Michael P. Alban

1950 - 2019

Michael P. Alban obituary, 1950-2019, Wilmington, NC

Michael P. Alban

1950 - 2019

BORN

1950

DIED

2019

Michael Alban Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Oct. 28, 2019.

 


Michael P. Alban


 


Our Lord called Michael “Pa” Alban, 69, home suddenly on Friday, October 25, 2019, after complications from a struggle with frontotemporal lobe dementia.  He was a loving husband, father, grandfather, brother, and friend and will be truly missed. 


 


Michael was born to John and Catherine Alban on October 5, 1950.  He grew up in Malverne, NY on Long Island where he attended Our Lady of Lourdes elementary school and Malverne High School.  While a student at Rider College, Michael participated in try-outs for the New York Yankees baseball team.  Before starting his career, he worked with his father on various tugboats and other marine vessels in the New York area. After marrying his wife Janis, they settled in Hopewell Junction, NY.  Michael worked for Texaco, Inc. in Harrison, NY, as senior charterer in their marine department.  He then worked in the marine operations division of Odin Marine, Inc. in Stamford, CT and retired from Charles R. Weber, Inc. in Greenwich, CT, where he also worked as a marine operations specialist. 


 


Michael was always active in his family’s lives. He shared with them his Catholic faith, was a golf and tennis coach, swim meet official, baseball umpire, concert audience member, sports enthusiast, mentor, and guide.  He always loved playing with his grandchildren and, of course a quick trip to the casino.


 


After retiring, Michael and Janis moved to Wilmington, NC, where Michael was an active member of the Cape Fear Men’s Club, especially the bowling club, and the Knights of Columbus at St. Therese Catholic Church.  Michael was an avid golfer and always enjoyed spending time at his beloved Wrightsville Beach, where he had spent every family vacation since 1979. 


 


Michael was preceded in death by his parents.  He is survived by his wife, Janis, of almost forty-one years, his two sons: Jeffrey and his wife Kay, and Douglas; three grandchildren:  Matthew, Christopher, and Jacquelyn; his brother, Richard Alban and wife, Stephenie; and his sister Marianne Alban Stevenson and husband, Thomas, along with many nieces and nephews. 


 


The family will receive friends from 6:00pm to 8:00pm Wednesday, October 30, 2019, at Andrews Mortuary Market Street Chapel, 1617 Market Street.  


 


A solemn Requiem Mass will be offered for the repose of Michael’s soul on Thursday, October 31, at 1:00pm at Saint Therese Catholic Church, 209 S Lumina Ave. Wrightsville Beach, NC., with interment to follow at a later date.


 


The family would like to thank everyone who assisted Michael in these recent years. May God reward you for your kindness and generosity.  In lieu of flowers, donations in memory of Michael Alban may be sent to the Association for Frontotemporal Degeneration, Radnor Station Building 2, Suite 320, 290 King of Prussia Rd., Radnor, PA, 19087 or visit https://www.theaftd.org/support-aftds-mission/.


 


Requiem æternam dona eis, Domine, et lux perpetua luceat eis.  Requiescat in pace.


 

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Robert Bredow

January 4, 2020

God bless Mike. I worked with him closely for many years at Texaco in marine operations and always found him to be a gentleman. He was very dedicated to everything he did. My condolences to his family.
Bob Bredow, Danbury Ct

November 13, 2019

On behalf of the entire choir, please accept our deepest sympathy for the loss of a wonderful husband and father. He will certainly be missed. May God grant him eternal rest. -- Blue Ridge Singers

David and Christina Cartenuto

November 11, 2019

We have known Michael since he was a young boy, and always admired his calm nature. We send our best to Janis and the entire family.

Len Faucher

October 30, 2019

I was so sad to hear the news of my friend and former work colleague. Mike was a mentor, friend, and dear confidant. His thoughtfulness, generosity and kindness were essential qualities in a challenging business world. He epitomized what it was to be a gentleman and a friend. I pass my most sincere and deepest sympathies to Janis, Jeff, Doug, and the rest of his family. I am sure you have found your own peace and tranquility and perhaps even a little place to relax on the golf course of heaven. Rest in peace my friend. You are sincerely missed and loved.

Sherry Wyntjes

October 30, 2019

Love and prayers for your family.

Jeff Boyell

October 30, 2019

My memory of Mike is sometimes he bowled better than me and his friendship during men's club activities. Our thoughts and prayers are with you Janis, Jeff,Doug and the entire Alban family.

October 30, 2019

The Wilmington Senior Golf group enjoyed his time with us and want to send Michael's family and friends our deepest sympathy and our wishes that the fond times you had with him get you through this difficult time. He will be missed.

Bill and Louise Costello

October 29, 2019

Our deepest and heartfelt sympathy for the Alban familys loss of a loved husband, father and grandfather. We know that he will be truly missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

October 29, 2019

He had a good and gentle soul and I enjoyed playing softball tennis and bowling with him, He is going to be missed very much, Bob Engel!

June Spring-Melcher

October 29, 2019

Janis, Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May God's Perfect Love surround you with His Light, Grace and Peace. ❤❤

Daniel Murphy

October 29, 2019

God Bless Michael, Janis, Jeff and Doug. May Michael rest in peace. Michael was a great family man and cared so deeply about others and especially Janis and their entire family. He was taken much too soon and will be missed by all who knew him.

Robin Hibl

October 29, 2019

Sending prayers and love to the Alban family! May Michael rest in peace.

Kristin Elliott

October 29, 2019

You are in our thoughts and prayers. God bless you. The Elliott Family

Carol Zerbo

October 29, 2019

Rest in peace dear friend... May our dear Lord give Janis and family the strength and guidance they need to get thru this difficult time.

Trevor & Bébhinn Rowland

October 28, 2019

We are praying for all the Albans! May Michael rest in the peace of Christ.

Will & Patty Sonak

October 28, 2019

Sending our love and sympathy to the family of Michael Alban.

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