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Mary O’Connor Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Nov. 18, 2023.

Mary O'Connor of Seabrook, NH, 72, passed away Friday, November 17, 2023 with her family by her side.

Mary was born in Springfield, Massachusetts to the late Justin and Patsy (Granfield) O'Connor. She was raised in both Chicopee and Amherst, Massachusetts, receiving her RN from the University of Maine and BS from the University of Massachusetts Amherst.

Mary worked as a psychiatric nurse for 35 years at Anna Jaques Hospital in Newburyport, MA. She had a flair for the dramatics and was involved in community theater throughout her life. Mary loved spending time outdoors, skiing in the winter and camping and cycling in the summer. Some of her favorite times were had playing in the surf with family and friends in Wellfleet, MA, riding the waves on her rubber raft with a myriad of nieces and nephews hanging by her side.

Mary is survived by her daughter, Miranda Belmont, husband Kyle, and grandson Alex Hickman of Bow, NH. She also leaves behind her siblings, Eileen Iacobucci and husband Mark, Annie O'Connor and husband Steve, Judy Bigham, Billy O'Connor and his wife Joy, and Peggy O'Connor. Mary will be greatly missed by her 14 nieces and nephews. She is predeceased by her brother Tommy.

There will be a private celebration of life for the family.

In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Jimmy Fund at Dana Farber https://www.jimmyfund.org/gift

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February 10, 2024

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November 22, 2023

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Barbara Austin

February 10, 2024

I met Mary in the eighth grade. We became best friends. I am Miranda´s godmother and she was my daughter´s godmother. We shared so much through the years. It´s strange to be in this world without her.
Until we meet again my friend may you rest. I love you

Lucy and Joe McMilleon

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November 22, 2023

I met Mary in the early 90s when she bought a home next to me on her beloved Lake Attitash in Amesbury We bonded immediately. She also worked at AJH as did I except in different departments We shared alot of moments together some sad but mostly happy. My favorite memories are of us starting a club known as the LOLAS. ( Ladies Of Lake Attitash)
Every year at the end of the summer season we decorated my boat for the Grand Allumination Nite Boat Parade
Five of us Ladies dressed up as mermaids
And every year we had a different theme
.....I will forever miss Mary forever. She was kind,
Giving and loved her family. She always talked about her grandson Alex....My sincere condolences to Miranda and family
Sincerely. Lucy McMilleon

Carol Favis

November 20, 2023

I worked with Mary at Anna Jaques and enjoyed her friendship and sense of humor. I´ll never forget when a patient tried to literally break out of our psych unit by attempting to smash a window. The patient was unsuccessful and Mary commented, "It´s Lexon....Its what the PopeMobile is made out of!
We had lots of fun over the years meeting for July 9th at Ogunquit and Girls Camping yearly with co-workers. Rest in peace my friend.

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Melissa Gouin

November 20, 2023

We worked together at AJH and shared a birthday. Lost touch over the years but thought of her every July 8th. Rest in peace sweet lady.

Jane Feltham-Mulcahy

November 20, 2023

Miranda, I´m so sorry for your loss. Your mom was a joy. I remember babysitting you for her and doing theater with you both. I´ve often thought of her over the years and her sweet, kind, gentle spirit. Sending much love. Jane Feltham-Mulcahy

Tom Doonan

November 20, 2023

God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Tom Doonan

November 20, 2023

Mary was a friend and trusted make up artist for the Amesbury Children's Theater. Her bright smile, and flair for life will be missed. I wish her family peace.

Diane (Kelleher) Muryn

November 20, 2023

Miranda, your mom always brought a smile to my face. May you remember all the wonderful things about your mom. I pray she can rest in peace.

Angela Giadone

November 20, 2023

So sad to hear of your passing Mary. You will be missed. Rest in peace. Condolences to your family.

Diana Passafiume

November 20, 2023

God bless you Mary. You were a wonderful person to work with and a very good friend. My deepest condolences to the family. I will always remember our desperate housewives conversations. How we will always make bets on the show. You had a big heart. Always willing to help out. May you rest in peace.

Kathleen Veltsos

November 19, 2023

Mary hired me at Anna Jaques Hospital many years ago. She was a blast to work with. I won´t forget her laugh and bright smile. Til we meet again

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