MARK KAY Obituary
Mark Kay, 56, of Cranberry Twp., PA passed away suddenly from a heart attack in Dusseldorf, Germany on Saturday, October 19, 2019. Mark was born on June 15, 1963, in Grand Rapids, MI to Norman and Marilyn (Malewitz) Kay. He received his BS in Chemical Engineering from the University of Michigan in 1984 and his MME from Northwestern University in 1988. On June 21, 1986, he married the love of his life, Susan Elizabeth Schaner. Together they raised three beautiful children, Kevin, Madeline and Ellen. Mark was known for his quick wit, his infectious smile, and his kind and compassionate spirit. He approached everything in life with great passion. He loved being a dad and his children were the light of his life. His immense faith was obvious to everyone who knew him. He was an integral member for many years in Pittsburgh North Emmaus and will be greatly missed by his Emmaus brothers. Those who were lucky enough to spend time with Mark will remember him for his humor, always practicing his dad jokes and "A material." Making people smile was Mark's mission. Mark was with NOVA Chemicals for 20 years in numerous positions. He will be greatly missed by his many friends at NOVA Chemicals. He loved sports, particularly any involving his beloved Michigan Wolverines. Go Blue! Mark was preceded in death by his father Norman, his mother Marilyn and brother Michael. He is survived by his wife Susan, his son Kevin (Shon) Kay, granddaughter Kitty, daughter Madeline (Randy) Morris and Ellen Kay. He is also survived by siblings Chris (Nancy) Kay, Norm (Marianne) Kay, Marie Gilewski, Therese Rouse, Katie (Tom) Mendez, Margaret Kay (Patrick Kersjes) Joe (Bridgette) Kay, Jeanne Cavanaugh (Susan Kaleita), John Kay and Pat (Sandy) Kay. He is also survived by his mother and father-in-law, Mary Ellen and Frank Schaner, and Scott (Pam) Schaner, and Cathy Majestic, and a hoard of cousins, nieces and nephews. Family and friends are welcome Sunday from 2-6 p.m. at DEVLIN FUNERAL HOME OF CRANBERRY, 2678 Rochester Road, Cranberry Twp., PA 16066. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Monday at 10 a.m. at St. Ferdinand's Catholic Church. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to St. Sebastian Men's Emmaus North, where Mark was an active member, St. Sebastian Men's Emmaus North, 103 Ryan Drive, Pittsburgh, PA 15220, Attention: Howard Soles.
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Sharon and Andy Roth
November 5, 2019
We knew Susan and Mark in Chicago for many years and were blessed to consider them close friends. Mark was a ray of sunshine and we know how much he adored Susan. We were devastated to hear this news and send our thoughts and prayers to Susan, Kevin, Maddie, Ellen, and all the Schaners and Kays.
Scott DeCrosta
November 4, 2019
I worked closely with Mark for many years in the Plastics Distribution businesses I was involved in. Our business can be often challenging, but Mark approached it with his positive attitude and never-ending humor. He never failed to update me on Susan and his kids, and you could tell that they were the highest priority in his life. We were probably the only 2 people who could quote "Monty Python and the Holy Grail" word for word! He was extremely thrilled with his "SPAMALOT" coffee mug, and mentioned it to me again months ago when we spoke. I'm saddened at his loss, but blessed to have had the chance to get to know him, both personally and professionally. Prayers to you, Susan, and the family. Be comforted with the fact that Mark had touched many people you may not know and we're better for it!
Wally Lukachinsky
November 3, 2019
I often cut grass at the same time as Mark, he always waved and smiled when we crossed paths. It's a small and simple thing, but I never left an interaction with Mark without feeling happier. Every time he interacted with my family he made it clear he'd put his neighbor's well-being before his own. He was a selfless man, a family man, and a Godly man. We love and miss you Mark, the ultimate neighbor.
Fred Lukachinsky
October 30, 2019
Sensational man, loving and adoring husband, wonderful father and an incredible Catholic. He lived in the way the Lord asks us to. He walked in peace, serving the Lord with his life. You will always be respected and loved, Mark. Your family and friends mourn today but anxiously await our reunion through Christ's promise. Rest in peace my friend.
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Frank Cannetti
October 27, 2019
Susan and family. I am very sad to hear about the death of a dear friend and Emmaus Brother with whom I shared a birthday. Mark was a true Christian prayer warrior who loved life and his faith. He will be missed and I am certain that our Heavenly Father needed him. May he RIP.
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