Marlene Eikerenkoetter
1933 - 2025
Marlene Eikerenkoetter
1933 - 2025
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BORN
1933
DIED
2025
Marlene Eikerenkoetter Obituary
Joan lived a life marked by unwavering devotion-to her faith, her family, and her community. She was a loving, humble, and giving soul whose care for others was evident in every aspect of her life. Whether offering a warm meal or a listening ear, Joan's generosity knew no bounds. Her presence was a source of strength and comfort to those around her.
She married the love of her life, Joseph Eikerenkoetter Sr., with whom she shared a deep bond rooted in faith and mutual respect. They traveled extensively due to his military career in the Air Force. Together they raised eight children and built a life centered on service and spiritual commitment. As the devoted wife of the pastor of Westminster Church of God in St. Louis, Missouri, Joan played an integral role in supporting his ministry. Her love for the Lord was reflected not only in her words but also in her daily actions-quietly steadfast and full of grace.
Joan's home was always filled with warmth and the irresistible aroma of her cooking and baking. She had an extraordinary talent for preparing meals with perfection-each dish crafted with care and love that nourished both body and spirit.
She is survived by seven of her children: Herbert Eikerenkoetter, Joseph Eikerenkoetter Jr., Joan Elizabeth Eikerenkoetter, Gregory Eikerenkoetter, Kim Eikerenkoetter, Lila Eikerenkoetter, and Daphne "Missy" Eikerenkoetter; as well as 21 grandchildren and a host of great-grandchildren who carry forward her legacy of kindness and resilience.
Joan is also survived by three beloved sisters: Shirley "Sam" Moore-Robinson, Judith "Linda" Bland, and Sheila Berry. Their bond remained strong throughout their lives-a testament to the enduring power of sisterhood.
She was preceded in death by her cherished husband Joseph Eikerenkoetter Sr.; daughter Monica Green; granddaughter Marlena Green; brother Charles Marriott; and two half-brothers Bernard Marriott and William "Billy" Marriott.
To those who knew her best-her family-Joan was the heart that held them together. As one sibling lovingly shared: "I always considered Joan to be the most sensible one of us five siblings. She held this family together. I loved her dearly and will miss her so very much."
Eternal rest grant unto her, O Lord, and let your perpetual light shine upon her. May the souls of the faithful departed, through the mercy of God, rest in peace. Amen.
May Marlene "Joan" Joan Eikerenkoetter's memory be a blessing to all who were touched by her life.
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Tara Morales
June 23, 2025
My Aunt Joan is so beautiful! I will miss her so much I am so glad for all the time I did get to spend with her in the early 2000s and I am forever grateful for how much she loved her sisters and particularly my mom who loved her so much and felt the closet to her and they would spend hours on the phone and I am so glad! I´m so sad for her children and grandchildren because I know it will be so hard to live without her. She was a great mom and a great aunt and sister and wife and sounds like she excelled in every role!
I will never forgot the day the 5 siblings were reunited in Tucson Arizona and I surprised them by taking them all to get their picture taken together. I knew it was a momentous occasion that may never happen again and it was my gift to them! 2 of the 5 are now in Heaven so I am grateful for this photo and for making this happen for them.
Eric Bland
June 18, 2025
I know my aunt is in a wonderful place with her and family. Her presence here will be lasting for everyone. I wish we could have had lots more time together with all of the family. I can recall when my family visited my aunt, her husband and some of their wonderful siblings, she was very welcoming, joyful, and her energy was definitely felt. When I sat back and thought about expressing myself on here I can remember the sense of comfort and her loving smile that I will never forget.
Marianita Harris
June 14, 2025
I remember Sis. Eikerenkoetter during my very early as a new convert. Her genuine kindness and gentle words of encouragement made me feel so welcome. She truly let her light shine for the Lord. May God bless and comfort her family during this time.
Sheila Forrest
June 13, 2025
My sincere condolences to the entire family. Marlene (Joan) was a dear friend to our family who will forever hold a special place in my heart. Sheila Jeff Forrest and family
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Gabrielle
June 13, 2025
Melody Eikerenkoetter
June 12, 2025
Thank goodness for FaceTime! Glad my now husband and I came to Phoenix 12/2025 to see you! Please get your well deserved rest! Kiss dad for me!
Love you Mom
-Melody
Valerie Russell Hutton
June 12, 2025
Several years ago, when Joan and Joe lived in St Louis, they opened up their hearts and their home when I visited from my home town of Philadelphia. Joan, as I always knew her was warm and loving. She took me to lunch before I left on my mission as a photographer to shoot the magnificent Arch and the Mississippi River. I remember when we were all young, Joan, Charlie, Shirley, Linda and Sheryl. I continue to miss them all.
Lovingly,
Valerie
Sheila
June 10, 2025
Joan is the oldest of five and I was the youngest. She got married when I was only 2 years old, so I didn´t really get to know her as well in my youth.
After a few getting acquainted talks on the phone and a brief visit to her house in 1976, I found her a delightful person and to my surprise, my look-a like. Many comments were made of our similar appearance as the years passed.
I had the privilege of singing at her Anniversary celebration some years ago and the pleasure of spending more time with her.
My youngest daughter and her family visited her at her home some years later and totally enjoyed her witty sense of humor as we caught up on a few family history stories. I´m so thankful my daughter videotaped a portion of our visit for us to cherish always.
An amazing woman wife and mother and Overcomer of life´s many waves and speed bumps. No matter the challenges, Marlene Joan never lost her smile... which I´m sure broadened as she entered Heaven´s gates!
Though loved and missed she will be, our hearts rejoice in knowing we will see her again radiant, youthful, joyful and restored- to never know suffering again. Father thank you for my look-a like big sister with such a big heart
Evelyn E.Eikerenkoetter Philmon
June 10, 2025
I have decades of cherished memories of my brother, Joe & my sister-in-law, Joan. They are both greatly loved & missed. Ongoing prayers for my precious nephews & nieces.
Love Always, Aunt Evelyn "Sug" Eikerenkoetter Philmon
Denise Parker
June 10, 2025
Kim,
May your mother's memory bring you peace and comfort. You have done an outstanding job taking care of your mother before her transition......my hats off to you, JOB WELL DONE . Your mother was a beautiful soul who inspired so many. Your mother's love will always be cherished. There is no one in this world like a mother and she knows just how much you loved and adored her.
I am always here for you BFF.
Traci Lynn Reed
June 9, 2025
Aunt Joan was so special to me. She showed me nothing but love all the time ..
The best thing about Arizona was having
her there...
She was such a strong wise lady that kept it all the way real...
She would leave me the best birthday audio messages ever ...
I´m gonna miss you Aunt Joan thank you thank you for everything
Rest Peacefully
Sonja Wilson
June 9, 2025
I´m deeply saddened by the loss of Mrs. Eikerenkoetter. Mrs. Eikerenkoetter was a wonderful person who will always have a special place in my heart. Although she has transitioned from this world of labor to reward, I am comforted by the fond memories of her beautiful smile, caring heart, and loving spirit. I will always remember how she spoiled me throughout the years with her delicious baked goods. I can still smell the aroma of her coconut cake, which was my favorite. I know that the end of her life is not the end of her story... her legacy will live on forever. Mrs. Eikerenkoetter loved her family with all her heart and made an indelible mark on all who had the distinct pleasure of knowing her. She will be greatly missed. She lived a good, Christian life and I'm confident that God has a special place for her in heaven. Peace and blessings.
Carol Landis Maxwell-Reaves
June 9, 2025
My dear cousin Joan. The lost of you still remains so surreal to me. As a child of (5yrs old), I recall the times, every summer my oldest sister Beverly alias Bilb, and we spent at least one-wk at Aunt-Ross's home. I looked forward to it and loved it. I know that we all Loved Aunt Ross. I didn't get to see you often however, Charles and his first wife visited us quite often. Daddy was Charles favorite uncle. As I became older I made a point to stay in contact with You, Sheila, Shirley and Linda. When I became employed with the airlines, there were no direct flights from Phila. to Tuson AZ. I traveled via St.Louis MO. This enabled me to extend my layover in St. Louis and spend xtra time with You and Joe, which I always looked forward to. Then continued to Tucson AZ. Once in Tucson, I'd spend weekends with Sheila and Shirley's families. Joan, you and Joe, always showed your hearts caring and Love, which I can't ever forget. I loved the fact that we were First Cousins. I'll always love, miss You and never forget You.
Cousin, Carol L. Maxwell-Reaves
Jordan Stephens
June 9, 2025
Hi mom! Just wanted to tell you I´ve appreciated everything you always did for me and how you always asked how I was and the kids were. I still remember how when I got excited to see you every time you came into town to visit or how you threw down in the kitchen and made sure everyone had plenty to eat. I know this isn´t a goodbye I know it´s a see you later, I love you and I miss you thank you for everything.
Kim Eikerenkoetter
June 9, 2025
Hey Mom! I'm struggling with the fact that you're gone and it's difficult to write you a message as I'm fighting back tears right now! I spent the last full year of your life with you and I'm sure it was God's plan. I remember making you breakfast and how much you enjoyed my eggs. On Mother's Day 2024 I prepared a feast and you enjoyed every morsel. I remember how you woke-up after a power nap to watch Lester Holt during the week. You loved a Jr Bacon Cheeseburger from Wendy's, a Shrimp basket from Culver's, and the Catfish meal from Texas Roadhouse. Your only complaint was "they gave you too much food"! lol You were the best caregiver to your 8 children, and you taught us to be kind and considerate. You & dad taught us at a young age that God is Love, and the importance of accepting Him into our lives. You instilled culture and discipline by enrolling me in piano and violin lessons at the age of 6, (even though I wanted to quit), and you sacrificed time and money to make sure I had the best education. When I graduated and moved to Philly, I know it wasn't your plan, but I maneuvered through life, had a family of my own and both you and dad let me know I made you proud! I remember in 2009 when I went through the most traumatic experience of my life. You had me send Raven to St. Louis to stay for the school year, and you flew to New Jersey to be by my side as we laid Tony to rest. I'll always remember how you were ALWAYS there! You never complained while you suffered, you never wanted to be an inconvenience, you were humble and appreciated everything I did for you. You were the original 'minimalist' because you just kept things simple. I remember you would say you didn't know where I came from because at a young age, I always wanted nice, expensive things that weren't in your budget - but you got them for me anyway!! You not only raised your children but raised most of your grandchildren. You and dad took in people who fell on hard times, you gave food to families who otherwise wouldn't have eaten, and you shared whatever you had with those who needed it. You helped countless people and never looked for recognition. I'm so glad that my children had the opportunity to know you and refer to you as 'mom' too! When I last saw you, I told you I loved you, kissed you, and gave you a hug. That memory will forever be etched in my mind. You were the glue that held our family together even in your last years, but God knew you were tired. I feel your presence sometimes and I know you're watching over me. Rest well mom, you fought a good fight and now you wear your crown! I love you!
Lisa M. Cross
June 9, 2025
My fond memory of Aunt Joan was when she mailed a caramel cake from Saint Louis to me in Philadelphia for my birthday. She knew how much I loved it.
You will be missed
Love Lisa M.
Carl Bland
June 9, 2025
Joan was a blessing to her entire family, and I will always cherish her memory. I am married to her sister, Linda, and am honored to have known and loved Joan. May God bless and console the Eikerenkoetter and Marriott family.
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