Mary Margaret SODER

Mary Margaret SODER obituary, Lakefield, ON

Mary Margaret SODER

Mary SODER Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Nov. 17, 2022.
Peacefully, with her family at her side, our sweet Mom passed away at her beloved home on Lake Katchewanooka on Friday, November 11, 2022 in her 77th year. Mary was loved by many, but mostly by her children Amanda (Nick) and Mark (Becky) and her two adoring grandsons Sam and Thomas. Also missed by her sister Cathy (Frank) and brothers Michael (Barb) and Bill (Erica), as well as numerous nieces and nephews. Mary is predeceased by her husband Larry in 2006, and her parents Jack and Patricia Pulcine, as well as her younger brother John. Mary was born in Peterborough in 1946, moving to Lakefield in 1950. She attended Ray's School then Lakefield High School where she was active in student council activities. She was an active curler, having both skipped her high school team and competed at the Lakefield curling club. She was a member of the Peterborough Waterski Club. After high school, Mary worked for Canadian General Electric in Peterborough, following the tradition of many members of her family. Through mutual friends, during one of the many fun-filled GE ski trips, Mary met Larry and they were married in 1972, living in Toronto before returning to Lakefield in 1987. Along with Larry, they owned the Hendren Funeral Home in Lakefield and together served the Village of Lakefield's families from 1987 through 2006. She continued this service by volunteering for 10 years with Community Care, and through various positions in Probus, and on Church council. Visitation will be held at the THE HENDREN FUNERAL HOMES, LAKEFIELD CHAPEL, 66 Queen Street, Lakefield, on Wednesday, November 16, 2022, from 2-4 and 7-9 p.m. A funeral service will be held in the chapel on Thursday November 17, 2022 at 11:00 a.m., followed by interment at Lakefield Cemetery and reception at the funeral home. Memorial Donations to Hospice Peterborough in Mary's memory may be made by contacting the funeral home at www.hendrenfuneralhome.com or by calling 705-652-3355.

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Carol and Mike Winslow

November 23, 2022

We are so sorry that we were unable to go to Mary's Funeral. What a dear, dear gal. We loved any time that we spent with Mary - Euchre, July 1st or just visiting. We have donated money, in Mary's name, to the Peterborough Pet Hospital to look after animals that need surgery or are distressed. We think and hope that Mary would be pleased with our choice of donation. You are in our thoughts.
Carol and Mike Winslow

Jeff Moore

November 18, 2022

I am so very sorry to hear of the passing of your mother. Mary was a wonderful customer of ours for many years and always enjoyed our conversations. She will be missed

Stan & Yvonne Madigan

November 15, 2022

Mark, Amanda and family. Please accept our condolences on the passing of your mom and our wonderful neighbour of many years. Your mom will always hold a special place in our hearts. Her and Molly were absolutely the best. We have some wonderful memories, sitting out on the front porch with them. We will miss her greatly and pray Gods comfort will be your portion as you adjust to Mary´s departure.

Taryn Blackstock

November 14, 2022

Dear Amanda, Nick and boys . Mark and Becky . I send my deepest sympathy with the loss of your wonderful mother . My time with Mary will be treasured forever. She spoke highly of her family and friends. Mary will be truly missed by so many but will remain on our hearts forever.
My condolences to you all . Taryn Blackstock

Robert LaFreniere

November 12, 2022

On numerous occasions I had the privilege to assist the Hendren Funeral Home during the tenure of Larry and Mary Soder. I was always treated very nicely, not only by Larry and Mary Soder, but by all staff. I am saddened to learn that Mary Soder's journey has come to an end. Mrs. Soder was the epitome of class. Always a pleasant smile and compassionate to everyone. A sad loss not only to her surviving family but to the whole community. Please accept my condolences during this time of bereavement.

Richard and Wendy Connelly

November 12, 2022

Dear Mark,

Richard and I send our sincere condolences to you and your family on the loss of your mother.

Colleen Senior

November 12, 2022

Dear Amanda, Mark & families, your Mom was a kind, caring gracious & lovely woman. She loved her family, her children & her sweet grandsons & many others. Mary will be misses by so many who respected her & all that she brought to Lakefield. May you find comfort & support & peace within your family. Colleen Senior

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