Marjorie R. "Midge" Bender

Marjorie R. "Midge" Bender

Marjorie Bender Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Nov. 13, 2003.
Bender --Marjorie "Midge"R., 75, Lincoln, formerly Sutton, died Wednesday (11/12/03). Born, Dec. 6, 1927, in Huron, S.D., to Warren and Ruth Johnson. Married Frederick "Fritz"Bender on Dec. 19, 1949. Fritz died Oct. 27, 1989. She was a public school media specialist in Sutton, Fairmont and Geneva, then later a volunteer in the Sutton Public Schools. She was a member of Vine Congregational United Church of Christ and Pi Beta Phi in Lincoln. Before moving to Lincoln in 2001, she was a 51-year member of the Federated Church and a member of PEO Chapter BHin Sutton. She graduated with bachelor's and master's degrees from the University of Nebraska. She was a former member of the Nebraska Council for the Blind, held offices in the South Central Association of the United Church of Christ and served on committees of the Nebraska Conference of the UCC.

Survivors: daughter, Janet Bender, Sierra Madre, Calif.; son, daughter-in-law, John and Gail, Lincoln; grandchildren, Chad Bender, Stony Brook, N.Y., Amy Bender, Lincoln; nieces and nephews. Preceded in death by husband, parents, brother and sister.

Services:10 a.m. Saturday, Vine Congregational UCC, 1800 Twin Ridge Road. The Rev. Ross Tyler. Graveside services:2:30 p.m. Saturday, Sutton Cemetery. No viewing. Visitation:9 a.m.-1 p.m. Friday, Butherus, Maser &Love Funeral Home, 4040 A St. Memorials to Sutton Public Schools scholarship fund, Vine Congregational UCC or Sutton Federated Church.

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November 15, 2003

Kathy (Burklund) Mears posted to the memorial.

November 14, 2003

Dwight & Ruth Nuss posted to the memorial.

November 14, 2003

Amy & Mike Tinius posted to the memorial.

Kathy (Burklund) Mears

November 15, 2003

I admired "Mrs. Bender" and enjoyed being a student librarian for her while at Sutton High School. She was always encouraging - an amazing woman that will be missed.

Dwight & Ruth Nuss

November 14, 2003

John and Jan: Thinking of you and your family at this difficult time. Please accept our deepest sympathy.

Amy & Mike Tinius

November 14, 2003

Please accept our deepest sympathy. You are in our thoughts and prayers.



Hugs......

Chuck Spearman

November 14, 2003

As the librarian at the Sutton High School Midge was always a favorite of mine and other teachers in the system. WE did harass her a bit but it was always in fun and she always enjoyed our kidding around. She was loved and will be missed by many. Chuck Spearman

Charles Burklund

November 13, 2003

I worked with "Mrs. Bender" in the Library at Sutton for several years. She encouraged me many times in those years. I shall mourn her passing.

Cal/Sharon McClurg

November 13, 2003

Sorry to read about Midge passsing away. We lived in Sutton from 1991 to 2001 and sat by her in church every Sunday.

Please accept our sympathy.

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