Mary Lee Vandevander

1943 - 2025

Mary Lee Vandevander obituary, 1943-2025, Charles Town, WV

Mary Lee Vandevander

1943 - 2025

BORN

1943

DIED

2025

Mary Lee Vandevander Obituary

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Mary Lee Vandevander, daughter of Mary and Wilbur Mosser, passed in her sleep at home in Charles Town, WV, on the afternoon of Sunday, Dec. 7th, 2025, this afternoon. She joins her husband, Stephen Ray Vandevander, who predeceased her.

She is survived by sons Stephen and Joseph Vandevander, and her granddaughter Chloe Vandevander.



Mary Lee was a native of Chester, WV, humanitarian, environmental, and social activist who was arrested twice during peaceful protests for causes that she championed, once refusing to pay the nominal bail, and making the three days in jail part of her action. She gave lavishly of money, her time, and labor to support charities for the elderly, the impoverished, and victims of natural disasters. She was a long-time supporter of the ACLU and political action organization committees.



She was a teacher by profession, and graced the lives and improved the minds and characters of generations of children. She was also a loving and devoted parent and grandparent.



She was an active member of Trinity United Methodist Church, and was blessed with a devoted group of friends both within and outside her church communities.



Her life was honored in a small memorial service of close family and friends.



May God rest her sweet soul, and reunite her with her husband, parents, and all the dearly departed.

Nunc dimittis

In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the ACLU, Meals on Wheels, or the Cancer Research Institute.

Condolences May be expressed at www.eackles-spencerfuneralhome.com

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Ruth Ann Reiner

December 22, 2025

So sorry to hear. We grew up across the street from each other. Always playing together. Then the funny thing after not seeing her in years, I moved to Lisbon where I found out she was living and we were able to get together again. She got me into singing with a group. I have missed her since she left Lisbon.

Tom Hindes

December 21, 2025

I just learned today that Mary Lee passed away. Her family became our neighbors when we moved to Florida Avenue in 1944; she was my friend for 81 years. Such sad news.

Kathleen McDonald

December 20, 2025

Rest in peace, Mary Lee. We enjoyed many wonderful times doing things together. I will miss you. Love you!!! Kathleen McDonald

Martha Roberts

December 20, 2025

My condolences to the family! Mary Lee was a great person and a fine teacher, caring teacher. I worked with her several years at ATA. May she rest in peace!

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