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Darius
April 27, 2025
I'm so sorry. I had no idea Ken had passed. He was so very helpful, above and beyond, in helping my family in great time of need. And he was so encouraging to me personally. There is no way I could have ever fully repaid his deep kindness and work on my behalf. He was truly a selfless beautiful soul. And very funny...I will miss him very much.
Darius de Haas
Robert Calvin Rivers
February 17, 2025
I am so sorry and saddened to hear of the passing of "Ram". In my first year of Law School Ram took me under his wing to show me the ropes, and man did he. By coincidence, I lived around the corner from his cousin and her husband. Ram bought me my first French Macanudo Cigar: brilliant man, loyal friend, A ClassAct. Rest In Peace, My Friend. "Rip Rivers(Hockey Puck),NCCU Law "76.
Marcel Florestal
January 24, 2025
Judge Sterling Johnson, Jr., rip, introduced me to Ken. Ken, or Mr. Ramseur as I would call him - which he did not like, always made time for me if I had a legal question. I would have lunch with him periodically. He will be missed.
DAKOTA D. RAMSEUR
December 26, 2024
RIP Daddy & Mom; LOVE U2 w much RESPECT
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Reverend Sharon Breland
December 25, 2024
I have good memories of Kenneth Ramseur. But, as his friend and then as his wife, I will hold them in my heart. I am remembering him today, on his birthday.
Dakota, I am truly sorry to have lost touch. I am sorry that I did not know of Ken´s physical challenges, so that I could support you both through them. My belated condolences to you, Ross, Tamara, Kelly and to the entire Ramseur and Sumlar families.
Love to you,
Rev. Sharon
Vera Saville
October 29, 2024
My condolences to the Ramseur family.
Blessings, Vera Saville
Hon. Tracey A. Bing ret.
October 28, 2024
Dear Dakota,
I send love and prayers for strength and comfort as you process the physical loss of your beloved Kenneth. He will always be with you in spirit. It was a privilege to attend your beautiful memorial tribute for your father. You are his legacy and gift to the world. May you always maintain his lessons and loving memories in your heart. It´s no wonder you are who you are, greatness produces greatness. You are your father´s daughter - always helping others and believing that we can all make it ! Your beautiful father is with the ancestors working to help
Someone I am sure.
God bless you Dakota and your family.
With love and respect,
Hon. Tracey A. Bing ret.
Kelly Vanderhorst
October 28, 2024
Kelly Vanderhorst
October 28, 2024
Kenneth Stout
October 28, 2024
I haven't had a chance to meet Kenneth but from his career and background I know we've would have a lot to talk about since we shared the same first name and is involved with music and the performing arts. My condolences to the family again and I want to get to know more of family members but it's too late much love and blessings to you all.
Kelly Vanderhorst
October 28, 2024
Uncle Ken,
Thank you for all your Love, Guidance, Courage, Strength, and Wisdom.
Thank for being the anchor to our family for all these years!
Thank you for always believing in me and encouraging me to dream Big.
Thank you for being for being my teacher, life coach, and father figure.
Thank you for shaping my mind throughout my life which has helped me to navigate my life in a strategic and purposeful way.
Thank you for asking me at the age of 6.
"Kelly, if a smart person can play dumb, but a dumb person cannot play smart. Which would you rather be? "
I made the decision that day that I would rather be smart!
Uncle Ken I Love You Always!
Your niece Kelly
Kenneth Dyer
October 28, 2024
Owen Lamb spoke highly of him. He was a father and mentor to more than his just family.
Kenneth D Ramseur
October 27, 2024
G. A. "Jeh" Williams
October 27, 2024
Dakota, Coco, D is very dear to me. We became fast friends after my cousin introduced us at a HU Alumni function. It has been said that I run in interesting circles, with Wonder Women...A State of Mind is very dear to me and while my cousin was staying with me, one of these Wonder Women made a bad assumption...Blood is thicker than water, even if you "Put a ring on it!"...Both of them landed in the pokey. So I checked in with Dakota, to get A State of Mind. Her first words to me were "You know that I can´t give you any legal advice." To which I quickly agreed and said "At this hour, you can give me the best friendly advice I can expect to get!" Her reply, "I don´t ever do this, but you can call Ken and that´s between y´all!" (Dakota and I bonded over our Paternal Relationships, so I knew exactly what this meant)...Believe it or not, my, now, at the time, ex-fiancée, was arraigned quicker. However, I did not know that my cousin arranged for this guy called the X-Man to get her out of the slammer. Long story longer...I bounced downtown to meet with Ken, who happened to be in his office (wearing jeans). He was hesitant to assist me at first, because I guess I was in jeans too but after hearing the specifics, indicating that Dakota doesn´t really do this, and NOT BEING DRESSED TO GO BEFORE THE JUDGE. He took the case! He grabbed his big poofy white bomber jacket and literally ran around the corner with me to the courthouse to pull my cousin up from "Central Booking" on a late night, weekend, last opportunity...Although, I watched my , ex-fiancée, get arraigned quicker. I had no doubt that I was witnessing a Master who was doing a young Jedi a favor...In the background, I did not know that my cousin arranged for an attorney, called the X-Man, to spring her from the pokey and as she was being brought out Ken and the X-Man rose to approach the judge. The exchange between the Master and the X-Man was the epitome of extreme humility. Ken did not want to go before the judge in his white poofy bomber jacket, and I think that X wanted to see that happen...at this point the judge became somewhat intrigued as Ken apologized profusely about his appearance, who I was, and how, if it wasn´t for me, he would never appear in court clad the way that he was. Aside from the fact that all was smoothed over, my cousin did make friendly with my Ex, had a good laugh with the X, was glad I showed up with the Master in the big white poofey Bomber jacket who essentially indicated I was the reason everyone one was there. That was 21 years ago and I will miss periodic interactions with Ken who always carried himself with dignity. Dakota and all lives that have been impacted by the Master will remain in my meditations. I carry a little bit of Ken´s spirit with me...
Mitzi Ambrose Washington
October 27, 2024
My deepest sympathies Soror Dakota and family on the passing of Kenneth. Since our college days at Howard, I have admired your father for being such a strong black man. He was a brilliant lawyer, teacher, scholar and amazing human being with a passion for black culture and zest for life. I always loved visiting your home and having conversations with your father in passing. I always felt like I learned something new after speaking with him. Not only did Kenneth inquire about my well being when I came to visit but he would ask me questions that made me think. Then he actually listened to what I had to say. That was rare for me at such a young age and I remember thinking how lucky you were to have a father like that. Then I realized that you were just like him. I see so much of Kenneth in you Dakota and that is a beautiful thing. May Kenneth rest in peace and the memory of him always live in your heart. I love you dearly.
Sincerely,
Soror Mitzi Ambrose Washington
Ronald Scott
October 27, 2024
So many memories I will go with being in the dormitory at famu with Ken snd speedy teaching us how to do the Brooklyn two-step... miss u Ken
"Ronnie Scott
Jeannie Lopez
October 27, 2024
Mr. Ramseur will forever hold a cherished place in my heart, mind, and soul for the wit and wisdom he shared during his time with us. He was truly a force to be reckoned with, someone I deeply respect and always will. I´m grateful for the moments we shared; he was the epitome of a gentleman, and his dry sense of humor brought light into every interaction. He would always ask for my son "How is Jake doing?" This past Father´s Day, I had the chance to call him and express my gratitude for the greatest gift he gave me, aside from my mother and children-his daughter, Dakota. She is my anchor, my true sister and friend, and I thanked him for the privilege of knowing her. I promised him that I would always take care of her and be by her side. I told him I loved him, and when he told me he loved me too, it meant the world, especially knowing he didn´t often say those words lightly. I knew the end was near, and though it broke my heart, I know there will never truly be an end with him. His love, joy, wisdom, and the memories he gifted us will live on, marking his legacy in our lives. That, I believe, is the greatest blessing he could have given us-a lasting mark on this world that few achieve.
Karen Sloan Payne Provette
October 27, 2024
I feel blessed to be able to say that even though my cousin Kenneth and I were 7 years apart, we were almost the only 2 related families that lived in New York City. Even closer geographically, we grew up together in the Gowanus Houses in Brooklyn. He attended all me and my brother's birthday parties as my mother and his mother became closer and joined a social club called the Clusters. This group was far ahead of its time and got together to attend Broadway matinee plays along with lunch at wonderful Manhattan restaurants. It must of been around this time that Kenneth would babysit for me and another neighborhood girl. Since my only brother was 4 years younger than me, Kenneth became the "Big Brother" I never had. I think this is when his paternalistic side started. He was sure-footed, protective and no nonsense. I think the no nonsense part developed after being tested by his strong willed younger brother Wesley and to a lesser degree, his younger sister Pluma. This paternalistic helping side was exhibited to myself, my brother his siblings and any other younger children who were around him. While we were somewhat separated when I turned 8 since my family moved to a different neighborhood in Brooklyn; we continued the relationship particularly while I attended Fordham University's Graduate School of Social Service in Columbus Circle. Located walking distance from his home, I would often stop by to see him. He was gracious and loving, but oh if you said or did something that didn't make sense; he would let you know it! I think he and my father got close, particularly after his dad died. It was only about 10 years ago that I realized how much he and my dad were alike. My dad went to one year of law school but was then drafted into the service, as most times they didn't allow for draft deferment for black men. When he left the service, my dad became a Social Worker. Kenneth did it in reverse but was able to finish law school. I definitely realize how many similarities there were between them. Both exhibited a love of family, and quietly lived spiritual lives even though it wasn't very obvious. Both also took seriously, service to others without most around them even being aware of it. Kenneth was a groomsman in my first wedding and we found ourselves getting together here and there as we raised only children. I think and pray there were only a few times I disappointed him and I tried hard not to let that happen again. Years later, his daughter Dakota and I became even closer than cousins and I think that quietly pleased him and was my way of passing on his legacy. For all those reading this overly long piece; I think the best way to honor this man is to "Pay it Forward". If we all take the time out to do something for someone else we don't even know, with no expectation of anything in return; it will be the best way to remember this unforgettable Renaissance man!
Loved You Much - Cousin Karen Sloan-Payne Provette
Sam Penceal
October 26, 2024
Betsy Marangoly
October 26, 2024
My Dearest Ken,
I miss you and I love you. You will always be one of the truest blessings in my life. 27+ plus years of friendship, counsel, and heartfelt conversations have left me with memories that I will cherish forever. Your kindness, wisdom, appreciation and boundless respect for everyone and everything filled every story you shared, every laugh we had, and every moment we spent together.
I remember with such humility and admiration the way you spoke of Dakota, especially when she became Justice. The pride that shone in your smile as a father was unforgettable. You were the first person I called in any circumstance, always ready with your insight, and your larger-than-life presence made everyone around you believe that anything is possible.
Thank you for sharing your love of Jazz with me, for showing me the beauty in all instruments and how each subtle note made music-and life-so rich. You taught me to savor life´s finer details and I am forever grateful.
My heart goes out to your family, Dakota, and to all who were touched by your Beautiful Soul. God Bless you and keep you always.
You will always be one of the Greats.
With love and prayers, Betsy Marangoly
Renaye B.Cuyler,Esq.
October 26, 2024
Kenneth and I spent hours sharing political and social issue discussions. We collaborated on cases . But most of all I shall remember him for his deep and abiding Friendship! He was like still water that runs so deep! RIP my Dear Friend!
Renaye B. Cuyler, Esq.
Charisse Marshall
October 26, 2024
On behalf of the members of the Spring 1999 line of Tau Omega Chapter of Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Incorporated, I would like to extend our heartfelt condolences to our line sister Dakota. We met Ken 25 years ago!
Charisse Marshall
Nicholas M. Cherot
October 26, 2024
My condolences to Dakota and the family. Thank you for sharing Ken with the rest of us.
Not that he was some passive entity that could be assigned, directed, placed. He was a force, independently moving through life, through lives.
Ken was amazing in so many respects, not the least of which was how he handled his guaranteed imminent death. From the time he shared that news with me in February to a few days before his departure, I told him from time to time that the equanimity and grace with which he faced that situation were astounding and inspiring. He attributed this to accepting and reveling in how wonderful his life had been - career-wise, luminaries (and I mean historical and not just entertainment figures) he had gotten to know well, people he had helped along the way, experiences and memories from his beloved "The High," friendships, and perhaps most of all, the success and love of the wonderful Dakota - had made it clear to him that there was no room for regrets or self-pity. Similarly, he had not gone off the rails but maintained a thoughtful, reasoned stance around the NYPD fatal shooting of his younger brother, Wesley (Wes), an at least two-time first team All-City hoopster and co-author of Roy Ayer's 1979 hit "Don't Stop the Feeling."
But make no mistake. Ken was simultaneously a warrior brooking no nonsense, including injustices to Black people or personal affronts. I remember a private, intimate gathering focused on financially supporting Kwame Ture's (Stokely Carmichael) medical treatment when he blasted those there who were so set on sharing their personal experiences: "I'm not here to hear your stories, but to hear those, and the wisdom, of Kwame."
When I asked him for his thoughts on an afterlife (there was never a limit on what I could ask him or him me, and we did not restrict ourselves to the profound, the existential) he simply said he did not know and was not banking on it. I will not comfort myself with some vision of him supposedly basking in peace and pleasure while ensconced in and looking down on us from Heaven. I will simply feel his presence and do a good job of reminiscing.
Dr. Paula L. Collins
October 25, 2024
I do not remember how or exactly when I met Kenneth Ramseur. I think it was between 1971-1972. He was not yet a lawyer, but he was a force! I was about 23 or 24 years old. I was from a small college town trying to adapt to life in New York City. I had recently finished grad school and thought I was ready to live my life. I did not know that I needed to be "raised" but he not only knew it, he did it. He never lectured me when he thought I was about to take a step in a direction that was not in my best interest. I trusted him and would come to him for an advice. He would say, "I have no advice to give you. Answer these questions and decide." If I really listened and answered honestly, my decisions were on point. Sometimes, I went my own way and made mistakes. He knew and never judged me for it.
The things I remember most are the people whom I met in his home, the awesome music and the conversations. His home was a magic realm! The people were thinkers, dreamers and doers. He hosted Don Shirley, James Baldwin and many other accomplished individuals. The music he played infiltrated the soul. One of my favorite songs was "The White Rabbit" by George Benson; it had an array of musicians that were all beyond category. The conversations caused me to develop interests I had not considered; they were life enriching. I decided to become international and study things beyond the degrees that I use professionally. I grew immensely from knowing Kenneth.
On occasion, our world of thinkers, dreams and doers was infiltrated by one who insultingly challenged Kenneth or others. He would not respond to the confrontation. He would simply ask them questions about their point of view and that usually shut down the insults. When you have a point of view based only on "feelings" and nothing with which to substantiate the feelings, that is usually the result.
Others have said much about Kenneth after he became an attorney, so that is well documented. I am so proud to have been his friend. He was family and friend to me; I call it "framily". He trusted me to take his daughter, Dakota whom he loved deeply, to child-appropriate activities. He was one of the best there was and ever will be! He is forever in my heart.
Lisa S. Ottley
October 24, 2024
My deepest and heartfelt condolences Soror Dakota. May your fondest memories remain close to your heart.
Graham Watt
October 24, 2024
I will always cherish the great bond Kenneth and I shared and the "lets knock 'em dead and change the world" kind of conversations we had when we were growing up. And, looking back over his life's work and the contributions he made, he no doubt, made his mark. He certainly made the family proud. I will truly miss him beyond what words can say.
Carmen Tull
October 24, 2024
Kenneth a long friend of over 30 years when you asked me if I knew anybody that could work with you and I volunteered my sister Blanca and she been with you ever since you became a part of the family., that we lose to cancer. You were a wonderful person a delicate person to all of us especially my mom that she loved you so much. May you rest in peace you up in heaven with the angels and with my sister. Dakota our sincere sympathy. God bless
Mel & Eulada Watt
October 24, 2024
We always looked forward to going to dinner and hanging out with Kenneth whenever we came to New York. He had a kind and gentle soul and always played forward the connection he had years ago with my brother Graham to my son Jason during his years in New York. While Kenneth was a consummate New Yorker, he had the roots and heart of his family (Wesley Mauney and others) in North Carolina. We will think of him in a special way every time we come to New York, and we will miss him always. Mel & Eulada Watt
Murray
October 23, 2024
A true larger-than-life giant, he stood alongside some of the great clients he represented. During our family visits he was often busy, but his dedication as a hard-working professional was truly inspiring. His presence exuded confidence, and he always showed a committed to his work. Each time we met, it was clear how influential his dedication was-not just in his career, but also as a devoted father and gentleman. He lived the dream, being a top attorney and witnessing his daughter ascend the bench as a judge, but stay fully grounded as a dedicated public servant. When his daughters was being sworn in, I just happened to arrive and walk in behind him. You could see his strength, pride, and how he would not have missed that day. Probably the proudest day seeing his daughter continuing the walking in the foot steps of a giants. Always the Gentleman. God Bless.
Jeanette
October 23, 2024
Wow. I can think of so many special moments of laughter and light as a result of knowing Kenneth. He was a real friend and a comforter for many years. He was one of few people I truly trusted.
Shortly before learning of his transitioning, I had a moment of reflection on our friendship and felt the need to reach out. I didn't. I am sorry that I didn't get the chance to have another conversation with him. There surely would have been laughter and good vibes. I will always treasure his sense of humor, his wisdom and his ability to hear what was in the heart.
God bless you, Kenneth. May you soar with angels as your soul continues it's journey.
Tracy Graham
October 22, 2024
Mr. Ramseur and I spent a lot of time discussing the news of the day and catching up over my 25 years of knowing him. He was an awesome mentor, never too busy to talk with me and drop pearls of wisdom. I often hold dear these words he left me with, "You are not better than anyone, but you are better off than some, so choose your company wisely." I will miss him dearly.
Lalania Gilkey-Johnson
October 21, 2024
The year was 1991 at Howard University, and Mr. Kenneth Ramseur's reputation as a scholar, a titan of intellect, and an effortlessly cool individual was well-known. Dakota and I were roommates at HU, and she frequently spoke of "Kenneth" with great admiration, both in our conversations and during their routine telephone calls. I was intrigued by this man who was not only so highly regarded but also shared a close relationship with his daughter. It was clear I had to meet him.
My first encounter with Mr. Ramseur occurred during a college weekend visit to New York. By then, I had already formed an image of him in my mind, shaped by Dakota´s stories. However, meeting him in person revealed that my mental picture had barely scratched the surface of his grandeur. Mr. Ramseur was not only intelligent and cool but also deeply introspective. He posed questions that probed into the very core of one's beliefs and encouraged a profound reevaluation of one's principles. He never settled for superficial answers, always delving deeper to uncover the underlying truths.
Over the years, Mr. Ramseur maintained a keen interest in my life and that of my family. He frequently joined Dakota and me for dinners when I was in New York, or he would invite me to his apartment for discussions. During these sessions, he would regale me with tales of his time at FAMU, his encounters with jazz legends, and his insights into politics and law. He consistently challenged my perspectives, not only regarding my own life but also in the way I raised my three sons. Our conversations, often spanning hours, were always accompanied by the soothing backdrop of his jazz collection. His voice, with its cool, melodic tones, still resonates in my memory.
Despite his naturally composed demeanor, there was one occasion when Mr. Ramseur's usual coolness was overwhelmed by pride-when Dakota was sworn in as a judge. His pride in his daughter was palpable, and his expectations of her were rightly high, both professionally and personally. He had raised her to be self-sufficient, thoughtful, and diligent in all her endeavors.
Mr. Ramseur had a subtle, effortless humor. I recall a conversation during a Howard Homecoming event five years ago. When he asked how I was handling middle age, I vehemently denied being middle-aged. His simple retort, "Well, you are over 50, right?" was both humorous and humbling.
Mr. Ramseur's interest in the lives of my family members was unwavering. He always had words of encouragement and advised patience during challenging times. He celebrated all my milestones-from college graduation to my first job, marriage, the births of my children, the loss of my parents, my children's college graduations, and beyond. Mr. Ramseur was a constant presence, offering advice and sharing in my joys and sorrows. He took a genuine interest in my parents' accomplishments, even though he never met them, and often asked for stories about them. Remarkably, he would recount those stories to me years later, enriched with his reflections.
He encouraged me to cherish memories but emphasized the importance of continuing to live fully. The lessons Mr. Ramseur imparted and the lives he touched will continue to resonate. I am forever grateful to have called Mr. Ramseur a friend.
Afriquia L
October 21, 2024
If I had to describe Kenneth in three words, it would be confident, intelligent and attentive. Knowledge from Kenneth is priceless and worth more than any amount of money. Kenneth, you will be missed; but I know my Mom - your love - is waiting for you at those pearly gates. May your soul rest in peace.
Afriquia L
Donald Sumlar
October 20, 2024
Your heart soon will be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived. I remember the summers when Aunt Verna and Kenneth would visit Family members in North Carolina. They would visit his Grandparents who were Jake's Parents in Kings Mountain and also our home in Bessemer City. We lived in the Country near a Dairy Farm and Keneth enjoyed the cows and other farm animals on the Farm and going to a swimming hole we went to. Those were Happy days.. Condolences for your lost, Your Cousins, Carolyn Sumlar Lomick, Janice Sumlar Allbray and Donald Rudolph Sumlar.
Alma Robinson
October 20, 2024
Sending love from the San Francisco to Dakota and the rest of our extensive clan -- the Roberts, Borders, Mauney, Howell, Briggs and Related Families -- as we mourn the loss of Kenneth. As the Executive Director of California Lawyers for the Arts, I especially appreciated his deep experience with intellectual property and entertainment law. In one particular situation that comes to mind, our elders benefited from his cautionary advice as we reviewed a legacy project that was under consideration after our centennial celebration. He saw the full implications of the proposal and freely shared his wise counsel. We cherish his memory and are so grateful that Dakota has inherited his legal acumen and integrity. May his spirit live on in all of us whose lives he touched.
George Eric Leonard
October 19, 2024
Kenneth Ramseur was a long term friend and major support to the Leonard family for many years. My brothers and Kennth were spiritually fused at the hip. Especially Alvin and Chris Leonard, during the time when their careers were well established. I personally benefited from our friendship when my accomplishments in education soared in NYC and D.C. learning communities. Kenny , protected and encouraged me during all of my pursuits ,beyond my expectations.
I will miss his laughter and inspirational advice during the good and bad times of navigating the minefields of success. He will always be remembered as the 5th Leonard brother in our eyes as he joins hands with the one we lost too soon.
May they both rest in strength ,
Eric Leonard
Wanda BakerSmith
October 19, 2024
Kenny was Donald´s choice to be the best man @ our wedding. His love & devotion to family & friends made him the ideal choice.He was an excellent Father as evidenced by the wonderful woman Dakota has become.
Lorna Paris
October 18, 2024
The love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
Paulette Pennington Jones
October 17, 2024
1 For Kenneth
rocking still
present participling
big baba griot Kenneth soul talking
a tall baritone black man court holding
throning smoke & mirrors & cigar fumes
good grandsoning, good soning, good big brothering,
good fathering, good mothering, good uncleing, good friending,
wonderful gooding
good giving, good honoring, gooding thorough truthing,
good riding not dying, good showing not talking love, so being,
wonderful gooding
with driving night lighting flying to brooklyn, to the east heading
pharoah & ra astral traveling music making
sounding saxophones, trumpets, coronets, flutes, guitars bassing,
drums timing, trap rhythming, voices rhyming
filled with black men & women emanating staring sporting coloring
magenta, neon greens, soft yellows & purples
old school dashikis, new school track suits, pin striped three pieces,
& khakis buttoning down, around cowrie shells galore
back against the wall don´t fall
navigating a message crossing diaspora
soaring on west 10th avenue & 51st street manhattan
& surrealistic black arts harlem in garvey groomed generosity
big baba griot Kenneth soul talking
© circa 2024
paulette pennington jones
Serena Springle
October 17, 2024
Kenneth Ramseur was a gentleman and a scholar. It was always a pleasure seeing and speaking to him. He would always have a bright smile and kind words. He will be missed.
My condolences to Dakota and his entire family.
Arthur W. Greig
October 16, 2024
Dear Justice Ramseur:
I´m so sorry for your loss. Know that your father, Kenneth, left his positive mark on an entire generation of young black lawyers, particularly those who came along in the late70s or early 80s.
I first met Ken in the chambers of his good friend, Judge Bruce Wright. In those days on any given Thursday or Friday after hours, Judge Wright would have an uptown or Bed Stuy or Bronx black practitioner regaling us young pups with stories of actual practice of law in NYC by black men representing our communities. Ken was a positive character, as was Hudson Reid, Bill Lake or Milt Richardson. They had to be to survive and thrive in hostile circumstances.
After I left the court system and opened a Bronx office on 149th Street, I would see Ken in criminal court. As always, he was friendly, helpful, offered his time and experience if I needed it. As years rolled on , when my office was on lower Broadway, Ken would organize lunches or dinners of young black practitioners including Nick Cherot, Milt Tingling, Alvin Leonard, Donald Douboulay , Tony Ricco , Ed Wilford and many others. We all bonded in these impromptu meals with laughter, reality and good counsel from Ken. All highly driven workaholics. Ken understood and was there to help.
One final remembrance. When Harlem lawyer Eugene Boggan passed away untimely, at his funeral at Benta´s, right after the services, on the street, Ken started telling the large crowd about Boggan having a young widow and young child who would be in need of immediate help. Ken literally took off his hat and insisted that we all give whatever cash we had in our pockets.
Amazingly within 20 minutes, Ken managed to collect nearly $1,000 and counted it out and handed it to the young widow.
Justice Ramseur, your Dad has left you with an amazing legacy of sharp minded hard work, good work, community work. Be proud and embrace that legacy. I will truly make as my old friend. May he rest in peace.
Albert Skido Ortiz
October 15, 2024
Kenneth was a great human being in my eyes, always treated me like family, every time he saw me he always talked a lot of wisdom and life lessons. I didn´t have much growing up, but seeing how Kenneth lived and carried himself was something I took in my heart, to know there´s a better life for me out there! In my world that was enough for me! I loved him for that and he will be truly missed!
Preston Ramsey
October 15, 2024
Kenneth. Cousin, counsel, friend. We shared intimate thoughts, observations, and vulnerabilities rare in this world for men like ourselves. I could only wish that all brothers in distress and success could have the ear of someone like Kenneth Ramseur.
Derryl Zimmerman
October 13, 2024
Kenneth is the most positive and endearing person I have met. I have had the privilege of knowing him for many, many years, and my experiences have not only been pleasant and inspiring, but also motivating. He has been a very generous source of encouragement and empowerment. He's always made time for me, when I needed guidance. Kenneth has always given me his undivided attention, then shared his wisdom and reasonable judgment. He was that rare person, who recognized the significance of making a person feel both respected and important, simultaneously. I always looked forward to any opportunity to be in his presence. As a legal mentor, he is a blessing! I do not limit that statement to the past tense, because I believe his influence will be eternal. In 1997, I interviewed partners from several affluent New York City law firms (for my MBA thesis); one of the highest compliments I will never forget was, "Kenneth Ramseur is one of the finest attorneys I know!" I'm so grateful to not only be a witness of the truth of his legal prowess, but also his friendship.
Thomas Bell
October 13, 2024
Dear Dakota:
I truly believe that I knew your father even though I never had the pleasure of meeting him. I say this not only because of the reverential terms in which you spoke of him but because your uncommonly strong and generous character had to eminate from the man who raised you. You will continue to be in my prayers.
Thomas
T Brooks
October 12, 2024
We extend our deepest and heartfelt condolences to your family and loved ones. It was a pleasure to meet Kenneth. May your loving memories of your dad and your faith comfort you during this difficult time.
Dwayne Shaw
October 9, 2024
I count myself as very lucky to have spent even just a little time with Kenneth Ramseur. Over the years, whenever I would visit with Dakota at her Manhattan apartment she would make certain to bring me over to see her Dad. I really enjoyed those visits. Mr. Ramseur was so impressive. His wide and deep reservoir of knowledge and perspective on many topics always knocked me out. And he was quite eloquent to boot. Just really cool.
But in the best of ways I was also intimidated by Mr Ramseur. I knew when I sat down to chat with him I had to be on point. He was going to ask all the questions and all the follow-ups. I felt I had to make sure my conversation was tight. I could let no foolishness spill from my lips. LOL! He challenged me and I believe expected me to be up to the challenge. I really looked forward to those talks.
Reflecting on Mr. Ramseur and having a bit of perspective myself now, I realize why I held him in such high regard. The figure he cut in the world - accomplished, whip smart, no nonsense and doing well socially - he modeled for me the kind of man I was hopeful I might become. I´ll always appreciate, cherish and remember him fondly for that.
RIP
Donald Mauney
October 8, 2024
Dakota,
The loss of your father is a void that words can't fill. Your Dad left an incredible legacy you exemplify in your work, deeds and words. We honor your father's memory with our prayers and condolences as you travel this painful journey of loss and grief.
May the Angels of family, friends and co-workers that surround you provide you with the comfort, love and support you need at this time.
With love and prayer,
Your DC cousins
Don, Lauren and Lanette Mauney
D. Bleu Walker
October 7, 2024
Dakota and I are college friends, and during one of our breaks, I had the pleasure of meeting her father, Kenneth, as she affectionately called him. I remember vividly spending time in their lovely high-rise apartment nestled in the heart of Hell´s Kitchen. One day, Kenneth walked into the living room, tall, handsome, charming, with a baritone voice that made him seem larger than life.
Mr. Ramseur always had a captivating story, an encouraging word, and it was thrilling to listen to him speak. He shared his love for jazz with me and introduced me to the magic of Stevie Wonder, playing songs beyond the popular hits on the radio. The living room was lined with albums, great vibes and it felt like stepping into a cozy speakeasy, with Mr. Ramseur as the perfect host.
I didn´t grow up with a father, so Mr. Ramseur's presence was essential in showing me what a strong Black man, father, and professional looked like. I am grateful to Dakota for sharing her dad with me. He was truly a Renaissance man, embodying so many talents and passions. I feel incredibly fortunate to have experienced his light, and his presence has left a lasting impact on my life.
Talib I. Karim
October 6, 2024
Dakota,
Please accept my heartfelt condolences. It was a pleasure to meet your cosmopolitan father when he hosted me and a group of our HU schoolmates during our famous road trip to NYC. As you recall, it was my first visit to the city, and your father was one of the most cherished parts of the trip. We spent the night hearing his war stories as a lawyer, his experiences raising you from childhood to adulthood, and talking about the plight of our people, the leaders he represented, and solutions for our community and nation.
Seeing your father sacrifice so much as a young lawyer while raising you as a single father had a profound impact on me. His example inspired me to become the guardian of my youngest sister when my father, a city councilman in Memphis, became ill and later passed. Knowing that Kenneth could balance his career while caring for you gave me the strength to do the same for my sister.
We see examples in the news every day of our youth self-destructing, and the recent beating of former Governor Patterson by a group of young people is one such tragedy. This is a direct result of the lack of mentoring and sacrifice we provide them, unlike the dedication our parents gave to us.
Let us return the favor by investing more of our time and money in these young people, ensuring they have the guidance they need to thrive. As the saying goes, "to whom much is given, much is required." Let´s honor your father´s legacy by following his example of sacrifice for family and community. Talib Ibn Karim, Esq.
VERINA MATHIS-CRAWFORD
October 5, 2024
Kenneth and I went to FAMU together, he was look a brother to me. After I moved to Brooklyn many years ago, he and I stayed in touch and he became my Family's lawyer. I have so many wonderful memories of Ken. Hope to see you on the 27th. Verina
Toni Jones
October 4, 2024
I learned the meaning of unselfishness. Ken was one of the most consequential friends of my life.
Leroy Wilson Jr
October 3, 2024
I regret that I will not be able to be physically present at the memorial service as I will not be in the United States during that time. What a great loss of a very kind gentleman and colleague at the bar! May he rest in eternal peace and shower heaven with his grace.
Leroy Wilson, Jr.
October 3, 2024
I think I first met Ken at a meeting that Nic Cherot called of a team of lawyers to represent the Estate of an icon in American history.
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