Kitione Maile

Kitione Maile

Kitione Maile Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Feb. 23, 2003.
MAILE, KITIONE "KITI", in the wake of his sudden, unexpected departure last Wednesday, leaves a bittersweet tapestry of broken hearts and proud, loving memories of a man so devoted to his family, so beloved by countless friends and so admired for his talents and accomplishments. He was 58. A native of the Kingdom of Tonga in the South Pacific, he left his homeland on a rugby scholarship to Brigham Young University/Hawaii and later became an entertainer at Disneyland. In 1971, he and his band traveled cross country in one car to Orlando to begin a long-running stint headlining the nightly Polynesian luau shows at the new Walt Disney World. An athletic and gifted dancer and musician, he transferred those talents to the golf course, where he rapidly excelled and eventually became a teaching club pro. He became the first Tongan to earn a PGA of America Class A membership and has been the head teaching pro at Disney for the past decade. He gained national fame in the '80s when he and partner Jim Taylor invented and produced the elongated "Pole Kat" putter which then-President George Bush credits for renewing his passion for the game. However, Kiti's main legacy will be his upbeat, inspirational spirit and warm personality that touched so many friends and associates. He never met a stranger and personified the precept that anyone can aspire to whatever they desire. He was especially proud of his earned U.S. citizenship and was openly patriotic and appreciative of the opportunity for what became his own American Dream. That dream was dealt a blow three years ago when his 23-year-old daughter, Ana, a vibrant and gifted music student, was killed in an auto accident. Kiti reassembled his south seas band and accompanied her memorial at First Baptist Church/Orlando with sweet, distinctive island music. Explaining that he often sang a Tongan bedtime song to her as a child, he proceeded to tenderly sing her to sleep one last time. In that same FBC/Orlando main sanctuary, on L.B. McLeod Road, this Friday, Feb. 28, 7PM-12 Midnight, visitation for Kiti will include special memories presentations. Funeral service will be 10AM Saturday at FBC/Orlando, followed by graveside service at Woodlawn Funeral Home, Gotha. Kiti is survived by wife, Vickie Maile; and three sons, David Seljestad, Kiti John Maile, and Maika Haini Maile; father, Semisi Maile of Oakland, CA; and mother, Analiku Tau'uta of Tonga. In lieu of flowers, contributions to a Trust Fund for Vickie, Kiti Junior and Maika may be made through any SunTrust Bank office.

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March 11, 2003

Lhea-Nicole Kaai posted to the memorial.

March 4, 2003

Tevita, Langi, Taata, Ula, JV Kelepi posted to the memorial.

March 3, 2003

Anthony Woods posted to the memorial.

Lhea-Nicole Kaai

March 11, 2003

Kiti jr and Family,

My deepest sympothy to you and your family at this time. May God Bless you and your family and may he watch over you all even closer during this time.

Aloha Pumehana, ~Lhea-Nicole Kaai~

Tevita, Langi, Taata, Ula, JV Kelepi

March 4, 2003

Just few months ago we have a terrible loss in our family. I lost a loving brother Paul Penitani, and he's Kiti's very best friend and a counsin. When I found out about Kiti's sudden death, that's double the pain we are in. I love Kiti as my own brother, an uncle to my kids and a big brother to my husband. Our condolence to his family Vicki, Kiti Jr. and Maika. We still give God the Glory regardless what we go through in life, for He still a Loving and Wonderful God.



Lots of Love

Anthony Woods

March 3, 2003

Dear Vickie,& Family;



You will forever be in our prayers, and we are praying for you always. Keep your faith in God, be strong, and give your boys our love and support. They will take care of you.

Tua Toiaivao

March 3, 2003

Aunty Vickie and family,



My wife and I send our deepest regards to you and the family. Know that you are in our prayers...We love you!



Much alofaz, Tua (Ovala's son)

Tofa and Mele Netane

February 28, 2003

Aunty Vickie, Kiti Jr. and Maika,

We love you all very much. When we most needed you both, you were there. I only hope that we can give you the same comfort that was given to us by you. We all have been a part of eachother's lives for many years through both hard and good times. We will always be here if you need anything. God bless you all! Rest in Peace Uncle Kiti.

Love,

Tofa & Mele

Greg, Deb & Nick Duley

February 27, 2003

Vickie,

We wanted to express our deepest sympathy, even though we haven't seen you in many years. Scott & Vicki McDonald keep us updated every now and then. We know you've been blessed with wonderful sons and will be able to comfort and take care of one another. Please know that we send to you our special thoughts and prayers.

Love,

Deb (Fairburn) Duley

Cristi and Jeff Craigmile

February 27, 2003

To the Maile Family:



We had the great privilege to meet Kiti Maile at Disney's golf course. The words many people have used apply so well: gentle, patient, honest, and kind hearted with the children. Our son Michael will treasure the lesson he had with him. May God grant you strength and peace to support you after his death. Our deepest sympathies

The Craigmile Family

Jeremy Comardelle

February 25, 2003

Vickie,

We all want to let you know that we are thinking about you everyday here at work. You are the sweetest and most caring person that I know, and you are constantly in my thoughts and prayers.

Vai Sikahema

February 25, 2003

Vickie, Kiti & Maika --

I'm numb. Words can't possibly express my sorrow and sympathy for you and all who knew Kiti. Be strong. Be courageous. Have faith. Things will work out. Our Heavenly Father loves you and will be with you if you seek Him and trust Him. Know that our prayers are with you, that you'll find comfort and peace in your hour of sorrow.



Ofa Atu,

Vai & Keala Sikahema

Mike DeBloois

February 25, 2003

Each of us meet thousands of new faces each year and scarcely remember the brief encounter. Kiti's warmth and engaging smile, and the uninhibited joy he vibrated at the meeting of David and Jenny at their wedding is something Marty and I will never forget. We mourn with you in your loss and deeply regret the unfortunate passing of someone who made a difference. We will remember his smile, his talent and the electricity in his personality.



Our sympathy and love,



Mike DeBloois and Marty Adams

Garden City, Utah.

Sheila Gaylord

February 24, 2003

Dear Vickie and Family,

Please accept our deepest sympathies. We are praying for you and your children and know that in time, the Lord will ease your pain and sorrow. God Bless you. Love, Sheila

(Sandy's sister)

Tara Drahl

February 24, 2003

Vicki and Family:



I am so sorry for your loss, words cannot express how terrible I feel. You have your two boys to think about now and you will draw stength from them. God will lead you...

Nancy Seljestad

February 24, 2003

Dear Vickie,

We are stunned at the loss of Kiti and our sorrowing is expressed in heartfelt prayers that you will be comforted. Your graciousness at David's wedding reception will long be remembered and appreciated by our family. There was an empty place in David's heart reserved for Kiti that was filled in the kindliest manner. Kiti's gentleness, and loving manner toward David endeared him to our family and highlighted what a great man he truly was. We will always remember him and cherish the memory of his importance in our family. We will stay in touch with you and continue to pray for you and your children and extended family.

With love,

Nancy Seljestad

James Hebdon

February 24, 2003

Dear Vickie and Family;



I don't know just what to say. I suppose there are really no words to ease pain in a time like this, but I did want to write and say that our thoughts and prayers are with you.



God bless.

Patricia Hawkins

February 24, 2003

Vickie, We are strong women, and I know that the strength you have and the faith will help at this tragic time. We both have questions, but know that God gives each of us a plan and purpose. You are needed so very much by your boys, family and many, many friends. I will pray with you and for you and your family, be strong my friend, as we have been always. God Blesses Us I know. I love you dear friend, with God on our side we will always be strong.

Jim & Sandy Taylor

February 23, 2003

Our Dearest Vickie, Kiti, Maika & family,



We will never be separated from our closest friend. Kiti will always live on, within our hearts.

You're not alone - you all are in the hearts of so many who care about you and who will stand by you. We pray that GOD eases your sorrow and replaces it with strength, comfort and sweet memories. We love you sooooo much.

David & Judy Verdejo

February 23, 2003

Ms Vickie,



You are a very special person, your work with the youth, I know, is a blessing to many. Our prayers are with you in your loss. We love very much! God bless you,



Verdejo Family

Nicole Verdejo

February 23, 2003

Ms. Vickie...

I love you so much, and my family and I mourn the loss of Mr. Maile... Know I am here for you. I love you so much...

Beverly & Phil Goldstick

February 23, 2003

Mrs. Maile and Family:

We had the pleasure and privilege to meet Kit at a Disney Institute golf seminar about six years ago.He immediately struck both of us with his extrordinary talent as a golf teacher and a warm feeling of affection. Beverly looked forward to being in Orlando to improve her golf game with Kit, her favorite instructor. Until last Thursday (2/13/03), we had not been to Orlando since just after your daughter's accident, three years ago. At our last visit Kit was despondent, but that didn't stop him from providing us with another great experience (just being in Kit's presence, and improving our golf games). Afriend of ours in Orlando has known of our admiration and respect for Kit. When he learned of Kit's passing, he called us. We do not know how to contact you directly, and we would likie to make a contribution in Kit's memory to the KESHET school for special needs children in Illinois. If you would furnish your address by return e-mail, we would like to send you the acknowledgment. Our deepest sympathy to you and your family. We will miss him too.



Beverly and Phil Goldstick

Kent Hebdon

February 23, 2003

Dear Vickie and Family;



We all met so briefly here in Salt Lake City when my daughter Jennifer and David were married. The vibrance, energy and love that you all brought still remain with my family and me, and David has become such a cherished part of us that your sadness and loss are ours, as well. We have shed tears for you, and our love and prayers are sent to you as grieving Family. We are so sorry.

Troy, Karen, & Steven Hill

February 23, 2003

Vickie & family - our hearts ache for all of you. You are in our prayers and in our thoughts. If there is anything we can do, please let us know. We are so sorry for your loss. We love you. Remember that you have many, many friends who also love you and we will all be there for you in any way we can.

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