Mary Charles Wu

My deepest condolences to Richard and the entire family. Mary was my principal at Emery School in Buena Park, and from the moment I met her, I knew that she would be a wonderful person to work for. My husband, our two girls, and I were all at Emery while she was there, and we were sharing memories of her at the dinner table the other day.

Mary loved to hear my stories about growing up in the country in Arizona, and she would share about her upbringing in Texas. We shared stories about us both growing up singing; I'm an alto too. She and I would compare our pearls that we would wear to school, which she would wear every single day. (To this day, every time I wear mine, I think of her.) She loved my daughters, and they loved having her as their principal. Mary regularly asked me how they were doing. She was honest, funny, helpful, and allowed me to grow as an educator. She loved telling the students about her dog Steven, and they in turn would tell her about their pets. At her retirement, I sewed her a quilt made up of squares that every third grader at the time made for her, and she loved it. Our school benefitted from her presence in the short time that she was there.

Reflecting on the time that I knew her, I will miss her hearty laughs, hearing how much she loved her Richard and Richie, and her genuine love of people. Her life positively impacted my life, and I'm sure that she left her imprint on the lives of her family and dear friends. She will be greatly missed.

Aunt Charlie (as we called her) was the dearest and sweetest person you could ever know. She cared so much for our family as if we were own kids and grandkids. Her great nephew Will refers to her as his 3rd grandmother. Her great niece Sloane loved receiving dresses from Charlie as they were always so pretty and frilly. She will be missed dearly by her family, and friends. Derek and I will miss her love, laughter (oh those tears of joy she always had!) and margaritas. She and Richie and Paw Paw are watching over us now.

Mary was a dear and very close friend for 50+ years of my mother, Nancy Dimmitt. My mom so very much appreciated that they chatted every week for so many years. She will be remembered as a kind and caring and wonderful friend, so very important in my mother’s life. Julie Tomlin

The world has been made a bit brighter by having had Mary in it. She was a joy to be around and her joy was infectious. As both a teacher and principal in the the Buena Park School District she touched so many lives! Mary will be greatly missed by all of us.

Although I never personally worked with Mary, everyone I knew spoke so highly and respectfully of her! She was quite the lady and her personality shone through that great Texas accent. She definitely will be missed!

Richard, I am heartbroken by Mary’s passing. My condolences to you, her family nearby and in Texas, and of course to ‘her girls’ (Nancy, Terry, and Angela).

Mary was an incredible ‘people’ person. She was always far more than a friend and colleague. She was inspirational, honest, and laid down a heartfelt opinion always with a smile. For the last 24 years, she was a wonderful life guidance to me.

I’m fortunate to have seen you two at the house in November. I know she was struggling after Richie’s passing, and I always tried to keep her engaged with text messages or a quick call. Sadly, we played phone tag in March/April around her birthday and we never got to complete that last conversation.

Regardless, my deepest sympathies to one of the best people I have ever met. She has left a positive imprint on so many. I will ALWAYS be proud to have known her.

My dear Mary Charles, my favorite Rigsby cousin. I had so much fun with you and so many memories of our drives to Fabens, Tx to visit our Rigsby Grandparents and family. We had the Rigsby in us always with a joke, smart remark, or laughing till we cried. My sincere sympathy to Richard, Larry, Cathy, and family. I will miss you desperately Charlie.
Angie Rigsby Garrison Irving, TX.