Kim Calo

Kim Calo

Kim Calo Obituary

Visit the Legacy Remembers website to view the full obituary.
CALO - Kim (Nee: Anderson), of Glen Head, NY on January 10, 2009. Beloved mother of Nicholas and Jonathan. Loving daughter of Arthur and the late Virginia. Dear sister of Arthur, Debra, Virginia, Wayne, Carol, and Glenn. Visiting Wednesday 2–4 and 7–9pm, Whitting Funeral Home, 300 Glen Cove Ave., Glen Head, NY. Funeral Mass Thursday 9:30am, St. Boniface Martyr Church, Sea Cliff, NY. Interment Locust Valley Cemetery, Locust Valley, NY.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Sign Kim Calo's Guest Book

Not sure what to say?

November 23, 2016

Chris Lichtenstein posted to the memorial.

November 1, 2015

Nikki M posted to the memorial.

October 15, 2015

Verena Schwarzer posted to the memorial.

Chris Lichtenstein

November 23, 2016

I think of you and talk to you often. I love you.

Nikki M

November 1, 2015

Happy Birthday in heaven honey....I miss you and think about you every day...little Kimmy is getting so big and knows about how much you mean to her mommy. Happy birthday Scorpio baby forever xoxo

Verena Schwarzer

October 15, 2015

Hey Kimmi. I often times talk to you. I still wished this has been a terrible nightmare. I do have the feeling too you have helped me out too often times. Maybe you saved my life. Love Verena

June 14, 2015

Thinking of you Kim. I hope you know.

January 9, 2015

I miss you every day. I feel like you have been watching over me and helping me out...I just wish I could talk to you again xoxo

January 3, 2012

Kim,

It's almost three years since your gone. I miss u soo much. So many times I wanted to call you. I know one day I will see u again in heaven. You will always be my BFF.

November 22, 2011

Hi Kimmy, There is not one day, not one, that goes by and I don't thinkg of you. I am still heartbroken; it never ends or gets any better. Not one day. I am so proud of Ginny, and I know you would be too. She is beautiful and happy and stronger than ever. You know what? There are alot of cool dance songs that pop up all of the time...and even though I am way out in the desert, in a glaxay far far away (lol), I can still get satelite KTU. I keep thinking about you and how much you would love these fun songs, and I dance around, thinking about you. The fall always and especially holds a special place in my heart for you. We always had so much fun. How are you doing? You doing ok? i miss you...

November 22, 2010

I would give anything to talk to you right now. I keep telling myself that you are still here, just in a different form, and that heaven needed you. I'm just being selfish and want you back here with me.

November 22, 2010

Dear Kim,
I miss you so much lately. I have a picture of you hanging up by Kimmy's crib. I cant wait to tell her all about you. I am so proud of Ginny and how amazing she is. I know you are right there with her all of the time. I miss you terribly...Nikki

May 18, 2010

You were in my dream for the second time....it was so good to talk to you again. its been so hard not having you around....love you

May 17, 2010

Dear Kim,
I saw someone who looked like you the other day, so you have been on my mind. I thought to myself how beautiful you were, but I'm not sure you knew it. I will miss you forever.

Christina (a friend from Avis)

February 26, 2010

TF..... Miss u soooo much! There isnt a day go bye that I dont think about u. I wish you were hear but I believe God wanted you for some reason.Don't worry I am watching over Ginny for you. LOL We will meet again someday my friend. :)

February 17, 2010

Dear Kim...hi it's Nikki. Been thinking about you alot (but I'm sure you already know this). Actually, there is not one day that goes by without thoughts of you. Baby Kimmy is almost here...just a few more weekd to go! Man she is giving me a RUN for the money LOL! Nothing that I could never handle though ;) She will be strong like you, thats for certain. I cant wait to tell her all about you. I was thinking, when I move back to NY after my Army tour, I may get into personal training. I've met a wonderful friend named Lila who I know you would love. You ladies have alot in common, and she would have really enjoyed meeting you. Maybe you helped our paths to cross? I love you honey! Talk to you soon...Nikki

GINNY

January 22, 2010

HI LIL SIS, IT'S BEEN A YEAR AND YET IT FEELS LIKE YESTERDAY. MY HEART IS STILL BROKEN, BUT I AM TRYING TO BE STRONG. YOUR BOYS AND I WENT BOWLING THE OTHER DAY. WE HAD SUCH A GREAT TIME. THEY ARE SUCH GREAT KIDS. YOU DID A GREAT JOB RAISING THEM. THEY ARE BOTH HONOR STUDENTS AND NICOLAS. GOT INTO CHAMINADE(I KNOW HE AND YOU SPOKE ABOUT THIS OFTEN). WE LAUGH ABOUT THE GREAT TIMES WE ALL HAD TOGETHER. I THINK OF YOU EVERY DAY WITH A SMILE AND A TEAR IN MY EYE. NIKKI IS HAVING A GIRL. SHE TOLD ME SHE IS NAMING HER AFTER YOU. I PRAY SHE HAS YOUR SMILE AND YOUR INFECTOUS LAUGH. I LOVE AND MISS YOU.

Kristia Piscitelli (Mecca)

January 11, 2010

One year has pasted and I still can't believe your not on this earth. Memories keep you alive for sure, whether it be a song, or a picture or a place....you'll always be in my heart.

Christina

January 6, 2010

I worked with Kim when she was employed at Avis in Garden City. I just learned of her passing today, and my heart is broken. We became quite close working next to each other, but lost touch over the years. I am writing today to express my sadness to her family and friends. I could not stop thinking of her all day, and I prayed to her and talked to her. I told her how much our friendship meant to me, and to possibly give me a sign that she knows. A little while later I got in my car to go to a meeting. The radio was on, but I went to shut it off as I wasn't in the mood for music. Just before I did this 'You're My Best Friend' by Queen started to play. I turned up the volume, smiled, and thanked kim. I don't believe in coincidences, I truly felt her. I looked up the words to the song when I got home, and felt much comfort.

To her family and children, I offer my prayers and condolences.

September 11, 2009

Kimmy...Hi its Nikki. I miss you so much and think about you everyday. Did Ginny tell you that I am pregnant?! Can you believe it lol? I thought to myself.."no way" when I found out (after all...who gets pregnant at 34 on the first month of "not trying" LOL?). I told Ginnny "perhaps" I could be. She went to church that day and lit a candle for you and me....and poof- I'm knocked up LOL! Sometimes I get scared of how much my life will soon change. I pray that I will be a good mommy and do the right things...esp being in the Army and being so busy. When I think of you though, a sense of peace and comfort washes over me and I feel confident again. I know you will be right there. I love you.

June 6, 2009

Angel4U, There is a place in my heart and spirit that was darkened the moment I knew you were no longer physically here. I am on a journey, as I believe most of those who cared and loved you, are on. That is to fill the empty dark space with the bight light you had shown on us. Your passing certainly has challenged my personal relationship with mindfulness. Greiving is a powerful emotion that comes from love. Even though grief can be very painful, it is also a path to healing. Everyday you remind me how much I am alive to feel the emotion of loving someone because of how much I so miss you. Debra

Nikki

May 28, 2009

Dear Kimmy, Hi honey I know it's been a while but I'm always thinking about you. Everything reminds me of you. Sometimes when I have a rough day at work, I think about what you would say to me to cheer me up; or when I hear a stupid joke or see something silly on the comedy channel I think about you. I believe you put people in my life over these past few months to help me deal with missing you. My roomate is amazing and I know you two would have a blast together. She reminds me of you...so beautiful, fun, down-to-earth and nonjudgemental. I miss you very much oxoxo

Antonette Reeves

April 8, 2009

To the Anderson and Calo families, my prayers and thoughts are with you. I went to school with Kim and I had recently seen her at the 2005 North Shore High School Reunion. I knew her to be a kind hearted person. The Bible says For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, and are justified freely by his grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus. God presented him as a sacrifice of atonement, through faith in his blood. He did this to demonstrate his justice, because in his forbearance he had left the sins committed beforehand unpunished- he did it to demonstrate his justice at the present time, so as to be just and the one who justifies those who have faith in Jesus. Romans 3:23-26. For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord. Romans 6:23. If you confess with your mouth,Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For it is with your heart that you believe and are justified, and it is with your mouth that you confess and are saved. Romans 10:9-10. Everyone who calls on the name of the Lord will be saved. Romans 10:13. Jesus said I am the way the truth and the life no one comes to the father except through him.
May God bless you and comfort you in your time of need.

Nikki

March 7, 2009

Hey Honey...I just wanted to say hello. I am going out with a bunch of my battle buddies (what brothers and sisters in the Army call each other) to go dancing at a place here in San Antonio callled "Cowboys". OF COURSE...I am thinking about you and how much fun you would have if we were together tonight 'cause I know how much I loved to go out dancing with you!!! We would OWN that dance floor!! Although Kim, this is country music, so I'm in unfamiliar territory LOL. Wish I brought my cowboy hat :) I so wish you were here to go out with me. I miss you everyday; still it's so hard here without you... I know you are around though, because I believe in you and always will.

Nicole

February 16, 2009

Hi Kim...I think about you all of the time; and there are so many moments during the day that I want to tell you things; like about my army convoy training and sleeping in a tent for three weeks or how I went to vegas this weekend to meet my Tommy for valentines day and bought a pair of hot pink 4 in. swede heels and I know you got a kick out of that and would tell me that I have to be nice to myself and have fun! I know you already know all of this, because you are there all of the time...even if it's not in the way I'm used to. I can still feel the way it feels when you give me a big hug. I rememer when I stopped by to say hi before I went to cali to see The hubby and you were throwing logs into the "official wood pile" with Nicholas and Jonathan and you were sporting the coolest black puffy winter log-tossing jacket. You were psyched about having a fire in your fire place with the boys :) I think about you every day. Thank you for still being there for me; like you always were and still will be...Love Nikki

Kristia Piscitelli (Mecca)

February 9, 2009

I went to your place of rest yesterday. I just sat on the wall near you and thought of you. Thought that you should be here on this beautiful day. I thought of when the two of us would go cruising in your 280ZX down to Bayville. What fun we had. I know that your at peace and showing everyone in heaven what a beautiful, fun loving woman you are. Although we hadn't seen each other in years, ALL the memories we share (Me, you and Heather- what a bunch) are all coming back to me and I'll never ever forget what a cherished friend you were to me.

Nikki (Nicole) McKeon

January 31, 2009

My wonderful kind, caring friend who had the biggest heart....she loved people. Never judged anyone; always wanting people to be happy. She never failed to find the good in everyone she met and knew. She was always there for me with a hug and reassurance when I needed it. She would do anything for her boys, her family, and her friends. I am so proud of her for achieving her dream of opening up her own gym. She trained people because she wanted to help them feel good about themselves. That is Kim. Always caring. Although I am eternally grateful for having been a part of her life, mine will never be the same without her. I love you Kim, and Ginny I love you too. I love you for being such a wonderful support for Kim, who thinks the world of you. I know that if I ever get deployed to a scary place, I will not be afraid, because I have an angel who will always be with me.

Kristia Piscitelli

January 30, 2009

I can't stop thinking about you Kim. I can't stop thinking about your boys. I just keep praying they will be alright. One thing i know is that heaven has another special angel to watch over them always.

Katie Russo

January 26, 2009

I feel really bad for the Anderson and Calo families. I really miss Kimmy and her bright laugh and warm smile. She brought a lot of light to this world. Nicholas and Jonathan, if yo ever read this, know that Kim, whenever she left the gym, it was always,"I'm cooking dinner for the boys", or "I'm helping Nicholas/Jonathan with his project/homework" or "I'm going to a game for the boys." She loved you so much, and you brought her the greatest amount of pride and joy. I only knew Kim for a short while, but I really miss her. I will never forget her. I'm not the most eloquent of people, so I can't really express how devastated my family and I are. My father, mother, and I all trained with Kim. It's been so much harder to get through the school day. I catch myself trying to remember whether I'm working out or not, and I keep waiting to see Kimmy walk around the corner. Love, Katie-Talks-A-Lot

Kara (White) Kinback

January 24, 2009

I have such wonderful memories of Kim throughout my childhood. We grew up as neighbors and shared in many activities; school, birthday parties, Halloween, walking home from Glenwood etc. Even though we hadn't seen each other in many years (since high school), I had received updates as to how she was doing and what a beautiful person she had grown into. I too will always remember her laugh and smile. I pray for Kim's family and boys and for her, a dear "old" friend.

Ginny

January 22, 2009

Kim, you were not only my baby sister, but the best friend I ever had. We were together almost every day. You made me believe in myself and filled my life with laughter and love.I promise I will keep your loving spirit alive in the hearts of your sons. I will miss you and think of you everyday.

T.F.

January 21, 2009

KIM and i WERE FRIENDS FROM HIGH SCHOOL. WE GREW CLOSER OVER THE PAST COUPLE OF YEARS. KIM HAS BEEN A GREAT FRIEND TO ME AND MY TWO GIRLS. KIM ALWAYS HAD A POSITIVE ATTITUDE, GREAT SENSE OF HUMOR AND ALWAYS FULL OF LAUGHTER. WHENEVER, YOU WERE FEELING DOWN KIM WAS THERE TO MAKE YOU SMILE. KIM WILL BE DEEPLY MISSED! I LOOK FORWARD TO SEEING KIM ONE DAY AGAIN IN MY NEXT LIFE.

Joseph Alberti

January 19, 2009

I went to Elementary, Junior High and High School with Kim and she was a wonderful person. She will be missed but never forgotten.

Lauren Anderson

January 19, 2009

Many years have passed since our last gathering of family, but the beautiful smile and enlightening laughter of Kim will be forever etched in our memory. As Christmas came each year, we were delighted to find a picture of Kim's most treasured possession..her boys! Our heart goes out to them as they grieve for their mother. Keep her tucked sweetly in your heart and she will always be with you! Until we meet again..Cousin Ron & Lauren Anderson

Cousins- Jan, Sandy, Kim & Sharen 2000

Sandra Snowdale

January 19, 2009

Our hearts and Prayers go out to Kim's boys and family..
We went to a family cook-out at Kim's in 2000 for a family get together..I am so, glad I am part of her family.

We love you Kim .. The angels in heaven are taking good care of you..
With Love, Cousin Sandy

Abby McGurn-Tinari

January 19, 2009

Kim and I went all through school together, from Glenwood Landing days to NSHS. She was always the bright tall smile in the back row of all the school pictures! What a loss. Please accept my deepest condolences and know that you are not alone in your sorrow.

Jan Bogard

January 18, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers go out to Kim's family. Our hearts ache for the loss of such a beautiful person that loved her boys so much.

Jan Bogard (cousin from CA)

Alana

January 16, 2009

I didnt talk to aunt kim everyday but now everyday that passes i want to hear her laugh and " i love you honey!" every minute. Hardest thing I have gone through in my 21 years of life...

Joy Heather

January 16, 2009

Heather and I sit here, at a loss. The empiness is almost overwhelming for us. We miss you and love you. We will never forget you and try all we can to make sure Nicolas and Jonathan knew how special, wonderful and loving their mom was.

Maria Grella

January 16, 2009

My sincere regrets to the Calo and Anderson families. Kim's a wonderful and kind person who always had a smile on her face. And when she laughed, she would make everyone around her smile! She will be deeply missed by many....

January 16, 2009

To the Calo/Anderson families,
Deepest sympaties. Kim was a wonderful, happy and kind person. She always had a smile to share. We will miss you. Hank Luth (Glen Head)

Tracy Craine

January 15, 2009

Our deepest sympathy to both Nicholas & Jonathan I know that your mom's spirit will live on through both of you. Our thoughts and prayers are with the Calo/Anderson family

Timmy Ayres

January 15, 2009

Kim, I knew your Mom and schooled with Carol and Wayne.
Heaven just got one more angel!
Rest in Peace

Lisa

January 15, 2009

My deepest sympathy to Kim's Boys and her family..You will be missed. Rest in Peace.

Gina

January 14, 2009

My deepest sympathies to Nicholas and Jonathan. Know that your mother loved you very much and will always be watching over you. Kim, may you rest in peace. You will be missed!

June

January 14, 2009

My deepest sympathy to Kim's sons. You started as my trainer and became a friend. You helped me become healthy and proud of my accomplishments. I will miss you. Rest in peace.

Laura Bremen

January 14, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with the Anderson/Calo families at this most difficult time. I will remember Kim's infectious laugh and beautiful smile. God bless you all.

Maureen

January 14, 2009

Kim, you were a wonderful fun loving person, with a great laugh, and warm heart. You will be missed by all who knew you. May God Bless your boys, who you loved with all your heart, and you were so proud of. I will always remember you!!!

Tracy and Anthony (Holzkamp) DiStefano

January 14, 2009

Our hearts go out to the Anderson and Calo families. May God bless Kim and her sons. We went to NSHS with her and will always remember her great smile.

Kristy Moretti

January 14, 2009

My heart goes out to you Calo/Anderson family. Kim was one of the best personal trainers. Everytime I came in she always had the biggest smile on her face and she had one of the best laughs I have ever heard. RIP Kim you will be missed.

Christine

January 14, 2009

My heartfelt sympathy go to the Anderson Family and Calo Family. Kim was always so full of life. She was a wonderful mom to the boys !! I will miss our great conversations at the rink! Kim rest in peace...you will be missed by all!

Christine McGinley

January 14, 2009

My heartfelt sympathy go to the Anderson Family and Calo Family. Kim was always so full of life. She was a wonderful mom to the boys !! I will miss our great conversations at the rink! Kim rest in peace...you will be missed by all!

Carol

January 14, 2009

My heart goes out to all of Kim's family and friends especially Nicholas and Jonathan. Although we haven't spent time together in recent years I will always remember your laugh, your big smile and your beautiful face. I will remember all the talks and good times we shared.

Antonia&Christian Hirsch

January 14, 2009

You will always live in our hearts and prayers.Kim, you were always smiling a huge smile. You were a great mom. My sincere condolences tothe Anderson/Calo families

janine f

January 14, 2009

KIm you will be missed ,you taught me so much about feeling good about myself ,In such a short time you were not only my trainer but a friend and my heart goes out to your family.May you rest in peace.

JUSTIN MILLER

January 14, 2009

Rest in peace Kim...my deepest condolences to the Calo/Anderson families. God Bless

Glen Head HOA

January 13, 2009

Our deepest sympathy for the Calo children. Kim, you always knew how to have a good time and really let loose. For that we will remember you. Your Glen Head neighbors

Ann Maneri

January 13, 2009

I would like to extend my sincere condolenses to the Anderson and Calo families. I feel very fortunate to have been Kim's friend, and I will miss her so much. I know her strong spirit and incredibly kind heart will live on through Nicholas and Jonathan. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

mia mesen

January 13, 2009

Condolences to Calo/Anderson Families;May Kim rest in peace and from this day forward may God walk with her boys.Kim, I know your passionate love for your boys will always lead them to fond memories of you.You are already missed.Mia
Respectfully, the Mesen Family

Maria S.

January 13, 2009

Rest in peace Kim. You were a great person, wonderful mother, sincere friend, and great business woman. It was a pleasure working with you for two years at Fabulous Fitness and I will truly miss you. My deepest sympathy goes out to the Anderson/Calo family. My heart goes out to Jonathan and Nicolas.

Diana Favor

January 13, 2009

To my Uncle Andy, cousins and family (both Anderson and Calo and Small family), We are so sorry to hear about our loss of Kim. Kim was such a positive, wonderful, joyful person! Words can not express how we feel. Please let me know if there is anything I can do to help at this time. With love and heartfelt sympathy, Diana & Scott (Small Favor)
++++ You are ALL in our hearts and prayers always!

Kristia Piscitelli (Mecca)

January 13, 2009

To the Anderson/Calo Family:

Kim and I were the closest of friends years ago, and after marriage went our seperate ways. It is with tremendous sorrow, anguish and regret that I am writing to express my deepest sympathy for your loss. My heart just aches for you all and the children and I will remember her always with nothing but kind and loving memories. Kim, I always looked up to you and I will continue to do so in my heart always and forever.

Sandra

January 13, 2009

Kim - what I will miss most about you is your infectious laugh! Be at peace.

Joanne

January 13, 2009

RIP Kim, In the few short years I have known you, you came to be one of my good friends. Your spirit, energy, good nature, and wonderful heart will forever be remembered by all who loved you. My heart goes out to your family.

Joyce Tuttle

January 13, 2009

To the Anderson/Calo families - A tragic loss for all of you. As you mourn Kim may she remain in your memories the beautiful, kind young woman that was her true essence, and may that sustain you during this very sad time.

Karen Jarnagin

January 13, 2009

Kim, you were my very first friend, and like a sister to me. I have very few childhood memories that don't include you and your family. You were an incredibly special person, and I always admired your ability to look on the sunny side of life. Thank you so much for the laughs, the memories, and the enduring friendship we shared for nearly 40 years. My heart goes out to your family. I love you all. ~ Karen

LeeAnn DeCurtis

January 13, 2009

RIP Kim, you were a wonderful person and will always be remembered with fond memories, my prayers are with you & your family May God Bless - xoxoxo

David Brown

January 13, 2009

My deepest sympathy to the Calo & Anderson families. May god bless and comfort all.

The Whitting Family

January 13, 2009

Offering our deepest sympathies during this time.

Showing 1 - 66 of 66 results

Whitting Funeral Home

300 Glen Cove Avenue, Glen Head, NY 11545

Make a Donation
in Kim Calo's name

How to support Kim's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.

The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.

Read more
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
The Five Stages of Grief

They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.

Read more
Ways to honor Kim Calo's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more

Sign Kim Calo's Guest Book

Not sure what to say?

November 23, 2016

Chris Lichtenstein posted to the memorial.

November 1, 2015

Nikki M posted to the memorial.

October 15, 2015

Verena Schwarzer posted to the memorial.