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Samantha Cheng
December 12, 2012
I've only just come across this news via the autumn issue of the UVic alumni newsletter/magazine... shocked and saddened to hear of the loss of Malcolm. We were classmates at OLPH from Kindergarten to Grade 3 and I remember him as being very bright - a math and science whiz that I admired, as well as incredibly kind, and someone with a great sense of humour. The sparkle in his eyes, as someone else mentioned, certainly resonates, and even stands out in the old class photos!
To the Manson family, deep condolences... I feel as though you have been through so much already, and I know that Malcolm is surely missed. Take care.
Malcolm at Savary
Heather Manson
March 18, 2012
To Malcolm, my nephew.
I loved your gentle smile and your sense of humour, your intelligence and your quiet but deliberate perseverance.
I remember you as an adored and adorable baby at our wedding in Toronto in April 1986, as a bright-eyed red-haired little boy who pointed at the window and said "Condensation, Daddy!", and as an older child who would play and read, while younger siblings ran around and around. If I could share one thing with you, it would be to tell you how proud your mother, Pat, was of you, and all your brothers and sister. She was always so proud of all of you! I remember once she called me and told me you had been found to be a grade or two ahead of yourself - in math! It is cool that you went on to excel in this area.
When your mom became ill, I remember how hard it was on all of you. I remember you sitting on the floor of her hospital room, with your hoodie up and your face hidden, your arms around knees. But you made it through those years, your personal challenges, the transition from elementary to high school, and in spite of everything, you found a way to thrive, to develop friendships, and to continue to grow as a learner. I love that PG grad photo of you with your friends, looking so mature and confident. At university, you grew into adulthood and we saw go on to the exchange in China, and learn Mandarin! We were so proud of you in your position at Union - you seemed to thrive in that work environment, and I knew you were valued and respected.
Beyond that... words fail me.
To your dad, your step-mom, your siblings, step-sister, friends, cousins and work colleagues, I offer my deepest sympathy. Malcolm, I will always hold you in a very special place in my heart.
Love,
Your Auntie Heather
Jon Lampman
January 30, 2012
Tom --Lynn and I have always so admired your smile, your spirit and your love of family. We loved Pat and now getting to know Bo. We never meet without talking about kids first and other stuff later. Your enthusiasm for life and family is contagious and we know this will be a source of strength for you and Bo and the kids. Love, Jon and Lynn Lampman and family.
January 27, 2012
Manson family, we are so sorry to hear about Malcolm. He will live forever in our memory. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all, Laura, Nick, Ted and Angela Longstaffe
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Diane Cronk
January 27, 2012
Tom, It doesn't matter how few times I've seen you over the years, I've always felt your sincerity and warmth in your smile ... I didn't know Malcolm, but I can see by how people remember him, that he too held those qualities ... I am so very sorry for your loss ...
January 27, 2012
Dear Tom, we received this heartbreaking news from Daniel. We are at loss for words......your family's grief must be so unimaginably great. We grieve with you at this time.
Sidney and Christine Chan, Singapore
Kirsten Wharton
January 23, 2012
Tom, on behalf of Helen Newmarch and my mother and I, I want to extend our deepest condolences. We are so very sorry for your tragic loss and our hearts are with you and your family at this very sad time.
I remember coming over to your house in the summers when my grandparents lived next door and I remember Malcolm as such a special person, and such a kind soul. I am so very sorry to hear this news.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you, and with Peter, Cameron, Patrick and Kathleen.
Kirsten (and Tricia) Wharton
Rose Wickstead
January 23, 2012
Tom, Bo and family, saddened to hear of your enormous loss, words can never express the ache in your hearts right now, but, there is a little spot where Malcolm remains in your hearts and I hope this will comfort you through this tragic time. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
January 22, 2012
May your hearts find moments of ease in this time of sorrow, through shared memories, and the expressions of love from friends and family.
It is obvious that Malcolm was, and will continue to be, well-loved.
I am so very sorry for your loss.
hugh town
January 21, 2012
Tom - it's been many years since we were together at TUTS, but I remember you well, and remember your son, Malcolm. I am so sorry we could not be there to express our condolences in person, but please accept this poor substitute.
Heather Sheppard
January 21, 2012
Dear Tom and Bo and family, Thank you for the wonderful remembrance of Malcolm. It is so warm of heart to be a member of such great extended family. You are in my thoughts.Love Aunty Heather
January 21, 2012
Tom, I am so sorry to hear this news. I remember Malcolm so well from our time up at Savary. My heart goes out to you and your family. Know that we are thinking of you and support you. - Louise (Brouwer) Bauck
Cristina Correia
January 21, 2012
My deepest condolences to all of you. I am so very sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
January 21, 2012
Dear Tom and Bo and family,
I remember Malcolm and his gentle, quiet manner --- his smile, his caring manner. I extend to you all, my deepest and heartfelt condolences in this most difficult of times. I will carry all of you in my heart and prayers with warm and loving affection.
Mrs. Maria Fasan
Tom Manson
January 21, 2012
Thank you so much for your remembrances of Malcolm ... and your support and condolences for our family. This is an unimaginable catastrophe which we could not endure without your support.
John, Shannon & Ariana Giuliano
January 20, 2012
Tom, So sorry to hear the news about the loss of your son. We are thinking of you and your family with love during this very difficult time.
Patty Montpellier
January 20, 2012
I count hearing this news among the saddest moments of my life. From his earliest days Malcolm was a gentle soul with the sweetest smile, which he inherited from both his mom and dad. He carried the best traits of both: thoughtfulness; generosity; a clever mind; musical talent; a sense of adventure and willingness to explore and appreciate other cultures; an ability to form and maintain strong friendships; love and support for his family...and I am sure even more than this, although it is already testament to a remarkable individual. I would be remiss to forget to mention the twinkle I saw in Malcolm's eye when he was intrigued or amused, whether it be by computer games or a bit of mischief... I suspect he was happy to be party to the fun even if he was not the instigator. Malcolm was and is a dear soul and he is not lost but only sorely missed. I will look for him in heaven when my time comes.
with much love to Tom, Bo, Peter, Chloe, Cameron, Patrick, Kathleen, and all the rest of Malcolm's dear friends,
Auntie Patty xox
Paul Krause
January 20, 2012
Dear Tom and Bo,
Our hearts go out to you. We, and our son, Ben, remember Malcolm with great fondness. Words fail at this juncture; we send out our silent prayers to all in need of healing.
We always have stood in awe of you, and your great, big, loving heart.
With a virtual hug, for real
Paul & Sima
Erin Kenny
January 20, 2012
My memories of Malcolm are from many years ago, when he and Peter, Cameron, Patrick and Kathleen roamed the halls of OLPH. I remember Malcolm's kind and gentle ways, his warm and welcoming smile and the care he showed towards his parents and siblings during very difficult times. Malcolm was a treasure. Tom, I hold you and your family in my heart and prayers.
Brenda Benham
January 20, 2012
Tom, I was so sorry to hear this news. It is truly heartbreaking to lose your child.
My thoughts are with you and your family.
Jamie Bull
January 20, 2012
Wow. I've never met anyone more genuine. I'll always remember those endless games of Warcraft in the Manson basement, and watching South Park at midnight with the sound down so his parents wouldn't catch us. Countless hours on the playgrounds at OLPH and at my house or his house after school.....it was a privilege to call Malcolm my friend. Tom, Peter, Cam, Patrick, Kathleen: I'm so, so sorry.
A, M & C Ritchie
January 20, 2012
Our hearts break... all of you are in our thoughts.
Donna Greschner
January 20, 2012
Tom, everyone at UVic Law is extremely sorry about your tragic loss. Our thought and condolences are with you and your family.
Martin Eady
January 20, 2012
To all the Manson family, I am very sorry for your loss of Malcolm. With deepest sympathy,
Ian Cassie
January 20, 2012
Tom I am very sorry. A terrible loss. Ian
GL Gatto
January 20, 2012
My heart goes out to your family. My deepest condolences.
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