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Lacey Harris
October 19, 2025
Mary,
You have been gone a month now and I have thought about you everyday since. I cherish all of the special memories that we have together. Thank you for always loving me like I was your own Granddaughter and for loving my little Axel so much.
Every time I read Axel the book "You´re My Little Pumpkin Pie" I think of you. He loves that book and he loved you so much! You always told me he reminded you of a "little cherub" and that will always make me smile.
You taught me so much about being there for others and how spending time together is the best gift of all. I admired you and will always think about you when I see a rose garden or smell Chanel No. 5 perfume.
Until we meet again someday!
I love you!
Love,
Lacey Harris
Dylan Terry
September 28, 2025
Mary,
I will forever cherish the time we spent together and the memories that were made. My fondest memory is the many times you took my sister and I to Cherry Creek Mall. Often times you allowed us to ride in the trunk of your car, which we thought was so cool.
I will forever remember the smell of your home, the pride in the landscaping and the amazing decoration throughout your home inside and out.
We love you Mary
Dylan Terry

Kathryn Isenberger
September 22, 2025
Mary was two years behind me at Arvada West, was my sister Karen's classmate and dear friend, and as an "upper classman", I didn't pay much attention to either one. When Karen moved back to Colorado from Texas in 2016 to help me care for our aging mother, she reconnected with Mary. My life became very blessed to be in Mary's company for special occasions and to be reminded how much Mary loved our mother who Mary called "Mrs. B" (for Beverly). I delighted in Mary's beautiful smile, infectious laughter, and learning about her professional career for which I had great admiration. I was awestruck when invited to Mary's home at Christmas! Words cannot capture the wonderland she created. In addition to her professional talents, she was a brilliant collector, designer and decorator! Her sweet devotion to our dear mother showed the love Mary has for others. Over two years, she visited Mom in the assisted living facility, bringing roses and flower arrangements from her garden and often a burger from Wendy's for Mom and a salad for herself. Mom loved Mary dearly and when in a sad mood, Mary was the one who could lift Mom's spirits. This photo was taken when we took Mom to Mary's home one last time before moving Mom to Texas in 2023 to live near Karen. Mary is giving Mom a beautiful ceramic angel inscribed "A Guardian Angel-Always With You". Jesus has you now Mary, and as a guardian angel you will always be with all who love and miss you. With deepest sympathy to Matthew and Marika, Kathryn Isenberger





Karen Jones Brittingham
September 19, 2025
My dearest Mary Jean,
I´m sure I am not the only friend who claims this distinction, but when asked who I considered my closest childhood friend, I always answer, "Mary Jean Oliver!" In fact, I don´t recall a time when we weren´t together until I moved to Texas. It wasn´t until I moved back to care for mom that we were able to reconnect and spend some quality time together. And, it was during those six years I came to know you as the strong, determined, amazing woman you are! I didn´t know you during your "career days" but everyone else, including my sister knew the high positions you held and what an asset you were to the departments you ran! In fact, your obvious professionalism, wisdom and humility has caused me to ask the question, "how in the world did a young Mary Oliver ever tolerate living with a scatterbrain like Karen Jones?" I know you remember the antics that got us kicked out of at least one apartment. I will take full blame.....well and Higgins with his trash bucket dog collar crashing into little old ladies in the halls of our high rise apartment. I don´t remember you chastising me for riding my bike down the halls and nearly crashing into other residents, nor freaking out when I suggested we spray paint a chair bright yellow in the fourth floor stairwell. I believe it was the yellow footprints leading directly to our apartment door that was the final straw for our removal. And like the unflappable, resilient woman you are known for, you just helped me pack up our stuff and move to a different place.
In preparation for this upcoming celebration of life, I had the opportunity of working amongst your beautiful roses. In just one afternoon of pruning, I emerged absolutely covered in bloody scrapes and puncture wounds! And I, like every other friend helping, asked the question, "how in the world did one little woman, procure, plant, nurture and maintain over 100 rose bushes?" You have a rare gift for appreciating beauty which you created not only in your garden but your amazing home and cottage! I don´t know anyone who would spend more time lovingly placing "hundreds" of ornaments on multiple Christmas trees, or painstakingly arranging the most intricate place settings and centerpieces, then throw on work clothes to climb up on the roof and clean gutters!
My fondest memories are our early morning dog walks on the Van Bibber Trail. We were there to see the sunrise and marvel at the incredible "God Skies"! I am deeply comforted knowing you are resting in the arms of our dear Lord Jesus Christ and I look forward to the day I will be sharing the peace and joy you are experiencing right now!
I love you my friend! See you soon! Karen
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Elaina McArthur
September 18, 2025
Dear Matthew and Marika,
Matt and I wish to send our deepest condolences for the loss of your mother Mary. She was a wonderful woman who loved you very much. She was truly a kind, caring and genuine friend. What started as a working relationship turned into a dear friendship. Words cannot express the bond we developed through the years, and we will always cherish the stories and memories we made together.
She will be deeply missed and always in our hearts. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this very difficult time.
Love Elaina and Matt



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Elaina McArthur
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tom rebecca sagle
September 17, 2025
god speed mary tom rebecca sagle .
sorry for the loss




Diana
September 16, 2025
You have been my best friend since the seventh grade at North Arvada Junior high school. Our friendship is so special and survived the best of times and sometimes the not so good ones! You were always there for me anytime and from anywhere! Then you became a wonderful wife and mother! How lucky Mickey and Matt were to have you! You were always devoted to your loved ones! Your sense for business was stellar and you were an excellent associate for a few great firms! Your love for roses was always a part of your heart! I will cherish the memories from our trips to Hawaii and watching their beautiful sunsets together! You will always remain my best friend forever in my heart and soul!
Blake Lott
September 16, 2025
I´ll always remember her beautiful smile and what a wonderful mother she was.

Linda Terry
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Linda Terry
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Linda Terry
September 16, 2025
Being 12 years my senior, Mary Jean was always so much more than my cousin. As a child I remember her doting on me and providing me with so much love and care. In my teen years she was such a good mentor and provided me with such guidance and friendship.
In my adult years at a particular time in my life when tragedy struck she was there for me EVERYDAY. She would call me multiple times a day checking on me offering her support; I honestly don't know what I would have done without her.
It is true, the world is dimmer without her light in it. From now on, everytime that I see pink roses, a beautiful flower garden or a cottage I will always think of her.
May she rest in peace.
Ann Cronmiller
September 15, 2025
I am so lucky to have had Mary as my friend and neighbor for the past 30 years. It was always so peaceful sitting in the yard with her, surrounded by beautiful flowers and happy dogs. I appreciated her love for animals. One time there was a mama duck and four little ducklings in my yard with a hawk nearby eyeing them. So Mary and I managed to escort them all down the street to the gulch area where they appeared to be safe. We were all so enriched by her amazing yard. What a talented gardener. Thank you Mary. Rest in peace.
Debby Padilla (Oliver)
September 15, 2025
We would meet Mary at Appleridge Cafe for lunch. We would reminisce about the Oliver´s and lots of political discussions.



Jason Frederick
September 15, 2025
Matthew and Marika, we are so sorry for the loss of your beloved Mom. We are fortunate enough to have enjoyed her company and friendship for the past 16 years. When neighbors become family, it is truly because of the special person Mary was. Her unwavering love for her kids, Murphy and Blue shined thru every day. I have always looked up to her as she was indeed one of the strongest, hardest working women I have ever met. Enjoying her beautiful flowers, her amazingly decorated home, her sweet treats and her warm friendship are things I will forever cherish. She was so loving that she followed Dakota´s sports and braved more than her share of cold softball games to watch her play. Moore street will forever be touched by her beauty. Sending all our love, Jason, Belinda and Dakota.

Barb gregory
September 15, 2025
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