Matthew Louis Costigan

Matthew Louis Costigan

Matthew Costigan Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Nov. 14, 2008.
BANGOR and ORLAND - Matthew L. Costigan, 31, died unexpectedly Nov. 11, 2008, at his home in Bangor. He was born Oct. 26, 1977, in Bangor, the son of David P. and Flora J. (Dorr) Costigan. Matthew graduated from Burnt-Hills/Ballston Lake High School, Burnt-Hills, N.Y., and attended Paul Smith College in the culinary arts program. Matt was very creative, enjoyed cooking, art, music and animals, and loved his cat, Mercy. He is survived by his parents, Dave and Flora Costigan of Orland; brother, Christopher Costigan of Bend, Ore.; grandfather, Louis Costigan of Falmouth; aunts and uncles, including Myrtle Pendleton of Orland, Isaac Dorr and wife, Barbara, of Bucksport, Robert Costigan and wife, Nancy, of Bar Mills, Steven Costigan and wife, Berta, of Hermon, Dana Costigan and wife, Donna, of Freeport, and Darrell Costigan and wife, Jeanne, of Durham; several cousins, and many friends in Maine and New York. He was predeceased by his grandfather and grandmother, Isaac and Marjorie Dorr; grandmother, Rebecca Costigan; and uncle, James Costigan. Visiting hours will be held 6-8 p.m. Monday, Nov. 17, at Mitchell-Tweedie, 28 Elm St., Bucksport, where funeral services will be held 1 p.m. Tuesday with Pastor Peter Remick officiating. Interment will be at Oak Grove Cemetery, Orland. Donations in his memory may be made to the American Diabetes Association, 80 Elm St., Portland, ME 04101.

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November 24, 2008

Kimberly Leva posted to the memorial.

November 21, 2008

Diane Christianson posted to the memorial.

November 20, 2008

Friends From Saratoga posted to the memorial.

Kimberly Leva

November 24, 2008

Dear Flora,
Mom called me with the sad news of Matt's death. I was so shocked, and sad for you and Dave. I know that we have been out of touch, but this news brought back the fun, loving things you had said to me in the past about Matt. Please know that you and your family are in my prayers. I miss you, and I'm sending love your way!!
Love, Kimberly

Diane Christianson

November 21, 2008

Dear Flora, I brought your name up this last week at work when we were talking about some of our former patients that we missed. You can imagine my shock when MaryLou told me that she had seen Matt's death in the paper. He was a gentle young man who was lucky to have you and David for parents. I certainly can not imagine the pain of your loss. I pray that the memories of happy times with Matt will lessen your grief. My most sincere condolences to your family. Love, Diane Christianson (office of Dr. Fountain)

Friends From Saratoga

November 20, 2008

I am writing on behalf of a large group of Matt’s friends in Saratoga Springs. We just received word of his passing and would like to extend our sympathies to your family. Matt will always be remembered as a wonderful friend to us all. Thank you Matt for blessing us with your friendship. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

November 19, 2008

Dave, Flora and Chris,
Please accept our condolences in your time of sorrow. Hopefully your memories of Matthew will help you through this difficult time.
Love, Don and Marian Wilson

Bob Bownes

November 18, 2008

Dave & Flora,
My thoughts are with you. Most sincere sympathies and condolences.

Michael P. Donnelly

November 18, 2008

Sorry for your loss

Mike & Suzy Vierra

November 18, 2008

Dear Flora, Dave & Christopher, We are so sorry to hear about Matthew. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I know that God is taking good care of him!

Love,
Mike, Suzy, Michael & Kaitlyn Vierra

Nancy,Frank,Katy,Patrick,&Linda Wickham

November 18, 2008

Flora,Dave and Chris,
We are so sorry to hear about Matthew.We hope that many great memories of good times help to make this time a little easier for you.Our hearts go out to you.With Sympathy,

Molly and Patrick Steele

November 18, 2008

David and Flora, Patrick and I were so sorry to hear of Matt's passing, Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Love, Molly and Patrick

Jeff & Sue Choquette

November 18, 2008

Dave & Flora,

Sue and I were very saddened to hear of this news. Our hearts and prayers go our to you as you deal with Matthew's death. As a parent, we cherish the time with our kids and I know that I will take some extra time to give my girls some extra hugs today. This is a sobering reminder to me what matters most in my life. Our Love goes out to both you.

Sharon Gotlieb

November 18, 2008

Flora & David,

I am so sorry for your loss. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers daily.
Sharon Gotlieb

Crystal Simpson

November 18, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with you during this tough time. Matt was a wonderful person.

Tina Costigan

November 17, 2008

May God be with you through this painful time. My thoughts are with you. love, Tina Costigan

Sheri Quatrale

November 17, 2008

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief. My deepest sympathy.

Bobbi Chase

November 17, 2008

Dear Flora and Family:
I was so sad to hear of your loss, I know we had spoke several times about our children and please know that you were a comfort to help me through some issues, and I would certainly be there for you should you need. My prayers are with you at this difficult time.

Sally Bowden-Schaible

November 16, 2008

Dear Flora and David --- My heart is so filled with sorrow. Please know that my thoughts are with you.
With love and wishes for comfort and healing --- Sally

Joseph Costigan

November 15, 2008

Dear Flora & David,
Words cannot express the sorrow of our hearts for your loss. May the love and memories that you hold deep within your hearts sustain you. Your in our thoughts and prayers. With our sincerest love, Jody, Debbie & Jasie Costigan

ANDY & VENIE OSBORNE

November 14, 2008

DAVE & FLORA
OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU.

Rachael Larrabee

November 14, 2008

We love you guys... Love, Rachael

Alan, Wanda, Ashley and Jake Riling

November 14, 2008

Dear Dave, Flora and family,

So sorry to hear about Matt. You are in our thoughts.

Frances Perkins

November 14, 2008

Flora and David I am so sorry for the lost of your son...We are not suppose to lose our children before us. But God always has His own plan..May God Help you thro this...Love you Flora and I have only met David a couple of times, but my heart is with you both

Holly Harvey-Pelletier

November 14, 2008

I am so sorry for your loss....its hard to understand why these things happen.Take comfort in family and friends.
Hang on to your memories and cherish them.
Thinking of you
Holly Harvey-Pelletier
Verona Island,Maine

Mike, Stacy, Megan & Sara Thibodeau

November 14, 2008

Dave & Flora, We are so sorry to hear of Matthew's passing. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.

Ellen Dorr

November 14, 2008

Cousin Flora and David,

Sorry about your son and He really loves all of you very much. God will take him to the heaven anytime. Bless him.

Ellen Dorr

November 14, 2008

Hi Flora and David,
My friend called me about your son by the videophone this morning. I was shocked and tearful. Your son look like your. I never met him for long time anyway. I know that you will miss him for while.

Diane Maune

November 14, 2008

To Flora Jean, David and Christopher,
We are so sorry for your loss. Hopefully, time will help heal the pain in your hearts. You are in our prayers.

Berta Costigan

November 14, 2008

We all loved Matt so much. We are all here for you..

It won't be the same again without Matt.

Phyllis Alley

November 14, 2008

I am so very sorry for your loss.

Barbara Tilley

November 14, 2008

To David and Flora, I send my deepest sympathy to you and your family with Matthew's passing. We are not supposed to bury our children but life has many curves.May you have sweet memories to get you through this time, and please know that people care. God Bless, Barbara Tilley

Willy Larrabee

November 14, 2008

Sorry for your loss.

David and Lucy Webb Hardy

November 14, 2008

Our deepest condolences to all of you on Matthew's passing. He was the sweetest little boy, and it was nice seeing him with David last summer at the lumber store where he was very friendly to me. God Bless all of you during this difficult time. With our love, David and Lucy Webb Hardy and family

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