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Peter L. Herschman, M.D.
July 9, 2007
Before he died Tom asked me what I would remember about him. I said from my heart that I would never forget him. We had shared much together: upsetting (hopefully) a very stuck up neighbour by saying as I mounted his motorcycle, "O.K., Tom, Let's go rape and pillage," on our way to the movies. Another evening we met at the University Theatre to see Return of the Jedi on opening night; both of us loved the film.
Tom, Jeri, Pat and I shared many dinners together over the years; at Grappa with relative frequency. Tom used to make friends with other patrons in his always engaging style so the evenings were enlivened not only by our company but also by those he introduced to us.
There was no doubt about the love Tom and Jeri shared. They were soulmates in the true sense of the word, together in the joys and sorrows which life offers us all. Their loving enriched those of us who had the privilege of being with them be it here in Toronto, or on our occasional visits to them in Owen Sound.
On one visit Tom showed me salmon climbing the falls in the park and on another was very patient when my daughter, our dog and I tipped his canoe on the far side of the Sound requiring a pick-up, canoe and all when we finally reached them by phone.
Tom was compassionate with those for whom he cared. He often spoke of how he helped his students get out of bed in the morning to go to school or work (he woke them and escorted these young people to their destinations).
He had a strong sense of fairness; both of us hated to be cheated and were quite determined in our search for justice.
These are some of the memories I shared with my dear friend as he lay dying. His kindness and strength remains with those of us who loved him. Put simply, Tom was a dear, close friend. I shall miss him for a long time.
Dave Murphy
July 6, 2007
May God bless all of you who knew Tom and have been affected by his Loss. May you find comfort in your memories of him.
Sincerely,
Dave Murphy
(Friend of Lorne Jr.'s)
Stephen Barna
July 6, 2007
In a time of mourning Jesus will stand with you and provide embracing arms where Lorne's can no longer. I ache for you, and pray that God's peace will pass over you as you endure this season of life.
Agape, friend of son Lorne,
~Stephen Barna -t-
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Bill Colgate
July 3, 2007
A Toast to Tom
A great friend, good companion, insightful advisor, father confessor
For those of us who had the good fortune to call Tom "friend", we are the lucky ones. To share problems, or joy, we could count on Tom's friendship and help.
I was fortunate to be Tom's companion on many occasions, even when he was in his Don Quixote mode and to be his Pancho when I could slip by Jeri.
His life was never dull, and he will be missed. I hope to share memories from time to time with Jeri.
Goodbye, friend, safe journey. Don't forget to call. I have a new cell phone, same number. Goodbye. Love, Bill
Gerry and Gord Diver
June 30, 2007
I remember one sunny afternoon, before Gord and I moved to the west coast, when we were living in North York. With book in hand, I was savouring the peace and quiet of our suburban neighbourhood.
Suddenly, there was a thunderous roar from the driveway, followed by several revs of engine noise. Vroom, vroom, vroom.
There was Tom...big Tom...astride a monstrous motorcycle...windblown, and with a smile that filled his face.
"Wanna ride?"
"You must be joking."
"Come on...you only live once."
After many excuses, I talked my way out of accepting. (Motorcycles scare me.)
We had a brief visit together, but it was evident that he was eager to get on the road again. He took off as he had arrived...in a cloud of exhaust and ear-splitting noise...and waved as he rounded the corner.
Carpe Diem. In their 35 years of marriage, Jeri and Tom made the most of every minute of their time together. And we, their friends, were priviledged to be a small part of their exciting lives.
Our love to you, Jeri,
Gerry and Gord Diver
p.s. I wish, now at 83, that I had grasped the moment, and gone for a wild ride!
Michael Leonhardt
June 27, 2007
Dear Jeri:
Karla and I were very sad to hear of Tom's passing. Even though the time I personally spent with Tom was fairly brief, I have wonderful memories of being your neighbor, and our adventures and time spent together. Also, Karla and I often talk about the room service breakfast you surprised us with on our visit to Toronto. That's just one small example of how thoughtful and sharing (and a little devious) you both are. I feel blessed to have met Tom and he will stay in my memory forever.
Love,
Michael
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