Matthew Dean Wunsch

Matthew Dean Wunsch obituary, South Kingstown, RI

Matthew Dean Wunsch

Matthew Wunsch Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Apr. 4 to Apr. 6, 2023.
Matthew Dean Wunsch, 55, of Wakefield, passed away on Saturday, April 1, 2023 with his loving family keeping vigil and waiting for a miracle. As he succumbed to the insult of incurable cancer, outside the rain rightly poured.

Matt was the longtime partner and recent beloved husband of Kimberly (Iemma) Wunsch. Both 1985 graduates of Narragansett High School, they happily reconnected later in life; along with Kimberly's daughter Juliet Lenzo, they welcomed their daughter Vera Mae Wunsch in 2010 and became a solid family of four, eventually adding their much-loved dog Hazel to the mix.

Matt was the beloved son of Wayne and Diane (Jakober) Wunsch of Narragansett. Longtime supporters of their son's musical prowess, they were often among the fans at Matt's many gigs. His father Wayne was also a drum student of Matt's for some time, making steady progress under his son's tutelage.

Matt earned a Bachelor's Degree from the University of Rhode Island in Journalism with a minor in Music in 1990, and began his professional life working in print newspaper. Over the span of a 15 year career in the industry, he proved to be a talented, prolific writer, with content published in several newspapers and magazines as both freelance and staff. He ultimately established himself as a formidable leader, earning the respect and recognition of colleagues in the demanding role of managing editor.

Matt's greatest passion and purpose was to create and share beautiful music, a focus throughout his life that resulted in strong connections with other professional musicians in the RI music industry. A highly proficient player of drums, guitar, lap steel and slide, as well as a song writer and vocalist, Matt was a member of numerous bands over the years including Jungle Dogs, Shiver, Orange Whip, Dynamite Shack, Kendall Green, Bamboo and the newly formed WunschBox alongside his brother Andy.

Most recently Matt was on a mission to master the board at PM Recording, the Wakefield music studio he had operated for ten years. His focus on recording music, mixing, and contributing his own playing when requested gave him a full spectrum of challenges and satisfaction at a time when he needed to immerse himself in what mattered most to him.

A lover of the outdoors in warm weather, Matt enjoyed an ocean swim, paddling Indian Lake with Vera, and taking a brisk constitutional at Trustom Pond and Carter Preserve; he was an avid reader of biographies, a strong tennis and softball player, and a devoted Boston Red Sox fan.

Matt embraced sobriety in the final two years of his life, boldly and stoically accepting his diagnosis, determined to overcome the mental and physical obstacles he faced one day at a time. He kept his illness very private so as not to burden others or gain unwanted sympathy, and in the end pulled his best hood move yet.

Besides his wife, daughters, and parents, Matt leaves his only brother and lifelong bandmate Andy Wunsch and his partner Ann Marie Glanville; niece Lily Wunsch; uncle Bob Jakober and his partner Pattie; cousins Lee Walker, Jill Carney and David Jakober; and countless comrades.

VISITING HOURS will be held on Friday, April 7, 2023 from 4-8pm in the NARDOLILLO FUNERAL HOME & Crematory-SOUTH COUNTY CHAPEL, 1111 Boston Neck Road, (Rt 1A), Narragansett.

A MEMORIAL SERVICE will be held Saturday, April 8, 2023 beginning at 12pm at The Pump House, 1464 Kingstown Road, South Kingstown. ALL ARE WELCOME.

In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Colorectal Cancer Alliance ccalliance.org. Visit NardolilloFH.com for online condolences.

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March 29, 2025

Johnny Provo posted to the memorial.

July 14, 2024

Nick Cantor posted to the memorial.

May 5, 2023

Christine posted to the memorial.

Johnny Provo

March 29, 2025

Thinking of you, and I sure wish I could hear you one more time calling me "Kid..." and explaining something I needed to know even though I was older, lol Miss you forever, you were one of the nicest and greatest people I ever met in RI. God bless your soul, and "Lord, keep my memory green" as Charles Dickens wrote.

Nick Cantor

July 14, 2024

I apologize for posting this so late, but wanted to send my deepest condolences to Matt's family and friends. Matt was the one who took a chance on me back in late 2014 when I applied for a job at the Kent County Daily Times, a job I still hold to this day.

Christine

May 5, 2023

Matt - you are the epitome of talent, humor, intellect, compassion and passion. Continue to guard your Gals XOXO

Susan Theriault

May 5, 2023

My condolences to Matt's family & friends

Jimmy Bradley

April 17, 2023

Matt was one of those rare cats who make people for no apparent reason.

Lin, Seth and Drew Gatewood

April 10, 2023

We are heartbroken for you. My memory of Matty will always be a mischievous smile and sparkle in his eye. He often looked like he was thinking of a funny secret. He is a human worth the pain of loss.

Rochelle Hannon Vaughan URI '89

April 9, 2023

My deepest condolences. Matt is a bright light in the halls of my memory - when I think on music, fellowship, kindness and true inspiration he will always be there.

Jeremiah Ryan

April 9, 2023

Shocked and saddened aren´t big enough words. Rest easy, Matt. One of a kind and one of the best. Love and light for you and yours from the Ryans.

Lori Dillon Paliotti

April 8, 2023

Heaven has another angel Your family and friends will miss you immensely, there is no doubt Rest in Peace Matt

Jackie Bell

April 8, 2023

Rest easy Chief. Sending love to your family. So very sorry for your loss.

Vera Wunsch

April 7, 2023

I was so lucky to have Matt as my father. We all miss and love him so much.

Joseph Benedetti

April 7, 2023

Rest easy old friend, you will be missed by many.

Kevin Dunn

April 7, 2023

My deepest condolences. Thoughts and prayers with you and your family

Jennifer Hope Antes

April 7, 2023

Matt was a part of my early 1990s- a kind soul, hearing him play was a highlight of my life...much later he welcomed my son into his recording adventures. Too kind, so sweet, " miss you brother", as he used to say

Don Anderson

April 7, 2023

Matt, you are one of the most kind, sincere souls I've ever met. The few times I got to play with you (and see you play!) were an honor, and more so was your friendship. Love to you and your family, who I know you cherished. Until we meet again, my friend.

Tracie Hunt Caycedo

April 7, 2023

My love and condolences for you and your family. You were a fantastic musician and a great classmate. You left here way too early but you are forever reigning beautiful music over everyone.

Deedra & Norman Durocher

April 7, 2023

Matt worked for a brief time, many years ago, with us at Kingstown Camera, before he went on to this wonderful and full life. We remember him as being very smart, funny, and caring with our customers and other staff. It's obvious he continued to make a difference to so many by being a good and kind friend and human being. Our sincere condolences to his family on this loss too soon.

Matt Johnson

April 6, 2023

I've known Matt since maybe 1994 or so. He was, along with Kevin Shea, an early local drum influence in my life. He was a consummate musician; play for the song, not to just show off. I'll never forget when he came and stayed at my house in Austin, TX in 2001 or so for SXSW Festival. We had a blast, and I was happy to give him a home base while he shopped his band Shiver's album around at the shows. He was just an all around nice guy; you won't find anyone to say a bad thing about him, and that's a rarity these days.

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Russell Degidio

April 6, 2023

I´m so sorry to hear about this! Went to high school with Matt he was a laidback dude for sure one of the nicest guys I´ve known! To be honest I haven´t seen matt since 2008 I think. He was always cool to me many prayers and love for Kim and the kids!!

Todd Corayer

April 5, 2023

So tough. Matt gave me a place for my words, in a newspaper, over a beer, saying, "You got this..." with ease. His talent in print and on stage never ceased to amaze me and many others. Through an act of pure and common friendship, I was able to see The Subdudes and Traffic play for hours and when I went to thank Matt, he said, "No problem!" Matt was an ace and I am so sorry he has passed. Who knows what that heavenly band will look like after Matt takes the stage. Fair tides Matt, you already are sorely missed.

Eric Perrin

April 5, 2023

I was fortunate to have known and worked with Natt back in the old Sweet Meadows Inn days, he will certainly be missed. My condolences to his entire family.

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Kristin L. Wolfe, Richard Ness

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Scott Durocher

April 5, 2023

A wonderful human. It's been good to know Matt since the '80s

Evan Williams

April 5, 2023

sadness.
too soon.
got to know Matt better in later life, but always impressed by his talent and drive to play.
a gifted player. another lefty.
Matt gave me a guitar!
we had a few adventures.
saved me from doom once.
a good man with a good family.
a good man from a good family.
what´s better than that.
too soon.

Dave Jakober

April 5, 2023

Hey, Matt. Sorry we never really hooked up in the last year. At least we got to chat a bit. Great read. Great life. I am sure we will hook up again at some point. Dave.

Jim Kelly

April 5, 2023

When I met you, you were already a fantastic drummer. Although after a while moved to Providence, I still saw you play drums and later guitar. Seems like you excelled at whatever you put your mind to. I'm sorry you had to leave us too soon. I'm glad I got to play with you and will always have those memories. Rest in power, Matt.

Johnny P

April 5, 2023

My sincere condolences to family and friends. I was so fortunate to play so much music with him, and he always steered me right and was so supportive. His last message to me was after a gig, talking about how much he liked the harmonies. It will be an honor forever to say that I played music with him, and that he was a friend. I will miss you more than words can tell.

Magi green

April 5, 2023

Matt was one of a kind May his memory always be a blessing.
Magi Green

Ron & Mira Iemma

April 5, 2023

Wunsch family:
Our deepest condolences for you at this time. Matt was such a wonderful person whose memory will forever remain in the hearts of so many. He was so proud of both Vera and Juliet and what their futures held.
Our heart goes out to you all, at this difficult time.
Love,
Ron & Mira Iemma

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Tom Kutcher

April 5, 2023

This is the finest obituary I have ever read. It describes my dear friend Matty perfectly. Matty almost always said "Love you brother" rather than goodbye. I love you too, Matty. Yes, incredible hood move.

Josh Edenbaum

April 5, 2023

Words cannot express the feeling of loss. Matt was one of a kind. Humble, kind, funny and a great overall human being. His musical talents never ceased to amaze anyone who listened.... Rest in peace and rock on ..

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Vittoria Lenzo

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