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Survivors: daughter, Janet Bender, Sierra Madre, Calif.; son, daughter-in-law, John and Gail, Lincoln; grandchildren, Chad Bender, Stony Brook, N.Y., Amy Bender, Lincoln; nieces and nephews. Preceded in death by husband, parents, brother and sister.
Services:10 a.m. Saturday, Vine Congregational UCC, 1800 Twin Ridge Road. The Rev. Ross Tyler. Graveside services:2:30 p.m. Saturday, Sutton Cemetery. No viewing. Visitation:9 a.m.-1 p.m. Friday, Butherus, Maser &Love Funeral Home, 4040 A St. Memorials to Sutton Public Schools scholarship fund, Vine Congregational UCC or Sutton Federated Church.
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Kathy (Burklund) Mears
November 15, 2003
I admired "Mrs. Bender" and enjoyed being a student librarian for her while at Sutton High School. She was always encouraging - an amazing woman that will be missed.
Dwight & Ruth Nuss
November 14, 2003
John and Jan: Thinking of you and your family at this difficult time. Please accept our deepest sympathy.
Amy & Mike Tinius
November 14, 2003
Please accept our deepest sympathy. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Hugs......
Chuck Spearman
November 14, 2003
As the librarian at the Sutton High School Midge was always a favorite of mine and other teachers in the system. WE did harass her a bit but it was always in fun and she always enjoyed our kidding around. She was loved and will be missed by many. Chuck Spearman
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Charles Burklund
November 13, 2003
I worked with "Mrs. Bender" in the Library at Sutton for several years. She encouraged me many times in those years. I shall mourn her passing.
Cal/Sharon McClurg
November 13, 2003
Sorry to read about Midge passsing away. We lived in Sutton from 1991 to 2001 and sat by her in church every Sunday.
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