Mark Bernhardt

1957 - 2020

Mark Bernhardt obituary, 1957-2020, Overland Park, KS

Mark Bernhardt

1957 - 2020

Mark Bernhardt Obituary

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Mark Bernhardt M.D. Mark Bernhardt M.D. passed away at home unexpectedly on Thursday, April 30, 2020. Mark was born in Fayetteville, Arkansas on Saturday, November 2, 1957, to George W. and Mary Kay Bernhardt. Mark was the son of an Assistant Football Coach at the University of Arkansas and the University of Kansas. Mark moved with his family to Lawrence, Kansas, when he was three months old. After living in Lawrence for nine years, his family moved to Nashville, Tennessee, where his father coached at Vanderbilt. Mark attended Hillwood High School and often referred to his four years in Nashville as his "formative years." The family moved back to Lawrence, Kansas, in 1971. Mark attended Lawrence High School, where he took Calculus at 7am in period zero, played quarterback and wide receiver on the football team under Bill Freeman, and was state champion in wrestling his senior year in the 145-pound weight class! He earned the Citizen Award his senior year, which made his parents prouder than his academic or athletic achievements. Mark was inducted into the Lawrence Lions Alumni Association Hall of Honor in 2014. After graduating from Lawrence High School in 1975, Mark studied at the University of Kansas, majoring in Biology and working summers at Penny's Construction Company. He was president of the Phi Kappa Sigma Fraternity his senior year. After graduating from KU in 1979, Mark attended the KU School of Medicine in Kansas City, Kansas, graduating in May 1983. One night in January of 1981, Mark met his bride, Renee Stewart. Renee proposed to him on the night they met. They married June 4, 1983 at Sts. Cyril and Methodius Catholic Church in Kansas City, Kansas. Mark and Renee moved to Wichita, Kansas, where he completed his Orthopaedic Surgery residency at the University of Kansas-Wichita program in 1988. The young couple then moved to Boston, Massachusetts, where Mark completed a fellowship in spine surgery at Beth Israel Hospital/Harvard Medical School. After his fellowship, Mark was honored to be invited to the faculty of Harvard during his mentor's sabbatical. Mark and Renee moved home to Kansas City with their newborn daughter Grace in 1989. Three years later in 1992, they welcomed their second daughter Hillary. Mark joined Dickson-Diveley Orthopaedic Clinic and the medical staffs of St. Luke's Hospital, Truman Medical Center, and Children's Mercy Hospital in 1990. In 1998, Mark helped found the Kansas City Orthopaedic Institute in Leawood, Kansas. Dr. Bernhardt was a clinical professor at UMKC School of Medicine, teaching medical students and residents at participating institutions. In 2012, he became the Rex L. Diveley, M.D. Professor and Chairman of the Departments of Orthopaedic Surgery at UMKC and Truman Medical Center, where he served until his passing. In 2019, he was elected as Chair of the University Health Physicians board of directors. He was elected to the prestigious American Orthopaedic Association, a national organization of orthopaedic educators and chairmen. Mark exuded passion for teaching and medicine every day of his life. He has passed down his knowledge to hundreds of orthopaedists. Coaching his residents on life, Mark would ask them, "Are you in it for love or money?" Mark believed in "getting your elbows dirty" and not being above doing the grunt work. Even as Chairman, he led by example, eagerly working each day 'in the trenches' with his team. In his free time, Mark enjoyed spending time with his family, listening to Dean Martin songs, reading history books, cooking Paul Prudhomme's Cajun recipes, playing tennis with his friends, recording his daily activities in his phone journal, traveling the world with Renee, and watching KU football and basketball. During KU basketball season, it was not uncommon to see Mark listening to KU basketball commentary on the radio, watching KU basketball on the TV, and reading the sport stats during commercial breaks. A good weekend for Mark was "The Trifecta": A K-State loss, a Mizzou loss, and a Jayhawks win. Mark had two priorities in his life: first, his deep love for his family, and second, his passion for medicine, teaching, and patient care. Mark cherished the time he spent with his wife, daughters, sister, brother, in-laws, and extended family. He made it a routine to call up the people he loved and catch up, even if only for a few minutes. Mark will be remembered for his booming voice, his infectious joy, his goofy sense of humor, his curiosity, his strong work ethic, his thoughtfulness for others, and the love he shared for the people surrounding him. He will also be remembered for being a decent, humane, and upstanding person throughout his entire life. Mark is survived by his wife of 36 years, Renee, and his children, Grace and Hillary. He is also survived by his sister Judy Kish (Bernie), her two children Keri and Kathryn (Jon); his brother Tom Bernhardt (Kelly), his three children Meghan (Brent), David (Allyssa), and Michael; his brother-in-law Ron Stewart, his son Chris (Amy); and his sister-in-law Michele Stewart (James Westberg). A celebration of Mark's life will be held at a later date. Memorial contributions can be made to the Orthopaedic Resident Education Fund by mail at Truman Medical Center Charitable Foundation, memo: Orthopaedic Resident Education Fund, 2310 Holmes, Suite 735, Kansas City, MO 64108.

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Valley and Jesse gibson

December 27, 2023

I was so very sorry to hear about Dr Bernhardt. My thoughts are always with his family. He was there for me every step of the way from the minute my husband was brought in from a motorcycle wreck. He held my hand through every surgery and I couldn't have asked for a better man to be his Dr. He saved his life and for that I am eternally grateful. He made it possible to let him be here now for our two grandbabies ages 5 and 3 that are our world......I can never say thank you enough.

Anne Kruse

January 11, 2022

`I´m so sorry.´ That´s the best I can do after learning of Dr. Bernie´s passing. He was the most caring, patient and understanding doctor I´ve ever had and I feel blessed to have known him. Hugs, prayers and peace to his family and those that loved him.

Christina Dodd

October 26, 2021

It saddens me to hear of Dr. Bernhardt's passing. I was one of his first patients at Saint Luke's. I remember being 11 yr old and seeing him in the spring of 1990. Although, I was so young, I do remember him being so kind and had a great bedside manner!. I had to wear a brace for a year due to my severe double curve scoliosis because he wanted me to grow a little bit before surgery. He eventually completed my spine surgery in May 1991. It has been over 30 years and I haven't had any issues or pain until now(but then my body is getting older!)
When I was young, I remember my Mom crying at one of my many appointments but I didn't understand why. Years later I found out she was crying because she was worried about paying for some of the medical bills. My Dad had health insurance but we were kind of poor and didn't have much money. Anyways, I found out Dr. Bernhardt personally paid for some of my medical bills. Not many doctors would have done that! I'm know my parents were grateful and relieved! He was a great surgeon, but more so he was warmhearted person! He'll be greatly missed!

Cathe Chapman

August 13, 2020

It’s Aug 13, 2020 an I was just blindsided by the news of Dr. Bernhardt’s passing! I was Blessed by being one of his patients! Being very Broken an Hurt Dr. Bernhardt and his team saw me through 3 long surgeries in 3 months. He was a Truly Gifted Surgeon with Such a Beautiful Sense of Humor. I appreciate this opportunity to say Thank You to His Wonderful Family an Friends! The time he spent with his patients was time away from you all. He changed My Life for the Better! He Is So Very Missed! Cathe Chapman, Joplin, Mo.

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David Mullnix

June 20, 2020

I was one of Mark's first patients at Dickson/Dively. We were close to the same age. He would always update me on what his girls were doing, Mark operated on my spine 3 times. We have had a friendship since 1992. He honored every request that I ever asked of him. When he needed my paper files he always told the staff that I had the thickest file in the office. Thanks to his convincing letters to my employer, Bayer Corporation, my family was able to live a blessed life. Thanks for the top notch medical care. I will miss you.
Sincerely, Dave Mullnix

John Dalton

May 29, 2020

I missed the obituary, but was recently informed by a friend of Marks passing. I have fond memories of our family visiting the Bernhardts on football weekends in Lawrence. Mark, Tom, my brother Bob, and I usually ended up playing football in the front yard. Great times with a great family. Mark was definitely one of kind. My belated condolences to Marks family

Jamie Montes

May 26, 2020

Just got a letter today information about my surgeon passing away. Hes a great man he wasnt just my surgeon he looked out for me. Matter of fact he never done surgery on me. Hes been there from the beginning of my spine problems and as I learned throughout the years from him about the spine. He taught me a lot about the spine. I will never forget he holds a special place in my heart. My condolences go out to the family & colleagues and other patients!!

Jamie Montes

May 26, 2020

he most sympathetic surgeon and kind hearted man you could ever meet nd as a patient I had the pleasure of meeting and knowing him for over 6 years now I believe!! I got my letter to inform me of the terrible news. My deepest condolences to the family and to his colleagues and other patients.
Sincerely
Jamie Montes

Jamie Montes

May 26, 2020

he most sympathetic surgeon and kind hearted man you could ever meet nd as a patient I had the pleasure of meeting and knowing him for over 6 years now I believe!! I got my letter to inform me of the terrible news. My deepest condolences to the family and to his colleagues and other patients.
Sincerely
Jamie Montes

William Venable

May 25, 2020

Bernie was my first roommate in the House. The day I moved in he said he wanted me to meet his lab partner, at which point he slid open the desk drawer to reveal the fetal pig he was working on for anatomy. Always the jokester, I will never forget him burying the Sig Ep path with every flake of snow from Edgehill Road, in the high loader he borrowed from the cement plant. You will be missed. Rock Chalk!
William Venable
Dallas, Texas

Dale Miller

May 17, 2020

Being a classmate, football and wrestling teammate, and friend with Mark has been a great experience. He was a great guy, class act and will be missed.

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Rebecca Wilcox

May 11, 2020

worked indirectly with Dr.Bernhardt when I worked at St. Lukes and Truman in Coding. His knowledge and compassion for his field was always impressive. Once I needed spine care myself, I seen him in a different light. He will be missed. May his family find peace in knowing he was amazing professionly and as a person.

Jim Isley

May 10, 2020

I had the pleasure of knowing Mark, from my days at KU. He was a good cat & always made me laugh. I was shocked to hear the news, and I will miss him. To the good Dr. I say that roses are red & violets are blue, Mark I will miss you, as you were a good dude.

Larry Devers

May 10, 2020

So sorry to learn of Dr, Bernhardt's passing. Several years ago he performed surgery on my neck. He was a most caring and compassionate physician. My prayers to your family.

Sheryle

May 10, 2020

I had the pleasure of working with Dr. Bernhardt at Beth Israel Hospital (Boston) during his Spine Fellowship. At the time, I was an orthopedic PT on 8 Feldberg (the Ortho/Spine unit). I ended up moving to Lawrence Kansas a couple years after he came back and occasionally shared patients with him. He provided excellent patient care - his patients adored him. Please know I am thinking about his family during this difficult time.

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