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Louis Joseph "L.J." Hancock
Louis Joseph "L.J." Hancock
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Louis Hancock Obituary
LOUIS JOSEPH "L. J."
Suddenly, on Sunday, January 6, 2002, L. J. Hancock, age 49, of North Huntingdon, PA. Beloved son of Louis N. and Jo-Anne (Backus) Hancock of North Huntingdon; beloved brother of Linda E. Hancock and her fiance, Dennis Crummey of North Huntingdon; nephew of Wayne and Marilyn Backus of Bloomfield Hills, MI and John and Pat Hancock of Peachtree City, GA. Also survived by many cousins. L.J. was a 1970 graduate of Norwin High School and a 1974 graduate of Gettysburg College and was the Band Director at Norwin High School for the past 27 years and an Associate Professor of Music at Duquesne University. Friends received Monday and Tuesday 2-4 & 7-9 pm at the WM. O. PEARCE FUNERAL HOME, INC. 318 Wall Ave., Pitcairn. Funeral Service at the Center Ave. United Methodist Church, Pitcairn, on Wednesday at 1 pm with the Rev. Alan J. Morrison officiating. In lieu of flowers, family suggests contributions to the Gettysburg College Music Department.
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Betty Jean Jackson
January 2, 2024
First day of band as a sophomore.
Gary Gorzynski, Class of'80
January 6, 2003
I have been trying for a year now to write something for this guest book. And every time I started, it seemed that no matter what I wrote, I would not be able to convey the impact that LJ Hancock has had upon my life. Perhaps it is fitting that today, on the anniversary of his death, and following the weekend long “celebration” of his life that I am able to continue.
The celebration was just that, a culmination of the relationships and teaching that LJ had worked on in his lifetime. It brought together all aspects of his life and at different points in the night allowed teachers to become students, as well as, teachers, and students to become teachers, as well as, students. It is amazing how a man can inspire lives, even when his mortal presence is no longer with us. Part of the “Circle of Life” thing I guess. It was a night I think he would have been very pleased with and I hope to remember every detail forever.
Thank you LJ, for everything, for being a teacher, director, mentor, best man, godfather, confidant and friend. I miss you and think of you everyday… like so many others.
May his memory be truly eternal and may he live on in our hearts and in the hearts of the lives that we touch as he has taught us.
Patricia Flowers, Class of '79
November 29, 2002
To L.J. - the man who made us be great, demanded as much as we could give, and rewarded us, finally, with his smile for our success. Some of the best times of my high school years are memories and pride that I've taken from being a member of the Norwin Marching Band. May his tribute live on....
Pedro de Nieves
August 27, 2002
Mr. Hancock, I will never forget you.
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Wendy (Henderson)Shoaf
August 16, 2002
Dear Mr. and Mrs. Hancock and Linda
I was saddened on my first visit to Norwin's band alumni web page to learn of LJ's passing. I graduated in 1973. My first two years in band he was our drum major
I was half way terrified of him and
looked up to him. I was also in the Sundowner's drum and bugle corps. He always made us feel proud. Any time I am at a drum corp competion or band competion my children have to put up with my criticisms of the drum majors. They never have quite the flair and showmanship that LJ had. I know that he is continueing to flame on. Thank-you LJ
Kasey Coyne-Reish Class Of 1988
August 15, 2002
Dear Mr. and Mrs. Hancock and Linda:
As a teacher myself, I can only hope that my students will remember me as fondly as I remember Mr. Hancock. I thank you L.J. Hancock for giving me three years of memories, fun, pride, and discipline. You gave me my "place to be" at Norwin.
When I joined the Penn State Blue Band, I remember the colorguard instructor's reaction when I said that I had been in the Norwin Band. She was excited and took me over to introduce me to some other instructors as "the girl who had marched for the Norwin Band." I was so proud.
I will always cry when I hear "Rocky" and "Simple Gifts." I will always know that I making my students better people when I tell them to correct their work and do it again. Thank you Mr. Hancock.
"Though you cannot always see
the bird singing,
if you listen with your heart,
you can always hear his song."
Bob Dugan, Jr.
August 15, 2002
To say that I was devastated about the news, is an understatement. Mr. Hancock, as I will always respectfully know him as, was one of my major influences. As a guitar player of over 30 years, Mr. Hancock opened my eyes and ears to the "sounds". He will always be an inspiration to me and the countless others who have walked through the halls of Norwin. My prayers to the entire Hancock family.
Terry, Vicki & Misty Davis
August 14, 2002
Mr. & Mrs. Hancock, Linda & Dennis
I have been reading the guest book entries for months now deciding what we should say. How can you say "thank You" enough to wonderful parents for sharing their son with so many others? Out of all our daughters school years, short of watching her graduate with honors, was the sheer pride & joy of watching through binoculars when she received her first medal in band on the field in Rutgers NJ, then receiving 5 more medals after that from her freshman to senior year. I know not everyone who reads this will understand, but Linda & I always had & still have this thing where when she sees me she says "hey thats Misty's mom" & I always say "hey thats LJ's sister". I am just as proud to hear those words as you are linda. I could go on forever about how wonderful LJ was & thank his family for all the wonderful things he has done, but I will close now so others can do the same. Oh what a beautiful sound it must be---heavens Angels playing their harps "under the direction of LJ Hancock."
Sharon (Thompson) Baacke
August 7, 2002
I haven't thought about LJ Hancock in years, but knew exactly who he was when I saw the notice of his untimely death. I was in the graduating class behind LJ's, and I remember him proudly leading Norwin's band at all the football games and other band functions. He was a legend then and from the notes I've seen in the guestbook, he remained a legend. My deepest sympathy to LJ's family.
Brian & Shirley Pundt
July 10, 2002
We met LJ at the Bands of America Summer Symposium in the Summer
of 2001 and looked forward to his nightly "messages" to the directors and boosters. When we scheduled our return for the Summer of 2002, we
were deeply saddened to learn that LJ had passed away. We only knew
him from BOA, but from the wonderful people we met who knew him
from Norwin and BOA, we knew that the music world had lost a special
person. God Speed LJ. Save a spot for the rest of us!
"I'm so glad we had this time together. Just to have a laugh or sing a song. Seems we just got started and before you know it, comes the time
we have to say 'So Long.'" (from the Carol Burnett Show)
Charla Ginardi
July 5, 2002
It took me a while to get the courage to sign this. I still cry thinking about Mr. Hancock. I didn't join the band until tenth grade when I moved to Norwin. I remember thinking, "No way am I joining band when I get to my new school." But. all that changed when he signed me up. He called my house every day asking me to join and I ignored the call every day. Then he called my grandparents house looking for me every single day. I told him once to forget about it. I don't want to be in the band anymore. Aparently he took that for a yes because band was on my schedual the first day of classes. It was the best thing he could have ever done for me. The three years I was in the Norwin Band were the best years of my life. Every one talks about how scary he was, but I was never afraid. We yelled at each other a lot, but we talked a lot as well. I remember a man who was more of a father in three years to me than my own father has been for the last twenty. We laughed, joked, yelled talked, played, and practiced every day. I also cried on his shoulder, and he let me. He sent me flowers from the band when I was very, very sick, and he made me become the best person I could be. Thank you.
Jessica Kocak
June 30, 2002
Mr.& Mrs. Hancock, and Linda, I just wanna let you know that I'm praying for you and that I have been praying for you through the months. I just wish everything could go back to normal... this past year I have lost not one but two mentors, and friends that meant a lot to me. One of course being the "big guy" but the other being you linda. I will truely miss LJ not only for teaching me but for always telling me that I was a "good" calrinet player when we both knew that I sucked. I don't know if he told me that because he didn't want me quitting or if he knew that in just only a year I would be where I am today... wait I still suck,jk! But he will always be that guy that scared the poop out of me my freshman year when I knocked the "Tower Bible" on to the ground with my flagpole. I thought he didn't see me because he had his back turned, so I was gonna pick it up when he left, but he said without flinching a muscle, " are you just gonna stand there and look at it?". I swear to you I have never picked anything up so fast in my life! I will truely miss him. And as for you linda you will always have a special place in my heart and I will remember the memories I have from the times we've shared together. I will miss you and I hope that someday you'll be back.
Kathy Kopko
June 24, 2002
I was never in the band, but did graduate from Norwin. You learned to respect him. He did what no what else could do with the band, Bring home the championships. My neices were in the band and colorguard, they said he was rough on them, but that just made them better people today. God Bless L.J. and his family. He will be sadly missed by everyone.
Mike Sanders
June 21, 2002
This 4th of July I'll be back in Irwin with my daughters. I'm sure from my parent's house in Hahntown I'll hear the rumble of the drums and the music drifting across the valley, like countless years in the past. The inquisitive "what's that" is sure to come from my little one...there is only correct answer: That's the NORWIN Band..thanks for the memories LJ...godspeed
Mike Sanders '75-'77 baritone
Søren (94) Sønderskov-Rasmussen
June 20, 2002
I’ll never forget –never!
When I tell my students about what We did on that field, they refuse to believe Me!
My biggest whish was to get L.J. and his band to play here in Denmark –But I guess he’s the Director of a more important band now!
I’ll never forget!
Norwin Guard Member
June 18, 2002
L.J. Hancock had the funniest ways of letting you know he cared. When I was a freshman I didn't even know he knew who I was. Then, one strange day, I couldn't get my can of pop to come out of the machine, and L.J. popped in a quarter and got it out for me. From that day on he always seemed to know my name. That was L.J.'s way. He was a simple man, but as simple as he was, he always knew just what to do. From popping in a quarter, to helping you with school or family problems. He always knew what to do. He still does. Thanks for the quarter L.J., and all the memories after.
Tracie Palm
May 31, 2002
Wow, I'm a substitute teacher now, and was browsing the Norwin Band Aids Page while my students were working. When I looked at the staff page with L.J.'s smiling face at the top, I almost cried right in class.
The loss of this powerful, inspiring man is devastating to the generations who will not be touched by his magic. I can only hope that I can be as much as an inspiration for others as he was for me.
Thank you, Big Guy, for the lessons you taught me, and the best, most amazing, four years of my life.
Tracie Palm
Norwin Senior High School Marching Band
1992-1996
Donna Mueller
May 15, 2002
Because we care, your sorrow is ours. Worked with L.J. through the band parents from 1975 to 1977. What a great loss to the band and the community. He will be missed greatly.
Walt Palmer
April 26, 2002
I just read in the Gettysburg alumni magazine of Lou's passing.
Those of us in the Gettysburg College Band learned much about determination and pursuit of excellence from him. Although I was a clarinet player in the marching band (no one could hear the clarinets, but we marched well), I learned lessons that I still apply in many non-music areas.
My thoughts and prayers are with the family and the students. We'll all miss him.
Walt Palmer
Gettysburg College '76
Betty (Bickerton) Coldren
April 14, 2002
Unlike most of the other entries in this guestbook, I was not a student under L.J.'s direction, but was a fellow classmate of his during his high school years at Norwin. I was shocked and saddened to hear of his untimely death. He was a great drum major in the band when I was in school, and I know he was a great band director. My condolences go to his parents.
Bill Roadman
April 7, 2002
It was a shock to hear of LJ's passing. He was for me, and for so many others, a great teacher in life. The lessons learned while I was with the band have sometimes been forgotten in my life, when I hit a corssroads of sorts, I look at the pictures I have from my band days, or watch the videotapes my mother got for me of the band, and I still hear his voice, see his stern but caring look. LJ's lessons are not soon forgotten. And I thank God he was a part of my upbringing, to instill such important charachter traits into me. God bless him, and his family and friends. I will never forget him, or my friends from band.
Mary Yeager
March 29, 2002
Our sincere condolences to the family, friends and Norwin Band.
L.J. Hancock is truly an inspiration.
From Southmoreland Band Boosters.
Norwin Guard Member
March 26, 2002
Nobody does it better. You have not been forgotten Mr. Hancock. Your tradtion of excellence will continue forever. The guard won this regional for you. We know you were with us, and we hope that we made you proud.
Anonymous
March 25, 2002
Mr. Hancock,
We did it for you! The Norwin Winterguard won the title of "Mid-Atlantic Champions" for you. We hope that we made you proud. We miss you, but you definetly have not been forgotten.
The Norwin Winterguard of 2002
Jay Oberfeitinger percussion, class of '82
March 13, 2002
To the Hancock Family - myadeepest sympathy.
I recieved the news today, 13 March 2002 upon opening the alumni newsletter. I had just returned from performing a Young People's (school) concert with the Knoxville (TN) Symphony.
Mere words cannot convey the the loss everyone associated with "L.J." is now experiencing. The years I spent in the Norwin Band, along with his continued mentoring at Duqesne University have been major factors in creating the Professional Musician and Educator that I am today. Every time I step before a band - middle school or high school - I am concious of the Norwin legacy of "Nobody Does it Better". it is a standard of excellence - a way of being that L.J. taught us for life. It has been a goal to carry that way of doing and being into my personal life and career; and a legacy to pass to all students that I have contact with.
Louis J. Hancock, Thank you.
You shall be missed, but never forgotten.
Melissa Sundin (Kegg)
March 13, 2002
The Kegg Family would like to extend our deepest sympathies to the Hancock Family.
From all of the Kegg kids: Frank, Vince, Mark, Michael and Melissa - we all have our memories of what LJ has meant to us.
In our family, it was tradition to be in the band, and "NOBODY DOES IT BETTER" then LJ.
May our friend rest in peace and God Bless you LJ for all that you have taught us.
MARY KAY MAUTINO
March 11, 2002
GOD LOOKED AROUN HIG GARDEN AND DOUND AN EMPTY, QUIET PLACE, HE THEN LOOKED DOWN UPON HI EARTH AND SAW YOUR LOVING FACE...AND THE MUSIC NEVER SOUNDED SO GOOD!
YOU WILL BE SADLY MISSED.
1979 GRADUATE AND FRIEND
John Howell
March 3, 2002
Integrity,sincerity,honesty, dedication,pride,discipline,generosity,self-respect, caring...all words that are synonomous with two letters, LJ.
Our teacher, friend my not be here in person, but his spirt, teachings, memories and inspiration will continue to be the beakon of light that leads may of us each and everyday. In many ways an Angel to us all.....may the Wind Beneath His Wings.....
Brett & Robin (Montrose) Harper
March 2, 2002
To The Hancock Family:
You have our Deepest Sympathy.
It is very sad to hear about the loss of L.J. But he will be remembered through the ways that he touched all of our lives.
Brett & Robin
Class of 1989
Brian Huber
March 2, 2002
When I got the word from Gep that Mr. H had left us, it didn't sink in until about 3 hours later at work, and I was in a funk for days. I met him while still in Jr. High East band, and still remmember it today. He could be inspiring, encouraging, intimidating, and frightening all at the same time to a young person. A great soul with intelligence, imagination, heart, and humor. To say he was a driven person is an understatment. Even when he walked around with a pair of scissors, threatening to cut off hair that he could see sticking out from under my helmet, you can't help but respect the man. I still play to this day, and still take what I learned from him and put it into my everyday events. I will miss him greatly and remember him always. Some of the best years of my life were in band.
Mr & Mrs. H & Linda... I mourn your loss with you and hope you are well.
SUSAN KOURY
February 28, 2002
MR,MRS.HANCOCK AND LINDA,
WHERE DO WE GO FROM HERE? WHERE CAN WE GO FROM HERE? HE IS WITH ME 24 HOURS A DAY. HE IS LARGER THAN LIFE AND NO ONE HAS SCULPTED US TO BE WHO WE ARE MORE THAN LJ. WE OWE HIM SO MANY THINGS AND I KNOW HE REALIZES HOW MUCH HE IS LOVED AND RESPECTED. I TOLD HIM SO MANY TIMES.
NOW I AM GLAD THAT I DID. NOTHING IS WORSE THAN LIVING WITH REGRET. I GUESS THAT WE ARE ALL SUPPOSED TO LEARN FROM AN EXPERIENCE OF THIS MAGNITUDE. DON'T HOLD BACK, EXPRESS YOUR LOVE, GO AFTER YOUR DREAMS AND BE THE BEST THAT YOU CAN BE. KEEP AND HOLD LJ IN YOUR HEART FOREVER!
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(JUST SOME LYRICS I WROTE)
IF ONLY WE KNEW THINGS WOULD TURN OUT THIS WAY- THE HEARTBREAK, THE BETRAYAL, THE LONGING, THE DESPAIR.
SO MUCH MORE YET TO ACCOMPLISH, EVEN THOUGH HIS SUCCESS SO VISIBLE.
HE GAVE WITHOUT HESITATION, THOUGH EXHAUSTED AT TIMES - HIS LIFE TOO SHORT BUT HIS LEGACY LIVES ON - OH HOW GOD MUST BE PROUD OF HIM.
CIRCUMSTANCES AND JUDGEMENTS BROUGHT BY A FEW, WE NEVER BELIEVED.
WHAT GOES AROUND ALWAYS COMES BACK AROUND AND OH, HOW THEY WILL SEE.
OUR LOYALTY LIVES ON FOR OUR SON, BROTHER AND FRIEND. SO MANY MEMORIES, SO MUCH PRIDE - THANK YOU FOR EVERYTHING. IT WAS AN HONOR TO BE YOUR FRIEND, WE ALL FEEL THIS WAY. SO MUCH RESPECT, DIGNITY AND HONOR - OH HOW GOD MUST BE PROUD -
I KNOW I AM!
LOVE,
SUSAN KOURY
Jennifer Roberts
February 28, 2002
To the Hancock Family, The entire Norwin Band and Alumni,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I knew LJ Hancock through my employment at Bands of AMerica (1996-1998 receptionist). He was always very professional and courteous to work with. The music community will be forever changed by his passing.
Mary Pat (Kemeny) Squires
February 22, 2002
Dear Lou, JoAnne, and Linda-
I don't know what I can say to you that will make any of this easier to bear- please just know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. I have many good memories of my time in the band, and I still to this day carry the pride of being a member of the National champion band. God bless, know that so many people in this community care for you and hold your family close at heart. With prayers and deepest sympathy- Mary Pat, class of 1983
Benjamin Harrison
February 18, 2002
L.J. was a beautiful and caring human being. How he put up with me during band practices I'll never know. He always had faith in me. The family is in my thoughts and prayers.
Bethany Nowakowski (Freyer)
February 15, 2002
My deepest sympathies to LJ's family. I will always remember all the fun times that I had while I was a Norwin Band Member. Mr. Hancock was a great person.
Sharon Rice
February 12, 2002
Class of 88- Discipline, determination and pride....That's what L.J. taught me.
My sympathy and prayers to his family.
Chris Haley
February 11, 2002
Nobody did it better, you will be missed.
Chris Haley
February 6, 2002
Please note the date listed for this Guestbook (2003). The sharing of your wonderful thoughts and memories is such a help through this difficult time. Please don't stop writing; you still have a year to continue to share as you've been sharing this past month.
Kathy (Begley) Adams
February 6, 2002
Dear Mr. and Mrs. Hancock and Linda:
It has been over 30 years since I last had contact with LJ. He was the field conductor under the direction of Larry Radzevick and I was a sophomore colorguard member. I like to think that we were friends.
I was in the colorguard from 1969-1972.
I give credit to the Norwin Band, as well as some excellent teachers at Norwin, for my work ethic and the sense of pride in my work throughout my adult professional-life. It was obvious LJ had these qualities already ingrained in him that senior year I met him. He was so driven and such a perfectionist--what wonderful qualities.
After reading many entries in the guest book, I was so pleased to read Mrs. Close's memories of LJ in the chorus. I'm sure members of the band did not know what an additional gift LJ had with such a beautiful voice. I can hear his voice so clearly. even today, singing a solo in the Senior Choral Performance. It was also nice to read a wonderful tribute to LJ from one of my favorite teachers, Nancy Cumerick. Mr. Brugnolli was also one of those teachers one remembers for a lifetime.
While I have been in California most of my adult life, I often heard of the Norwin Band's success, under LJ's direction, from my sister's updates, as well as information from the Blue Devil's Drum and Bugle Crop, that is so popular in our area in California. I am sure you are so proud of his accomplishments.
Accomplishments aside, I am so sorry for the loss of your son and brother. It is a pain that no parent expects or deserves to happen. I hope that the love and respect of your son and brother, which is so vividly displayed in the guest book, lessens your pain.
My deepest condolences,
Kathy (Begley) Adams, Class of 1972
[email protected]
Jane & Jerry Wright
February 5, 2002
JoAnne - Lou - Linda
Please accept our sympathy for the loss of your and everyone's L.J.
There are not enough words or space to list L.J.'s qualities and accomplishments. His dedication, caring, and sincerity affected everyone..both students and parents.
We are very grateful that L.J. was there to teach and guide two of our children who were in the band:
Kathy Novacek (Wright)-mellophone
'80 '81 '82 &
Jerry Wright,Jr - percussion
'86 '87 '88.
The benefits of L.J.'s teaching and guidance which they gained are too numerous to mention.
The loss of L.J. goes beyond family and friends. It forever affects Norwin students, the Norwin community, and high school music everywhere.
Jane and Jerry Wright
Lorna Stofan-Harker
February 5, 2002
As I read the vast number of entries made in this guest book, I realize that a part of LJ lives on in each and every life touched by his leadership. He not only demanded but also deserved our respect. He taught us the true meaning of "discipline", "hardwork", and especially "reward". The reward was not the myriad of trophies won under his leadership - the true reward came from inside - when you knew LJ brought the best out of you, and you finally felt the accomplishment in your heart! Band was such a huge part of my life - but it was LJ that stirred the passion within to be the best I could be at everything I attempted. "Here's 2" LJ Hancock - thanks for the memories!
Lorna (Stofan) Harker
1978-1980
Kelly Buscemi
February 5, 2002
Thanks for the memories!!!!
Bob Mann
February 5, 2002
I remember us going to JFK stadium and really playing well. We ended up in 7th place. That was the last time we went to JFK! LJ was one to make sure we got the respect that we deserved.
As a fond memory, I still remember marching at West Chester in the mud and our jeans and taking a mass of trophies!! I was just telling a friend of mine about it last week.
To LJ's family: He is one man I have always had the deepest respect for. I wish I could have come in person to show my respects! My condolences and may God bless you. As you can see in this guestbook, LJ had touched many.
Bob Mann 1977-1979 Percussion
Rick & Cindy Luke
February 4, 2002
As we come to the end of the many entries in L.J.'s guess book, Cindy and I have so enjoyed all the shared memories that so many have written. What a wonderful man to give us such memories. One of our fondest memory yet simplest statement that hundreds if not thousands of us have heard at the end of a band practice called out by L.J. was "bring it in!"
Cindy and I are sure, and would like all of you to share in our assurance that we may all be comforted to know that God has called, "L.J., bring it in!"
Anonymous
January 31, 2002
I just gotten an e-mail from BOA asking for a submission to their Student Newsletter Competition. They asked for my unique band experience or any other fact that makes you stand out in a crowd, academically or musically. My essay will be 3 words long....
Louis Joseph Hancock.
All of us who have our lives touched by him know what I mean. It was his life and his actions that made us all stand out in a crowd together.
In this time of mourning and greif that we are ALL feeling, just remember, he's on top of an even bigger tower, U-Haul van, school, wherever, looking down on us, making sure the drill of our lives in correct and the harmonies each of us put to the melody of life are right.
And I know that when I screw up in life...I'll hear his voice tell me to set it up again.
To the rest of the Hancock Family...
Mom, Dad...your son has defined the word "Norwin" and brings the entire community together. Linda, I don't even know what to say.
All I can think of is Frank Sinatra singing "My Way."
The world became a much darker place the beginning of Jan 2002. I hope the we all don't let L.J.'s light go out.
Erin Remai (soon to be Palko)
January 31, 2002
Mr. Hancock,
If I had known, when my brother and I ran into you in August 2000 at CompUSA in Monroeville, that I would never see you again, I would have thought of something better to say.
When my mother called me and told me you were gone, I didn't believe it. It didn't hit me until the next morning, when I saw it in the on-line version of the Tribune-Review.
As much as I try to put my high school years behind me and move on, I am constantly reminded of my years in the Norwin Band. Every time I see a commercial for Walt Disney World ... every time I hear the Sharpsville Are High School band practice just a mile from my house ... do you know I still know the routine for White Star?
Even though I didn't go into music, the discipline you've taught me has stayed with me.
My thoughts and prayers go out to all your family and friends.
Clifton Suehr
January 29, 2002
To the L.J. family and friends,
Deepest condolences on the L.J.'s tragic demise. Having moved from central PA a little over a year ago, my family heard of the Norwin's great band and fantastic band leader from musicians in that part of the state. I had hoped my son would have had the opportunity to learn from L.J. My prayers are for the family to have God's peace and for the band to continue in the tradition of excellence that L.J. helped them achieve with an international reputation .
The Rev. Dr. Clifton J. Suehr
Amanda Henry
January 28, 2002
Mr. Hancock,
Thank you for all you have taught me. Words cannot even begin to express how much you have changed and made a difference in my life. As I go of to college this coming fall, I will not be afraid. Even though I am going almost 9 hours away from home, I will not be afraid. I will not be afraid because you have taught me how to deal with the big bad world, and you have made me ready to go into the world. You have taught me and so many other students the facts of life and how to survive in the real world. As I head to Providence, RI, I know you will be watching over me and I will use your teachings to survive so far from home. Thank you for all you have taught me! I will truly miss, but never forget you. You were the Big Guy in my life, the Big Guy that made a difference and I thank you from the bottom of my heart.
Love,
Amanda
Class of 2002
Krystal Pack
January 28, 2002
Mr. L.J. Hancock brought me into the band in 7th grade and taught me how to play the mellophone and french horn, he was a great teacher and a wonderful man!
(HE WAS THE BEST) My deepest condolences to his family and friends... He will be missed very much!
Gary Snyder
January 27, 2002
If there is any doubt of LJ's abilities, let it be known that he once taught a wrestler to march & play Simple Gifts on a tuba! :) I can hear his laugh now...
He also taught me about hard-work, dedication, and pride. He, like many from Norwin, will always be a part of me.
Gary Snyder Class of '81
Principal
Pioneer Valley Regional School
Holly Button
January 27, 2002
As I read all of these entries, I can't help but smile. I was never in the band, never had LJ as a teacher, yet he touched my life as he touched so many others. My very best friend was in the band and I used to despise the fact that she had to practice every waking hour in the summer and was so often gone on weekends. Another "band trip." But she loved it. We used to talk about LJ and his fear/respect factors. I never feared him, because I was never his student, but I respected him a great deal. He always smiled when I'd walk in to the practice room with a note from Cheryl or when he'd see me hanging out by the band doors way after school was out and he was just leaving from lifting, or practice or lessons. And I remember being proud that he knew me by name.
I would sit and listen to my friends complain about the amount of time he made them march and "do it one more time" but I would also listen to how proud they were to be part of The Norwin Band. I must admit, I was, and still am, proud to say "yeah, I'm from Norwin. Not heard of it? I bet you've heard of our band tho...they're first class all the way!" Not surprisingly, when I mention where I went to HS, people raise their eyebrows and say "yeah, they've got a pretty good band, don't they?"
I don't follow the band now, but it was damn good when I was there. I was surprised and sorry to hear of LJ's passing, but he has left a legacy, and he has passed on so many good things to so many people that I'm proud to have been able to pass him in the hall for 4 years.
LJ will be missed, but his spirit and his music will certainly live on.
-H. Button, class of '97
LJ's Uncle Wayne & Aunt Marilyn Backus
January 27, 2002
To all those who have shown so much love to LJ and to our family:
We arrived in North Huntingdon from our home in Michigan the evening of the same day that LJ passed away. It was not an easy trip. We entered a house full of LJ's friends, sharing the grief, the sorrow and the shock along with Lou, Jo-Anne, Linda and Dennis. We were so grateful that you were there for them.
In the days that followed, as we spent so many hours at the funeral home in Pitcairn, we were completely overwhelmed by the tremendous outpouring of sympathy and compassion shown by all of you, LJ's "Norwin family". There was not one who came to pay their respects that was not deeply and visibly shaken as they gave their hugs, words of encouragement and love to LJ's family.
There is no way to describe what it was like for us as "outsiders" looking in on such a warm and wonderful love story. In fact, you may never realize just what a special and unique group you are. Most people could never comprehend that literally thousands were touched by LJ's life and not in some small, insignificant way. If we think about our own lives, we would consider ourselves blessed if just a handful of people could say the kind and wonderful things about us that were said about LJ in his passing. He heard them all!
We say we were "outsiders" because we never experienced the side of LJ that you knew. However, let us tell you, we had the greatest nephew any aunt and uncle could ever hope for and our children have such fond and wonderul memories of a cousin who was taken from them much too soon.
We loved and adored LJ long before he was "Norwin's Music Man". He was a lovable, humorous and gentle soul who cared deeply and passionately for his family. And he cared for all of you in the same way. That is so very obvious to us.
Most importantly, LJ was a man of great integrity and we will stand firmly on that belief always.
Our precious memories of a much loved nephew who brought great joy to our family will remain in our hearts and minds forever, even though nothing will ever fill the void that has been left by his passing. We thank our Lord for the comfort He gives us in knowing that, even though it is so hard to understand, this was His plan and His timing. We pray that God will continue to hold Lou, Jo-Anne, Linda and Dennis in the palm of His hand. We know He is holding LJ.
Thank you all from the bottom of our hearts for the tremendous love and support you continue to show. The words written in the messages on this site alone are beyond comprehension. We know how much your thoughts and prayers mean to our dear ones in Pennsylvania and just knowing that so many of you are there for them gives us a sense of peace.
Glenn Mann
January 26, 2002
the band was an experience i will never forget. it taught me alot and never would have been such a challenge without L.J. Hancock.
he will be greatly missed......
Jeanne Close
January 24, 2002
Dear Mr. and Mrs. Hancock and Linda,
My memory of L.J. goes back to his joining my chorus at Norwin when he was a junior. I remember him singing a duet with Bridget Serro. I remember him as the fine young man he was then and as the fine and talented man he was as my co-worker in the music dept. of Norwin Senior High School. L.J. and I were more than co-workers. We were friends. I will always remember our years of working together as happy years. Years that developed a lasting friendship. After I retired in 1993 L.J. and I kept in touch and when I moved to Florida I always included a visit to the band room to visit my friend. I will miss my friend but I will never forget him. My memories of L. J. will always be of the happy times.
I will always remember him as I last saw him. Busy working with "his kids" in the band room. My prayers are with you and I know that LJ"s legacy will last forever. God love you for the gift of your son and brother to each and everyone he touched.
Annettte Close
January 23, 2002
When I think of LJ I think of a man who touched so many lives and made them better. He was the best. Norwin's Music Man will live on forever in the lives that he touched. He will always hold a special place in my heart for all he has done for my son and the many other kids he touched. No one will ever do it as good as LJ. Live in peace LJ
Kourtney Watkiss
January 23, 2002
When I think of Mr. Hancock, what he means to me and countless others, the magic he has created in the Norwin Community, I am at a loss for words. This man deserves all of the kind words there are in the book and more. He molded my four years of high school into the best years of my life. He taught me about dedication, persistance, leadership, and the list goes on.
I remember being a little girl watching the band practice with my mom. She would always say, "Someday you'll be on this field doing the same thing." And I couldn't wait to get my chance. She introduced me to Mr. Hancock at this early age in my life, and I remember thinking that he was larger than life. I would think about it in awe, "Wow. Someday I get to be in Mr. Hancock's band." After all those years of anticipation, I finally entered LJ's band. Since I'd been waiting for this for so long, I had come to deeply respect this man, yet I also almost feared him. I was afraid of letting him down. I always wanted to give 110% so that I wouldn't let him down. I remember using his keys to open the colorguard equipment room one time......I somehow managed to break the key in the lock. Yes, half of the key was in the lock, the other half was on his HUGE keychain. I was petrified to take his keys back to him and tell him what happened. But when I did, he just kind of chuckled at me like it was no big deal. I think he knew that many of us respected and almost feared him.....but he never let on. He was just so humble! As I got older, I started to realize that there was never anything to be afraid about. I no more needed to be afraid of him that I was of a fly. I didn't need to be afraid of letting him down --- he knew I was giving it my all, be it as a dancer on the field, or a clarinet player in his concert band. He was there to encourage me -- no matter what.
I have so many fond memories of him -- that mustache, that smile. I can't believe I never get to see him again, except in my mind.
It's hard for me to put into words what he meant to all of us and how absolutely superb we thought he was. It's especially hard to explain this to my fiance who wasn't from this area. I think he got some idea of what we felt when he saw the long line of us waiting in the cold a few weeks ago to see him one last time. It was quite cold that night. But I remember thinking that we would've jumped through hoops of fire to pay our respects to this man we revered so much.
Mr. Hancock - I miss you so much. I'm so sad I will never again get to witness the magic you worked with the band. You hold a very dear place in my heart and in my memories. Thank you SO MUCH for making my years in high school so fun and memorable. Thank you for teaching me all the life skills that I continue to use. Thank you for just being you.
Mr. and Mrs. Hancock, and Linda - thank you for sharing LJ with me. I know you must be so very proud of him. He was a truly amazing and wonderful individual. I feel so lucky to have been one of the thousands whose lives he touched....so lucky to have been one of his kids. My thoughts and prayers are with you each day.
We will never forget you LJ, because you were "1st class all the way."
Love,
Kourtney
Class of '96
David, Pam, Hannah, and Haley Williams
January 22, 2002
As I send our our most heartfelt sympathies to the family of Mr. L. J. Hancock, I would just like to make a few personal observations. I was never a member of the Norwin Marching Band, but my husband was (class of 1977). I never fully understood his devotion to L.J. and would at times poke fun at him for that admiration. When L.J. would come down the street at a parade I would tell our girls "the king is coming". We would laugh, but he truly did hold an extremely high place of honor in my husband's life. Our girls are still too young to be in the band, but they enjoyed attending numerous practices and competitions.
After having the wonderful privilege of attending L.J.'s funeral, I must now admit that I get it. Here is a man who was admired, loved, revered, respected, (the list goes on) by more people than I could ever imagine. His life touched thousands. The most important life was that of my husband. Thank you to the family of L.J. for sharing your son with David. There is first God, then David's father Harry, and then L.J.
These are the people that have molded and made him into the man that he is today.
My prayer is that Mr. and Mrs. Hancock and Linda will find peace. I also pray that the lies of a few insignificants will be overshadowed by the kind words and admiration of thousands.
Nancy Cummerick
January 22, 2002
Were I asked to name the person on this planet for whom I hold the most respect, without hesitation the answer would be L.J. Hancock. Were I asked to name the one who has had the greatest impact upon my life, the answer would be the same. There is so much for which to thank this man. He taught me about dedication, commitment and work ethic. He taught me never to take myself too seriously and he could always make me laugh. He taught me to believe in myself and to have confidence in my ability to do my job. He taught me that dedicating your life to living what you love with passion is really the only way to live a happy life.
L.J., you will be missed for the smile, the encouragement, the ability to always find the right word to express any thought, the laughter, the love of music and the love and respect for your students. Rest in peace, my friend, knowing that you were so loved by so many, and that you will live on in all whose lives you've touched because there is so much of you in each of us. We will pass on to those whose lives we touch all that you have given us, and they will pass it on, and so, and so on, and so on... Thanks, L.J., for giving me the privilege of working by your side for over 27 years, thanks for being you and thanks for defining who I am.
Lou, Jo-Anne, Linda and Dennis, know that L.J. will always be part of my life and that I'm here every moment of every day to provide for all of you anything that I can. Thank you for your friendship and for sharing L.J. with all of us.
Nanc
Michael E. Romansky
January 21, 2002
I first saw the Norwin marching band perform competitively in 1981 at Latrobe, and was astonished at how much better they were than any other local band I had seen. Next year, after an early sampling of the 1982 show that later won the Grand National, I began following this band in earnest. That show was so good, you wanted to go back and see it again and again with each passing week.
Although our first child was still a few years away and we had no direct contact with the Norwin band, I did come to know several people who had sons and daughters who were in the organization, and from them learned that key to the excellent level of performance was none other than director L.J. Hancock. Everyone seemed to speak highly of this man for his musical and marching expertise and total dedication to purpose. He was a positive role model for the band students, and they were willing to work hard for him to make the program the best it could be.
It was an enjoyable experience following the Norwin marching band in 1982. And I have been following it ever since. Over close to twenty years, throughout many competitions, BOA regionals, and several Grand Nationals, I saw that “L. J.” continued to be there and continued to work his magic, always inspiring his students to strive for that level of excellence that had become his hallmark – and often succeeding.
In the late 1990’s, as our daughters grew and approached their freshman year, I encouraged each of them to give high school band a try. One opted out, but the other did elect to give it a go. I was elated that at least one of my kids would partake of the “L. J. experience” and that I would finally have a chance to get to know this man whose ability to motivate others was by now almost legendary.
But unfortunately, it was not to be. L. J. is gone, and now we must all go on without him. He will be missed.
We extend our heartfelt sympathies to the Hancock family.
I am certain that if there is a marching band in heaven, on January 6 our Lord found a most capable band director.
Lisa McAllister Bertolini
January 21, 2002
My deepest sympathies to all of LJ's family and friends. I was in the band from 1977-79 and still rarely a day goes by without hearing a song and thinking of LJ. There was the time he had us play "Send in the Clowns" as the sophmores entered the gym at a pep rally; "Simple Gifts" is still a favorite song; who can forget the thrill of being in a 100-yd band front belting out "Stars and Stripes"?
He demanded, and GOT, the best we could be. God Bless him. There will never be another.
Catherine Poe (Behun)
January 21, 2002
(Class of '88) I am deeply saddened by the passing of Mr. Hancock. It didn't matter if you knew him really well or were just a quiet, shy band member that kept more to yourself. He still had an impact on your life. I remember once when I was feeling unhappy after a practice. Mr. Hancock was walking by and saw me "hiding out" in a shaded area outside the school. As he passed me, he offered some kind words to make me smile. This little gesture really made me feel like I was an important part of his "band family." I will never forget all of the fun, friends and hard work that made being a part of Mr. Hancock's band a wonderful and memorable experience!
Amanda Henry
January 21, 2002
Mr. Hancock,
Words can not even begin to express the shock and sadness that shot through my body when I found out about your passing. I will never forget all the memories we share. My fondest though will be KENNYWOOD PARK FALL FANTASY~ "THE HENRY'S JOB" Dad got the parade out, the kids, future band and colorguard members got Norwin High School Band around Kennywood. :) A tradition that we carried on for YEARS!!!! That was the band that everyone watched for, and came to watch the parade for. As I proudly marched out carry Norwin's sign, I never thought that I would be up front again, leading the band around Kennywood. Only the second time it was as Colorguard Captain. Who would have thought that as a freshman I helped make all of the noise in the drumline to colorguard my sophomore - senior year. Mr. Hancock you have touched so many lives, you will be missed, but as you taught us to say "NOBODY DOES IT BETTER, NOR WILL ANYONE EVER DO IT BETTER" and I'm sorry you couldn't be there for my senior year and I'm sorry that on the day of graduation you won't be watching from the back corner, instead you have a better seat up in heaven with the arial shot.
Mr. & Mrs. Hancock,
I will keep you in my prayers forever and you will never be forgotten. I love you Mr. & Mrs. Hancock! :)
Linda and Dennis,
I know that you guys are so strong together and I know you will get through this. I love you both and continue to pray for you!!!!!!!!
To Mr. Hancock, Mr. & Mrs. Hancock, and Linda and Dennis: You are in my daily thoughts and prayers and you WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!!!!
God Bless!
Patti (Llewellyn) Wargo
January 20, 2002
I have memories of LJ both as a very talented student, under the direction of Larry Radzevich, and as an even more talented band director, who put everything he had into carrying on the tradition of his former director. Although I was never under his direction, I've followed the band for years, through my own graduation from Norwin in 1973, and have seen the love he's shared with every one of "his kids". I feel that the secret to the success of the Norwin Band was just that - the emotional bond between LJ and his band members came through in every piece of music they performed. It was obvious - nothing was "forced" - he directed out of love for his students, and his students followed his lead out of love for him. LJ's legacy can never be questioned, or forgotten.
Pamela Rowlett-Dye
January 19, 2002
I was only in the elite Norwin Band my senior year where I played cymbals. Mr. Hancock always made me feel welcome. I always admired him. My deepest sympathy is extended to his family and to the Norwin community. God Bless!
Karen Kallenborn
January 19, 2002
It was a privilege to know you, L.J. You demanded the very best from your students and everyone with whom you worked in every endeavor and it resulted in excellence. How eagerly each band season's show was anticipated! How we enjoyed watching you work your magic with our kids. We stood on the hill filled with pride as the show came together and we could see you had done it again. You instilled a pride, honor and dignity in our kids that they will carry with them for their entire lives. For a few golden years they were the best they could be and we will never forget it was because of you and what you taught them. Thank you so much....We will not forget.
Thomas Vlasick
January 18, 2002
Here's to LJ! The most influential person in my musical career. Everytime I direct a choir, a part of him is always with me. To the Hancock's - thoughts and prayers.
Patty Behun-Coopersmith
January 18, 2002
I have such fond memories of band/colorguard (class of '86) - making so many friends, sharing laughs, practicing hard, and learning discipline and respect. LJ was so dedicated to the band/guard and its members, it made all of us want to win - for him. He will be missed and thought of often. It is truly the end of an era!
Georgia Sager
January 18, 2002
As you all start to move on in the spirit of Mr. Hancock, may you know that others' prayers and thoughts are with you at this difficult time.
Georgia
William Lentz
January 18, 2002
I have come to admire the Norwin Band program and respect the work of Mr. Hancock. He will be truly missed. My thoughts and prayers are with him, his family, friends and all those connected with the Norwin Band program. May you all find peace in knowing that others' thoughts are with you.
Will
Lisa King-Morris
January 18, 2002
God Bless the family and friends. May God have a hand in the upcoming events still to be "corrected".
John, Dawn and Justin Layden
January 17, 2002
Our thoughts and prayers are with the Hancock Family.
Dawn (Mann) Layden
January 17, 2002
Dear Lou, Joanne and Linda,
Words cannot express the heartfelt sympathies that we have. LJ has taught me so much and I probably wouldn't have the love of all music.
The perfection he demanded no matter how tired you were. The endless, "Set It Up Agains", the marching in snow, rain, sleet, sun or mud-ladden fields as the "Jean Machine". How proud we are to say we were from NORWIN and that we had LJ Hancock as our band director.
It was an honor to know you, work with you, and learn from you. You had a true "gift" for music. I still love simple gifts and probably always will. You will be missed greatly.
Our Thoughts and Prayers go out to his family and friends left behind but especially Lou, Joanne and Linda.
The son you raised was a man of honor , respect and a wonderful teacher to all who knew him. He did so much for so many and we ALL will remember because NOBODY WILL EVER DO IT BETTER!!
Dawn (Mann) Layden
Class of '80
Sandy (Llewellyn) Edmonds
January 16, 2002
"Nobody Did It Better"
Doug Good
January 16, 2002
Thanks for being you L.J.
Teresa Russo
January 16, 2002
Mr. Hancock. He was the guy who scared the crap out of me my Freshman year of High School, but he was also the most influential person on me. All 4 years of High School I worked hard to get him to notice me, to say "Hello" to me in the hallway. I even asked for a lesson during lunch my Sophomore year. In High School I day dreamed about coming back to visit my teachers. I saw how much attention Mr. Hancock gave to them, and I yearned have his approval of me too. Heck, I even joined Jazz Band my Senior year so that I could see the other of side him that I wanted to know. So now, and although he is gone, he is in a better place...and for all you people out there that were just like me, looking for attention from this man. You have it, now 24/7. No matter where you are, or what great accomplishments you have done. You don't need to tell him what you've done. He can see you do these outstanding jobs, and smile down on you(and even give you a helping hand when you need it the most). So don't let his passing keep you down. Remember him as the great man he was and keep the tradition alive, work hard with discipline and dedication. and continue to play your heart out so he can hear you loud and clear way up in heaven.
The Big Guy had the prettiest eyes I've ever seen.
Mr. and Mrs.Hancock, you raised a magnificant son, and I can see why he never moved out of the house.
Heather Dzikiy
January 16, 2002
My years in the Norwin Colorguard and Concert Band were some of the best in my life, and that is because Mr. Hancock was such an amazing teacher and role model.
I remember being scared to death asking him if I could play something in concert band, even though I had only been in guard and couldn't even read music. He graciously put me on bass clarinet since I had "been a majorette and should have strong fingers." He tried not to laugh at how excited I got when I could finally play "Hot Cross Buns" all by myself. When I was a colorguard captain, he always teased me for not being able to find the right key on his huge key ring to unlock the equipment room. And I remember being very happy to see him at my graduation party.
These are great memories that I carry with me to remind me of what a great guy Mr. Hancock was. Sure, he was pretty scary when he slammed his podium into the floor while screaming, "LOUDER, LOUDER, LOUDER!" at the trombones in concert band. And sometimes we weren't sure just how much he really cared about us, especially when someone fell at practice and he only asked if the horn was ok. But anytime anyone asked him for help, he was there. He will NEVER be forgotten.
Thank you Mr. Hancock.
P.S. There's trouble, right here in River City...
Damon Hoffmann
January 16, 2002
Thanks for the memories.
Scott & Lesli Clowes
January 16, 2002
L.J. was my mentor for my student teaching experience. He was a great teacher, mentor and friend. Lesli and I will miss him dearly.
Louis Eichelberger
January 16, 2002
Mr. Hancock was a father to me, and mean that in all truth. God knows where I'd be had it not been for him. He will live for eternity.
"One more time." for the 5th time.
-L.J. Hancock
Alana Ludwig Batey
January 15, 2002
LJ was many things to many people, mentor, wonderful teacher, son, brother, and friend. To me, he was the most important teacher by far. In many cases he took misfits, gave them purpose, direction, and meaning, turning us into champions. Kids that without his guideance and direction may have been lost. Men like he are too few and far between. On behalf of each person who's life he has touched and changed I thank you LJ. No truer words were ever spoken NOBODY DOES IT BETTER, than you, you are the best.
Class of 83
Karen Smith Weigle
January 15, 2002
Nobody Did It Better than L.J. We will miss him!
John Russo
January 15, 2002
I knew LJ since 1997 when my eldest daughter entered the Norwin Band. I was unaware of the Norwin Band's reputation and work ethic until then. But we grew to love the band and Mr Hancock real soon. I have the greatest respect for Mr Hancock as an educator and a band director. I believe he was the most influential person in my daughter's high school career. I am glad that I had the chance to tell him that at Senior Night last May. The Norwin community is going to miss a great presence. I am extremely disappointed that my two younger daughters, who are currently in the middle school band, will never get to experience Mr. Hancock's leadership. I hope that our future band will dedicate itself to remain the best in Mr. Hancock's memory. If not, we will have forgotten what he taught all of us - students and parents alike. No one does it better is our motto because Mr, Hancock made it that way through a great 25 years as our director.
Steve McCune
January 15, 2002
Well, i was going through my stuff, and i found a picture. Now it might not say much for other people, but this picture represents a kid, that LJ took under his wing, and protected, molded and trained into a young man ready to face the world.
It was my first band competition- WVU '99. IT was odd really, for just 4 weeks or so earlier, i was just another kid at norwin, until one day LJ came up to me with a Tuba mouth piece and said.."BUZZ THIS" I did, and the next thing you know im out on the practice field learning the march. Then he threw the tuba on my shoulder. Then he put me into the whole band- a full run through! IT was hard, but he made it happen-just like he made everything happen. I was so welcomed by all the band parents and kids. I learned that drill not for me, not for the fans but for him. Why? Because he asked me to. He was my best friend. HE talked when i needed to talk. No matter what he was doing, he always had time for me...as he did for anyone who would ask. and sometimes, you didnt need to ask for he just knew. Thats what made him such a great guy. THANKS MR. HANCOCK!
NORWIN BAND
January 15, 2002
How did he do it? I keep asking myself that. How did he create such an amazing organization.
:PRIDE:
It was all the little things.
When other bands were cheering and clapping when they recieved an award we snapped to attention and then back to parade rest. :PRIDE:
Coming up the hill after any band function we stood and sang the Norwin Alma Matter "on a grassy hillside" most of the students at Norwin don't even know we have one :PRIDE:
"Set it up again" :PRIDE:
"No one is leaving until we get this right" :PRIDE
The summer of my Senior year it was August and we were rehearsing 12 hours a day cause that what you do in August. I wanted to buy a car so I went to LJ before rehearsal and said I was gonna have to get a job and not be able to stay in the band. That conversation wasn't a long one. He said "Your gonna work your whole life after school now go get your drum on and practice the opener until you can play it for me backwards" he almost made me too. :PRIDE:
I've never had the chance to really thank him for that day. We had one of the best drum lines in the country that year.
The proudest moment I ever had with the band I wasn't even in it. It was just a couple of years ago I was sitting in the bleachers at West Virgina and I was surrounded by people from all over the east coast. They were all there to see one band. The moment Norwin entered the stadium the energy level went up 110%. They completely crushed everyone in the stadium that night. "Reflections of Earth" was the show. There were a bunch of bands staying at the same hotel as me. I was getting on the elevator with some band parents from another school and I said you guys had a great show tonight and they said "thank you". What school are from? This was the proudest moment for me ever "NORWIN" I said and couldn't hold back my smile.
Thank you Mr. Hancock
for having Pride in your work and showing all of us how to have pride in ours.
Ken Close
January 14, 2002
I remember the summer before my eigth grade year I would set up on the hill next to West and watch the band practice...EVERYDAY! I asked and almost begged Mrs. Burns to talk to Mr. Hancock because I wanted to be in that band so bad. I got my wish. I remember my first day that summer was June 14, 1994....my 14th birthday! I was in that band and by LJs side for five years...not many people can say that. I was fortunate to get those extra 365 days with him that most didn't and I am sorry that I won't get another 365. He and I were so much alike. I can remember the time I left my shoes at the high school and had to sit in the bleachers with the band parents at the football game at Johnstown...that was "Year of the Dragon". Then I remember the day he spent the whole day on the phone calling to find out how my college audition went. He taught me how to live, how to win, and how important emotion is in our music. I miss my horn, I miss the lessons he taught me on my horn, and I miss time he spent with me while giving me my lessons on my horn. LJ and his family shaped the person I am and I love him and them very much. He did it his way and no one will be able to do it better.
Rev.Kevin Haley
January 14, 2002
It has been my privilege and thrill to watch the Norwin Band these past two years as my son is part of the famous percussion line. A year ago, when he was a freshman, he thought of quitting, but the encouragement he received from Mr.Hancock inspired him to continue. He has...and he will...no matter what has happened, did happen, or will happen.
My prayers--and the prayers of my congregation--are lifted to the Hancock family, to the current members of the Norwin band, and to band fans everywhere.
Rev.Kevin Haley, Pastor
Christ United Methodist Church of North Huntingdon
Katie Griffiths
January 14, 2002
A teacher is measured by the effect that they have on their students. By this standard, Mr. Hancock was the greatest teacher to ever grace the halls at Norwin High School. There was never a man that demanded more respect and admiration from his students, nor ever such a man that returned so much respect and admiration to his students. He not only cared about how we did on the marching field, but also what we were planning once we left his side and went out into the real world. Because of him, we all were proud to wear the "N" across our chests and walk onto the competition field. He was an incredible man, teacher, mentor, and friend to all who met him. To the entire Hancock family, I wish to extend my deepest sympathy for your tremendous loss. You can take pride in knowing that although he was only on this earth for a short time, he affected more people than most people who live for ninty years. To Mr. Lippmann, you are now the bearer of an incredible torch. We all knew how much he loved and respected you, and I hope you can take comfort in knowing that also. And finally to the "Big Guy" himself. THANK YOU! Thank you for giving me self confidence, giving me pride both in myself and in my school, and for always being there when I needed you the most. You always knew just what to say, and when to say it. Though you have gone to the big band in the sky, you legend, memory, and hard work lives on in everyone you have ever met and taught. Every time that I see a snackwell's cookie, I'll think of you.
Katie Griffiths
Class of 2001
Kelli Stoner
January 14, 2002
I remember when I first started trumpet about 2 weeks before band camp started. I would always go up to Norwin West Middle School for lessons from Mr. Morrison. Everyday, I would go up there and practice and practice trying to reach my goal. I saw my sister for three years going to band camp, band practice, and winning competitions with L.J. by her side (he stood by all of his kids). I wanted to much to become as good a marcher as her and be taught by the same man who showed her the ropes. I never met Mr. Hancock before, I saw him in the summer teaching his kids. One day, I went up for my practice at Norwin Middle School West (I`ve been waiting a half hour) but who do you know it comes in...Mr. Hancock. I was kind of imtimidated by how I saw him before, teaching the band. I didn`t know how to act or what to say. I stood paralized! While I was sitting on stage looking over my music, he comes over to me, takes my mouth piece, and teaches me how to buzz. Ever since then, I`ve always wanted to be in that band, I always wanted to be taught by him, but most of all...I wanted to be one of his kids!!!
Thomas Shirley
January 14, 2002
L.J. was truly a noble "Knight". He was a man who gave 100% in all his endeavors for Norwin High School. He was a friend and will be missed by all.
Dyan kreller
January 14, 2002
I would just like to say that I consider myself to be a better person because of L.J. and can honestly say that I am so lucky to have been a part of the magic he created. I didn't realize then like I do now that he gave us all of himself. I wish I would have given him more back in return. The lessons he taught were more than a few music notes and steps on a field they were lessons in the steps of Life. I can still remember hearing his voice so Strong and Demanding from the tower.... It was also filled with much love as well. I wouldn't trade a min of practices in the rain, snow, or heat..... skip one practice, party, or band camp experence for anything in the world. He gave us love of music and of life. I am proud to say that even if for a short time I was under his direction, a part of his magical world, and a part of the Norwin Band. I will miss him greatly. Dyan C Kreller
Megan Popovic
January 14, 2002
Mr. Handcock was one hell of a guy and he will be greatly missed. I just wish that I could thank him again for not giving up (completely) on a stupid freshman Horn player... ahhh those Prelude and Rondo rips! But, I have a funny feeling that he knows the impact of his hard work and dedication on so many lives.
We will miss you Big Guy.
Greg Ondayko
January 13, 2002
Well they say "A picture is worth a thousand words."
My thoughts and prayers go out to Linda, Dennis, and Mr & Mrs. Hancock.
God Bless
Christine Pederson (Lavik)
January 13, 2002
What an incredible shock. It is hard for me to grasp from so far away. LJ gained my respect the moment I met him (BOA-Normal, IL) My deepest sympathies to his family and all who will miss him.
ron & judy giuliana
January 13, 2002
We have been deeply moved my the events over the past week. Our prayers go out to LJ'S family and many friends. He was a great guy and will be truly missed.
Bethany Hardy
January 13, 2002
To the big man:
The one thing I was looking foward to this year was getting to work with you, but God said no.
It is strange how much Norwin's show "Knights of Honour" represents the course of this year. Excalibur, Remember the Fallen, and The Battle are all falling into place. The Battle is just beginning. Thanks for making so many people true Knights of Honour.
My deepest prayers go to the family.
Sandy
January 13, 2002
My thoughts prayers go out to his family and to all who knew him.
Ashley Vasunda
January 13, 2002
"God works in mysterious ways." This phrase is so true, especially now. I wasn't fortunate to know Mr. Hancock as well as others, but he somehow knew me. Since I'm in Colorguard, I never would have thought he would even know my name. But he did (and according to Linda, loved my last name) Whenever I would pass him in the hall after school he would always say hello to me and ask me how I was doing. He will be greatly missed. My sympathy goes out to his family. "Guard, get your gear and go fluff your hair." :)
Ashley Vasunda, Class of 2003
Amy Rodger
January 12, 2002
I was shocked to hear of Mr. Hancock's passing. My condolences go out to his family. L.J. had a profound influence on my life. He molded me into the person I am today. He taught me discipline, pride, self-worth. He will never be forgotten.
Audrey Mann
January 12, 2002
Dear Lou & JoAnne and family:
You have to be so very proud of your son. He has touched so may ways in such positive ways that I don't believe anyone will ever realize the scope of his involvement and caring.
I had 4 children in the band and I know he helped each of them in different way. Learning to win with pride but also learning to lose with just as much pride. He demanded the best from all his students and they gave it.
I am sure LJ is standing at the right hand of GOD at this moment.He would be checking for straight lines and perfect tones with all harps.
Thank you for giving him the love and training to be such an outstanding teacher, mentor and friend.In just 49 years he made a difference in thousands of young adults that may never have been reached otherwise.
I for one, will never hear White Star, or Simple Gifts with out remember with love LJ and Norwin.
Thank you Lou & JoAnn.
Audrey
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