Maria Ruffin

Maria Ruffin

Maria Ruffin Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jan. 6, 2009.
Maria Elena Escribano de Ruffin, born in Mexico City on March 4, 1960, on January 1, 2009 was ushered into the presence of her hope and Savior, Jesus Christ. For more than 22 years she was the devoted wife of her adoring husband, Joseph Luis Ruffin. She created and molded four exquisite children: Maria Belen, Diana Luz, Daniel and Montserrat. Her parents, Antonio Escribano and Herlinda Sanchez de Escribano, and sister, Gloria Luz Escribano de del Castillo from Mexico City were with her at the end of the beginning of her new life. Two brothers, Carlos and Antonio are in Mexico City. Her brother-in-law Marcelo Del Castillo and nieces and nephew, Marcelo, Natalia and Aleli, also reside in Mexico City. Here in the United States are her extended family of Dr. Joseph B. and Vestina Ruffin Mykl and Susan Ruffino, Anya Carlos and Delinda Ruffino, Michaela, Robert Dr. Richard and Patricia Ruffin, Julie, Andrew, William Mark and Manda Ruffin, Reina, Aubrey, and David Lisa and Dr. Bentley Edmonds, Joe, Adele, Charlotte, Natalie. Maria Elena was a graduate of the University of Mexico, San Carlos Academy of Art. She taught as an Artist in Residence in the metropolitan area. She left her family surrounded by her paintings and etchings. Her sense of aesthetics reached everywhere, including her love of cooking, the raising of her children to play music and her joy of life, which she imparted to all. She touched and remained in many people's lives. For six years she valiantly fought cancer, not once complaining, always hoping, ultimately winning the battle and proclaiming, "Death where is your sting, grave where is your victory?" In her silent suffering and pain, we became aware of our foibles and became the better for knowing her. The pinnacle of her existence on this earth was when she shifted from a dialectical materialistic view of life to a life in the Spirit of Jesus Christ. There she found and radiated love, joy and peace. She will be missed by all. The family would like to thank everyone who was by her side. A special thank you to Mercy Hospice and Mercy Hospital for helping us and for proclaiming the love and compassion of Jesus Christ in these end times. The funeral service will be 2 p.m., Wednesday, January 7, 2009, at Hahn-Cook/Street & Draper located at 6600 Broadway Extension, and will be officiated by the Reverend Richard Hogue of City Church. Burial will be at Rose Hill Burial Park located 6001 N Grand Blvd. following the ceremony.

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January 23, 2009

Sharon Austin posted to the memorial.

January 18, 2009

JOANN SYKES posted to the memorial.

January 13, 2009

Elizabeth Hansen Hatcher posted to the memorial.

Sharon Austin

January 23, 2009

Dear Joe and children,
My fondest memories of Maria are our occasional discussions about music education for our children. She always felt this an important part of their lives, as I do, and she especially identified with my daughter, Christie, a cellist. Of her many gifts, the desire to be a godly wife and mother is the richest. "Some blithe spirits must soon grace the high courts of heaven"... The Lord lift you up and comfort you.

JOANN SYKES

January 18, 2009

JOE, PLEASE KNOW THAT YOU AND YOUR FAMILY ARE IN MY PRAYERS. MAY YOU FIND PEACE IN OUR LORD, AS I HAVE, IN THIS YOUR TIME OF NEED. LOVE YOUR FRIEND, JOANN

Elizabeth Hansen Hatcher

January 13, 2009

Dear Joe and Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you in the loss of your lovely wife and mother, Maria. She was a delightful woman and very special to all around her. I feel fortunate to have been in her presence and benefited from her joy-filled spirit.

Mikel and Karen Flores

January 13, 2009

Joe,
You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.

Cathy & Mike Reaves

January 11, 2009

We will always have fond memories of the time spent chatting with Maria while waiting for Zack & the girls to finish their OYO rehearsals. When Zack was able to drive himself, that was a part of our week that we really missed. Maria was a gem and we are heartbroken for your loss. We are sorry that we were unable to attend the funeral, but from all accounts, it was a beautifual celebration of her life, with her artwork and the music of Maria Belen and Diana.
Blessing to you all,

Kim Steele & family

January 10, 2009

Joe & Family
Maria was GOD'S GIFT to all of us, she lives on in each of you and she will never, ever be forgotten.

Joe Young

January 10, 2009

We offer our deepest sympathy for your loss. Maria had such a kind and bright spirit. She cared so much for her family, life, and music. We've all been blessed greatly to have shared time with her.
Love, Joe and Ava Young

maggie pitt-helm

January 9, 2009

Dear Ruffin Family,
Our hearts go out to each of you at this very painful time. Maria was a beautiful and kind woman. May God's love and peace ease your sorrow now.
Maggie Pitt-Helm & Gracy Helm

David, Sarah, Martin Wiley

January 7, 2009

Joe and children, we were so saddened to hear of your loss. We know that Maria Elena is now with the Lord. May God comfort you and accompany you through this loss of your dear wife and mother.

Ann Borah

January 7, 2009

Joe, Maria Belen, Diana, Daniel and Montserrat,

My heart is broken for you and you all are in my thoughts and prayers.

What a blessing Maria was in your lives and in ours. I will always remember her smile and happy heart. She always had such a positive attitude and her love for you was immeasurable. She will truly be missed.

Gina Sofola

January 7, 2009

To Joe and the Ruffin Family:

Truely I'm sorry to hear of your loss. I'm led to share the story that Billye Brim shared when her father decided to go home with the Lord. It happened a few days before 9/11, she was in Russia and did not know he had passed. A word of knowledge was given to her letting her know of his transition and that he was there at that time because a great multitude of people would be coming in that would be in need and his new assignment was starting. This brought great comfort because it just confirmed again that we live on and that our loved ones in the Lord we will see again. And as we move from place to place here on the earth, so to we can move from here to eternity. God Bless and keep you and your family during this time. Our prayers and love are continually with you.

Quin Fortune

January 7, 2009

To Joe and the Ruffin Family:

My life will never be the same.

Maria touched my heart and showed me how to see God's beauty in everything. I will always celebrate her life because of her desire to generously share the gift of God with everyone.

Lisa Modrall

January 7, 2009

Dear Joe, Maria, Diana, Daniel and Montse. Our children have sat next to and traveled to so many performances together, giving me a chance to know and love all of your kids. I am so sorry for your loss. I too remember the trip to DC, and your relating to me Maria's trip in the night to bring the kids back from Dallas. She was a special special woman. Your family always inspired me, either to keep on truckin' or to laugh out loud. Our heartfelt condolences and prayers to all of your family.

Gayle Pishkin Holmes

January 7, 2009

Joe,
Please know you, your children, Maria's and your family are in my prayers. May His everlasting love bring you a sense of peace and ultimate healing.

Janna Preston

January 7, 2009

I'm so sorry to hear of your loss and will have you all in my thoughts and prayers in the tough days ahead.

My favorite memory of Maria was when our kids went on a school trip to Washington DC. My daughter was in the room with Belen, Dianna and Maria. Due to weather, their flight home was cancelled. I talked to my daughter and then she handed the phone to Maria. She assured me that my child would be taken care of the same as her own two. And she was. They got the last four seats on the flight to Dallas and then couldn't get a flight home in time for them to get back to school for the girls and work for Maria. She rented a van and drove them all home safely arriving at a ridiculous hour of the morning.

As we got to know each other better over the years, I realized that selfless acts of generosity and love were the rule and not the exception.

Abby Stickler

January 6, 2009

Mr. Ruffin, Belen, Diana, Daniel, and Montse,
I've never known anyone who has brought more joy to the lives of all those around her than Mrs. Ruffin. I'm sure that God is very happy to have her with Him now. Your entire family is in my prayers.

Carol Stickler

January 6, 2009

Joe, we are so blessed to have known Maria. Through her passion for life, family and music, she invigorated many of us and especially our young musicians at Classen. I'll always remember her laughter that cheered up a room. How lucky we are to have been graced by her presence. She loved all of you unconditionally and it now shows in your beautiful family. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

john and marsha waldo

January 6, 2009

Joe,
So very sorry to hear the news. We have cherished our times together. Know that you will continue to be in our prayers

Kathy Pitt

January 6, 2009

Joe and family,
Maria was one of the most special people that we have ever known. My families' prayers and love are with you and the children.

mike barrett

January 6, 2009

our thoughts are with you and your children. mike and cathy

Isabella & Ana, Friends of Montse

January 6, 2009

Your family is in our prayers. We know your her loving spirit will live on through her beautiful children.

Sandy Jones

January 6, 2009

What a privilege to know Maria and the entire Ruffin family. My favorite memory of Maria is when the married couples at First Church had a line dance party at the Presbyterian Church. Maria instructed all of us in the original Macarena dance ( our Okie version wasn't quite right ). What a wonderful time we had. I love Maria and I love the family.

Marilynn Rydlund

January 6, 2009

Joe,

I am so so sorry to hear about Eleana. Even thoughh I knew her for a short period of time, I knew she was a beautiful woman inside and out. And how strong she was. What a loss. Please contact me when you can. Paul and I would love to hear from you. We are in Phoenix until the end of April. Give my love to your adorable children

John & Joan Long

January 6, 2009

Joe and Family,
So sorry to hear about Maria passing away. She was a lovely lady and a very nice person. I'm glad that I got to meet and talk to her at our class reunions. You and your family are in our thoughts.

Peter Haddock

January 6, 2009

To: Joe and Ruffin Family - you are all very dear to me. Maria Elena was a very special friend. May God bless and comfort you all.

Kathy Humphreys

January 6, 2009

Joe I my heart goes out to you at this very difficult time. Your love for her would shine as you talked about Maria when you came to donate blood. It reallly touched my heart when shaved your head, that kind of love is rare.
Kathy

Scott & Crystal Davis

January 6, 2009

Joe & Kids,
So very sorry to hear about Maria Elena's passing. God bless & comfort you and your family during this most difficult time.

Linda & Steve Faw Faw

January 6, 2009

Joe & family - we are saddened to hear of Maria's passing - Robin and I just talked about you guys last week, she was making home made tamales & I shared with her the time our families had lunch together at your house and that we had tamales. These are the great memories we'll cherish until we meet again in glory. Praying for you all, love you, Linda & Steve Faw Faw

Debi Dummeyer Sheline

January 6, 2009

Joe and your lovely family,
So so sorry to hear that Maria passed on to be with our lord. So glad we were able to see and visit with you all last summer at our class reunion. What a lovely lady.
Just know your "old" friends are thinking of you and praying for your family.

Tamala Pennix

January 6, 2009

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

T.J. AUSTIN

January 6, 2009

God bless you Maria. Your outlook was always so inspiring. May God take care of your wonderful family in your physical absence. Please know that we love you and look forward to seeing you again.

Robin, Formerly of your First Church family

January 6, 2009

Joe and Kids,
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. Even though we haven't seen each other in a while, my heart goes out to each of you. Praying for the comfort only Jesus can provide.

Frances Haddock

January 6, 2009

My dearest and closest friend, I will miss you. The many times we spent time together walking and talking about our families and sharing our walk with God were special. I know you stand before the Lord who says "well done, good and faithful servant..."

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