Michael Stevens

Michael Stevens obituary, Alameda, CA

Michael Stevens

Michael Stevens Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Nov. 15, 2023.
Michael Stevens was born in Miami, Florida on July 10, 1947, and died in Alameda, California on November 15, 2023. He lived an extraordinary life, by turns as a grocery bagger, health food restaurant owner, college drop-out, college professor, chicken feed and meat rendering mogul, carpool driver, professional baseball scorer, avid golfer and fisherman, opera singer, Washington Irving expert, and master birder. Above all, he will be remembered as a generous husband, father, grandfather, brother, uncle, cousin, mentor, and friend who took exceptional care of the many, many people who loved him.

Michael's parents, Bernard "Bernie" Stevens and Sureeva "Sue" Felt Stevens, were civic leaders active in Miami's Jewish community. His childhood included the role of the eldest of a tight-knit group of siblings and cousins, lots of fishing (Michael often said they owed an apology to future generations for catching too many marlin before they knew better), and playing the neighborhood games of a traditional post-war suburban upbringing. Michael's father ran a local chain of grocery stores, Stevens Market, where Michael bagged groceries for $1 an hour. He described his early school years as undistinguished and credited his high school Honors English teacher for unlocking his lifelong love of learning. In that English class, he also built a group of friends who have remained close, reconnecting and meeting weekly by video since the pandemic.

At 18, Michael enrolled at the University of Wisconsin. The winters were quite a shock to him- the warmest thing he owned when he arrived in Madison was a light sweater-but he made a happy life in Wisconsin for the next 18 years. In college, Michael studied archeology, spending summers on digs in Idaho and the Yukon. In a class on Arctic anthropology his senior year, he met a graduate student named Debbie (Brown) who was interested in the Arctic and had spent time there. She took the class hoping to meet a man with shared interests. She and Michael later married, although they never made it back to the Arctic.

Michael didn't quite finish college that time around; in his words, he got a bit distracted senior year by smoking pot and playing bridge. He and Debbie were hippies and enjoyed Madison in the 1960s, which featured communes, protests, underground newspapers, and very long hair. In the early 1970s, Michael and Debbie moved to Milwaukee, where Michael worked at The Fertile Dirt, a food co-op and bakery. In 1973, Michael started Beans and Barley, a natural food store and restaurant that today is still a thriving Milwaukee icon. Debbie started the Children's Co-op daycare with friends who embraced the 1970s ethos of raising children communally. Michael and Debbie's children, Amanda and Corey, spent their early childhoods in this tight-knit community that has remained in contact over the last five decades.

In the early 1980s, Michael answered the call to join his family's meat rendering and animal feed business in Atlanta. This was the start of his "chicken feed" era. Michael learned all aspects of this rather smelly business, including doing a stint as a dispatcher, which featured late-night calls from truck drivers with one problem or another. Michael, a natural mimic, developed a convincing southern accent that he diplomatically deployed as needed during his years working in Georgia. Over the years, the business focused on the niche of recycling bakery waste, picking up the scraps from factories like Keeblers and Chips Ahoy and grinding them into a delicious (?) high-fat additive for chicken feed. Over the next decade, the family expanded the chicken feed empire and Michael spent a lot of time on the road, enjoying the sights from East Texas to Southern Indiana.

Michael's service to the Atlanta community over the 25 years he lived there included projects that reflected his wide-ranging skills, interests, and hobbies. This included many parent volunteer roles at the Paideia School from art history teacher to snack bar manager. His deep dedication to sports fandom led to a side job in baseball scorekeeping for the abysmal Atlanta Braves of the 1980s. This paid off when his season tickets, which had gotten better and better over the years as less dedicated fans dropped off, ended up giving him literal front-row seats to the world champion Braves of the 1990s. Michael also enjoyed activities ranging from playing volleyball, assistant coaching soccer, singing tenor, Clayton County Rotary Club, the Virginia Highland coffee crew, a whole golfing era, and reconnecting with his Jewish faith at a neighborhood havurah.

In 1996, the family sold their business, and Michael embarked on the next phase of his life. Now in his 50s, Michael returned to Madison briefly to finish his Bachelor's degree at the University of Wisconsin. College life suited him much more than it had when he was in his 20s and after completing his undergraduate degree, Michael went on to Georgia State University where he earned a Master's degree in Art History and a PhD in History. As a student in the waning moments of the heyday of liberal arts academia, his research focused on Washington Irving's time in Spain in the 1820s and an anglophone perspective of the history of Spain and the Moors.

The late 90s also saw the birth of Michael's first grandchild and his relationship with her and all of his grandchildren was one of the great joys of his life. Michael and Debbie spent wondrous times with little Rosemary in Humboldt County among redwoods and fairy woods. These travels helped motivate them to move to California, settling in Alameda in 2007. With this move Michael was able to embrace his true calling- teaching. As an adjunct professor at Sonoma State, California College of the Arts (CCA), and Las Positas College, he taught world and art history. Ever humble, Michael claimed his success as a teacher was due to his skill of "knowing five minutes worth of information on any subject you can think of." In reality, Michael's expertise had remarkable depth and breadth, and he was always seeking to expand it, including, near the end of his career, developing CCA's curriculum on Chinese art and history. He was beloved by his students, whom he inspired with his infectious curiosity about the ways art and history shape our world and lives.

Michael centered his life around his family and community. He was content at the center of large and small gatherings of his and Debbie's extensive family, naturally playing the caretaker role. He was loved for his personal generosity and sense of service both to his family and to the many people whom Michael had a knack for finding at the exact moment they most needed his kind words, a meal, advice, financial support, a friend, a mentor, a surrogate father, someone to sing with, or a room in his and Debbie's home. Michael's life exemplified Washington Irving's words in the 19th Century: "There is a healthful hardiness about real dignity that never dreads contact and communion with others however humble."

In California, his community included the Island City Opera Company, where he performed after becoming a late-in-life opera singer, the Alameda Peet's morning crew, the race track guys, Temple Beth Abraham, especially the "minyan-aires" with whom Michael attended early morning services, the Golden Gate Barbershop Chorus, and the Alameda Community Chorus. During the pandemic, Michael rekindled his lifelong interest in birding, and, along with a small pack of intrepid birding friends, he feverishly tracked birds around the state and country, racking up eBird milestones. In 2020 and 2021, he was one of the top birders in Alameda County, and Governor Newsom wrote to congratulate Michael after he added his 300th bird species to his list of California sightings, which was, fittingly, the remarkable California Condor.

Michael is survived by his wife of 51 years Debbie Brown, children Amanda Brown-Stevens (Adam Van de Water) of Oakland, CA, Corey Stevens (Tatiana) of Sarasota FL, grandchildren Eliza and Polly Van de Water, and Rosemary, Samantha, and Charlie Stevens, brother Jim Stevens (Bettina) of Ocala FL, sisters-in-law Kate Gillis of Providence RI and Suzanne Kulik of Worthington MA, brother-in-law Steve Zorowitz of New York, and many beloved nieces, nephews, cousins, and friends. He was predeceased by his parents Bernie Stevens and Sue Felt Stevens and his sister Sara Stevens Zorowitz. Donations in his memory may be made to the Golden Gate Bird Alliance (https://goldengateaudubon.org/) or to any local opera, arts, or theater organization.

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November 9, 2025

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January 21, 2024

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Charles Leonard

November 9, 2025

Sorry Michael is gone but I am so grateful to have known him.

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Jennifer L Bates

January 17, 2024

I spent the last 15 years cutting Michaels hair and Debbie for the last 3. He was always so open about his life. Stories of the past and the present. It was so easy to share with him.When I started coming to the house in 2020 I felt like a member of the family. I mourn for all of us that lost him, but remember him with fondness forever.

Susan A. Cipcic

December 31, 2023

Michael and I formed a friendship during Art History classes at Georgia State University. His sense of humor and ready smiles were delights. Years later when he and Debbie moved from the Atlanta area, we reconnected across the miles by playing Scrabble on Facebook.

Charles Leonard

December 30, 2023

Michael was kind and clever. He responded to my prescribing my masters thesis as a cure for insomnia with, `that thing reads like "Gone With the Wind."´
He added a welcome splash of color to gray days at Georgia State.

Larraine McNamara-McGraw

December 21, 2023

I met Michael in about 1980 when I was in law school. I stopped into Beans
and Michael was so welcoming! His friendly smile and his bottomless pit if soup became mainstays for me after a long day " in the stacks" and in classes. ( we got out education from physical books then; before the Internet:)

We became family friends. I will always remember Mike as one of the kindest people I have known. May he rest in peace.

Larraine McNamara-McGraw

December 21, 2023

I met him at Beans in about 1980, when I was in law school.

Laurie Patton

December 7, 2023

I remember Michael so fondly from the Atlanta chavurah we were part of. He was joyful, warm, engaged and engaging- a true kindred spirit. A huge part of my Jewish journey.
Sending lots of love to his family.

Wayne Lencer

December 6, 2023

Mike was my cousin and the oldest of our generation. I looked up to him throughout my life. and I loved him very much.

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Linda Montana

December 3, 2023

Your heart soon will be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

Carl Kopman, Donald Tine, Norton Tooby, Norman Tuck

November 30, 2023

The four of us were introduced to Michael through our shared membership, along with the late Clark Poling, in a men´s discussion group we six formed in 2008 and that has met regularly every few weeks since. In our meetings, we discussed our lives and the issues we confronted as we made our way through seniorhood. Michael quickly became a pillar of the group regaling us with a steady stream of stories, remembrances, insights, and historical perspective. We all attended his opera performances and enjoyed hearing about his birding expeditions and seeing his marvelous bird-sighting photographs. We learned his life´s story and about the progression of his illness, which he accepted clear-eyed with grace, good humor but also quiet sorrow. We each feel privileged to have had him as our friend and will miss him very much.
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Amy Kirkland

November 30, 2023

So wonderful to hear others speak eloquently about Michaël and Debbie and the deep contributions they made to make Milwaukee a livable place. Their talents made vital institutions that remain today. They were also quiet but fierce contributors to peace, justice and equity movements in Milwaukee. I was so lucky to have known them both. May he now rest and know we love him. Love to Debbie.
Amy Kirkland

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Virginia Small

November 26, 2023

I first met Michael Stevens in Milwaukee during the early 1970s, through Outpost Natural Foods Co-op and Children´s Co-op, where I volunteered for both ventures. Then Michael hired me as one of the first employees at Beans & Barley on North Murray Avenue. The little store was a nexus and calm oasis, with fragrant aromas (including from Michael´s excellent fresh-baked bread) and classical music on the new public radio station. Michael and (sometimes Debbie) would be in and out, tending to business stuff or stocking bags of nuts and grains in the back room.

Michael seemed wise beyond his 20-something years, and I appreciated his dry wit and steadiness. He embodied one saying of that time--"the personal is political"--by being attentive to impacts and implications of individual actions. Despite everything he was juggling, he invariably took time to listen, to care about people, to chat about both personal and profound topics-and to read.

We stayed in touch intermittently all these decades, especially when I visited him and Debbie in Atlanta when I had business there. I was always impressed--but not surprised--by how Michael´s energy and curiosity flowed into different paths and shapes. (I would have loved to have taken a history course with him!) I am so grateful for all that we shared, especially at a pivotal time in my life. And I think of him often when I shop at Outpost or Beans & Barley.

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william a brown

November 21, 2023

Michael was a uniquely decent and highly intelligent guy who got a Ph.D. late in life and found his highest calling as a teacher. As a friend in High School I was exposed to all kinds of things that were just beyond my limited cultural experiences; Lenny Bruce, Bill Cosby, Non AM Radio music, etc. He was just one of those people who read a lot, knew a lot, and always had something interesting to say.

Martha Spencer

November 21, 2023

Though I didn't understand it at the time, we were gifted Michael and Debbie's years living in Milwaukee. They arrived and new communities were created, 70's style: the Fertile Dirt, The Children's Co-op, Outpost Natural Foods, Beans Barley. He was interested and supportive of our creative efforts such as writing and music. I was surprised when they moved on. An now realize they brought the same commitment to community and whole hearted caring for the people who've had the good fortune to walk together with them. Thank you, Michael - we now live in the places you made and cleave to the values you shared.

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Martha Eskew

November 20, 2023

What a man! He never stopped learning or being interested in new topics.
We shared a Sunday Supper Club with 2 other neighborhood families in the 80's. I learned lots of great recipes and how easy it could be to cook supper for 8 adults and 7 children, soup to nuts. We had great conversations around the table. The suppers ended and finally Michael and Debbie moved west. Michael is the model of a man who knows how to live life. We will miss him.

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Charles James

November 18, 2023

A warm and friendly guy, every conversation was interesting. He lived a rich purposeful and varied life.

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Steve Zorowitz

November 16, 2023

When I married Sara, Mike told me (an only child) that I should always think of him as my brother. I shall miss him greatly.

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Matt Heine

November 16, 2023

I met Michael in Alameda Community Choir. He was a warm, and interesting person. We talked about music, art, travel, and sports. We attended a few A's games together and played some golf. When the bald eagles nested in Alameda, I immediately contacted Michael, and he was happy to share the photos he had captured of them. I will miss my friend.

Stephen Donachie

November 16, 2023

I knew him since high school and we stayed in touch over all that time. I remember seeing a Braves came from those choice seats he had. And the way he counseled me at the end of a marriage, and when I was selling my business. There must have been so many people who were graced by knowing him.

Beth Damon

November 16, 2023

Sending condolences and warm thoughts from Atlanta. Ever since Michael first shared the news of his illness many years ago, it's been so inspirational how he never let it slow him down in his enjoyment of life, birds, music, family. I loved playing music with him.

Jackie Sherman

November 15, 2023

Debbie and Amanda, and the rest of your family,
I remember Michael fondly from the years during which he was an active member at Lev Shalem ... and I remember his talking about the Hagaddah about which I think he wrote his dissertation. I also remember enjoying time at your home in VAHI. What a treat to read the comprehensive obituary you have written and to learn of his many "new" talents since he moved to CA. Such a renaissance man.

May Michael's memory be for a blessing to all of you and his friends always.

With heartfelt sympathy,
Jackie Sherman

Carolyn Soloway

November 15, 2023

I remember Michael beautifully singing the Kol Nidre prayer for our congregation, Havurat Lev Shalem in Atlanta. It was so full of love.

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