Michael W. "Mike" McNeil

Michael W. "Mike" McNeil

Michael McNeil Obituary

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Michael W. "Mike" McNeil, 72, a great and loving husband, father, grandfather, great-grandfather, son, brother, successful business owner of M-M Service Company for 46 years, advisor, and friend to many, passed away Thursday, February 2, 2017, after a 9-year battle with cancer. Rosary will be at 7:00 pm, Monday, February 6, 2017; Mass of Christian Burial will be at 11:00 am, Tuesday, February 7, 2017, both at Church of the Resurrection Catholic Church. Born in 1944, Mike graduated from North High School in 1964. Mike then married the love of his life, Mary Jane and started both a family and a successful business career. Mike was always making some sort of deal between two parties, solving some problem, building or fixing something. Mike was very active in supporting and promoting antique automobiles, especially Chevrolets. If Mike wasn't at work here in Wichita, at a car show, parade or swap meet with his 1927 Chevrolet fire truck, you could find him at his other "home" at Fall River Lake. Mike's deep and enduring love of family was expressed in time spent together with his family and friends at the lake, trips to car shows around the country or going to countless school activities for all his children, grandchildren, nieces and nephews. Mike was known as "Uncle Mike" to a lot of people that he wasn't related to, but was called that because he treated everyone like family. He generously gave his time and efforts to organizations, and served on the National Board of Directors and as International President of the Vintage Chevrolet Club of America. Preceded in death by his father, Albert McNeil; and sister, Patricia Carter. Survived by his wife of 52 years, Mary Jane McNeil; children, Janet McNeil, Kathleen (Alan) Wooderson, Brian (Teresa) McNeil, Emily (David) Warrender, Meghan (Daryl) Ashcraft, Erin (Randy) Chambers, all of Wichita, KS; mother, Bette McNeil of Wichita; sisters/brothers, Helen (Larry) Damm of Wichita, Mary Kay (Mick) Bean of Sedgwick, KS, Thomas McNeil of Fall River, KS; grandchildren, Grace, Molly, Madison, Tucker, Ben, Naomi, Cody, Heidi, and Tiffany; great-grandchildren, Brooklyn, and Adelyn; numerous nieces and nephews. IN LIEU OF FLOWERS, memorials have been established with American Cancer Society, P.O. Box 22718, Oklahoma City, OK 73123-1718; or Harry Hynes Memorial Hospice, 313 S. Market, Wichita, KS 67202. Downing & Lahey Mortuary - East Chapel.

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January 30, 2018

Amy Boesen posted to the memorial.

February 8, 2017

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February 7, 2017

Warren and Pat Bader posted to the memorial.

Amy Boesen

January 30, 2018

In loving memory of a wonderful person and my uncle. I will love you and miss you always. May the Lord of Peace comfort yours hearts during this time. Love,

Debbie Cordts

February 8, 2017

So sorry for the family's loss of a great man! May all your memories keep smiles on your faces. I will always remember all the rides in the fire truck as we strolled through the parades on St. Patrick's Day! The great family fun at the lake and most precious of all, my wedding day when I was escorted by Uncle Mike in the fire truck. Love you all. Debbie

Warren and Pat Bader

February 7, 2017

Mary Jane and family, We are so sorry to hear of your loss. We always looked forward to time spent at the car meets with you, Mike, and your family. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Warren and Pat, Erik and April

Walter & Deyon Avant

February 7, 2017

Janet and family, Our hearts were saddened to hear of your loss. Take comfort in your memories and the hope that we have in our Lord and Savior. Continued prayers for you always.

Dan Closson

February 7, 2017

Mary Jane and Family,
I enjoyed having Mike as friend and old car buddy. He started Shelley and I on our life's antique car touring adventure, he was so much fun to be around. Car tours, club meetings and Monday lunch bunch gatherings are where I got to know Mike. His good humor and eagerness to help solve a problem were always admired, he was always full of ideas. Thank you for sharing him with us. Thank you Mike for enriching our lives.

Floyd Mendenhall

February 6, 2017

So sorry for your loss. He was a good guy and a true friend and he will truly be missed.

Scott Snyder

February 6, 2017

Sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

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julie Puccio

February 6, 2017

Dear Family
Uncle Mike was my favorite uncle. My time with your family was always fun. I will miss his Julie K every time I saw him with his little blink of the eye. We are so sorry we can not make the journey up to say goodbye. I will be praying that this pain is not too much to bear. Love your family much and loved him dearly.

Eddy, Janet, Skyla, Katie & Julie Hedegaard

February 6, 2017

Mary Jane and family, we are so sad to hear of Mike's passing. We are glad he is not suffering any longer and is looking down on us. He will be immensely missed by as all. He was a great friend and part of our extended family. He will always be in our hearts. Our deepest sympathy to you all.

Jenny

February 5, 2017

What a great man Mike was. May God be with his family during this difficult time.

Nancy Friend-Blue

February 5, 2017

Tom and Mary Kay, we were deeply saddened to hear about your brother Mike's passing! Sending love, prayers and healing energy to you and your family!

Shelley Legate

February 5, 2017

I'm so sorry to hear about Mike.
He was such a creative and interesting person, and I am so sorry he has passed.

Erin Struble

February 5, 2017

Mike was a great man. He made an impression on me and I am blessed to call him my friend. May God bless your broken hearts, Erin Struble

Diana

February 5, 2017

Mary Jane, Kathy and family,
May God wrap his loving arms around you and comfort you in the days to come. Mike will be missed by many.

LuVern Dokter

February 5, 2017

Mary Jane, We will keep you and Uncle Mike in our prayers. He was a wonderful friend and cousin. All our love

LuVern and Evelyn Dokter

Faith (Howland) Florez

February 5, 2017

My thoughts and love are with you and your family Mary Jane. Mike will be missed by so very many.

Jearid Engelbrecht

February 4, 2017

Sorry for your loss.

Jamie Ferril

February 4, 2017

Emily and your family I am so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this very sad and difficult time. May God Bless you and give you strength,courage and peace. Love to you all. God Bless!

Steve Ihde

February 4, 2017

Maryjane, Sorry to hear about Mike. Clara and I remember the short visit we had with Mike and you a few years back, and the parade with the fire truck in Ramona.

Stacey Gibson

February 4, 2017

My thoughts and prayers are with the family of this wonderful man that I had the pleasure of knowing while working at Wichita Surgical. We always knew that when we had a luncheon Mike would soon show up. God Bless.

Karen Hipp

February 4, 2017

Mary Jane so sorry for your loss. I will miss seeing Mike at a WSU basketball game. You and your family are in my prayers.

Karen Hipp

February 4, 2017

Mary Jane, I am so sorry for your loss. I will miss not seeing Mike at a WSU basketball game. You and your family are in my prayers.

February 4, 2017

Mary Jane and family we were so sorry to hear of Mike's passing. We feel blessed to have been one of his many,many friends our prayers are with you
David and Sharon Glenn

Theresa Bills

February 4, 2017

Mary Jane, Love, prayers, and sympathy to you and the family. May your special memories of many years together sustain you at this difficult time. Theresa Ridder Bills

Jim Hattan

February 4, 2017

Very sorry to hear about Mike's passing. He was a friend and customer for a long time.

Julie Kaiser

February 4, 2017

Sending love and prayers to the Mcneil family. Enjoyed seeing Mike at his grand daughters sporting events. He always had a smile on his face and a great sense of humor. He will be missed!
All our love-- Alan, Julie, Sam and Sarah Kaiser

David and Joni Brooks

February 4, 2017

Mary Jane, Kathy, and family,
I'm so sorry to see Mike passed away. Praying for you all.

Jinna Jeffery

February 3, 2017

May you find joy in the memories that you shared with Mike and know that he won't be forgotten.

Karl Schrader

February 3, 2017

Very sorry for your loss Mary Kay and Tom.

Lori Dandurand

February 3, 2017

I am saddened to hear of Mikes passing.My heart breaks for his family. God bless you. My thoughts and prayers are with you.I used to work at Wichita Surgical for many many years and got to know Mike as a friend..I always asked to see pictures of his beloved grandkids and he flipped those pictures right out. He will be missed

Joe & Lynda Reiter

February 3, 2017

Our thoughts & prayers are with all of the family. We enjoyed knowing Mike and his family for many years through car events. He was loved and will be missed by everyone.

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