MARILYN GILMAN

1940 - 2015

MARILYN GILMAN

1940 - 2015

BORN

1940

DIED

2015

MARILYN GILMAN Obituary

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GILMAN MARILYN
On December 10, 2015, Marilyn Gilman passed away peacefully surrounded by family and friends in her home in Upper St. Clair. She was born on April 8, 1940, in Brooklyn, New York to the late Beatrice and Leo Singer. Marilyn graduated from James Madison High School in 1957. On September 21, 1958, she married Edward Gilman. Marilyn graduated from Brooklyn College in 1960 with a Bachelor of Arts degree and began working as a social worker for New York City. In 1966, she and her family moved to Ghent, Belgium for five years, where her husband attended medical school. Marilyn taught English, music, and art for the NATO and SHAPE schools in Belgium to support her family. Upon returning to the United States in 1971, she rekindled her passion for oil painting and writing. In the 1980s, three of her novels were published by Zebra Books. In 1988, at the age of 48, Marilyn continued her education by attending Duquesne Law School and earned her Juris Doctorate. Her legal career, which focused on family law, lasted for 24 years until the summer of 2015, when ill health mandated her retirement. Marilyn was a champion of those who were less fortunate or privileged. In 2015, she received the Washington County Bar Association Pro Bono award for legal services donated to clients who would otherwise be unable to afford legal counsel. Marilyn was a member of the inaugural class of the Washington County C.A.S.A. (Court Appointed Special Advocate) chapter, volunteering to be a voice for neglected and abused children in Juvenile Court. Marilyn's other passions included reading, gardening, and antiquing, for which she canvassed the countryside and estate sales looking for bargains with her buddy, Daneen Calhoun. She also cared deeply for her synagogue, Beth Israel, where she was on the Board of Directors for many years. Marilyn had three children, Gary (Kathy Emery) Gilman of Canonsburg, Steven (Julia) Gilman of Erie, and Neil (Sherraine) Gilman of Converse, Texas, who passed away on January 15, 2015. She is also survived by seven grandchildren, Ian, Hannah, George, Abby, Sam, Caitlin, and Leila; several nieces and nephews; and her dearest friend of 70 years, "Aunt" Carol Krieger. In addition to her son and parents, she was predeceased by her sister, Susan Covey. A memorial service will begin at 4:00 p.m. on Saturday, December 26, 2015, in Beth Israel Synagogue, 265 North Avenue, Washington where a catered reception will follow. Memorial donations may be made in Marilyn's honor to the Wounded Warriors, C.A.S.A. of Washington County, or the A.S.P.C.A. Arrangements have been entrusted to SALANDRA FUNERAL AND CREMATION SERVICES, INC., Joseph P. Salandra, owner/supervisor, Lin Webb, funeral director, 304 West Pike Street, Canonsburg, 724-745-8120. To extend or view condolences, please visit www.salandrafunerals.com.

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January 1, 2016

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Melissa Hager

January 1, 2016

Gary, Kathy, George, Steve and Family,

I just learned about Marilyn's passing. I have fond memories of your mom and what an inspiration she was to those who followed her growing up. She was quite a special person.

May her memory always be a blessing.

Warm regards,

Melissa Hager and Family

December 24, 2015

Sorry I can't be make it to the memorial. My thoughts are with you.
Susan Cassell

December 23, 2015

I am sorry that I can't join you for the memorial. My thoughts are with you

Ruth Cassell

December 23, 2015

I have wonderful memories of Marilyn as a kid in Brooklyn, Camp Eagle Point, visiting with her in Belgium, and traveling with her in England. I will miss her.
Ruth

Sue and Ed Vodzak

December 21, 2015

Our world is diminished by the loss of such a dynamic, loving, and generous woman. We were blessed to have known her.
Gary, Steven, and families, we pray that you may find comfort in so many wonderful memories, and peace that she is now at rest.

December 19, 2015

so sorry for you loss Gary and Katherine
toni landock

Mimi Kernan

December 15, 2015

We befriended Marilyn while walking our dogs. She would walk CiCi and was so patient with her. CiCi would decide to just sit in the street. And we would stop and have long conversations with Marilyn. She would always ask about our grand daughter and she would speak kindly about her family. We will miss her big heart.
The Kernan Family

Linda Waggoner

December 15, 2015

Gary, Kathy, & George,
So sorry to hear about your mother and grandmother. You are in our thoughts and prayers at this difficult time.

Carole Adams

December 15, 2015

Gary and family. I am saddened by the loss of your mom. She was a great lady and she has left her mark on many people and families. She was an extraordinary woman. I will miss her. She was like a mom to me as well.

Ellen Chisdes Neuberg

December 14, 2015

Dear Gary, Steven and families, I am so sorry about your Mom. She was a very special person and will always be remembered with love.

Sheila Sten

December 13, 2015

Gary, Kathy & family, my sympathy and prayers are with you all
Sheila Sten

Steve and Colleen Arnowitz

December 13, 2015

Gary, Kathy, George and family, we are saddened to hear of your mother's passing. You will be in our prayers. She sounds like she was a wonderful person and we are sure that her memory will truly be a blessing to everyone with whom she came in contact.

Terry Yenko

December 12, 2015

Sorry about the passing of you mom. Deepest sympathies for you and the family

December 12, 2015

Dear Gary: I was very saddened to read of the passing of a respected legal colleague and friend. Please accept my condolences at this difficult time. - Jeff Pollock, Esq., Sq. Hill

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