell you were so bright.
I will write to you again soon, it is getting late and I am watching Manchester by the Sea. You would’ve loved this movie, it’s sad, but Casey Affleck is very attractive.
Love you momma forever and always,
Kacey
Vilma Cortez
November 14, 2020
My beautiful daughter the void in my heart never goes away. I miss you everyday. The years are going by so fast, but my everlasting love for you is always in my heart. You left such a void in our lives, missing your children grow up into beautiful and handsome young adults. I know they miss not having you be a part of their lives. I miss that for them, too. A mother is the most important person in a child’s life, and you were taken from them too soon. Nothing prepares you for the loss of a loved one. You will always be my little girl, and I love you forever ♥ Mom
Sean Nicosia
November 9, 2020
mom i turned 14 last month i just wanted to say i love you so much and i wish you were still here with all of us. everyone misses you. i will see you someday
Vilma Cortez
June 26, 2020
My beautiful Kathy, 13 years ago you left a void in my heart. I miss you everyday. When I close my eyes, I see your infectious smile and beautiful face and it brings me happiness. You will always hold that special place in my heart.
Your beautiful children light up my life, since they all remind me of you. You would be proud of the young people they have become.
Loving you now and forever....Mom
Jennifer Parsons O'Handley
June 21, 2020
Always missing you, Kath. Took my daughter to tour UNH this year and had so memories of you.
Sean Nicosia
April 12, 2020
Mom if you can read this I just wanted to say I love you so so very much I wish you were with me to help me every step of the way in life I bet you wouldve been the best mom in the whole world and you and dad would have supported me through bmx I just love you so much and you are in my thoughts every second of the day
Just found this newspaper clipping and wanted Michael and Kathy's kids to see it. One of the top players in the county!
Maria Stanford
November 12, 2015
Vilma Cortez
November 14, 2014
My beautiful daughter, I love you and miss you everyday. Happy birthday. My heart will never heal. Mom
Matthew Nicosia
November 8, 2014
Mom if you can hear me in heaven I wanted to say I love you
Donny Gencarelli
June 27, 2014
Kathy,
I am so sorry to have only found out of your passing today. I remember your smile and laugh even though we have not seen each other for many years. Your spirit and genuine care for people resounds in the messages left here and on your FB memorial page. Your life ended much too soon but clearly you have left your mark. I pray that your family finds comfort in the words that are posted and that your children remember the beautiful person you were. May you rest in peace and watch over those you love.
Donny Michael(Gencarelli)
Nicole Cohen
January 6, 2014
I think of you all the time. Your smile will never be forgotten!
XO,
Nicole Cohen
November 16, 2013
On this day I revised Kathy's place and saw the pictures of her happiness. I miss her a lot and feel for the family.
Uncle John.
Michele Peterson- Lewis
October 6, 2010
I constantly still pray for Kathy. Especially in light of this past week- there was a ceremony at Lakeland High honoring Andy Seal...Andy and Kathy were two incredible athletes, only surpassed by their amazing friendship. All my love! Petey (Michele Peterson Lewis)
Holly Restucci
October 4, 2010
I've been sitting reading this obituary & all the guestbook entries for Kathy, but I'm still slowly absorbing the news. Although we didn't stay in touch, I have such wonderful memories of her, going all the way back to Brownies & Girl Scouts. Kathy was loved by everyone we went to school with. What I remember the most about her was the way she treated everyone kindly, no matter how what their social-standing was. I honestly don't think she had a mean bone in her body. She had such a beautiful bright smile for everyone - just like her mother (big hug to you, Mrs. Cortez - I have such wonderful memories of you also).
Holly O'Connor Restucci
Stephanie Lee - Selkin
June 29, 2009
It is so heartwarming to read all these entries. It truly helps to keep the memory of Kathy alive.
At this time of year, like so many others, I am also thinking of Kathy, and wishing her family and close friends my best.
June 28, 2009
Kathy...You and your family are always in my prayers.
Renae Rutigliano Cimillo
Donna Warren/Gilbert
February 10, 2009
Hello My Dear Friend Kathy,
Sorry I haven't written in a while. Baby Luke has been keeping me very busy as you well know. I wish you were here to meet him. He's such an amazing little boy and I know you would just adore him.
Now that I am a mother, I really GET IT. I get how your world was your family, especially your husband and your children. I remember when you were getting ready to move and I asked if you were nervous. You told me that as long as you and Mike and the kids were together, that was all that mattered.
What an amazing gift that God gives us to be able to create human life. I'm so happy you got to experience that three times. If only you had more time to be with your children and watch them grow. I told your mother last time we spoke that I feel certain that God had a VERY important job for you up in Heaven and that's why he needed you now. I'm sure Heaven is an even better place now that you are up there watching over all of us.
You have been on my mind a lot lately. I've been eating olive cream cheese on my bagels. I remember the first Bagel Friday that you brought it in and I thought it was disgusting. But you were right, after I tried it I was hooked !! And I remember the little hot dogs you would bring for Alain. What a combination...bagels, OJ and hot dogs !! I remember when I shared my garlic hummus with you. You told me Mike was going to be so mad because you sweat out the garlic and stink !! What I wouldn't give to laugh with you about things like that.
Please know that when I don't get to write to you, you are still in my heart and my thoughts. I miss you so much.
Love you...Donna
Titi Millie Torres
December 19, 2008
To my dearest niece Kathy,
It took me almost two years to realize that you are not with us. I did not want to accept that. I see you and my mom and dad in my dreams and know that you are well taken care of. I love you so much. I see Kacey and it is like having you all over again. Matthew is such a little doll and his raspy voice is you and Sean oh that Sean is just so beautiful. I want to thank you for kissing me in my dreams and will never, ever stop thinking of you.
Your Titi Millie for ever
Thank you Michael for keeping this Legacy it"s like we can talk to Kathy and she can hear us.
Love you Titi Millie
Sarah Breuilly
December 17, 2008
My heart is heavy today, after learning of Kathy's passing. I went to school with Kathy , and when I think of her , her beautiful smile is the first thing I remember. She is one of the most genuine, kind, and wonderful people I have ever known. God bless your family.
Renae Rutigliano Cimillo
December 9, 2008
With the Holidays fast approaching..I can't help but think about Kathy, her family, and her parents...You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Donna (Warren) Gilbert
July 14, 2008
My Dearest Kathy,
Not a day goes by that I don't think about you. You were such an inspiration to me as a mother and wife. And here I am now, pregnant, and only hope that I can be HALF the mother you were.
It was a very rough go in the beginning and I had a dream about you. You told me what doctor's to call and how to get the help I needed. You also assured me that me and baby would be okay.
I woke up sad because you weren't here to share this with, but happy that you were able to comfort me in my dream.
I know you would have been so happy for me that finally all of my dreams are starting to come true. You sat at work and helped dry my tears many times. I know you are up in heaven smiling down on me and are glad that I have finally found the happiness and joy you shared with your husband and children.
Your footsteps will be imprinted in my heart forever. It's not often God creates a person as pure and good as you. My husband John is a lot like you and I wish you could have known him. He feels he knows you from all I tell him.
You are forever young, forever beatiful, and will be remembered with nothing but good thoughts from all of us left behind.
Thanks for listening.
Miss you lots,
Donna
This is how we will always remember Kathy
July 4, 2008
Cousin Lisa Torres
July 4, 2008
It has been 1 year now since I lost my beautiful cousin Kathy, and it still doesn't feel real. I still think about her alot. I miss her more than I know how to say.
Today I saw a recent picture on this website of Kasey, Matthew, and Sean. They will never understand how amazing she was. All we can do is try to tell them, but no matter what we say, it will not be enough to do her memory justice. I can't believe how big they are getting already, and I miss them too.
I think about how fast this year has passed. I always wondered how people managed to go on in the face of huge tragedies that occured, and the answer is this... There is no answer. You just "do". Somehow you find a way. You find something to hold on to, something to get you through your day, one day at a time. I know sometimes we would like to skip ahead, through the painful or hard times, but unfortunately, (or fortunately), that isn't an option. If we never dealt with the sad or painful stuff, how could we appreciate the good when it does happen?
As I think about Kathy, I can still see her smile, the way her whole face would light up, and how her eyes sparkled. I miss all the silly faces and impressions she would do. I can still hear her laughter, so loud and booming. It was contagious. It was like she had this great secret, and she couldn't wait to share it with you. This is how I will always remember her, and in doing so, she will live on forever. Although I am often sad for this incredible, inspirational person that I have lost, I am far, far more grateful for the angel I had in my life. Having Kathy in our lives made us all blessed.
I love you Kathy, and miss you so much. You are not forgotten.
Tina (Cullen) Batton
July 2, 2008
Kathy,
I write again because I barely knew you. I only knew you through your brother Ed, and the headlines in the North County News growing up. And while it's been a year, I still find myself checking this webpage at least once a week. I think we had a lot in common. We grew up in Westchester, played high school sports (I was no where near your caliber!), and are blessed to have beautiful children. And I think that our children is the biggest reason why I feel so connected to you. I work full time in a wonderful company that often demands long hours. Sometimes when the work is taking over my mind and priorities, I look at this beautiful website and the inspiring pictures of you and your family. You remind me of what's important in life. It's our beautiful children, our sisters and brothers, our spouses, our parents and our friends. And for those weekly reminders of what life's truly all about....Kathy...I thank you over and over. God Bless. I expect you to show me how to be a better soccer player when I come looking for you in Heaven. xoxo
Aimee Salvatore-Adams
June 26, 2008
Kathy my friend...
Thinking of you today and every day. Never a day goes by where my "Aunt Kaffy" isn't in my heart and thoughts. I miss you terribly.
Love always,
Aimee
Deanna Zaicek
June 26, 2008
To My Beautiful Sister Kathy,
It was one year ago today that you were taken from us. No words can describe just how much I miss you. Losing you has left such an empty space in my heart that will never go away. Such a special gift you were and always will be in my life. So many memories....I feel you right next to me when I'm with Kacey, Matthew and Sean. Such beautiful angels they are, just like their mommy. I love them so much. They are all so much like you. They all have your big bright smile and happy and spunky personality. I will never let them forget you. I love you Kath and I will miss you everyday for the rest of my life until we meet again...Love Forever, Dee
Vilma Cortez
June 24, 2008
My beautiful daughter,
It is a year since you were taken from us, but you live within me everyday. I miss you so much-- your smile, the twinkle in your eyes, your caring and loving ways, talking on the phone, going shopping, and especially for Kacey, Matthew, Sean & Mike. Being with them keeps you very much alive. You have left such a void in my heart, and the pain will never heal. I will love you forever, my beautiful daughter and I know that one day we will be together again and do all the fun things that we did when you were here. Your memory lives on in Kacey, Matthew & Sean. They are the ones that keep me going. I would be lost without these three beautiful children of yours. I will never let them forget their mommy. All my love forever. Mom
Cousin Lisa Torres
March 18, 2008
There is not a day that passes that I don't think of you Kathy. It hasn't even been a year yet, and still it feels hard to believe we lost you. I find myself talking about you at the strangest times and places. My birthday passed recently, and I was getting a massage when I found myself telling the massuese about you! I told her how hard your passing was, and how much of a blessing it was to have you in my life. Also, how much of an inspiration you were to us all, with your extremely kind and generous nature. You are in my conversations with Cousin Melissa and Cousin Sandra often. I purchased three photo frames for pictures of your children, and as I pass them everyday in my house, I always say a little prayer for them, and also for Titi Vilma, Uncle Eddie, Mike, Deanna, and Quinton... You may be gone, but you are definitely not forgotten. You will be in our hearts forever, until we have the blessing of meeting again.
Uncle Charlie Rodriguez
March 16, 2008
Kathy my dear niece you will forever be in my heart and soul. You were a fighter till the end. God gave me a beautiful niece to love and cherish forever and ever. I will see you in heaven someday so I can see that big beautiful smile again.
February 19, 2008
Donna Gilbert
February 1, 2008
Thinking of you...as always.
Aimee Salvatore (Adams)
January 14, 2008
Even though the entries have slowed down some, I know, like me, people still think of Kathy on a regular basis. Today was one of those days where I looked through old pictures of the good times we had and reflected on the years of friendship we shared. Everyone should be as lucky as I was to have had a friend like Kathy. I don't think any words will ever truly express how much I miss her. When I see her kids, I think of how much of Kathy lives in each of them, and how lucky they were to have Kathy as their mother. I miss you my friend..
nicole cohen
January 7, 2008
After hearing about Kathy's illness and her passing from Tracy...I couldn't get myself to think about Kathy without thinking of her as the young girl I knew from grade school to high school and as a young adult. I guess I would rather think of Kathy as the funny, smiling, energetic person that I knew...but I think about Kathy all of the time and after seeing Tracy's entry and with the New Year, I just wanted to say how sorry I am for all of her family and friends.
I remember sitting with Kathy at lunch, maybe first grade. She had these huge lunches that I don't know how Mrs. Cortez fit into our square metal lunchboxes. Inside it was a fruit, cheese doodles, soup or mac-and-cheese, a sandwich, drink, etc. I remember thinking I wish my mom made me a lunch like that.
I also remember her helping me in high school to get better at playing field hockey. She would stay after practice and shoot with me.
But one of my favorite memories was when we both got our first pair of rollerblades and we went to FDR park to skate. I asked Kathy how we were going to stop because we weren't that good-especially me and there were so many hills. Kathy was of course fearless, but I was scared and rightfully so...I went down a hill, then another hill and so on until I finally stopped. I took off my skates and walked back to the car and never used my skates again.
It sounds like Kathy created a wonderful life for herself and her family. May those beautiful children bring you joy and comfort.
Much love,
Nicole Cohen
Tracy Roksvold (Riley)
December 25, 2007
Its been almost a year since Kathy's diagnosis and I have finally brought myself to write an entry in this book. Its still so hard for me to believe. A little tribute to my friend. Where it all began....Ben Franklin Elementary School in Shrub Oak, NY. We met in 2nd grade but the beginning of our true friendship really began in 5th grade Mr. McAdams class. We used to breakdance in the back of his classroom in our matching jogging suits with all the boys. We have shared all of life's big moments, the little moment's and everything in between. So many wonderful happy times, and memories. Just too many to list. A friendship that surely stood the test of time. One that I knew would last a lifetime. Kathy was someone who you only had to meet once to make an impression. Someone you wouldn't forget and someone you'd always remember. She was such a people person, always very friendly, warm and just loved to have family and friends around her and in her home. Her houses were always a "home" so warm and inviting. On this Christmas day I am thinking of you my friend, your family and counting my blessings. Having had you as my friend was one of them. Here's to you and all the memories. You are thought of everyday and missed very much. As to your family to you Mike, Mr. & Mrs. C Kacey, Matthew, Sean, Deanna, Ed and the rest of the Cortez and Nicosia families I am truely amazed at all of your strength, courage, dignity, grace and character. You truely are special people and may God Bless and watch over all of you.
Patricia Ridge (Acevedo)
December 4, 2007
My dear Uncle Michael & Cousins Kacey, Matthew & Sean, I am so sorry to hear about Cousin Kathy. Although we weren't provided the opportunities see each other often, I was always so happy to get a Christmas card every year from you, with Cousin Kathy's holiday wishes on the back. I can still remember my first trip to NY when I was 12 years old and meeting Cousin Kathy for the first time. She had the most beautiful smile. I also remember watching a video of her playing soccer...MAN! She was awesome! Although I am just "another cousin", I want you to know that I love you all very much as our family (all over the U.S.) is so good at expressing. I pray that you find peace and comfort in the grace of God. I'm sure Cousin Kathy is smiling down on us right now..just as big and bright as ever! Love to you all from my family to yours.
Donna Gilbert
November 21, 2007
Happy Belated Birthday Kathy,
I have been thinking about you all month. I would always tease you that I was five days older.
Miss you and love you.
Gail Ryen
September 20, 2007
Dear Mike, Kacey, Matthew, Sean, and the Cortez & Nicosia Families;
I have read this guest book every week for the last few months since Kathy passed away. I still continue to read all of the wonderful things that people write and each time between all the tears I have to smile. Each thing said - They're all so true!
I started writing something so many times but each time as I started I would realize that there are so many Kathy stories and so many incredible memories I have of her - how could I write them all - how could I let everyone know how incredible Kathy was to me. My conclusion was - I can't - I can only give you a small insite into how much Kathy touched my life and how incredible of a person she was.
I met Kathy when we worked together at Abitibi. I knew her only for a short time before she invited me to come and look at an apartment with her and her friend Amy from UNH. She was so friendly, happy, outgoing and positive that I knew she was someone I liked. I lived with Kathy in White Plains for almost two years. (I remember the day we moved in together was the first day after Kathy and Mike met).
Kathy was always smiling and could always make you smile with her silliness and incredible sense of humor. She was responsible and trustworthy - just a person that everyone should be lucky enough to live with. Kathy was energy - always running a million miles a minute - thus the nickname "the silver bullet".
When reminiscing with our other roommate of the great times - we talked about one night when we were watching the Olympics and they were having the closing ceremony. Kathy sat and watched with her eyes welling up in tears. She told us that she understood the incredible sense of accomplishment and pride that these athletes felt. She knew what it was like to work as a team, what it was like to put your heart and soul into doing your best and what it felt like when you could all succeed as a team. Kathy was true sportsmanship.
Those were great years that I will always remember.
Being close to Kathy made you want to be a better person. A person that could make others smile and feel good about themselves, a person that could be supportive to others when they needed it, a person that was strong and self confident, a person that didn't need to be like the others to be liked, a person that really knew the meaning of loving her friends, being loved by her friends, cherishing her family and being cherished by her family.
I will miss her and think of her often. She will live on in the hearts of everyone who knew her.
My deepest sympathy to Mike, Kacey, Matthew, Sean, Mr and Mrs Cortez, Deanna and family, Ed and family, Mr. and Mrs. Nicosia and all of their family. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Cathy Gibney-Mormile
September 11, 2007
My deepest sympathy to Kathy's family. I went to Lakeland with Kathy and will always remember her love of life and sports. No matter what she was doing, she enjoyed every minute. She will live on through her children and alway be their angel watching over them.
Christmas 2006
September 8, 2007
Ed Cortez
September 7, 2007
Eulogy Delivered at Kathy's Memorial Mass on August 18th, 2007 at St. Elizabeth Ann Seton Paris.
Title: 12,277
God granted Kathy just 12,277 days to share life with us on earth. She could not have known exactly how many days she was given but she always seemed keenly aware of the importance of making the most of each one of her precious days. I thank God that we were blessed with each and every one of those days with Kathy. She was here for a reason.
As a young child, there was the time when Kathy was so sure that she was going to get in trouble with my parents that she hid under her bed, way in the corner, and covered herself with the stuffed animals that were there. With her trademark determination, she did not make one sound when my dad called for her, not even when he went in her room and looked under her bed and called her name. She was so determined not to get reprimanded that she decided to fall asleep there. We all got so nervous that she was lost that the all of our neighbors got involved in the search and combed the neighborhood and surrounding woods looking for her. We even called the police. When we finally searched the house again and found her sleeping within the pile of stuffed animals under the bed, my Parents were so relieved that she was safe that they couldn’t remember why she was hiding in the first place. She never got in trouble for whatever it was that she did that made her hide. That was Kathy - she put her whole heart into everything she did.
Kathy made us smile and laugh with her infectious smile and silly sense of humor. She entertained us, showed us determination and inspired us with her God-given athletic talent. While many of us remember Kathy for her adventures and achievements on the playing fields of Soccer and Field Hockey, she achieved so much more than that in her life. Kathy achieved love. Love for her Family, love for her Friends, love for her Husband and Children and love for God. She loved everyone. We felt it when we were around her, whether it was when she tried to cheer us up with encouraging and thoughtful words, when she just listened to us to let us know we were not alone, when she shared her fears and worries with us because she needed someone to lean on, or when she just wanted to share her excitement about some good news. Kathy always shared her love unconditionally. She never felt the need to say anything or act a certain way in order to impress anyone. She was always just Kathy. She was comfortable with herself and she made others feel comfortable when they were with her. Her presence will be missed but she will never be forgotten.
Cassandra Gonzalez-Venezia
August 10, 2007
To the Cortez & Nicosia Families --
Kathy and I met quite fiercely on the soccer field. You see, I was a goalie and played for Mahopac. As you may know Lakeland was our nemesis. Although Kathy had a wonderful smile...she had an even better strike. When she would "fly" down the field beating out my defensive line I can still remember the feeling in my stomach when forced out of the net to confront her one-on-one.
In the years we spent together on the field, I grew to love and respect her as a player and as a person. She had skill and integrity and that seems to have followed her throughout her precious days with each and every one of us.
As a Wife and a Mother I grieve for you and your children. Kathy's spirit will live on in our memories, and through the lives of her children. I hope that the comfort of friends and family will be your strength now, and in the days ahead.
May God hold you in His arms and heal the sorrow that you feel.
Francisca (Gonzalez) Austin
August 7, 2007
My heart goes out to Kathy's children, husband and families.
She was an amazing athlete! She will be missed by everyone who ever had the opportunity to meet her, and play with and against her, in soccer and field hockey. She is someone I tried to emulate on the field for years, but I was never able to reach that point of finesse that she had. She made it all seem so easy. (She always had a smile on her face as she passed you by and took those amazing shots). She will be missed, but never forgotten!
Maria & Joe Duffy
August 6, 2007
We will always remember Cathy as a fierce competitor in both field hockey and soccer. She always had a smile on her face, a kind word for everyone and advice for those younger than her and from competing schools. My daughter had the pleasure of playing with her in both sports and against her in both sports. You will be sorely missed by all.
Dorann Duffy-Woods
August 6, 2007
To the Cortez Family,
I was truly sadend to find out that Kathy was sick. I recently found about about her passing. My prayers are with you all. Kathy had a true zest for life a passion for soccer and filed hockey. A passion I myself tried to emulate all the years we played both with each other and against. Her smile and determination for all she was involved in will never go forgotten. Wishing you all much peace. You are in my thoughts...
God Bless
Paul & Candie Christian
July 31, 2007
Mike, I am deeply saddened and shocked to learn of Kathy's passing. While it's been 5 years since we've been neighbors, I remember both of you well and cannot picture Kathy without her wonderful smile. Memories of people with her qualities never fade. May God Bless you and your beautiful family.
SANDI NICOSIA
July 29, 2007
MEMORIAL SERVICE FOR KATHERINE CORTEZ NICOSIA
SATURDAY AUGUST 18TH @ 11:15AM
ST. ELIZABETH ANN SETON CHURCH.
PLEASE PASS ALONG.
THANK YOU
SANDI NICOSIA
Janine (Giovinazzi)Storen
July 27, 2007
Dear Eddie, Mr. and Mrs. Cortez and the Nicosia family,
Words can not express the overwhelming sadness I felt when I heard of Kathy's passing. I remember running around with her on the soccer field in High School thinking "wow" she is truly a remarkable athlete and person. She was always smiling and trying to get others to smile along with her. I had a chance to view the photo album and once again saw that beautiful smile which looked even more vibrant with her husband and 3 beautiful children. Hopefully you can find some comfort knowing that she lives in all of them. My thoughts and prayers are with you today and in the journey to follow.
Nuala Bohan (Quinn)
July 27, 2007
To the Nicosia and Cortez Family
My thoughts and prayers are with you all. I hadn't seen Kathy for a number of years, but she's a girl that you'd never forget. From her personality to her sportsmanship; she's one of a kind
Michelle (Sherry) Kiger
July 20, 2007
To the Cortez and Nicosia Families,
While no words at this time will ease your loss, I hope that as you read these messages a smile is brought to your face by how many lives Kathy has touched. You are in my thoughts...
Donna Gilbert (Warren)
July 18, 2007
Dear Michael, Kacey, Matthew, Sean and Cortez/Nicosia families,
Words are not enough to express how sorry I am for your family. I was blessed to become friends with Kathy while working at Abitibi. She was a true friend right from the start. Having known her has been a gift. I could listen to her talk about your 'love story' and how she came to be Mrs. Michael Nicosia over and over. She wanted nothing more than to be a good wife, mother, daughter, sibling and friend. She excelled at all of that. I remember coming up to the house when you had decided to move. We were playing with kids out back and she said she was going to miss her family terribly, but home was with you and the kids.
As a newly married person, I can only hope that John and I have half of what you and Kathy shared. She has taught me a lot about marriage and motherhood. I am a better person for having known her.
She remains in my thoughts everyday and you and the family will continue to be in my prayers.
Kristen (Carano) Bulkley
July 17, 2007
To the Cortez and Nicosia families, Words cannot express the sympathy that I feel for your entire family. Kathy was an amazing spirit who left an unforgettable impression on all who knew her. It has been comforting but extremely emotional to read all of these entries the past few weeks. I know her incredible light and strength will live on in her children. And she will never be forgotten. Please know that you are in my prayers and thoughts often during this difficult time.
Kathy Drysdale
July 17, 2007
I was a neighbor of Kathy's in Deerfield Ponds and I remember Kathy and Mike taking walks together. First as a happy couple and then as a beautiful family with Kasey in her stroller. Everyone keeps saying that Kathy had a smile that lit up the room and it's true because when they walked past she would light up the entire street with her smile. My prayers are with you all.
Anitra Pregiato
July 16, 2007
Cortez and Nicosia Family:
I had the honor of knowing Kathy during my years at Lakeland. Kathy was the most admired female athlete in the school. I remember playing both field hockey and soccer with her..what an awesome athlete. My thoughts and prayers are with each of you during this time.
Ed & Kathy Vanecek
July 16, 2007
I clearly remember Kathy all excited about moving in to her new home with Mike in Deerfield Ponds, excited about beginning their life together! When Kacey was born she seemed like she was living her dream come true! We will forever remember her as that happy, bubbly wonderful girl who just glowed happiness.
Stephen Finehirsh
July 14, 2007
Sorry to hear about Katherine..My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Gina Sullivan
July 14, 2007
Kathy was just an amazing young gal filled with so much energy. I was fortunate to have had the opportunity to meet Kathy at Abitibi Concolidated Inc. where she would stop by my receptionist desk and chit chat for only a few moments. It was during those moments that I had the pleasure of hearing about her marriage plans to the boy she met during college, her love for soccer and field hockey. She looked so in love and her smile would radiate the entire room. It was a pleasure and an honor to have had those conversations with her.
God Bless her family.
Eileen (Blas) Sullivan
July 11, 2007
My deepest sympathies to the Cortez and Nicosia families. Your families are in my thoughts and prayers.
alyson (marcus) tuthill
July 10, 2007
To the Nicosia and Cortez family,
It is with a heavy heart that i write this letter. I went to LHS with Kathy, and will never forget the way her smile could light up a room, much like the way her daughter Casey's does. I had the priveladge of playing basketball with Kathy. She was an unbelievable athelete but even more remarkable person. She will be missed, and always thought of fondly.
Charles "Chip" Cirelli
July 10, 2007
Our deepest sympathy goes out to the Nicosia and Cortez Families. I have many memories of Kathy from elementary school through high school. Always a smile on her face in each and every memory. God Bless You All. The Cirelli Family
Celeste (Yanni) Smith
July 10, 2007
Dear Nicosia & Cortez families,
I was shocked and deeply saddened to hear about Kathy's passing. I have great memories of playing soccer with Kathy since we were teenagers and up until she had kids, we were playing in CT. Kathy was an amazing soccer player and an even more amazing person. She was always smiling and laughing and was happy all the time. When I think back on the memories that I have, I can't help but smile. Kathy and her husband have three beautiful kids and those qualities of her that made her such an amazing, loving, passionate person, a person everyone wanted to be around, lives on in each one of them.
Myself and my family wish to extend or deepest sympathy to her husband, her kids, The Nicosia and Cortez families for your loss. Kathy will be deeply missed.
Mike Epstein
July 10, 2007
Wish to convey my sincere sympathy to the family, and friends of Kathy. I went to school with Kathy for many years and remember her warm smile, her kind heart, and of course all the energy she had. My thoughts and prayers are with everyone. “May the memories held deep within your heart, help to sooth you”.
Sue Hodder (Landmesser)
July 9, 2007
Although it has been many years since I played soccer with Cathy the news of her passing overwhelmed me and my family. Her natural goodness and gentle soul are what shined. Her family's support all those years on the sideline I remember vividly, and my hope is that those she left behind can find that same kind of support in each other. My deepest sympathy's to her entire family and wishes that her life is remembered for how she lived it, not how she left it.
Dottie Catlin
July 9, 2007
Kathy was the speediest little thing on the UNH field hockey field. She sure was an inspiration, especially to me as a younger teammate and walk-on to the team. I always watched her, and I know that learning from Kathy helped me secure playing time on the team--she was an amazing player. I also will remember her because she loved to have fun...and she always looked good. Do you guys remember how she always wore her red lipstick--even to practice?!!! I was so saddened to hear the news, but Kathy had wonderful energy that I will remember for many, many years to come.
Don Martin
July 9, 2007
To Michael, children, entire Nicosia and Cortez family
I'll never forget the day I first met Kathy. She came into my office to interview for the recepionist job in our new corporate headquarters in Purchase, N.Y. I immediately knew we had to hire her for our organization. What a wonderful smile and pleasing person to be around. She was a delight to work with and as she progressed in the company it became very apparent that she was much more than a warm personality. She proved to be highly skilled and competent and a truly valued employee. The day she left permanently was awful for us at Abitibi but her commitment to be a full time wife and mother was the right decision and the only one for her. Her customers loved her and were still talking and missing her years later.
She was fun to work with and I remember kidding Kathy about her eating habits as it seemed she always was "snacking" and yet never gained any weight. Our favorite subject was the big jar of peanut butter she kept at her desk and how we both thought it was perfect food for our cravings.
I am truly saddened by the loss of Kathy as she was such a wonderful person and others that were touched by her along the way, even if for a brief period, will certainly never forget her great smile and contagious energy.
I know your family will cling to the memories and the the love she left behind for all of you. I know I'll personally always think good thoughts and have a smile on my face when I think of Kathy. She was special and lived her short life in a fashion that was an inspiration for the rest of us. May God bless all of you.
Cheryl Stolz
July 8, 2007
To the entire family of Katherine,
Michael, you and I never met and for that I am sorry. I was the infusion nurse who followed your wife until she was transitioned to Hospice.
By meeting Katherine, her parents, and your children, it was apparent the unity and love each and every one of you shared.
I wanted you all to know that Katherine touched my life! What a wonderful, beautiful sole she possesses! What strength and courage she showed!
I am sorry I never made an appearance after her services were switched to Hospice and am sorry I never called. I did think of her everyday but was a coward. I didn't want to face the fact that Katherine would no longer be with you all, especially her children!
I wanted to share with her parents when I was following Katherine in the home that there is a wonderful program in Charlotte called KinderMourn. I know first hand how wonderful this program is, I lost my 13 year old daughter, Megan, on 10-16-06 in a car accident. My husband and I found the program to be wonderful. I know the program for parents is great, no matter how old your child is when they pass they offer support, no matter if it was a miscarriage or an adult child that passed. The initial 6 week program is free and we found it very helpful. From what I understand they have a wonderful program for children of all ages that have lost a parent, siblings, etc. Maybe this will be helpful for you all. I am sure they can guide you in the right direction if you need something more or different. So many people that showed up to Meg's funeral told us about it but I didn't want to go anywhere or do anything. My husband gently pushed me into it and I am so glad! Please feel free to contact me if you would like more information.
I am so incredibly sorry for your loss! I am happy I had the opportunity to meet Katherine, it was a wonderful experience. Her sole touched mine and I will always keep a piece of her with me.
Sincerely,
Best friends....Michelle, Tracy, Aimee and Kathy--8/2005
July 8, 2007
Brendan & Veronica Fitzgerald
July 6, 2007
After meeting the Nicosia family there was only one way to describe them, simply perfect. Mike, a hardworking gentleman, Kathy an amazing fun spirited dedicated mother and Kasey, Mathew and Sean three of the most beautiful and well behaved children you would ever come across. Today, Kathy looks at this perfect family as an angel from above. There are no words that can describe the magnitude of this terrible loss. In the short period of time we knew Kathy, she always exuded positivism, happiness and the will and gift to make people feel at their best. We will miss her terribly but we will carry on with enthusiasm and joy with every step her children will take. We will be here for the family to offer support and the most immeasurable love for her children.
Missy Moorehouse
July 5, 2007
Kathy was always an inspiration to me both on and off the soccer field. She was a great athlete and an exceptional person. She will always be in my thoughts and prayers. My deepest sympathies.
Michell (Nicosia) Cambareri
July 5, 2007
KATHERINE
K-kind
A-amazing athlete
T-touched so many lives
H-held on to the bitter end
E-energetic
R-radiant smile
I-intelligent
N-never lost hope
E-eternal angel
I will be thinking of you always!!
Michell (Nicosia) Cambareri
July 5, 2007
To my brother Michael,
There are no words that can describe the hurt, and sadness that I feel. Kathy was my inspiration. She tsught me not to judge others and to see and accept things for what they were. She was not only my sister in law, but my friend. She was the one I looked up to as I entered into motherhood for the first time. Kathy was full of joy, love and most of all determination. She had a wonderful passion for life. I will miss her always.
Michell (Nicosia) Cambareri
July 5, 2007
In My Pocket
I have memories in my pocket.
They rattle among the change.
My memories of you are treasures I carry wherever I go.
They are stored in bits and pieces, parts of a beautiful whole
They give me comfort when I think I am alone.
Yes, I have memories in my pocket, like so much other stuff I keep there.
But of all the treasures I have, it’s the memories of you that are the most precious.
Tom Nicosia
July 5, 2007
Dear Ed, Vilma,Deanna, Quinton, Mike,Kacey, Matthew,& Sean
My daughter-in-law, Kathy, will be very deeply missed. She was the type of person, who was kind, caring, and loving to all she came in contact with, no matter who they were. She was a great mother, a good friend, and a devoted wife. Her infectuous laugh, and her genuine giving of love, made everyone aroud her feel warm and happy. I loved her, like my own daughter, and her passing created a void in my life, and the lives of those, who knew her. Kathy, will never be forgotten, for her SPIRIT is alive in her children, Kacey, Matthew, and Sean.
May you rest in peace my dear daughter, and may God give us all the strength to move forward.
Tom (Poppy) Nicosia
Sandi Nicosia
July 4, 2007
On the morning of June 26th we got the worst news, that god they would say, came in and took our beautiful angel Kathy, away. God what do we do and what do we say, lost and shocked in the blink of an eye you were gone.
I know that you will still be able to make your presence known To know that you are still there, not in body but in spirit.
Our beautiful angel Kathy, is now free to fly. It's been so hard, the day you left you took a piece of all our hearts with you.
To know that you are in a place where their is no hurt pain or suffering helps a little, not a day goes by that we don't think about you, you are always in our hearts and memories, and we have great memories to hold.
Sandi Nicosia
July 4, 2007
To: My dear sister-in-law Kathy-
An angel with a beautiful smile...You were not only my sister in law, you were my friend...the pain and sorrow I feel...tremendous..filled with sadness...My thoughts will be with you each and every day..
Beth (Brown) Reeder
July 4, 2007
To Kathy's Loved Ones,
I am so sorry for your loss. I met Kathy at UNH and have been thinking of her ever since hearing she was sick. My heart goes out to you!
Michael Nicosia
July 4, 2007
To my wife...nothing that I write here today can trully express the sorrow, pain and sense of loss that I feel.
Your beautiful smile won me over, melted my heart and made me fall in love with you. No one can take away or replace what we shared with one another over the last 11-years.
I remember back to our wedding day as if it were yesterday - the vows that we exchanged, the committment we made to one another, the love that sparkled in your eyes - never did I think we would part so soon with so much of our lives left to live and precious memories to be created.
You were an outstanding mother, wonderful wife and my best friend. I will love you always and miss you everyday for the rest of my life - we will meet again someday...(to be continued)
"Brief is life but love is long…" -- Alfred Lord Tennyson
Love,
MJ
Stephanie Lee-Selkin
July 4, 2007
Thinking of Kathy brings back many fun-filled memories. We played soccer together growing up. An incredible athlete, a great teammate, and always a wonderful friend. Kathy always had a larger than life personality, with her winning smile, competitive spirit and zest for life.
My deepest condolences to the Cortez and Nicosia families.
Eleanor Levito
July 4, 2007
Dear Michael and Family,
Only met Kathy a few times, but I do know the joy that she gave to you and your family. My deepest sympathy to you and your children.
Love, Eleanor and family
Thelma Coleman
July 3, 2007
To my special precious Kathy,
You will always be in my heart and loved as someone I have admired. I'm saddened by the loss of you and your smile and your tenderness. May God protect you and your family.
Love,
Neena
Amy Schwarzbach
July 3, 2007
Michael & Family,
I am deeply sorry for your loss. I knew Kathy for only a brief period in time at Abitibi Consolidated. She was wonderful and she touched my heart! May God, the beautiful memories of Kathy, the love of family, and the help of friends carry you through this time.
Tina (Cullen) Batton
July 3, 2007
To the Entire Cortez and Nicosia Family,
I went to college with Ed at Geneseo and while I didn't know Kathy personally, I knew Kathy was not only an amazing athlete but a wonderful, cheery person. I grew up in Somers and felt like I couldn't go one week without reading about this amazing human being. I'm so sorry for your loss and pray you find peace and joy in the beautiful children she brought into this world. My sincerest and heartfelt sympathy.
Kim Castle (Rice)
July 3, 2007
I had the privledge of playing soccer with Kathy back in my teens. She was an amazing athlete and I will always consider it an honor just to have been on the same team.
Though I had not seen her in many years, I was greatly saddened by the news. I will always remember what a wonderful person she was, that big smile and those speedy legs! I'm grateful to have had the chance to know such an amazing person.
My heart, thoughts and prayers go out to all those she loved and who loved her. I am so sorry for your loss.
Sharon Sarsen
July 3, 2007
Dear Vilma, Ed, Deanna, Eddie, Michael and Kacey, Matthew & Sean;
I was so saddened to hear back in December that Kathy was sick. I have not stopped thinking about Kathy and the Cortez's and Nicosia's since I got the news on Tuesday down in Virginia Beach, coaching Field Hockey.
I hope that all of our thoughts, memories and prayers somehow turn your grief into comfort. No one can ever forget the smile, laughter and that bundle of dynamic energy called Kathy! What a great memory that is!
I will never forget the goals she scored, the championships she won and the athletic excellence she attained. She set a standard of greatness at Lakeland. But more importantly, we will all continue to celebrate her loving, caring ways. We remember her smile and her laughter every time we think of her. I can remember her running around in that tee shirt she made with a picture of a Cherry and the words "Cherry Picker" written in ink; displaying this shirt under her Lakeland jersey! So many smiles and memories to celebrate.
I am lucky to have known such a special person. And I know her personlity will continue to live through these memories and the beautiful Kacey, Matthew and Sean. #2, you will always be Number One.. All my love.
Patricia McMorrow
July 3, 2007
Dear Mike, kids, Vilma, & Ed,
I wish we knew why things like this happen to our brightest stars. We can only remember them lovingly, cry that their gone, and try to go on. Our hearts are filled with sadness for you all and hope that you'll find the strength to get up in the morning and face the days without our beloved little girl. We loved her so.
Aunt Pat & Patti
Luke McCartney
July 2, 2007
Mike and family,
I remember how Kathy brightened the rooms she entered and how she always made people feel so welcome and at home. I am deeply sorry for your loss, and the loss of one who loved life so deeply.
Fran DeBonis
July 2, 2007
Dear Michael, children and the Cortez & Nicosia families,
My deepest sympathy to you. Words cannot express how I feel and how saddened we are at this tragic loss. I had the honor of knowing Kathy and working with her side by side for many years before she left to raise her beautiful family - the joy of her life. I will always remember her by her huge smile and big heart. How many wonderful "Kathy" stories we could fill a whole day with, and will always bring smiles to our faces. My heart is broken, but I am truly greatful for having recently spoken to her and remembering the good times we shared. My love to you Kathy forever, Fran DeBonis
Patricia Gil
July 2, 2007
I was shocked and saddened to hear about Kathy's battle with cancer and her untimely passing. I worked in the same department with Kathy at Abitibi and have never met anyone with so much joy! Her infectious smile brought happiness to all who interacted with her. May God help you through this sad time.
cousin Lisa
July 2, 2007
To Kathy, words cannot express how deeply we all feel the loss of your passing. Even now, it's still so hard to believe. You were such a bright, beautiful, sweet, and loving person. You were an example to us all, always so giving of yourself, your time, and your love to those around you. I can honestly I felt so lucky that you were in my life. I will always think of you, and remember your loving nature and your smile and laughter. I know you are still with us, I only have to look in my heart when I miss you, and I can see you so clearly... Thank you for being everything you were, truly, you were an angel on earth.
To Mike, Kacey, Matthew, Baby Sean, Uncle Eddie, Titi Vil, Quinton, and Deanna ~ My heart goes out to all of you during this time. Kathy could not have had a better family or husband, and she knew how very much she was loved. We will all miss her tremendously, and will think of her always. Kathy will never be forgotten. She truly was a blessing and an angel in all of our lives. I love all of you.
Amy (Dromgoole) Kowal
July 2, 2007
Mike, Mr & Mrs Cortez and family;
I am so sorry to hear the terrible news. Kathy was such an amazing person and friend. Her energy and smile were contagious. Her dedication to her family and friends is inspiring. We are all blessed to have spent time with Kath. We had so many fun times at UNH and at our apartment in White Plains.
She will truly be missed. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Amy (Pfaff) Dean
July 1, 2007
Mike, Mr.and Mrs.Cortez,and Family,
I am so terribly sorry for your loss. Kathy was such an amazing person in so many ways. I looked up to her as a friend and she was an inspiration as a mother. I feel blessed to have been in touch with her recently and I will cherish those memories forever. She touched so many lives while she was with us. I have no doubt that her spirit will continue to change people and to live on through her beautiful children and family. I will always remember her as one of my closest and most dear friends.
Jess McClain
June 30, 2007
The devastation of this news has shaken the every being of all of us who have known Kathy. As a representative of her UNH Field Hockey Family I believe I speak in unison that we all share wonderful memories of our speedy teammate. Her beautiful bright smile that lit up every room she entered was always accompanied by a warm silliness. She made everyone around her feel welcome and important. I will cherish the laughter she brought into my life during our time together and work toward finding solace in such a tragic loss. I encourage those who knew Kathy to talk with one another and share the wonderful memories we have so that her spirit lives on in all of us. To her parents, siblings, husband, and children – words cannot express the sorrow I have for your loss. May we all move forward in our lives as better people for having known Kathy.
Andrea (Milazzo) Payne
June 30, 2007
I went to LHS with Kathy and Eddie. Words can't express how sorry I am to hear of Kathy's passing. When I think of her, I always see a smile. She loved life and when people were around her, her happiness was contagious. Her memory will live on in all of your hearts.
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