Matthew Stephen Valentine obituary, Saint Louis, MO

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Matthew Stephen Valentine

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Beatrice von Gontard

July 14, 2025

Matt, my darling nephew, you have the biggest heart and kindest soul of anyone I have ever known. I honor you and cherish you forever.

John Wolf

July 5, 2025

Not surprisingly, whenever I think of my son I can't help but think of Matt and so I felt the need to express myself. I understand your grief and am heartfully sorry for your loss. Both were bright, handsome and most importantly caring young men who left us far too early. Their smile was infectious. Though Matt came from privilege, during his visits to Grant's Farm he would always make it a point to stop and talk to me as if I were his best friend. I only wish he was aware how much I appreciated that uplifting gesture. R.I.P. Matt!

Cody byrd

April 21, 2025

I miss you buddy, happy birthday

Darryl & Villa Jones

August 25, 2024

Our prayers continue for the Valentine Family!!!

Trudy Valentine

August 18, 2023

It's been 3 years since you became a heavenly Angel, Matt. There's not a day we don't think about you and miss you. You have given us the strength and courage to go on and live to the fullest because we know that is what you want us to do. Your and Dad's spirits surround us with love and we thank you both for all the little miracles you keep sending. I promise to do everything I can to end the opioid epidemic and help those in need. I know that is what you wanted to do. WLYWAOHAS We see your big smile and always remember your strong and helpful heart, spirit and hands. We will be together again.
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Ginny Orthwein

August 24, 2022

I know you are very proud of what your mother, Trudy, is accomplishing!

Terry Yocks

July 13, 2022

I read Matt's obituary. Such a fine young man. I am sorry for your loss.

Patricia Nikolov

March 4, 2021

My heart is happy and sad for finding out this ending of such a beautiful soul. I grew up with Matt at oak hill and have many fond memories. Wish I could have stayed in touch more and contributed to all that was. I remember many birthday celebrations at grants farm and Trudy always being a down to earth staple at the sacred heart establishment. Matthew was one of few friends growing up, and my thoughts and prayers are with the entire valentine/bush clan. Sending love and light your way~

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Sharon and John Kueneke

September 11, 2020

John and I want to express our deepest sympathy. We wish you and your family peace in the comfort of your memories of Matt, your wonderful and loving son and brother.

Matt in his element - smiling and happy with the animals! Such a special day we spent together.

Bridget Connell

September 7, 2020

Valentine Family - I am thinking and praying for you all. Matt is so special to me and will always hold a special place in my heart. I don’t know what I would have done these last 9 months without Matt after Patrick passed - Matt was my source of comfort, always reminding me Pat was not gone but that he is always with us, guiding us to do the next best thing. Now I know they are both together. Even though I feel lost right now, I know that they are together, guiding me, and with us always. This picture of one of the days I spent with Matt. He was in his element aroundthe animals and so happy. I cherish those memories.

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William Kiburz

September 2, 2020

Beautifully said. The world has lost one of the good ones ... I’m blessed to have crossed paths with Matt ... love to all in the family ~~

Colleen McAuley Evans

September 2, 2020

You got the best gift of all when you were here on this beautiful Earth! The gift of Clarity and Serenity will forever give me the strength to deal with all life throws our way. May your wonderful family accept my deepest and most sincere sympathy and know that I am here for each and everyone of them. Miss St. Louis and all the memories of growing up with your family! I understand addiction and have been Sober for 33 years. That is why every day to live in the present moment means so much and to give back this gift to anyone who wants it. So beautiful. Rest in the comfort and warmth of your HP.

Jane Murphy Hillemann

September 2, 2020

My heart goes out to you and your family! When I learned this I could only imagine your heart break and devastation! I pray the Holy Spirit lifts you and your family up with his light and love to make it through this tough time...

Joan Walker

September 2, 2020

Dear Christina and Trudy,
The news of Matthew's death is just heartbreaking. I am sending kind thoughts and virtual hugs to you. (I wish that would help.)
With love,
Joan Walker (Beasley SK)

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Tyler Schubert

August 31, 2020

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.

Rose Ayup

August 31, 2020

Trudy and family, you all are in my thoughts and prayers. May your family find comfort in the Blessed Mother's loving arms.

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Tom and Gigi Weaver

August 31, 2020

Trudy, Gigi and I are so very sorry to hear about Matt. Too much heartache for you to have to bear. Much love to you and your family.

Oliver

August 31, 2020

Valentine!!! The world is going to miss you homie. Im sure we will see eachother again. Prayers for the family. All Love. Big O

Darryl Jones

August 31, 2020

My heart filled condolences to the Valentine and Busch families. Though I never had the opportunity to meet Matt, he was truly a special one of kind person, giving his all to everyone.

My prayers and blessing are with you now and forever. Peace be with you through the Blessings of God.

Darryl Jones
Bd Of Trustees - SLU

Sally o

August 31, 2020

my heart is breaking for you truly what a beautiful child I heard him speaking at a funeral and was so touched by him

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Cody Byrd

August 30, 2020

Matt you will be greatly missed by so many, this year has been one of the best you helped me in so many ways. We used to talk and have so many common struggles that we shared. I will continue to try and help people as you helped me and complete some of our goals that we would talk about so that we would have better futures. Love you buddy.
I still can not believe this is real

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Cathy Howe

August 30, 2020

Such beautiful words for a beautiful soul....
Devastating loss for those left behind. Much love to you all. Cathy Howe

Zach Walker

August 30, 2020

Matt - Godspeed Bro.

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Marco Pezzini

August 30, 2020

Dear Trudy, so sorry for your terrible loss , RIP Matthew

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