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Kelly O'Brien Obituary
HOLDEN - Kelly A. (Buffi) O'Brien, 49, passed away peacefully on Monday, May 13, 2019 at her home surrounded by her loving family. Born in Worcester and raised in Southbridge, she was the daughter of Donna (Moore) Charbonneau and Donald Charbonneau.
She graduated from Southbridge High School and went on to further her education by earning a nursing degree from Quinsigamond Community College. Kelly was an amazing nurse, caring for patients at the Jewish Healthcare Center as well as Family Healthcare in Worcester for many years. In her spare time Kelly enjoyed photographing her family, hiking, going to concerts, attending all of her kids activities, or simply relaxing on her hammock having a cookout. She was passionate about fitness, completing two triathlons and several color runs with her family. She also loved spending time with her two dogs, Murphy and Scrappy, and her cat, Mookie Lennon.
Kelly's true passion in life was being a mom. Whether fulfilling her role as a "hockey mom" or asking her morning question "what's for dinner?" she was a dedicated mother first and foremost and she embraced every moment with her children. Those who knew Kelly best will always remember that to Kelly… "LIG".
Kelly will be lovingly missed and remembered by her husband, Daniel of Holden and their two children, Emma and Connor; her parents, Donna and Donald Charbonneau of Southbridge; two brothers, Frank Buffi of Southbridge and Donald Webber and his wife, Michelle of Palmer, MA; her sister, Lauri Buffi of Woodstock, CT; her mother-in-law, Dianne O'Brien of Punta Gorda, FL; many nieces and nephews; and her canine companions, Scrappy and Murphy.
Relatives and friends are invited to visit with Kelly's family on Saturday, May 18 from 4 to 7 pm in the Miles Funeral Home, 1158 Main Street, Holden. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations in Kelly's name may be made to "Animal Shelter Inc." (Sterling Animal Shelter), 17 Laurelwood Road, Sterling, MA 01564.
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Kathryn McNamara
May 9, 2020
Your in my thoughts Emma. Hope you and your family are well. See you in the fall.
-Katie
July 23, 2019
To all of you
We just learned about Kelly's passing. You all have our condolences and prayers. This is just so sad and we're praying you find the strength to get through this.
With love
Amber and Ed
Deborah Downing
May 19, 2019
Lauri et family...much love strength hugs. There isn't any language that can express the feelings of devastation xo
Brian McGrath
May 17, 2019
Dear Dan & Family:
I had the pleasure of working with Kelly at the Jewish Healthcare Center. I am so sorry for your loss. God Bless you and your family.
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Louis Cornacchioli
May 17, 2019
Our deepest condolences to you Dan and your family. May God's Love and Caring bring comfort to all of you. Lou & Mary Cornacchioli
Jill Harrington
May 16, 2019
Dan, Emma and Connor. I'm so sorry to hear about Kelly's passing. She was a wonderful person and one of my favorite daycare providers for Devon. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. We will miss her. Jill and Devon
Star Decelles
May 16, 2019
My deepest condolences , when she was at Sterling village I had the pleasure of being her occupation therapist for 2 days .loved her smile and fun loving personality . Kelly you are in God's arms and how lucky he is to have such a beautiful loving woman in his house .RIP Kelly ❤
Lynn Bertrand Street
May 16, 2019
I'm very saddened to hear of Kelly's passing. Although I have not seen her in many many years, the memories I have of her as a little girl I will treasure. My love and prayers go out for her family and loved ones.
Robb Miller
May 16, 2019
Dan,Emma and Conner,I am truly sorry for your loss. I hope you all are doing ok and know that I am thinking about you.Robb Miller
May 16, 2019
Lauri & family, I am so sorry for your loss. My heart aches for all of you at this time. Remember Kelly with a smile on your face as I am sure that is what she would want. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this difficult time. All my Love, Lori
Jess Klay (Bergeron)
May 15, 2019
Dear Dan, Emma, and Connor,
Kelly, your wife and mom, was the first person we trusted with taking care of our daughter Genna when she was just a baby. Kelly welcomed your home and her heart to us and that meant the world to us. We have dozens of pictures where she took her on adventures in the park, to play and laughing in your gym-like basement. And even though the years, running into you at the grocery store or park was always met with such fun reminiscing on the times when our babies were little. We are so thankful she shared her love with us and hope she is at peace. While that does not ease your pain, know that she made such a difference to us while she was here. Much love to you all.
Kathryn McNamara
May 15, 2019
Emma, and family,
Sorry for your loss. Here for you through this difficult time. Prayers.
Your Friend,
Katie
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