Michael Burbank Idoine

Michael Burbank Idoine obituary, Wendell, MA

Michael Burbank Idoine

Michael Idoine Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Sep. 24, 2025.
Michael Burbank Idoine

Wendell, MA - In the early morning hours of September 13, 2025, Michael Burbank Idoine, 81, died at home in the arms of his wife of 60 years.

Michael's life began on October 10, 1943, as the first-born child of Jane Elizabeth (Burbank) and Leon Sumner Idoine in Toledo, OH. In his first five years, three more siblings joined him. Soon, they boarded a train for Frederick, MD where Michael spent his formative years.

Michael discovered early that he did not like school, though he went on to earn a MS in Regional Planning at the University of Massachusetts in 1993. He entered Drexel Institute of Technology in 1961, where he learned to read, inspired by a Faulkner novel. The following year he transferred to Western Maryland College and completed a BA in Psychology. It was a time of ferment and in the interest of creating a more equitable campus culture Michael worked with students and faculty to advocate for the abolishment of fraternities.



He honed his writing skills, which he employed in support of peace and community building, conservation of working landscapes, recognition of women's voices, and for poetry. Among friends, colleagues and family his quiet, thoughtful speech often persuaded and surprised. Surprises came in the form of dry, spot-on quips as well as in his perceptive expression of closely considered ideas. He transformed his persistent idealism into productive work.

With his family, now including toddler twins, he moved to Wendell in 1971 with the intention of staying, making a life and serving among its inhabitants. During his 54 years in Wendell, he served as Town Meeting Moderator, Selectboard and Finance Committee member, among other roles. A preference for behind-the-scenes instigating and coalition-building led him to co-coordinate activities of the Valley Peace Center in Amherst in the early 1970's followed by the Wendell Concerned Citizens and the Route 2 Environmental Coalition in the 1980's. His role in designing the Low-Profile Alignment as an alternative to constructing a new highway (Route 2) on the south bank of the Millers River in Erving, MA resulted in the protection of Bear Mountain in the Wendell State Forest.



Family life with Michael was highlighted with his love of music - both playing his guitar and listening to his extensive record collection - creating delicious stir-fried dinners, venturing into homeschooling with his kids and quacking at their early teen ebullient energy. Various earnest efforts earned his signature praise word "tolerable". After all, he was the serious dad! Despite his reserved demeanor, he reveled in the hubbub of life among family, friends and neighbors. He last opened his eyes to see his 15-month-old great-grandchild.

In June of 1972 he peered down from a little airplane and saw a red tractor plowing a field. That led to his 53-year journey tending to the care and conservation of that land, Swallow Rise - a collaborative effort among friends and family. His goal, fulfilled in 2021 by the Swallow Rise Conservation Development plan, was to provide an affordable place for people to live, sustained in harmony with the fields and forest. His abiding interest was to create home on this land.

At the age of 51, he realized his dream of owning a sawmill. For several decades he trailered his bandsaw mill to sites where folks - with a pile of logs harvested from their land - wanted beams, joists and boards to build barns, additions and houses. The work satisfied him immensely. As with all his work, he approached the task at hand with creative thinking, commitment and integrity.

His parents, brother Christopher, and sister Kathleen pre-deceased him. Josef Idoine (Barbara) his youngest brother, lives in Seattle. His friend, partner and wife of 60 years, Karen Idoine, and daughter, Gillian Budine and husband Jeffrey, son, Justin Idoine-Hu and wife Hui, along with grandchildren Aaron Budine (Talia), Emma Budine (Cole), Mattie Budine (Jordan) and great-grandchildren Bradley Remillard, Charleigh Budine, Nora and Miles Goyette, and six nephews remain to flourish in their lives.

Michael's family extends deep gratitude to friends, extended family, the kind medical professionals and those from Pioneer Valley Hospice and Palliative Care who cared for and visited with Michael in his last months.

Interment at Swallow Rise in Wendell will be private.



Donations in Michael's memory can be made to the Wendell Historical Society, online at www.wendellhistoricalsociety.org, or by check to Wendell Historical Society, Box 941, Wendell, MA 01379.

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Richard Shortt

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Always ready for a BBQ, rain or shine

Richard Shortt

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Joyce and I met Michael & Karen in 1966 in Amherst. Joyce and Michael were the first co-directors of the Valley Peace Center. Our families have been connected ever since. Michael gave so much to support our family & our gatherings and was always there for us! We joined Swallow Rise with the intention of eventually building there, but an unexpected move to Burlington, VT changed or path. Many of our family celebrations have taken place on the farm including wedding and birthday celebrations. Michael was always there providing his support and often heading up the BBQ team. I did get to visit recently and admired his determination to tough it through. Gilli and Karen were there all the way for him.

Judy Hall

Yesterday

Michael taught me that the definition of "citizen" is to be a participatory member of their community. He impressed on me the meaning of "Think globally, act locally". I witnessed his "behind-the-scenes instigating" several times when he would call to invite me to sign up, or get my suggestions for empty Committee positions. I´m sure he made many of those calls throughout town. To me, Michael was Wendell´s own Wendell Berry, a man who lived his values, supporting all things local, care of home and homestead, Wendell farmers, being a conscientious citizen, and, as has been mentioned, poetry too!
Thank you, Michael, for a lifetime of steady, skilled, and committed work on behalf of your town, the state, your neighbors, the land, and your family. Your light shines bright.

Wendy Foxmyn

September 26, 2025

He made his mark....for the good. We shared a deep interest in community and local government and I was honored to be a colleague and a friend. Thank you Karen, Gillian, Justin, and connected community of Wendell for sharing him with the rest of us. May his memory be for a blessing.

Gillian Budine

September 26, 2025

Audrey Barker Plotkin

September 26, 2025

Serving as your forester for a time was a great priviledge; thank you for trusting me to share in caring for the land you love. I will miss Michael. With love and care to Karen and the whole family.
Audrey Barker Plotkin

Tommy Boynton

September 26, 2025

The pleasure was mine.
Blessings on the journey.

Gillian Budine

September 26, 2025

Thank you for all the memories, photos and stories. -Gilli

Raeann Maynard

September 26, 2025

Michael,
May your spirit rise above all that you loved and cared about to
continue A well loved journey. You will be missed by many.


Much love and prayers to your loving family and friends. Thank you .


Sincerely,
RAEANN MAYNARD
Locke Hill Rd. 45 yrs.

Shay Whitman Cooper

September 26, 2025

Michael introduced me to serving on Town government in a way
that is indelible printed on my heart. His valor and consciousness was so amazing. He helped me to understand service of the highest order. I am sure he is probably on some sort of angel committee to do wonders. Thank you Michael. Shay Whitman Cooper

David Scott

September 26, 2025

My condolences to Karen and family.
I admired and respected Michael's dedication to community.

Karen Copeland

September 25, 2025

Wendell has losg yet another piece of history. My deep condolences ....

Edward Hines

September 25, 2025

The kitchen and dining room in the Parsonage are from red oak and ash that Michael sawed for us. I had the pleasure of helping him with the milling job and learned much. It was hard hard work that
Michael clearly loved doing. In the last few years on his way back from food shopping in Orange, Michael would stop by the Depot to sit and chat with me on the porch. Dear, dear memories of time spent with a great man. Sheila and I extend our love to Karen and the entire family.

Diane Kurinsky and Steve Gross

September 25, 2025

Dear Karen , Gillian and Justine - it is with deep sorrow that we learned of Michael's death. He was a towering figure in the Town of Wendell as well as a deep thinker, passionate advocate for the causes he believed in and a loyal and steadfast friend. Although we did not spend a lot of time together, he was someone we always enjoyed ,admired and respected. I'll never forget the kindness that he and Karen showed me when I first came to town as a single parent who didn't really know anyone. Steve and I are so sorry for you loss, and indeed all of our loss. He will be greatly missed. All our best to all of you - Steve and Diane

Christine Heard

September 25, 2025

Occasionally Michael sent me short poems, which I always enjoyed. Several of them are attached to my refrigerator. I'll miss those and so many other facets of his personality.

Jonathan von Ranson

September 25, 2025

Michael sawed many of the boards and beams for the rebuilding of our barn, and the work was beautiful, as these photos showed. He also was instrumental in the success of the effort to protect Wendell State Forest from Rt. 2, and the third photo shows a group of state engineers and officials examining the Low Profile Alignment he wisely put a lot of effort into designing. His record of achieving what he set out to accomplish amazed me. He was not only a rather awesome figure; he had a wonderful warmth beneath all his qualities.

Jonathan von Ranson

September 25, 2025

Michael sawed many of the boards and beams for the barn that we rebuilt on our property.

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Sallie Idoine

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Justin Idoine

September 24, 2025

60 Years the Love of my Mother and Father - Dad you are deeply missed.
Your Wisdom and knowledge will live on in the home you created by living an extraordinary life here with your family in Wendell the town you loved and called home

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