Matthew J. Ibarria

Dear Matt,

I spent Father's Day with your brother in Atlanta. As you know he is doing well and progressing with life's challenges.

I miss you as always. I keep your spirit and memory close to me every second and minute. I am at peace with either living or dying, as I expect to be with you again when my time comes. I sure hope these beliefs become reality.

Love,

Dad

Dear Matt,

This coming Sunday, Bibi and I will be attending for the second time the Annual Compassionate Friends Candle Lighting Ceremony where we will be honoring you and all the other sons and daughters who have departed parents in S Fls.I will be reading this poem in your honor and memory:

Catching Butterflies
It often hurt to come upon reminders of
my son
Tho' often since I lost him I would search
around for one
Which always brought on sadness and
the tears that I would shed
Were caused by names or faces, all
things that I would dread.
But then one day I came upon a man
who'd lost his son
I found that things I ran from, he
wouldn't even shun.
But rather he would treasure and I said
I wondered why
He told me that he called them "Catching
Butterflies."
This view of his intrigued me; I wanted
to hear more
And learned that he took all of them and
carefully would store
All of the reminders that I chose to push
away
He would tuck deep down inside his
heart each and every day.
Now a name or likeness when catching
me off guard
Does not upset me as it did and I don't
find it hard
For now instead I see these times as
opportunities
To see my son awakened in these new
fresh memories.
Dottie Williams
TCF Pittsburgh PA

Rest in Peace my Son!

My soul brother you tought me so much in such a little bit of time, and you changed my life for the better and showed me the world for what it was in a person's eyes who doesn't let limits stop them and for that I owe you much love to you brother rest in peace so I may join you in paradise and one day we can look back on all this and laugh ..

The Force Awakens & is with you Matt!!!
Love,
Mom

My Dear Beloved Son,
Thank you for your spiritual presence.
You are a true gift from God!
"God's sacredness is encoded into the cells of all life" you would say.
I'm never letting go, my child.
Love Always & Forever,
Mom

It was a wonderful Good Friday Service
There's something about the cross.
You either step toward it or away from it. One cannot be neutral.The cross, in it's splendor, doesn't allow that, & neither would Matt.
We journey to the cross with our heads & our hearts. We anguish at the pain & marvel at the promise, the eternal lifeline for our spirit.
When Jesus cried "It is finished" the sacrifice was made. All lambs deserve a cross. Matt loved the cross we had over our fireplace. Of course, it is his now & he is happy.
You & your mom are forever in our hearts & prayers,
The Dean Family
(will try to attach pic soon)

POSTED: December 9, 2014

At noon today, one year ago, Matthew James Ibarria, my 23 year old son, voluntarily left this life for the next.

Matthew lived a short, yet rich, earthly life. He ended his own earthly suffering confident of a better existence beyond the one we know. He spoke of having "seen" or glimpsed at what bliss and spiritual perfection awaited us, and he courageously took an early train to the final destination, unafraid and un-doubting.

Bless you my son, and thank you for the wonderful smiles, laughs, joys, wonder and even the pain you left behind. You have given me more than I can yet explain.

Infinite Love.

Rick Ibarria.

Because he hath set his love upon me, therefore will I deliver him: I will set him on high, because he hath known my name.
He shall call upon me, and I will answer him: I will be with him in trouble; I will deliver him, and honor him. ~ psalm 91:14,15

Give us this day our daily bread.~Matthew 6:11
Search me Oh God, and know my heart. ~Psalm 139:23
For what is your life? It is even a vapor that appears for a little time then vanishes away. ~ James 4:14

Donna
My heart and prayers go out to you. I have dealt with this kind of tragedy in the past and understand the pain you are dealing with. Please reach out to me or any one from our class of 79 if you prayer, words, conversation, or anything. I pray that God's peace will comfort you. Todd

Rick u have left me in shock. I am so so sorry to hear this sad news. I'm sure ur suffering from a mix of many emotions. May he rest in peace. I am here if u need a friend.

Natalie Sent from my iPhone

Monday, January 27, 2014 2:47 PM
To: Ibarria, Ricardo


Dear Rick: deje pasar un tiempo prudencial, aunque en estas cuestiones, las
heridas son dificiles de sanar. El tiempo, sin embargo, ayuda a poner las cosas
en perspectiva, y nos da capacidad de observacion despues de pasada la tormenta.

Nadie de nosotros esta preparado para esto que ha sucedido, pero Dios, - aclaro
que no soy nada religioso - debe elegir personas fuertes de espiritu y de
temple para poder enfrentar situaciones limites.

Sos una persona con el cual interactuo poco, pero las veces que lo hago, como
dirian en el futbol, despues de pasarte la pelota, vos la devolves "redonda".
Sos una persona con el cual es muy agradable trabajar, y sin duda, con gran know
y experiencia que hacen de nuestra cotidianeidad laboral un lugar mas agradable.

Solo me queda saludarte con afecto deseando que tu familia sea fuerte y
encuentre la capacidad de mirar al futuro desde algun otro lugar que les permite
encontrar la felicidad, sin dejar de recordar.

Abrazo grande,


Martin Lang
Country Manager Argentina & Uruguay
MasterCard Worldwide

Tuesday, January 28, 2014 1:48 PM

Hi Rick,

I did not reach out before because I wanted to give you some time, but know that I am praying for you and your family.
I am now in Miami, so if you need anything please let me know.

Saludos.

Clarena V. Furtado
General Manager
Multinational Strategic Partnerships
MasterCard Worldwide | Latin America
Sao Paulo, SP 04794-000

From: +1305xzxxxxx
Received: Dec 14, 2013 7:28 PM

Dearest Rick i am so sorry about Matthew and that i wasn't able to be there today with you and your family.

Love you,

Ana

Sent via BlackBerry by AT&T

Dear Matt, its a full moon tonight and closest to the earth. I know you would love to see it. But I bet your looking where you are now. Just thinking of you. Miss you. Sharon and Jeff

Where do I find the Mother's beautiful eulogy for her son Matt? I was at the service and do not see it any where. Thank you

Favorite quotes of Matthew James:

PEACE.
NEVER LOOK DOWN ON ANYBODY UNLESS YOU ARE HELPING HIM UP.
IN MATTERS OF TRUTH & JUSTICE, THERE IS NO DIFFERENCE BETWEEN LARGE & SMALL PROBLEMS, FOR ISSUES CONCERNING THE TREATMENT OF PEOPLE ARE ALL THE SAME.
I MATTER BECAUSE I AM PART OF THE UNIVERSE.
Thank You to Matthew's friends who have labeled him a "COMPASSIONATE WARRIOR" who was ahead of our time. Always remember his spiritual inspiration to you and pass it on, never forgetting to close with "peace" - his signature word.

April 22, 2014

Rick,

I was extremely sad to learn the news of your son, Matthew. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx I want to express my solidarity with you as a father, as a friend.

Un abrazo,

Jaime

Dear Matt,
We celebrated your birthday on Sunday & made your strawberries & whip cream cake! We Rejoiced because God was celebrating with us in the miracle he created in you. On earth & in heaven you reflect a strength of faith that inspires others. Miss you & love you Matt. Ms. Sharon

February 18th, 2014

Rick, thank you for including me in your special message. More importantly, my heart, soul and prayers are with you and your family.



(I will make the donation)

Sending you a virtual hug!!!!!!! Denise

My sincere condolences. May happy memories carry you and your family through these hard times.

Ricardo and family,

You all continue to be in my thoughts and prayers. Your memory and tribute to Matthew will help many in year's to come.

Tue, 10 Dec 2013 15:26:35

Subject: Terribly sorry for your loss

Ricardo,

I am so sad to hear you have lost your son. It's difficult to find the right
words on this occasion. But I am sure you know that we are all thinking
about you at this difficult time.

With Deepest Sympathy,

Ann

Ann Cairns
President MasterCard International Markets

Tue, 10 Dec 2013

Subject: Thinking of you

Ricardo,

I wanted to send you a note to let you know that you and your family are in
my thoughts and prayers. I know this has to be hard losing your son.

Please let me know if you need anything.

Warmly,

Ron

Ron Garrow
Global Head of Human Resources
MasterCard Worldwide

12/13/13

Dear Rick,

Sigrid has told us about the passing of your son Matthew and the circumstances involved. We are so shocked and sorry for your devastating loss; it's impossible for us to even begin to imagine the pain this is causing you and the rest of the family.

We understand the services are being held in Melbourne. We wish we could have joined you, Sigrid and the others, particularly your mother, during this very difficult time.

Please receive our heart felt condolences. May God provide Matthew the peace he sorely needed and resignation to the mourning family at this very difficult time.

Un fuerte abrazo,
Daisy & Carlos Gonzalez

12/13/13
Rick, what awful news! I am so sorry to hear this. Please receive my sincerest condolences.


My prayers are with you and your family.


Gus

12/11/13

Rick,

We are so sorry. If there is anything that Vickie or I can do in addition to our prayers for God to give you strength (He will), please let us know.

Sincerely

Brian and Vickie Lock

12/12/13
Mr Ibarria


I am saddened to hear of Matt's passing. Please accept my sincere condolences


Ed Weber


Ed Weber LCSW,CAP
Director of Professional Services
Florida House Sunlight

12/11/13

Dear Mr. Ibarria,
I am deeply saddened by this news. Matthew was a beautiful and sensitive soul, much too sensitive for this world. I send my most sincere condolences and prayers to You and to his mother and grandmother. I too believe he is free of pain and suffering now.

In sympathy, so sorry for Your loss,


Alicia Rammel

12/11/13

My brother, I heard the news from Percy and I cannot imagine what you are going thru.



Te mando un fuerte abrazo and may Matthew rest in peace.



At least he is no longer suffering.



Will try and make it to the service.



Javi

12/11/13

Rick,

I'm so sorry to hear about this horrible news. We will be there to help you in any way we can. My sincerest condolences that will never be enough to fill the void.


Eddie Busquet

12/11/13

Hello Rick,
I found out about Matthew's passing yesterday and both Jeanette and I want to extend our condolences to you and your family.

I prayed last night for your son and will continue to do so. It is a tragedy when we have to bury our children for whatever the reason but you must know that he is in God's Kingdom right now and he is being taken care of. He is at peace.

I am here if you need to reach out to me.

All the best to you at this time of sorrow.

Ken & Jeanette

12/11/13

My Condolences to you and Mathew's entire family. Will remember you in my prayers. Maybe the Mother of God can help to heal....the death of one's child is pain I don't want to imagine.

Ola

2/19/14

Dear Rick,

I haven't had a chance to convey my condolences to you and your family. I really admire you for sharing this with so many people.

Have a great day ahead.

Best regards,

Yvette

From: Alvarez, Gabriel

Sent: Tuesday, December 10, 2013 2:01 PM

To: All Latin America - Latin America; Hartzell, Richard; Vosburg, Craig; L=
ane, Jason; Oh, Yvette; Eklof, Catharina; Lang, Brian; Cairns, Ann

Subject: Sad News!

Dear colleagues,

It is with extreme sadness that I inform you of the unexpected passing of Rick Ibarria's son, Matthew, who passed away yesterday.

At this time we do not have any further information about funeral services.Once we receive more information, Human Resources will make it available =
to you.

As a father myself, I can only imagine how difficult this time is for Rick and his family. Our deepest sympathies are with him. Please keep him in yo=
ur thoughts and prayers.

Sincerely,

Gabriel A Alvarez
Executive Vice President
Market Development | Latin America and the Caribbean

Sent: Wednesday, December 11, 2013

Subject: Mis condolencias

Rick,

Mis oraciones están contigo y tu familia durante este terrible suceso.

Recibe mi más profundas condolencias.

Sinceramente,

Gerardo Rodriguez

Subject: sad news

Date: Wed, 11 Dec 2013 22:33:27

Querido Rick,

Me entere de lo de Matthew.
No sabes lo que lo siento y lo mucho que me he acordado de ti.
Desde santiago te acompano de corazon y no sabes lo que me gustaria poder e=
star contigo en estos momentos dificiles.
Con Pilar oramos por su alma, y que descance en paz.

Un gran abrazo,

Jorge y Pilar

Wed, 11 Dec 2013

Rick,

I have just heard the news. My sincerest condolences to you and the family.

Best Regards,

Paulo

Wed, 11 Dec 2013 10:58:12

From: Rene Lamar

Subject: Condolence

Rick

Just read the e-mail of your sons passing. My old friend I felt so badly f=
or your loss. I will pray for him, you and your family.

Rene

12/12/13
Subject: Condolencias

Estimado Rick, lamento mucho la noticia tan triste.=20

Te acompano desde lo lejos pero con mucho afecto y solo le pido a Dios y de=
seo que en este momento tan dificil para tu familia, les de mucha union, es=
peranza y fortaleza.

Un fraterno abrazo

Gabriel

12/1213

My condolences:

Rick,

I am praying for your strength during this difficult time.

My deepest condolences,

Alex Magnani

FACEBOOK MESSAGE:
Janet Rivera-Hernandez I'm so sorry for your loss,
December 11, 2013 at 1:22pm

12/11/13

Rick I am so so sad for you. I know that you tried so hard to help Matthew. I wish I could be with you on Saturday., I am going to be in New York for a memorial service for my friend Mauricio. I am sending you a huge hug and lots of prayers. I know that your heart is breaking for your beautiful boy . He is in God's hands. Take care my friend, be strong .
Melissa

12/13/13

I don't know how you will bear the sadness. But I know you will.
Deepest condolences and surrendering prayers for your family.
Pat

Patrick Collins
Social Studies Department Chairman
Belen Jesuit Preparatory School

12-10-13

Rick,

I can't imagine what you are going through – my deepest condolences. You & your family are in my prayers.

”We can't know why the lily has so brief a time to bloom in the warmth of sunlight's kiss upon its face before it folds into its fragrance and bids the world good night to rest its beauty in a gentler place. But we can know that nothing that is loved is ever lost and no one who has touched a heart can really pass away because some beauty lingers on in each memory of which they've been a part.” -Ellen Brenneman

12/12/13

Just to let you know that you have not left my thoughts. My heart, love and support are with you. If you need anything at all please do not hesitate to call me. Megan and I will be there Saturday.

Love,
Mayra

12/11/13

Rick:

I am so, so sorry. Know that you have lots of friends who love you and will be praying for you and your family during these very difficult times.

If there is anything I can do for you my friend, just ask.



Un fuerte abrazo y que Dios bendiga a ti y a tu familia.



Manny Diaz

12/11/13

Mi querido Rick,


Lo siento tanto. No tengo palabras para decirte cuanto me duele la partida de Matthew. No hay palabras que puedan consolarte hoy ni manera de comprender por que la vida nos pone a prueba asi.

Por favor, permitenos a todos los que, cerca o lejos, te queremos muchisimo y dejanos apoyarte en este momento tan dificil. Estamos contigo y con tu familia, estamos contigo en este dolor tan grande. Dios los bendiga querido amigo.


Un beso muy grande con todo carino,


Brigitte

12/12/13

Rick - I saw the email about your son and wanted you know we are deeply saddened by your lost.

Jorge & Edith=

12/12/13

Ricky,

I am so incredibly sorry for the loss of Matthew. My heart hurts for you all. I cannot even imagine the kind of pain and sadness you are feeling at this moment. But, please know that you, RJ and Donna are in my thoughts and prayers. Although we did not spend time together these last few years, I have the most wonderful childhood memories with both Matt and RJ. They are the only brother like figures I have ever had and I will always cherish the memories of playing together at Tio Lazaro and Madrina's house and all of those Christmas Eve parties.


Despite the miles that separate us, my thoughts will be with you all on Saturday as you lay him to rest. I know we don't speak often but I want you to know that I love you very much. The bond of family is strong and it is all that we take with us when we go.


Un abrazo fuerte,


Nikki

Donna,
We cannot understand this journey, but will walk beside you at your pace as far as you need us. We still can't believe it, but know he is at peace. Thinking of you with lots of love. The Barnes Family

Donna we are thinking of you. All our thoughts & prayers for you and your family. Love, Lisa, Terry, Lyne

Donna I am so sorry to hear of your family's loss. Nothing brings more pain than the loss of a child. I will always fondly remember Matthew - he was an extremely charming and engaging young man. My thoughts are with you. Sara

Dearest Donna, I cannot express how deeply sorry I am for the great shock and unexpected loss of Matt. You're on my mind & in my heart. My thoughts & prayers are always with you. Love, Donn

Donna my heart hurts for you. You know more than anyone the depth of the love that connected you and Matt. I am so sorry for your loss.
Hugs, Michelle Page

Donna,
May God comfort you in your time of need. My Sheep hear My voice; I know them, and they follow Me. I give them eternal life, and they shall never perish. No one can take them out of My hand. Antab Family

Dear Donna, Love shines bright within each heart. I do believe our God puts stars in the crown of good people. God bless you and give you strength. Leona

Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. John 14:27
Dear Donna,
Thinking of you and RJ and will continue praying for you. With heartfelt sympathy. The Bonanza Family

Dearest Donna,
My heart breaks for you. I am so sorry about your tragic loss of Matt.
Sending deepest sympathy and love. Nancy

Donna "Sorrow is not forever....Love is."
Matt and I have known each other since he was 16. He had a good heart.
No matter what the situation, you were always there for him. I'm certain he knew how much he was loved. He is free. Hoping that time's passing will somehow help ease your sorrow and that loving memories will bring comfort. Bill Walker

Dear Donna,
Your grief and your comfort are on God's heart right now in the loss of Matt. The Lord's loved ones are precious to Him; it grieves Him when they die. - Psalm 116:15
Many around you are praying for you, that His strength will uphold you through this very difficult time.
In Sympathy & Love, The Shafer Family

Donna, no one else can take his place. I am so sorry for your loss. Matt meant a lot to many people, but to you, he meant the world. Someone like that could never be forgotten. Much Love, Kayla

Dear Donna and RJ,
There are no words that can ease your sorrow. We will always remember a smart, energetic boy who loved basketball. May it strengthen you to realize that those who care for you are close in heart. May God bless you with his consolation and peace. The Carney Family

Dear Donna, I am so sorry about Matthew. I miss him so much. Praying for faith to uphold you, and loving memories to help. Love to you, your mom & family. Margaret Reeves

Dear Bibi, Rick and family,
We are so sorry about the loss of your
son. You are in our thoughts and prayers,
Cristina and Fernando Cuesta

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Rick I am so sorry to hear this. We will keep you and your family in our prayers.

Will Ashe

Miss you brother. I remember the good times we had at CCS, especially in 6th grade. Hard to believe your gone. My prayer an condolences to your family

Dear Ricardo & family, our sincere sentiments!Roberto & Francesca Cavalcanti.

Dear Rick, Bibi, Veronica and Elizabeth,
We are so sorry for your loss and pray for you during this difficult time. We hope you find solace in knowing that as a family you were always there for Matthew, never gave up on him and should live with no regrets. If there is anything you need from us, please let us know.

Rick, my heart goes out to you during this diffult time. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

All my sympathies for this big loss, Rick and family.

Rick, I'm so sorry for your loss.

Rest in peace. I will always remember the good times we had in highschool. I will miss you.

Rest in Peace my young friend. May the Lord Our Father be with you. You are loved beyond measure and will not be forgotton.

Donna, I'm so sorry for the loss of your beloved son Matthew. You have my deepest sympathy. May God be with you and your family during this tragic time. I shall pray for Matthew, and I shall pray for you my friend. God Bless you!

I'll Remember You Forever Matt! Thanks for the countless memories!

I will never forget Matts amazing personality and how he could make anyone laugh! I had some of the best time with him! I'm so sorry for your loss! Rest in peace!

Dear Donna, Carolyn, and Robert,

Words cannot express the sadness and loss that we feel at the passing of Matthew. I know that Zach enjoyed spending time with he and R.J. over the years as cousins. Just know that our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time and we will talk to you soon.
Love,
Karen, Johnny, and Zach

Matt was a nice guy and great football teammate back in High School. RIP Matt

So sorry to hear about the unexpected passing of your son, Matt. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.
Sincere Sympathy,
Ron, Dana, Roger & Kayleen Newman

Dear Donna--I'm so sorry for your loss and will be praying for you and your entire family.

Rest In Peace.

You all will be in our prayers...!! "God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble." (Psalm 46:1) In Jesus' Love, Todd & Sandy Bonanza